Well now you're no longer talking in generalities, and more specifically domestic violence. But sure, let's ponder why is DV higher for women? Is it really because they're generally more violent than men? If so why are women so underrepresented vs men across most other violent crimes? Would the way western men and women are raised have anything to do with it? E.g. "Never hurt a woman", vs "You can hit a man and he probably won't hit back"? That might have something to do with it, among I'm sure many other factors.

But in general, I'm standing my ground here. Men are generally more violent. But I'm not saying that's necessarily always a bad thing. And if you read up on evolutionary psychology (which can be a taboo subject these days I realize) then you may begin to see why men and women tend to have such different temperaments and propensities toward violence and aggression. At the end of the day, the differences we observe are just the side-effects of how natural selection wired us up over millions of years.