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[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 5 fun1 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

If that's too much to imagine, then think of going on a first date with someone, and at the beginning of the date, the person says: "Look, it's totally fine if you don't want to fuck me tonight, so don't worry... I won't tell everyone that you are a monster of a person if you don't fuck me tonight, right after this date. So we good?"

If my first date insisted they had to fuck me tonight, I might say "it's totally fine if you don't want to fuck me tonight" Out of nowhere? No. They're not making these comments out of nowhere, they're making these comments in response to transphobia, and because of the fact that many gay men claimed they will be forced to sleep with trans men. I know there are people who say refusing to sleep with trans people is transphobia, but why pick a thread that's trying to curb such behavior?

[–]DogeWalker 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know there are people who would not mind being pressured in that way, but why pick only one part of my comment to respond to?