How to do an intervention for fat people?

submitted by pbree from (self.fatpeoplehate)

How do you do an intervention for fat/obese people? I posted here a while back about my bf gaining over 100 pounds. I kinda hate how fat he is now. But idk what to do. I'm trying to save this while I still can.

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[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

You didn't respond to any of the comments on your old post. What kinds of conversations have you had with him about his weight?

[–]jet199 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Far easier to dump and ghost than have one relatively easy conversion with a partner.

[–]jet199 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I went on a week long fast in Thailand.

It's quite reasonable but the flights can cost a bit.

Then you can pretend it's a holiday, maybe have a week in a nice hotel after the fasting for a treat.

Most people lose a pound a day and keep the weight off for a year.

https://www.healthoasisresort.com/

Otherwise do keto.

And men can get in shape easier by working out than women so you should get him lifting and doing small amounts of hitt (if you do sensible "moderate" exercise you just tend to eat more). Make it a competition somehow. https://thesixpackrevolution.com/transformations/

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Just be honest and have a conversation with him.

[–]RichardMNixon 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Walk away.

[–]pbree[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I walked away. If i can stay in shape, so should he. idk wtf is wrong with him. He chose being fat over having a girlfriend. You think that'd be a wake up call for him, but here we are.