Adoption often pulls children out of shitty foster care systems which do little but cycle them through foster homes, then on back to their inept parents.

I understand exactly what you mean, you said "in all seriousness white people shouldn't be adopting black kids or making mixed kids"

And this is a ridiculous statement to make, shitty advice to give. You obviously haven't met any stable adopted kid, or stable biracial person, or else you wouldn't have such a ludicrous perspective. I understand you completely, In-2-It.