"Donny, these men are cowards." If men are just interested in getting laid, it's a numbers game. Some %, no matter how small, will be down to fuck. Some women even particularly get off on being submissive to low status men. Pizza delivery guys get propositioned a lot apparently.

And if they're interested in finding someone to be more than a fuck toy, well, you can't really force that. You have chemistry or you don't. But to find a compatible person you also need to put yourself out there. So, also a numbers game.

If these guys put half the effort they do into whining they'd not be incels. They defeat themselves in their own minds before they even try.

If some ugly, little, toothless, wino could have 2 or more women fighting over him then any man can.

Crippling Alcoholism is a special case. To shift gears here, on the other end of things, my cousin is an upstanding citizen, has a good job in DC, rubs shoulders -- hell, vacations even -- with the rich and powerful, cruises, golfs and networks, wine tastings. The whole 9 yards Good Little Modern Yuppie NPC thing. A perfect normie. He'd make a good senator.

But he's boring af. He's not real. He puts on an image of who he's supposed to be. I'm sure there's someone inside there, but it's hidden. And frankly half the fam and I thought he was gay because he's had one girlfriend in 30 years. And he's marrying her. And she has a perma-frown. Now, I can get behind resting bitch face, it can be kind of sexy, but to always look like you smelled something unpleasant.... Not to get hung up on looks, but don't the people who look like they're frowning all the time do so because they do frown a lot?

Anyways, the wino is probably a lot more fun, real, and honest.