Inceldom is a cult. If you’re romantically / sexually desperate please read the following in order to protect yourself

submitted by GreenCappy from self.Incels

It’s really sad how this cult-mentality has found a home online. And make no mistake it is a cult:

⁠Most if not all new entrants have come to them feeling desperate (with life in general or over something specific)

⁠Day 1 of being “accepted” into the cult is to have what little self worth you have left crushed by other members under the guise of “delivering the harsh truth” or even trying to “”help”” them.

⁠Isolation. The founders or longer standing members will ensure the new entrant never strays from the confines of the cult. Claiming to “””open their eyes””” to dangers that all conveniently exist outside of their group.

⁠Dependance. They will then make sure that you reject any form of help that is not exclusively provided within their walls. Berating therapists as ineffective is a popular narrative for cults to jump on since what constitutes effective therapy can vastly differ from person to person (not helped by the fact bad therapists sadly do exist)

⁠Preaching. Once you’ve internalised all of the toxic views of the cult they will then remind you of the “good” they’ve done for you and really make it hard to say no when it comes to returning the favour. This will usually manifest in reciting the cults beliefs now firmly ingrained to other desperate souls for the cycle to repeat, and for the cult to grow

People NEED to be able to identify these steps as it just makes me sad to see what can start as innocent desperation to be warped into hateful preaching (and much worse).

If you’re at all sexually / romantically desperate, I do not judge you for feeling the crushing weight of loneliness but PLEASE don’t ruin the potential for things to get better by buying into this manipulative group of cult-leaders who would sooner incite violence in their “lower ranking” members than actually do anything themselves. They do not care about you outside of what they can do unto you and get out of you. You are worth more than this community ❤️

TL;DR: Screw Cultcels (aka all Incel “communities”)

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[–]Oogabooga 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

I can’t tell if you’re shitposting or literally retarded. But basically all of that is bullshit.

  1. Telling people objective facts is no more soul crushing in this instance than in any other. If men are disadvantaged in the dating market, then why should they be deluded into thinking otherwise?

  2. “Isolation“ is a meme at best. No one is forcing anyone to stop interacting with the outside world, many members have active social/career lives, and there’s nothing stopping anyone from logging out of their account, otherwise all these “ex incels” wouldn’t exist.

  3. Dependance? We mock therapists because it’s retarded to think one can even begin to change all the external things that are wrong. Even the few “good” therapists only give the generic advice, many of us can’t afford it in the first place. Shit, many of us even encourage those who are able to go and get cosmetic surgery, since that’ll still at least assure you tangible results unlike (((therapy))).

  4. Preaching? None of us spout any more rhetoric than what’s already there, if anything we have discussion regarding ways to cope with this shithole life filled with norm scum. And our so called “cult” wants nothing from its members, there’s no financial motive save for hosting websites, there’s not even anyone forcing us to stay. Users openly condemn fakecels and tell them to leave. If you wanna leave incel forums, just brag about all the Stacies you bang regularly.

Tldr: screw soyciety (aka faggots like you)

[–]automoderator[M] 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Therapy is a bluepilled cope, it doesn't fix your height.

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[–]Oogabooga 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Based botcel.

[–]GreenCappy[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Right now I don't "bang stacies" but I just talk to girls as friends, as just human beings because I don't want sex anyway and I didn't find a gf. But anyway, you're not entitled to sex. If you really want it so much go to prostitutes. If not, just talk to girls respect them and even if you wouldn't have a gf at least you would have good friends, because a girl just can not be into you and you also can realise this girl is not made for you.

[–]Wesborlandisagod5 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Go some where else with your rhetoric, most attractive men that women look up to and are attracted to, are some of the most mysogonistic, arrogant, disrespectful human beings on the planet.

I can asssure you youre gonna be talking to females as "friends" for a very very long time. You lack life experience, and your understanding of the sexes is very limited and you are blinded by the halo effect

[–]automoderator[M] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

'Entitled' is a fairly meaningless term that does not accurately describe most of the incels on this sub or elsewhere on the Internet. On one extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who literally believe that they should be able to force women to date them. On the other extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who are merely frustrated or sad that they can't find anyone at all to date them. This type of frustration is reasonable, since sex and romantic relationships are regarded by many as one of the most fulfilling things in life. The problem with using the word 'entitled' for both categories of men is that it lumps them together, demonizing men in the latter category by companing them to men in the former category. If you wish to criticize our views, please be more specific than merely calling us 'entitled'.

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[–]GreenCappy[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's OK to be sad if you can't find women but you should improve yourself or you should care about some other things

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Rekt by bot

[–]comments 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

please don't go to prostitutes, or if you do, do your research and make sure they're not trafficked and it's easy for them to choose a different way of supporting themselves so you know they're not trapped.

[–]xigoi 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have female friends. It doesn't remove the desire for a romantic relationship.

[–]MBII 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

the best cults get you to join by promising you sex with roasts. this one just gives you painful facts you don't want to hear. Why would that be popular. I'd rather join mormonism or scientology but those are lookist as much as any roast

[–]mlcurrycel 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Christianity exists because it first pairs up post-wall prostitutes with incel men, and then it trades christian daughters to new converts.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

yeah normies go to church just to meet women

[–]Vortex 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

1) Not a cult.

2) Nothing about self-worth.

3) It's an internet, there is no way somebody can force somebody (except blackmail and hack) to stay on site.

4) "Any for of help" already recieved. No help here, just cope. Therapists are for those who sick. There is no such illness as "non popular".

5) What "good"/"returning a favor" are you talking about? It's free for all.

There are no leaders, same as there are no "“lower ranking” members" that are "do anything themeselves". You are pathetic leftist dickhead.

[–]depression_redditv3 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No, even if communities like .co are bad, it doesn't mean that the blackpill is false or that you've debunked it. Ugly men with bad genetics are faced with clear double standards due to only things they can't control and bullied.

[–]TheRedditRefugee 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You clearly have not spent much time on this community. I am staying in this mindset until I see what bluepillers say with my own eyes. Through simple words you do not have a picture of what someone looks like. This is why many incels could easily “ascend” (lose virginity). Having minor faults and not being able to get a woman because of that does not make you an incel.

I believe that one is not an incel until they actually see how they look when they have self improved. I hit the gym regularly, have a good diet, nice friends, and a stable job, but I still am viewed as unlovable in the eyes of a woman. I do not do all of this to look appealing to a woman, I do this because if I don’t have a healthy lifestyle I feel like a total piece of shit. My personality is definitely not the problem either, I treat people how they treat me, regardless of gender.

Iv’e been in therapy since I was 11. I don’t really need it anymore, the only thing stopping my life to be complete is a girl who loves me as much as I love her.

[–]automoderator[M] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Therapy is a bluepilled cope, it doesn't fix your height.

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[–]automoderator[M] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–]Solux 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

  1. Calling it a cult while there's straight up scientific evidence.

  2. I don't know who are the "leaders" and what am I supposed to do because I come here alone to find answers and nobody is trying to help me.

  3. This is another "Women are wonderful and they can't never do anything wrong.

  4. I already went to therapy and she did jack shit one way or another it was my "personality".

  5. You are a fucking asshole you should come here with honesty; "yeah bro you ugly shit and short sorry not my fault girls don't like you they like tall niggas" instead of trying to blame us for those disloyal cockroaches.

[–]automoderator[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Therapy is a bluepilled cope, it doesn't fix your height.

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Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–]MBII 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some people deserve to have violence happen to them