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[–]FlippyKingSadly this sub welcomes rape apologists and victim blaming. Bye! 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My other response is more exhaustive, and probably much more exhausting.

I don't know if we're talking about certain behaviors being forbidden in the radfem world, because the behavior we're talking about involves couples in their own lives, and only discussions and views in the radfem world. I have no right to impose my views on anyone, or on radfems as I'm a dude. Beliefs must be allowed so people can discuss them and cultivate better and better ideas, and I pity those who think they have perfected their ideas. I think there are some things that should define what radfem is; but how one adapts their views in the abstract to their own lives in practice is not really for any community to work out for them. Discuss it with them? maybe. But not to rule on it and certainly not to excommunicate them for it.