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[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

As for EFB, I think mainstream feminism is basically full of women like this, most feminists are the doormat-type who apologize for existing and are ridiculously naive about men

'Apologize for existing...' 😆😆 Nice wording. But its unfortunately true. Mainstream feminism has led to the normalisation of sexism that even conservatives couldn't match up with. Tradwives, 24/7 BDSM slaves, porn etc to name a shitty few.

And obviously these biological difference compliment each others in the worst possible “match made in hell” way – EFB women are the perfect victims for EMB males.

This is something I have noticed as well. Most men and women deserve and complement each other. Thats why, I have given up hope on mainstream sisterhood. Women are more than happy to choose men and men are more than willing to let it remain the status quo.

[–]_Moon_ 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Most men and women deserve and complement each other.

There is a wonderful scene in Woody Allen's (I know...) "Radio Days" in which the father and the mother of the protagonist ("two people who could find an argument in any subject") finally agree to see a couples therapist. And after each of them told him how terrible the other person is, the therapist eventually replies: "I think you both deserve each other."

Upon which both of them get angry at him and start shouting at him: "What does that mean!?" "Look, we didn't come here to be insulted." "I love him, but what did I do to deserve him?"

And this really is how it is. Men and women deserve each other. And if you tell them that they deserve each other, they both get angry at you. They don't go to feminists "to be insulted" (i.e. being told the truth). Women want a feminism that is a pity party without any actual consequences. They want a hug and being told that their feelings are VALID. But if you tell them to do more than just whining you're "victim-blaming." If you call them out for their BS, you're "toxic."

And it's not just "third-wave feminism" we're talking about here...

[–]kt0998[S] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Pity party" is exactly what it is. I stopped being involved in feminism because it started to feel like nothing more than enabling the worst shit women do and their weak victim attitudes.