you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]worried19[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel the same. Dominance is a very unattractive trait in any aspect of life, including during sex. And I don't get wanting to be an object of desire to men in general. That sounds like a nightmare. I would expect my partner to desire me, but that's not the source of my pleasure. And of course that also goes for men. It's a two-way street. The whole point of being lovers is that you're supposed to desire each other.