You clearly have not spent much time on this community. I am staying in this mindset until I see what bluepillers say with my own eyes. Through simple words you do not have a picture of what someone looks like. This is why many incels could easily “ascend” (lose virginity). Having minor faults and not being able to get a woman because of that does not make you an incel.

I believe that one is not an incel until they actually see how they look when they have self improved. I hit the gym regularly, have a good diet, nice friends, and a stable job, but I still am viewed as unlovable in the eyes of a woman. I do not do all of this to look appealing to a woman, I do this because if I don’t have a healthy lifestyle I feel like a total piece of shit. My personality is definitely not the problem either, I treat people how they treat me, regardless of gender.

Iv’e been in therapy since I was 11. I don’t really need it anymore, the only thing stopping my life to be complete is a girl who loves me as much as I love her.