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    [–]Gigababejfl 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

    We are not interested in your hot take.

    [–]magnora7 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

    Then this sub is no longer allowed on /all as per saidit mod rule 4a. I've adjusted that setting for your sub.

    https://saidit.net/s/SaidIt/comments/w6s/saidit_rules_for_moderators/

    [–]Gigababejfl 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

    This is a welcome change. I didn't understand what we were doing in all in the first place.

    Not all communities thrive with this design. The very reason we come together is because of how men continue thinking our lives and experiences are up for debate. They are not.

    Thank you for your hard work, of course. It doesn't go unnoticed. But thank you for removing us from all as well.

    [–]magnora7 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Glad to help, good luck with everything!

    [–]Node 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    I didn't understand what we were doing in all in the first place.

    I pointed out in one of the subs first posts that posting to the front page is soliciting commentary and replies from all saidit users. We had a short discussion about that, where I advised (mansplained!!) how to limit engagement with penis-bearers.

    You've since deleted my comments, but good luck with your future.

    [–]Gigababejfl 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    I don't remember any of this aside from a brief exchange with you I believe in dms

    That said, it's not as if anything is ever actually deleted on here so see I'm sure if I go back I'll see it somewhere. Past few weeks have been nonstop for me getting this off of the ground so I probably overlooked it to do something else

    You seem to be taking it personally and probably shouldn't. We don't have men all up in our sub and it's been that way for a long time. We topically engage with them in our sister sub AskTruFemcels which isn't even active on here.

    Anyway for the record, being on the front page has solicited a lot of intrusive comments. A couple of these dudes keep coming back and leaving asshole comments and this site allows them to do so. If we had control like we did on Reddit then fine but apparently we're supposed to be up for making everything a debate and not everything is one

    If the instructions you gave me was to get us off of all, sorry I missed it. I'm glad the guy took care of it.

    [–]Node 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    I'm not taking it personally, that's just my style. But I did see my username in the deleted comment section.

    While the views and opinions of many of the Femcels tend to disparage my penis ownership (I'm not actually a horrible monster...), I do have sympathy for the distress they appear to suffer. I possibly didn't always strike the right balance between response to the abuse, and helpful suggestions. Maybe a way out of their situations isn't what they're looking for, but I believe it's almost always possible.

    Anyway, good luck in your new level of privacy. Hope things work out for you guys.

    [–]Gigababejfl 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    We appreciate that. Thank you!