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[–]circlingmyownvoid2 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Implying mental illness isn’t constructive criticism. It’s just lazy adhominem attacks.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Mental illness wasn’t implied. What I said you seem to have is a personality built around unprocessed trauma, because that’s literally what you told me.

I said that sounds similar to bpd.

You fucked up and would get more in the long run out of admitting a mistake and learning from it.

Learn to read and don’t let your emotions cloud your judgement is constructive criticism.
Seek therapy is good advice.

An attack would involve calling you a pig ignorant boring whiney little pissypants who refuses to learn a healthy coping mechanisms and makes that other people’s fault or something else equally rude and overtly direct.

Look, more constructive criticism. Showing you the difference between a discussion that you don’t like and an actual insult.

I’m not wasting more time on you tonight. Enjoy the tantrum since you won’t take the advice.

[–]circlingmyownvoid2 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

No one is buying this ridiculous tactic of making obvious implications and then going “well I didn’t actually say it”. It’s very junior high bully of you.

[–]ZveroboyAlinaIs clownfish a clown or a fish? 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are realizing, that you are acting same abusive way that you was trying to run from and never to become like this? If you are genuinely hurt, I'd recommend to look at your own behaviour and come in terms with yourself first.

Thought, I don't think it is the place to discuss such stuff.