So then what happens if trans ideology and the idea that they’ve somehow actually changed gender/always been that gender goes against someone’s religious beliefs? Misogynistic or not, there are religions that prohibit females from being in certain spaces with males, are those women just SOL because trans women’s needs and identity matter more? If so, why? If it’s against someone’s religion to call a male a woman, their also just SOL, because for some reason (what’s the reason?) gender identity trumps any and all religious freedom? Why?

And the general idea of gender and the way that trans people view gender are not aligned. Most people’s idea of gender includes understanding that it can’t be changed, identified into, or chosen.

This doesn’t really answer the question imo. Nobody expects the law to do a 180- we want to understand why trans ideology is the only belief system that people are forced to bend to and be affected by. Trans people can be legally protected without forcing people to gaslight themselves or call a male a woman because he prefers it. Trans people can have rights without abolishing female rights.