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Why this thread?(self)

15 points14 points17 points submitted by GenderbenderShe/her/hers

divingrightintowork 17 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 6 fun 3 years ago

"hey straigt dude, you just haven't tried the right dick yet."

MezozoicGaygay male 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

For some reason I think if they will start advocating this to straight men and not attacking lesbians with this (how many centuries men are attacking lesbians with this?) - then all this would be stopped immidietely, and maybe even outlawed.

divingrightintowork 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun 3 years ago

Once upon a time in my woke progressive crowd, at clubs and parties, attractive men would perform acts of homosexuality on each other for the approval and attraction of male attracted woman around them (I know this, I would entice them to kiss each other by saying I would kiss them afterwards and get other attractive woman to encourage this behavior)

I won't be surprised if we see some variation of woman encouraging men to do basically exactly this.. Except it will be heterosexual kissing between two penis people... And reward it by heterosexual kissing between a penis person and a vagina person.

VioletRemihomosexual female (aka - lesbian) 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun 3 years ago

Sounds like sex swapped reality. The world when without /s hard to understand sarcasm.

GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 8 fun1 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 8 fun 3 years ago

A straight person is a person who is primarily attracted to the characteristics of the opposite sex. So some men may be attracted to a trans woman who has a penis. He's still straight.

CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

What makes this factual and not merely a popular opinion?

loveSloaneDebate King 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

But a penis wouldn’t be a characteristic of the opposite sex in this example...

GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun 3 years ago

True but she has most of the external characteristics of the opposite sex.

peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

Secondary sex characteristics can vary a lot between individual females and males, but genitals are like the primary thing that differentiates us even before puberty. It’s silly to pretend secondary sex characteristics would matter more. If a guy has sex with someone with a penis I really feel like it can’t be straight and there’s nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t erase homosexuality to validate trans people.

loveSloaneDebate King 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

But he’s missing the main one, female genitalia, and has the main sex characteristic of a male- male genitalia. Sexuality is not about secondary sex characteristics- it’s about primary sex characteristics, and unfortunately for your example, the trans person in question has a dick. So no, he (the TW) does not possess the sex characteristic of the opposite sex that matter when discussing sexuality.

Can you explain please, how a heterosexual man is supposed to be comfortable having sex with someone who has a penis, regardless of their other (secondary) sex characteristics? Or how a lesbian- someone definitively solely interested in female on female sex, is supposed to be comfortable sleeping with someone who has a penis? Or how a gay man (someone solely interested in male on male sex) is supposed to be comfortable sleeping with someone with a vagina? Or how a heterosexual woman (female and male sex) is supposed to be comfortable sleeping with someone with a vagina?

You kind of need to explain how humans are supposed to somehow step beyond their very sexuality, and sleep with someone who has surgically and or hormonally altered their secondary sex characteristics to closely match the opposite sex, while still possessing the primary sex characteristics of their Actual sex. Even how someone is supposed to be open to someone who has an imitation of the genitalia they are sexually interested in, particularly when that genitalia may sometimes resemble the genitalia they like, but still doesn’t function the same? I honestly think you owe the sub an explanation, since you seem to advocate conversion therapy.

Also, are you saying that a heterosexual man is simply attracted to any person who has female sex characteristics? This logic would mean that any heterosexual would be attracted to any person who has the features of the opposite sex, and any homosexual would be attracted to any person who has the features of the same sex- but that doesn’t seem to be true in reality. People have specific features that they are drawn and attracted to as well as not drawn or attracted to. someone can absolutely possess the sex characteristics you say define someone’s sexual attraction (even tho you ignore the main one lmao), and still not be attractive to another person, sometimes specifically because of other features they possess. It sounds like you don’t understand sexuality or attraction. And I think you should look into both before you debate here, or else you’re gonna have a hard time. And run the risk of sounding like you support incel speak, rape culture, and conversion therapy. All things you claimed to denounce in another post.

divingrightintowork 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun 3 years ago

So you support people saying that to men?