The issue is not being entitled. The issue is that companionship is an innate human need. And the issue is not try harder. You seem like a noob to this topic. You take the incel word literally without realizing that it basically stands for companionshipless, and when that is pointed out to you you say incels are entitled for feeling bad for being unable to fulfill a basic human need despite immense effort.

The issue is trying hard and having a lottery like chance of success, with constant failure after failure, all while seeing chad succeed with no effort at all. And even if success is achieved in a rare moon, hypergamy means the rare relationship may still end after a short period.

Have you not seen the blind date tv programs, were the woman is very happy chatting for like ten minutes with a guy, connecting saying how good a match they are, kissing, etc. Just to act completely disgusted and shocked after the lights turn on and reveal a below average looking man? That's your personality and good conversation for you.

At the same time that a chad touches a women and is thought of as daring and attractive, an incel merely approaching and saying hi is seen as an insult and offensive, often making the woman feel uncomfortable. People have been reported to HR merely for making women uncomfortable merely by their presence, without any action.