4 points | 1 comment | 1 month ago ago by blackpilllife from AskSaidIt
The reason I do it ask ladys out is because I can pick up on how they don’t like me it’s that simple if you can pick up on a lady disliking you then you’ll know asking her out is pointless. I’m going to be brutally honest here and say that most guys who have a high rejection rate when asking ladys out where the guys who failed to realise the lady would not like him much earlier on. When most people are aware there is a high possibility of a bad outcome they’re less likely to pursue a good outcome because they know they’res a higher chance of a bad outcome.
When some people say “ just ask her out you’ve got nothing to loose” they’re wrong what a guy has to loose through asking a lady out is the self confidence going out the window through the pain of rejection asociated with the lack of awareness that he did not know she would not want to go out with him before he even asked her out. You do have something to gain from asking a lady out and it’s the ability to pick up on wether or not a lady likes you or not if the guy asking the lady out could learn the social interaction wasn’t working before he asked her out.
People will misunderstand why I don’t ask ladys out it’s not my fear of rejection keeping me from doing so it’s my recognition of how much they don’t like me. when it comes to social interactions with just about anyone the concept of being able to recognise where the other side is at is the key because recognition of how the other side sees you is a how people in social groups will judge how socially aware you are
WoodyWoodPecker |3 pointswritten 1 month ago ago
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