censorship

censorship

Rah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun 19 days ago

Lets assume I have a daughter and what you say has some grounds in reality. I'll take everything you say but also add everything that comes with the responsability of what you said:

  • If I want to have a bethrothal of my daughter to an older man, I have to assume he will live and strive to be the best husband possible to her. If she does not like him, its not an impediment, but a complication.

  • If men want to have sexual relations with recent postpubescent women, it should be for its natural drive; procreation. If its only for the modern life of whoring around, then you are only asking for more degeneracy and for it to be more rampant for more people.

  • Last but not least, if my daughter is knocked up or loses her virginity to a man who does not want to commit marrying her, then I have to correct my mistake of not being vigilant enough with her to kill the motherfucker. Death penalty for robbing my daughter of her most sacred treasure, or commit to the marriage. Simple.

Add these three, and despite a bumpy decade or so, things will reverse to a better state.

Hematomato[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun 19 days ago

But let's assume you have a 17 year old son. And society says to him: you are a child. You should not be thinking about sex. For you to have sex is not the natural way of things.

And then he turns 18 and society says to him: you are now a man. You can date. But you'd better to make any mistakes. Or we'll fucking shame you. Maybe even arrest you. So I hope you picked up some experience during those 17 years of being a sexless little boy.

So he says: you know, I'm probably good alone with my video games. But it turns out he isn't good alone with his video games. So when he's 20, he eats the business end of a pistol.

See, we're all so eager to protect our daughters, but no one has the faintest interest in protecting our sons.

Maybe - just maybe - it would have been better not to pretend he was a little kid and not to deny his emergent sexuality.

ReptileBook 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun 19 days ago

It's practically unheard of nowadays for teenagers to not be allowed to date (though to be honest, it's probably a great idea). Why do you have a weird fixation on the sexuality of minors? All adults have gone through puberty and been teenagers, I don't think there's this widespread perception that you're conjuring up, that they're innocent little flowers. That said, young people absolutely should be protected from predatory older people, which is why social stigma exists for age inappropriate relationships.

Hematomato[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun 19 days ago

It's practically unheard of nowadays for teenagers to not be allowed to date

I don't think you're living in the present.

In the '90s, teenagers dated and a little over half of them had sex with each other.

In the '20s, most teenagers have never even been to an unchaperoned party, let alone tried to date anyone.

ReptileBook 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun 19 days ago

Yeah, cause they've been raised on the internet, social media, porn and screens in general. You're barking up the wrong tree.