Ellen Page comes out as a trans man named Elliot

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T18:14:55+00:00

Haha what a spineless misogynistic coward.

I feel affirmed and validated in my hatred of celebrities.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-16T16:04:17+00:00

If he said it wouldn't end well, he'd end up "cancelled" by the group for knowingly associating with twansphobes.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-12T21:47:52+00:00

Celibacy? She's female and looks female. There will always be men who'll play along for as long as it takes to finish.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-07T23:16:14+00:00

Him. Him. Him. Him. He. He. Him. He. Also block rapists, block rape enablers, get help, and get restraining orders if they persist.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-28T21:20:05+00:00

Am I in the wrong for feeling like my male experience is being "appropriated" here?

No, what they're doing is offensive and slimy, especially given the obvious sexual component to them fetishizing boyhood.

But I don't see how this isn't exactly the same as what MTFs do to women.

It's exactly the same as what MTFs do to women.

I'm kind of expecting to be told that I'm not allowed to feel hurt because women have it worse in society and what MTFs do to them is therefore "worse."

I won't blame a woman who pretends to be a real man to get away from sex-based oppression - not to claim manhood, not to talk over men, not to invade male spaces (especially gay male spaces!), but to do something both men and women should be able to do in a fair world.

However, it's not what these women are doing -- they don't hide the fact they're female (FTM, so female) but claim special insight into the male experience for no purpose other than degrading real men. This will never be not offensive.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-03T16:31:11+00:00

Caster Semenya is a man. He might be what peaked me. For years, I've been defending his right to compete as a woman because the articles about him were written to suggest he was XX with hyperandrogenism, and "the establishment" was subjecting "her" to various degrading examinations challenging "her" "womanhood". Even now, if you search for "hyperandrogenism", you'll probably see his photo.

(I know a woman with PCOS who is the wife of an Orthodox priest. Married priests are supposed to have children and can't divorce. By marrying her, for love, he gave up the chance to have his own biological children. I imagine it takes a toll on her.)

So the thought of an infertile woman who has to continually prove her womanhood made me very sympathetic and rather furious. No one's checking if Michael Phelps is secretly a dolphin.

Then I found out Semenya is XY.

And for those who think him being raised as a girl counts for something --

the amount of testosterone allowed for men to compete with women is at least 5 times higher than the amount of testosterone in real women.
However, when Semenya takes blockers to satisfy this requirement, he starts losing.
He's campaigning to abolish it and to admit all men into women's sports unconditionally.
This is male socialization, and Semenya is 100% a man.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T13:17:15+00:00

Both him and the dad are "furries" (people with a sexual interest in cartoon animals, comorbid with other fetishes; some of them identify as animals and abuse real animals). He shits himself for sexual gratificaiton and fantasizes about turning into a child and getting raped (this is the fantasy Daddy inflicted on his victim).

How is he still so influential in the LGBT community?

Because in the lgbT community, these things are advantages.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-11T15:48:41+00:00

Russia:

Sex change and everything that comes with it (women's restrooms etc) is legal. Marriage is only for people of the same legal sex (now reaffirmed in the constitution), which currently includes transes. There are weaksauce efforts to prohibit marriage for transes.
Mainstream liberal media is firmly on the T side, lies about transes' sex even if they haven't changed it legally.
Feminist media is "cock sucking 101 for lesbians"-level atrocious.
Most self-identified radfems on Twitter are teenagers, pro-T, and not particularly gender-critical; their concerns are "tomboy" characters in imported entertainment (still far more "gender-conforming" than normal Russian women), lesbians in imported entertainment, and high-profile rapes and murders. They also appear shocked every time their favorite performer singing about the joys of rape and/or pedophilia boasts of real offenses he committed. (Yeah I don't even either.)
Some radfem/GC communities exist on VK (Facebook clone). They're always under siege by male rapists. (Rape threats are not prosecuted. Assault and battery is an administrative infraction punishable by a $15-$70 fine.)
Children are transing themselves, binding breasts, taking hormones, showing off on social media. No one cares unless a cop needs a drug arrest to meet the quota, then they might catch someone receiving hormones by mail.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-17T20:40:05+00:00

"How do I learn to love people who want to make refusal to get raped a hate crime?"

Lol i dunno. Weed 24x7? Hope for an early onset Alzheimer's?

They're not your friends. They haven't been your friends for some time. You're living like a deep cover infiltrator who would be hanged for treason if found out, which is an actual job people get paid good money for - but you aren't getting paid, you aren't doing it for the Motherland, you're just suffering for no reason, surrounded by enemies who'd tell you getting raped is an opportunity to "open a pathway to erotic joy".

zephyranthes · 2020-12-30T13:02:46+00:00

The yellow lady is not much better. If you fuck a man, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who lost his dick to cancer, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who lost his dick to an IED, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who cut off his dick for shits and giggles, you're not a lesbian.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-17T19:51:53+00:00

Gonna stop you right here:

For example, if you wanted to choose someone to be manager, who would you pick? The employee that is lazy, and creates problems, or the one that works hard, and does his best even at a minimum wage?

