Gay men need to watch out or they'll transition themselves out of existence. My gay male friend is starting to think he's a trans woman, even though he's very male in many aspects. He is a gay man so naturally he's not going to be like a straight football-watchin' alpha male-- he is a GAY MAN. It's OK to be a GAY MAN and like romance movies and Broadway musicals and ponies while still being A MAN. Don't let haters bully you out of your own gender because they want to enforce rigid gender stereotypes.