Yeah, it's weird how our society went from mentoring our girls carefully when they were going through the horrors of puberty to just trying to make them into boys, and vice versa. I'm glad you found some logic and reason before anything drastic happened to you. I'm much more sure now that there's just a lot of evil people that are getting louder and crazier so they can groom and abuse young people so they will do the same thing. I've gone from suspicious, to just plain seeing too much of it to have any doubt.