You are entirely correct. GC only cares about gay men when they can use gay men to shit on trans people. They do the same thing with trans men. For instance on reddit a trans man started a thread on how some trans women talk over trans men. In response GC in the old sub created a thread titled "TIF’s discuss how badly they are treated by over-sexualized and narcissistic TIM’s". In the thread they misgendered the dude of course, said all trans women are like this, and said to the trans men men don’t care about them and to "come back to your sisters who love you." Yet when trans men similarly complain about GC, GC doesn't take the criticism. When GC responded to that thread, they didn't do it to support the dude, they did it to shit on trans women. Once trans men start asking you use their correct pronouns, instead of defending trans men like they did in that thread, GC will call them narcissistic and delusional. Yes they have stated on Ovarit that asking people to use your preferred pronouns is narcissism. So yes they don't care about gay men until trans people are involved. They only started pretending to care about gay men to insult the trans community.