Longtime incel, kind of turned chad, then back to an incel...

submitted by currentlyincel from self.Incels

I was obese until I was around 17, I lost over 200lbs. I was severely bullied in school by teachers and peers alike. Broken and very abusive family. No self esteem or coping skills. Girls and men started becoming interested in me as I lost weight and started acting more "alpha".

The thing is. My body is covered in huge stretch marks and loose skin. armpit to hip, stomach, ass, thighs, knees, lightning bolts going armpit to elbow crook.

The stretch marks faded from red/purple to skin tone overtime. The loose skin never "snapped" back. I hate it, feels like wearing a wet t-shirt and despite working out and spending years racing triathlons. I never looked "normal".

So, I've never been comfortable taking my clothes off around people. Furthermore, I have cut myself several hundreds of times on my upper arms, chest, stomach, and upper legs. I've taken my shirt off and women have been shocked.

During my 20's. I managed to move out and live on my own several states away. In this time I had sex with 50-100 women and I rejected many more who weren't up to my standards. I like skinny/fit girls. I had a lot of friends as well.

So, after about 10 years of that. My life spiraled out of control and I started gaining weight again. I also moved back in with my elderly parents. I'm a total loser and I have become a fat ass again.

I've been on both sides of the attractiveness scale, at least with my clothes on. So, just wanted to see if anyone wanted to talk about their views and how they lines up with my experiences. I feel like my experience lines up with the mantra of incels. The way incels feel towards women and men's respective values in society, especially when based on attractiveness is pretty damn accurate.

The way people treated me when I'm fit compared to fat is night and day. Guess I just want to see if the way you fellas think, how society treats people lines up with reality. Maybe I can give some insight.

So, have at it. Thanks.

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[–]Vortex 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

Fatcel = volcel

[–]currentlyincel[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

volcel

Yeah, towards the end of my "prime", I definitely had thoughts of wanting to be unattractive due to how shallow I felt these women were. I wanted to be ugly at times. They just want to fuck me. Most have no interest in anything else.

There were times I just wanted a friend, someone to talk to. A couple of these chicks are fucking CEO's at successful companies and the thought of them helping me out with getting a better job is laughable and would get me immediately ghosted.

They just wanted to be stuffed with cock, play rape, choked, gang banged. Shit like that. Many of the women were very successful as well. The double standard of it all, especially with the "woke" "feminazi" all men are evil bullshit that was starting to overtake society, just pissed me off.

The only thing that could me laid now is money, which I don't have.

[–]Vortex 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

So you're are fakecel. Out.

[–]currentlyincel[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Sort of. Label me whatever you want. I spent a lot of time incel and bullied though. There was a stretch of my life where I was able to get laid because I looked normal with clothes on. I could go into the changes I made. I worked my ass off to do so. Still, under my clothes was a mess of scars, stretch marks, and my body is just gross looking from the loose skin. Stretch marked loose skin man boobs and doughy area around my stomach just never tightened up. Literally like pizza dough, even though I could max my heart rate for 4 hours non-stop.

I was obese until I was nearly 18, the damage done ruined my body. So I never really had a chance to be normal no matter how much I worked out.

[–]Vortex 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

In this time I had sex with 50-100 women

You know you not belong here.

[–]currentlyincel[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I'm not your enemy. I just got really lucky through a combination of appreciated talent, luck, and dedication. Personality and passion worked on my behalf. If people like me don't share their stories. The plight of incels goes unheard. I'm confirming through experience what many people assume. The behavior of normies. The shallowness of it all.

[–]automoderator[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

your face must be good, if it wasn't even losing weight and getting buff you wouldn't have gotten laid. Personality played no part. Luck or talent played no part. Just face. And you must have decent height. huge enemy. A fat lazy chad. Also very dumb, you could have gotten surgery to remove the excess skin. Should do that now after losing the weight again, and be a chadlite at least for the last few pathetic years of your life. If you do stsay fat you'll likely die soon of fat related illnesses.

[–]automoderator[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

b-b-but fat chad is ENTITLED to thinking his personality played a part

[–]automoderator[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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[–]automoderator[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

'Entitled' is a fairly meaningless term that does not accurately describe most of the incels on this sub or elsewhere on the Internet. On one extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who literally believe that they should be able to force women to date them. On the other extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who are merely frustrated or sad that they can't find anyone at all to date them. This type of frustration is reasonable, since sex and romantic relationships are regarded by many as one of the most fulfilling things in life. The problem with using the word 'entitled' for both categories of men is that it lumps them together, demonizing men in the latter category by companing them to men in the former category. If you wish to criticize our views, please be more specific than merely calling us 'entitled'.

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[–]Mogdanoff 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Should have got surgery.

[–]OPisaFAGGOT 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

gtfo fatass chad. it's literally over for me, no matter what i do