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[–]incelforcharity 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dz5dfz/some_guys_need_to_understand_this/

It is JUST as hard for a girl to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend as it is for a guy. I think there is this mindset on Reddit that if you’re a girl, you can get anyone you want without even trying. I see it everywhere, but especially on AskReddit threads about flirting advice. So many guys will say things that essentially amount to: “You’re a girl. It’s easy. Just exist around a guy and you’ll get him.” It comes with a tone of irritation, like “You wouldn’t understand what it’s like”.

I understand perfectly well. I’m in college and have never even had my first kiss. All three of my mild little crushes this semester are already in relationships. I do all the cliche stuff, nice appearance and hygiene, making jokes/striking up conversations, etc. Not to sound femcel-y but none of that has really worked for me. I am shy and have already been rejected so it’s hard for me to make my feelings clear but I guess my point is: BOYS, girls are just like you! Awkward and lonely and trying their damn best!

I wish I could just round up all the guys with this mentality and tell them, “Please don’t put us on pedestals. We aren’t all beautiful and charismatic and guy-magnets”. We’re just like you and we know exactly how it feels.

That’s pretty much it but I kind of had to let that out.

[–]enjoy_life88 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

so fuckin delusional, point is that in 2019 even regular guys stand no chance. ugly landwhales demand chadlite and post on femcels when they get rejected. they only think its comparable because they filter out 90% of guys in the first place, theyre invisible to them.

any sub 8 male do what she says in the comment and shell instantly "eww"