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Why this thread?(self)

15 points14 points17 points submitted by GenderbenderShe/her/hers

DogeWalker 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

Did you read the comments on Ovarit? I think the one at the top sums up the issue at hand:

"Friendly reminder" or "just a reminder" is newspeak for authoritarian brainwashing incoming: comply or be harassed.

It's simply a little bit disturbing to require this sort of approval from any group, and it's even more insulting to people who are exclusively same-sex attracted.

Imagine being a straight man and having gay men repeatedly insist, "It's fine if you choose not to date another man!" Frankly, I find it hard to imagine that happening... because no one is telling straight men that they are "allowed" to not kiss other men if they don't want to. (It's simply assumed that straight men would never be interested in that, so nobody feels the need to explain that they have "permission.")

If that's too much to imagine, then think of going on a first date with someone, and at the beginning of the date, the person says: "Look, it's totally fine if you don't want to fuck me tonight, so don't worry... I won't tell everyone that you are a monster of a person if you don't fuck me tonight, right after this date. So we good?"

Do you feel comfortable after that? Would you feel relieved for the rest of the night, or would you find the insistence off-putting and a bit weird?

divingrightintowork 17 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 6 fun 3 years ago

"hey straigt dude, you just haven't tried the right dick yet."

MezozoicGaygay male 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

For some reason I think if they will start advocating this to straight men and not attacking lesbians with this (how many centuries men are attacking lesbians with this?) - then all this would be stopped immidietely, and maybe even outlawed.

divingrightintowork 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun 3 years ago

Once upon a time in my woke progressive crowd, at clubs and parties, attractive men would perform acts of homosexuality on each other for the approval and attraction of male attracted woman around them (I know this, I would entice them to kiss each other by saying I would kiss them afterwards and get other attractive woman to encourage this behavior)

I won't be surprised if we see some variation of woman encouraging men to do basically exactly this.. Except it will be heterosexual kissing between two penis people... And reward it by heterosexual kissing between a penis person and a vagina person.

VioletRemihomosexual female (aka - lesbian) 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun 3 years ago

Sounds like sex swapped reality. The world when without /s hard to understand sarcasm.

GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 8 fun1 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 8 fun 3 years ago

A straight person is a person who is primarily attracted to the characteristics of the opposite sex. So some men may be attracted to a trans woman who has a penis. He's still straight.

CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

What makes this factual and not merely a popular opinion?

loveSloaneDebate King 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

But a penis wouldn’t be a characteristic of the opposite sex in this example...

GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun 3 years ago

True but she has most of the external characteristics of the opposite sex.

divingrightintowork 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

So you support people saying that to men?