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    [–]curryvirgin 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

    I'm not sure how many of Amsterdam's finest choose to carry their work to full term. I figure it's a fairly low number. I guess this is where the mess of human sexuality and reproduction, and maybe morality complicate things.

    I guess the reason to suggest Amsterdam is that there's no punishment there for buying prostitution. Putting aside human trafficking and organized crime concerns, if all a person wants is sex, that's probably a good option for them. If you have moral/personal or legal qualms about it though, I don't think it's a valuable suggestion. By the same token, you could just have sex with a man (or a sheep), or roofie someone and have sex.

    You've done it, at that point, if this is all just about sex. But you're very far removed from how things are meant to go. As a person, you are still unlike the majority of people that manage to have sex without paying for it, and the reasons for this remain and continue to affect your life. Your psyche will continue to reflect this.

    You could counter that a person still has had sex at that point. That might be enough for some people. I still think in relating to being an unnecessary male though, it solves nothing. It's only a confirmation that you are unfit to be a mate.

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      [–]Xas 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

      The issue is not being entitled. The issue is that companionship is an innate human need. And the issue is not try harder. You seem like a noob to this topic. You take the incel word literally without realizing that it basically stands for companionshipless, and when that is pointed out to you you say incels are entitled for feeling bad for being unable to fulfill a basic human need despite immense effort.

      The issue is trying hard and having a lottery like chance of success, with constant failure after failure, all while seeing chad succeed with no effort at all. And even if success is achieved in a rare moon, hypergamy means the rare relationship may still end after a short period.

      Have you not seen the blind date tv programs, were the woman is very happy chatting for like ten minutes with a guy, connecting saying how good a match they are, kissing, etc. Just to act completely disgusted and shocked after the lights turn on and reveal a below average looking man? That's your personality and good conversation for you.

      At the same time that a chad touches a women and is thought of as daring and attractive, an incel merely approaching and saying hi is seen as an insult and offensive, often making the woman feel uncomfortable. People have been reported to HR merely for making women uncomfortable merely by their presence, without any action.