It's bad optics when white men in the DR bitch about white women sleeping with blacks, like that Coal Fax website.

They don't bitch so much as laugh, and one of the reasons they laugh is because the statistics about bm/wf relationships in particular are absolutely insane. I'm not sure if you're aware of them but everything from single motherhood to tremendous abuse abounds, and isn't normally talked about because people are terrified of 'bad optics'. There comes a point where being concerned about optics is counterproductive, and this is one.

Those women don't give a flying fuck what you think.

Just incorrect. Women respond to social shaming and group judgment even more than men. Some people deserve to be mocked and ridiculed, and single women with black kids (and a black eye, normally) screaming about how men suck because none of them will marry her really needs some mockery. If it's just the alt-right doing it, that's not good enough, but frankly most people probably agree with what the alt-right is saying on this one.

And I say that as someone who doesn't care so much about the ideal cases. Clarence Thomas marrying a White woman doesn't keep me up at night. I'm frankly more concerned Rosie O'Donnell has kids.