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[–]Node 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

People inhabiting different realities often have communication difficulties.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

That's not what this is. A man being malicious because he felt rejected and ego bruised is par for the course. Not all men but a fucking lot of men. We didn't have communication issues, he was perfectly fine before he went off the rails.

[–]Node 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I would characterize your interaction as a communication fuckup. (among other things) After your initial interaction, you clearly had different expectations for what was going to happen.

He apparently believed you were open to having sex with him, for whatever reason. You apparently had no such intention. There's a communication failure in there somewhere.

Not all men but a fucking lot of men.

The vast majority of men are in the lower 80-90%.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Of course you would. You're a man. Clearly my account and experience first hand will never compare to your opinion of something you know nothing about. To you.

There was no miscommunication. He was a nice and normal person until he heard my voice. I didn't think he was serious. He went from that to wanting me to dump my boyfriend, asking for pics, saying I should be his gf and wife in literally under 24 hours. After the final no a few days in, he started on how all women who has sex are whores. Out of nowhere. Like a personality switch.

When I said that isn't ok and is against everything I am for he called it misandry. There was no miscommunication. Some men are fucked in the head. I don't know why it is that yall don't listen and are always trying to make things seems less awful than they are.

I don't care if someone flirts or whatever since this is how some people are. But to take it from there to literally trying to destroy something for a woman that is not even in your country-- that's not miscommunication its delusional male entitlement. A very very common thing. So much so, memes like Nice Guy exist.

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Some men are fucked in the head

It's their shitty culture, they're taught to be that way. They still "honor kill" women there for being raped.