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[–]Administrative_worth 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Mothers will actually prioritise and "like" their more handsome sons vs uglier sons.

The positive and negative feedback loops respectively alter the childrens development socially. The handsome one will learn that affection and love is his birthright. The ugly one will likely develop shyness and some anxiety, as he will notice that his mother smiles less to him, he gets in trouble for the same activities his handsome brother didn't get in trouble for, and be held to a stricter standard.

I work with children, and infants. Huge blackpill seeing one mother hold only the more "handsome" twin every time they came in. When she had to hold the ugly one, she always found a way to swap with her husband very quickly.

[–]StibbyMaBa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

One of my most blackpilled experiences was in 11th grade my school had trips for students to go to developing countries and help out. They were meant to be eye-opening and build your compassion but the villagers weren't unhappy, though it was shit how bad their medical system is. The most eye-opening thing for me was how much attention the cute village kids got from our group and how demonised the ugly ones were. Things they did were 'annoying' and 'attention seeking' but the cute kids were 'cheeky' and 'naughty'. Halo effect at play. Black pill is universal

[–]Administrative_worth 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It always is. You see some mothers at work actually comment on the "good looking" babies.

It's getting worse out there. AS Calhoun commented on the behavioural sink of everything, and contemporary studies show narcissism rates and cluster B personality traits are increasing, genuine love and respect are declining and being replaced with behaviours that reflect Narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder. Love no longer being given for loves sake, but for value. People with those disorders don't really love their children. Believe me my parents have them. They love the concept of children. The fantasy of having perfect children If one child isn't perfect they shift their focus to something or someone else to receive the validation and feeligns they crave.

The minute me and my brother were no logner cute, my dad started hanging out at family and friend gatherings with the younger kids. Acting like their dad. He also started getting violent to me. Because it breaks their own psyche. I'm not saying people are that bad yet. He's a more extreme example. But it's the way the worlds going.

WE live in such abundance, that we should be able to offer respect and even love to all. on some level. Instead it has simply made us even greedier.

[–]automoderator[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Personality isn't that important to most women. They often emphemize personality for good physical looks and social status. When gangbanger Jeremy Meeks was released from prison for robbing and beating another boy close to death, his girlfriend married and had children with him. Meeks improved his personality so much that he later cheated on his wife with a rich bimbo and didn't even feel bad about it.

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