"Non-men" haha I saw that post š
When I used the term "non-man," I was referring to soyboys and beta males; not women or trannies. Though I guess it's up in the ether for how you use it, now.
Of course we would want a good relationship with a good women, the problem is that those are unicorns. All the good ones are already taken.
You mean, you don't want to settle down with a man who cut his dick off, a feminist Karen, a "GirlBoss" who thinks her money makes her desirable, an OnlyFans whore, or a poly dyke who uses the mythical term "bisexual?" No way! š
"Predictable woman" makes me think you have zero clue of what you are talking about.
Of course thereās no way I could pick being single if thereās no sex, so itās kind of a false dichotomy.
Speaking as someone who is happily divorced: option 1, with a prenup.
If she is a liberal feminist with a cold vagina, I'd rather be single.
For the majority of my youth up to my early 20's I was either single or in short term, non-committed and unfulfilling relationships. I have now been in what I can only describe as the perfect relationship with the perfect woman for nearly 10 years, and recently got married.
Having now lived both of your examples, the second to some degree, the answer is obvious. With a great woman in a serious relationship, which is exactly what I have and am grateful for.
Blink twice if she's standing behind you right now.
Why so cynical?
I'm joking
I get plenty of sex when I'm single but I do enjoy being in a committed relationship with a cool woman. People change and sometimes relationships that start out good get to a point where you both just want different things and need to move on.
"I wanted sex with other women and she didn't"
Obviously option 1. Boring and predictable is not really a downside. Stability is important if you want a future family with her.
Why would you want to be alone? That sounds horrible. Iām guessing OP has a broken heart. Donāt worry, you can still meet someone nice!
Why would you want to be alone?
No one WANTS to be alone. As a former hopeless romantic, I'd definitely treat the right woman for me like she's the most valuable thing in my life besides my own fulfillment. But finding a good woman nowadays is like finding an actual heterosexual American woman nowadays; they just doesn't exist anymore. It's better to be alone than in a relationship prison doing a life sentence with someone you hate who's the mother of your children. Either way, you're better off getting a dog or making some more same-sex friends than dating nowadays just out of "loneliness."
Being alone sucks ass. Even being with a kinda-not-great female is better than loneliness
Hard disagree. You should learn to love yourself enough to be happy alone. A bad woman will wreck your life and show you misery like you wouldn't believe.
Did I say "bad"?
You should love yourself and find pursuits that bring you joy. But we are not self contained. If you enjoy your own company, dating becomes more fun, because thereās much less at stake- if things work out, you get laid and maybe even fall in love. If not, you go back to coding or nature hikes or whatever, and see if you can find someone better.
I have been married for over 10 years. We fight sometimes. She knows me better than anyone else and is still hot. I love our little family.
Seriously, donāt give up on that shit. The globalist assholes want us alone and confused, with no support in our old age.
You sure? She can fuck you over and get 50% of your assets.
She can also kill you in your sleep. Or poison you. Or torture you. You never know, right? You can only expect she wont based on what you know about her.
Of course there's that. But I'm talking merely legal terms. A woman can really fuck up a man legally if she wants. And in the end he has no say if she will have his children or not, a woman can rape him by lying about contraception and end up having a baby where the law says the man has no say wether she aborts before the 4 weeks or leaves to adoption if it's born.
Donāt stick your dick in crazy, lol.
Ah, but crazy is so hot.
Yes a woman can do very nasty things.
Did you know a dog can pick your shotgun laying on the ground and shoot you? They can because one did.
50% of $0 is still $0 š
You're not wrong š
Why does being single always have to be associated with being alone? I can say from personal experience i've been single for several years and NEVER alone. If you have the self determination to drag your ass to the gym and stay somewhat fit women seem to be acquired easier and easier the older i get. Don't ever let anyone convince you to settle gents.
I can tell you lots of sex, and no meaningful relationship still feels lonely.
I found the right woman at age 40. In this circumstance, option 1 is a godsend. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Happy to be married, got someone with similar interests, and the sexy time is great. Found a woman who likes to pleasure me how I like, and I reciprocate.
Take it from someone with experience, life is hard as fuck and if you can find a partner it is a whole lot easier. Having no one to lean on is bad for your mental well being and translates into health issues.
I've already run across quite a few on here
Since Monday you mean?
The whole reason men aren't getting married is because of the 50% gamble and feminism.
Men would want to get married sure, but the whole reason they don't is because of the risk. Most men would answer yes to this question, but that's still meaningless because it doesn't change anything :P
No, that's why rich men don't want to be married.
What's your excuse?
You do know even straight women (unless they're conservative, which wouldn't be too much women) don't really like men that much and just marry for security?
Even a 9-5 guy can provide a lot for a woman and the fact they are all saying they get screwed over the system shows to the other average men to not get married.
The only thing rich men are worried about is not getting their seed stolen.
We weren't talking about providing, we were talking about assets.
9-5 workers which are ~90% of the population do have assets.
And if gender norms are anything to go by a big number of those will reach their 60's with a good retirement
What about a TERF? They're not liberal, but probably too legbeardy. And misandrist. So never mind.
TERF can mean a lot of things. If you don't want trans women in feminism that already makes you a TERF. You don't even to be a feminist, or a woman for that matter, to be called a TERF.
So depending on the TERF I think a man would get behind.
Surprised at your answer, i was half expecting āew not those marxistsāā¦because radical feminists in general are radical leftists, but not by modern standards. I agree though, obviously TERF has come to mean something different.
TERFs are my favorite
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I almost got married in 2012 before she passed away. Nowadays, I'll never get married. Not that women are into short ugly guys (who aren't super-rich,) anyway. š
I love how you even gave us a police sketch of the perfect woman in your mind lmao
Nah; I just have a lot of leftover trash results from the AI site I use and wanted to use them for something.
op u can create an actual online poll and post it in your text above using sites like poll maker: https://www.poll-maker.com/
Okay, thanks for the tip!
There are no such women in this world. My only hope is God will create me a ribwoman when the world ends.
I'll take a 7 in looks and a 3 in personality. YOLO niggas.
Constant nagging and arguing? Yikes!
2, but who said it has to be sexless? I don't mind meeting a nice woman who just wants fuck. We don't have to move in and pick curtains or anything.
Both options are fine.
BISH |15 pointswritten 11 months ago ago
Find a non-man who likes men and settle down.
In 2023 raising a family is rebelling against the system. Man up.