Prostitution or escorting shouldn't be the goal

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[–]yabbit 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I wouldn't even know where to find a whore. That accepts money for sex of course. And welcome to the forum kind stranger.

[–]David_Allen_Cope1 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

Hey new friend. welcome.

I don't know if it has always been the case that the opposite sex think of 70-90% of men unattractive or more that there are just more and easier options today that were harder to access before.

Back before the age of online dating, a womans options were whichever guys happened to be in the bar that night. Now she has her pick from any dude in a however many mile radius. The same few guys are cleaning the fuck up.

I agree with your main point. Seeing a whore doesn't fix the root of the issue and might well make it worse.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I envy the Boomers and Gen-X.

[–]David_Allen_Cope1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Same, dude. I missed that train by a cunt hair too.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What is worse is that because of WW3 becoming much more likely, I feel like we are going to be the last ones between that and permanently going in the direction of totalitarianism we are screwed, and even if it does turn back it won't be until after our own lifetimes. I am 30 and I think my future (and my peers) has already been decided as over.

Literally every area of society has been poisoned, there is no good or happiness anymore. The 90s and maybe some of the 2000s were the last gasp of society before every part of it was poisoned.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yet many incels seem to advocate it.

[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

that's very true

[–]Mazurro 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The problem is that incels don't have at least some genuine interest whether physically or emotionally from the opposite sex.

Nigga speaks about incels in 3rd person and I am supposed to listen to that, while he doesn't identify as such.

Seeing a prostitute, while maybe satisfying the curiosity aspect, is not going to make anyone's public attractiveness change.

Nothing will, but this will allow me to have sex, love towards ugly men doesn't exist ( probably towards attractive too).

[–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don't think anyone sees it as an end-goal, but it can be a positive experience for the right person. A lot of incels on our old reddit communities reported on their experience with escorts and prostitutes and most of them said that it was extremely pleasurable and transformative. And, emotionally speaking, I think seeing a prostitute will be a far safer experience than getting into an actual relationship for an incel; a whore won't lie to you about loving you, a whore won't abandon you, a whore can't cheat on you, a whore won't have fights with you, a whore won't make you have to deal with her bullshit and drama, a whore won't abuse you, etc... Just business without any illusions, compromises or false hopes.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

And the thought of having to pay money for it sounds so...artificial.

But I also see what you mean. I thought that even if a guy didn't have incel-ish tendencies and is able to get women okay, it may not always be worth it because of factors.

For one example, I have a dream girl designed inn my head to look a certain way. What are the chances of finding it, let alone if she would even like me back?

[–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And the thought of having to pay money for it sounds so...artificial.

If you subscribe to any of the "pilled" ideologies, you know that women simply seek men for what they are able to offer them. If you are redpilled, then you know she seeks you because of your dominance and your status as an alpha, no different from a pack animal, whereas if you are blackpilled, then you know that she seeks you because of you superior genes that will ensure her offspring has the highest level of evolutionary fitness possible, also like a pack animal. Either way, it was never about who you were deep inside, but always about the things you could offer her; nothing more than a transaction, the qualitative difference of the one carried out honestly in pure money highly questionable.

A woman will never love you the way you want to be loved.