well, basically there's not a whole lot of strategy. just gaslight them into caring about you and making them think you're their golden parachute to a stable existence. string them along, try to get sex and what you want out of it. gaslight them more and shower them with enough attention so they're around long enough you need them for.

the moment they stop doing what you want or feel like you're """beta,""" just drop them like a sack of potatoes and move onto the next one. You might need a base level attraction to do this, so don't waste time on people that aren't at least taking the bait.

I'm pretty much doing what is called "dumpster diving" and i'll admit i have a base level attraction that i have to have met by a woman to even bother, but there is still some decent advantage in doing it. A lot of older women are so out of the dating game that they've forgotten what things are like, so its kind of an opportunity to set the stage and have a "fresh slate" in a way. This simply isn't a thing with younger women, because snapchat has totally brainwashed them all by now.

For me this has been a viable strategy because i'm not in it for commitment and shit, most of the time i just need cummies and someone to keep me company and have a reasonable conversation with to alleviate crippling loneliness. Most women cannot do that, and 10/10 times the odds are worse with young attractive females anyway. Ironically it is the older divorced women that i have found i have more in common with because we usually both like the same music and share a pretty deep hatred of the current pop culture. It may not work for everyone, and most importantly you can't fake your way into banging them. It's more a matter of just being honest, but only to a point that allows you to still get what you want out of the whole situation.