I got into philosophy for that. Stoicism made me feel like a cuck, I couldn't brainwash myself into making myself feel responsible for the society that treats me so bad to not even think me worthy of a wife.

Eastern philosophy and meditation is my current experiment. All the practicioners say that you're supposed to eventually get revelations that make you understand on a deep level that wordly desires are just copes and unimportant. This should include my longing for a gf and status, so I'm curious to see if it will work.