It is often said that pornography tells lies about women but the truth about men. And the truth is that male sexuality is basically fetishized violence against very young women and girls. If you remove the penile penetration from porn, what's left is men casually beating, torturing, whipping, hurting, and humiliating women. This is why they are so obsessed with anal sex now: because it's degrading, painful, and doesn't give women pleasure. The moment men realized that some women like giving blowjobs was the moment they came up with "throat fucking" to make it more painful and degrading.

Men HATE the idea of giving women pleasure. Things even get worse if you look at the "virtual" pornography of drawings, cartoons, BDSM artworks, "Deviantart", etc. It's full of women being tortured, killed, maimed, having their legs and arms removed, etc. And if they depict men at all - instead of going for monsters or letting other drawn women do the torturing - they always depict these men as ugly as possible. I remember seeing some incel forum talk about various Chad memes, and one of these memes had a ridiculously attractive, muscular Chad with a large bulge between his legs etc. and the meme women salivating over him while the virgin meme was angry, etc. And the comments were all about how much of a fag and a cuck the person having drawn this must be.

This reminded me of something. I was not always opposed to porn. In the past, I was trying to find porn for myself as well. But I was bored and DISGUSTED with porn first before I eventually became opposed to it on feminist grounds. And back when I was trying to find porn for myself and ended up on artwork sites etc. I remembered that I never found artwork in which the men were depicted as equally attractive. Men were drawn as mediocre and casual AT BEST and in most cases, they were depicted to be particularly disgusting, dirty, ugly: fat, beer belly, half bald, greasy, dirty, etc. Because men HATE the idea of female pleasure and they LOVE the idea of an attractive women being humiliated by an ugly man.

Men do not want to help other men - they want to hurt women. Men do not want to be attractive - they want to force women to have sex with unattractive men. And male sexuality is fetishized violence against very young women and girls.

The only possible exception to this are men who want to be hurt themselves because they are gay bottoms, into femdom, or believe to be women themselves, JFL. But the foundation of male sexuality is and remains VIOLENCE and oppression.