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Hey, remember that this is a place for all women to participate, even women from very different backgrounds. I submitted a post announcing this sub to both /s/PinkPillFeminism and /s/BiblicalSubmission, that's pretty different! But despite our differences I think we can all learn from and help each other. And perhaps what is most valuable, offer women readers a chance to see all these different perspectives without a moderator deciding for them.

However, to help keep a good atmosphere, I decided that the rules for moderating all content, no matter what viewpoint, would be as follows (copied from the sidebar):

[Content not known to be from men that is not off-topic] is moderated according to SaidIt's pyramid of debate. Content containing anything from the bottom 4 levels is removed, even if it also contains content from higher levels. Replies that drag the discussion down to "contradiction" from a higher level comment/submission are removed.

I would consider "clownery" and "imbecile" to be a form of name-calling. Remember that there may be readers from /s/PinkPillFeminism here! It's fine to disagree but here try to do it in a way that's respectful of everyone. And follow the pyramid of debate guideline I'm using to attempt to moderate the sub in a neutral way.

I'm going to remove this post since it doesn't fit the rules right now (because of "clownery" and "imbecile"), but please feel free to edit it to fit the rules and resubmit it! If the rules are not clear you can also reply to this message and I will try to explain. But please be polite if you do want to ask about moderation (that's part of the rules too), moderation can be difficult. It's supposed to keep the sub fair for everyone so just keep that in mind. Again, please feel welcome to resubmit with edits or to reply to ask about the moderation rules if they're not clear.

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Oh, sorry! That wasn't my intent. Can i still say in the post that i believe their behavior and speech pattern was similar to incels?

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If you mean it as an observation (not an insult), then that's ok, yes. That would not be breaking the rules of the sub.

eta: Sorry if I misunderstood what you meant. I'm trying to do my best as a moderator but as a fallible human I misunderstand things sometimes.

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Its all good! Don't be too hard on yourself when it comes to it, regardless i will repost it tomorrow following the rules better!

I didn't mean to insult them, I just genuinily thought the ideas that I mentioned clowny or stupid but I can see how that is not ok for the rules, so I will edit the post accordingly :)

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I didn't mean to insult them, I just genuinily thought the ideas that I mentioned clowny or stupid but I can see how that is not ok for the rules, so I will edit the post accordingly :)

Ah, ok, that makes sense.

i will repost it tomorrow following the rules better!

That will work!

Thanks for being understanding, and for explaining. I want to do a good job as a mod but I don't have much experience with it yet.