They all think their Nigel is the "rare good one", but it's interesting how seemingly every woman claims to know these "rare" "good" men.

you said that very well... I think most women are in denial, even radical feminists. They believe that if they just show men enough ever loving kindness, that men will eventually realize we're more than just their accessory/support animal. Not gonna happen tho. When this pattern of casually indifferent exploitation has gone on for thousands of years in every country on the planet, misogyny is not just a pattern -- it's a law of nature.