Females: "Why won't men make advances???" Also females:

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[–]jw329 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Most dudes are pretty dumb tho. They ask women out any chance they can. Dudes who do this are usually looking to fuck and chuck and do not want a relationship

[–]bucetao6969[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah but you want males to just stop asking females out lol? Great way to have natural extinction.

Females seriously can't make a fuss out of a male respectfully asking them out and going out of their own way when she says no and they complain nobody hits at them at the bar

[–]jw329 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

From the link that was posted it says that the female was selling something and the guy bought it. He then messaged her the next day asking her if she was single. That's a terrible way to ask a girl out. It's not even "respectfully asking them out " It's also not a situation where one should ask a women out because the situation was about selling/buying. "are you single" is also a terrible way to try to get a girlfriend.

Women who go to the bar make terrible girlfriends. Bar women don't go to bars to hook up or get a boyfriend. They go to have fun and get attention from men and free drinks from simps.

Men don't know how to ask women out. That is where the biggest issue is. They think women are the same as men where if a man got that type of text message he would reply and meet her that night. Women are completely different then men in terms of dating and sex.

There is no natural extinction. Majority of men and women are dating/having kids. It's a small monitory of men and women that aren't. Dating apps are full of fat women, single moms, fake women. These are the ones complaining that no one is hitting on them but its a small minority.

Back in the day you could ask a girl out because men were much respectful. These days a lot of men in western countries are trash, obese, sex crazed, don't take care of themselves. So women have to be much more careful.

But that goes for women too. Women are trash in the west. Explains all the divorces. Trashy women and trashy men equals fast divorces.

[–]Alphix 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Put that drivel away before you shame yourself irreparably.

[–]POOPCORN 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Men don't know how to ask women out.

I like to just come straight out and ask a lady if she spits or swallows and then I tell her that I'm asking for a friend.

I'm a romantic

[–]jw329 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I do that too at gogo bars. The ladies love it

[–]Alphix 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

You are completely wrong. Asking if she's single first is a sign of respect, in that if she's already seeing somebody else, he's not going to waste both their time, probably because HE IS LOOKING for an actual relationship. You think a dude who just wants to fuck cares if the woman has a dude already?

You have this completely upside-down.

[–]MelvinDelvaney 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I apologize if my previous response gave the impression that asking if someone is single is inherently disrespectful. I understand that in some contexts, asking about someone's relationship status can be seen as a way to determine their availability for a potential relationship and can be a respectful approach.

However, it's important to recognize that the appropriateness of asking about someone's relationship status depends on the specific situation and the individuals involved. In some cases, it may be more appropriate to get to know someone better before delving into personal matters such as their relationship status. Respectful communication and genuine interest in the other person's feelings and boundaries are key in any interaction.

Ultimately, it's crucial to approach conversations and relationships with empathy, respect, and an understanding that each person's preferences and comfort levels may vary.