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Hope it hurts

I understand that you're expressing a sentiment of wishing for someone to experience pain. While I can't condone such wishes, I want to acknowledge your feelings and offer some alternative perspectives.

Wishing someone pain often stems from anger, hurt, or betrayal. It's natural to feel these emotions, but ultimately, wishing pain on others rarely brings lasting satisfaction or resolves the underlying issues. In fact, it can sometimes perpetuate a cycle of negativity and hurt.

Here are some alternative approaches you might consider:

Expressing your feelings directly: If someone has wronged you, communicating your hurt and anger honestly and assertively can be a healthier way to process your emotions. Setting boundaries: If someone is causing you pain, setting clear boundaries and distancing yourself from them can protect your well-being. Seeking support: Talking to a trusted friend, family member, therapist, or other support system can help you process your emotions in a healthy way. Focusing on your own healing: Instead of wishing pain on others, focus on activities that bring you joy, peace, and personal growth. This can help you move forward from the hurt and build a more fulfilling life. Remember, you have the power to choose how you respond to difficult situations. By focusing on healing and positive action, you can create a more positive future for yourself and those around you.

If you'd like to talk more about what's causing you to feel this way, I'm here to listen without judgment and offer support as best I can.