Formerly asexual-identified, now androphilia-orientated and gender critical

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Part of me wonders, how difficult is it, for the gay-identified guys out there, to search for other guys to be intimate with when so often political, gender-orientated conflicts would arise?

Download Grinder and you'll be balls deep in no time. There's a ton of vastly different gay dudes out there, they're not all liberal limp wristed fops.

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I really appreciate the suggestion. That said, many people have criticised dating apps, and the like, for the fact that, very often, you don't really know a person until you meet them in person. Part of me wants a man in my life, but at the same time, you never really know how genuine someone is. I'm not just talking about political ideology, but more generally, broadly, the type of guy I'd be meeting. Are they who they say they are? Are they everything I wanted, or compatible enough with my own essence?

Regardless, I do respect the recommendation. A lot of dating does indeed exist online, where people meet others through social networks like Grinder. But while things are at first fun and games, eventually someone either wants to visit their lover or live with them. It's a big deal, and I don't ever want to approach matters from a less than mature standpoint.