An outsider. The stats have been out for quite some time. People don't get promoted. When a vacancy opens up, employers overwhelmingly choose to hire a new worker rather than promote. Wagies stay in cages.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-17T13:29:35+00:00

I've never actually heard TRAs claim that females should stop talking about the female body.

Lucky you. There's lots of them out there talking about how menstruation is triggering (at least those who don't steal pads or stuff tampons up their butts) and how tragic it is to never be able to have a miscarriage.

Female TRA Zoe Samudzi's famous "inherent cissexism" tweet is almost five years old.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-07T23:18:19+00:00

His. He. His. Him. He. He. HIm. He. He. He. Him. He. He. He. His. Him. He. He. He. His.

Actually, nevermind.

It.

Get a restraining order against this thing.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-28T17:31:49+00:00

I genuinely wonder where people got this idea that lesbians actually like dicks but just not what it's attached to.

It's an old lesbian joke about sex toys and a counter to men offering themselves: but you use toys! "Yes, I use toys with my girlfriend, but I don't want to fuck a man."

zephyranthes · 2020-07-29T09:57:21+00:00

Anyone who shares the details of his or her sexual habits should be shamed and should expect to be shamed. It should be an obstacle in employment and public recognition.

Credible claims about the sexual habits of others should be treated as revenge porn / defamation, unless the alleged facts do or should warrant a police investigation.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-06T09:34:20+00:00

Why are schools spying on children in toilets and stealing their property in the first place?

zephyranthes · 2021-01-28T16:44:15+00:00

Irrational fear of trans women

Rational fear of male perverts secure in their invulnerability.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-17T01:05:01+00:00

"we're all lesbians, cis or trans"

Bootlickers. If she were heterosexual and bred, she'd be pimping out her children to pedos. Instread, she's pimping out other lesbians.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-27T08:11:38+00:00

They don't like labels, they looooooooooove labels. Gotta catch them all. "gray-asexual genderqueer panromantic otherkin faegender nonbinary lesbian demiboy". Some pretend to have multiple split personalities* when the main one is overflowing with sparklepoo.

no such thing as a real split personality

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T22:02:29+00:00

Is is a good subsaidit and thread to say Umbrella Academy has always been misogynistic garbage?

"The Umbrella Academy is set in a universe where 43 women around the world give birth simultaneously on October 1, 1989, despite none of them showing any sign of pregnancy until labor began. Seven of the children are adopted by eccentric billionaire Sir Reginald Hargreeves..."

So, supposedly, one in six women is ok with selling her baby.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-03T16:21:24+00:00

Here's an exhaustive list.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-13T17:01:27+00:00

It doesn't get better. Uni will be terrible and then you'll be all alone at your job, going to a restroom on a different floor to avoid a genderspecial sex pest. The choke point isn't anything political, it's your opportunities to make friends, which will only degrade with time.

Find a creative hobby and practise it. (No shame in asking your parents to fund it -- you're a child.) Find online and IRL friends this way. It doesn't matter what you pick as long as it's creative (activism doesn't count, pop culture fandoms don't count). If it's popular, you'll have a larger pool of potential friends. If it's rare, you'll be one of the few experts and a community magnet. Make yourself into a person people will want to be friends with.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-10T13:03:01+00:00

The word "dyke" has historically been applied to "promiscuous" heterosexual women. Dyke, dike, ditch, female sexual organ.

Also, even among LGBTWTF+ Tumblr, Eli Erlick (a pedophile rapist preying on brown girls) is uniquely vile.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T07:22:22+00:00

based upon: race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, gender, gender identity, disability, or sexual orientation

Again sex is not on the list. Transes hate women.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-29T11:39:02+00:00

Good.

Recently, I had an argument with a radfem on whether trans-identifying women belong in women's sex-segregated spaces. My opinion (further affirmed by the OP) is that they don't. Sex-segregated facilities exists to protect women from the sex-based violence of men. Since she decided to forgo that protection by identifying, within that context, as an aggressor, and perhaps even made herself look threatening to women, she doesn't belong anymore.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-09T10:36:25+00:00

As Rationalmind pointed above, climate change is a cult now. Sinners must buy indulgencies from authorized sellers, while the environmental impact of the virtuous has been pronounced ok ex cathedra. Meanwhile, many true believers are uninterested in reducing their own observable environmental harm, leaving it to cult authorities to pray it away.

The masks, likewise: The virus is clearly spiritual because only demonic mass assemblies (such as church services) spread it, lootings and riots and spiritually clean businesses don't. Sinners are punished with shutdowns, the virtuous get to stay open, get covid relief, and are released with no bail.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-18T07:51:54+00:00

i've been sent 3 IP loggers by terfs in attempt to dox me

He's a paranoid skitzo. If we had the social power to ruin the lives of wannabe sexual predators and predator advocates, we could start with the tens of thousands that are out in the open, fully doxed.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-21T00:27:50+00:00

A DDoS attack targets the site's resources, not your own computers or accounts. As long as magnora7 salts his hashes (and he probably does), we're safe.

On Saidit, a VPN can protect you from potentially disclosing your IP address when opening a link in a private message, which might be followed by a DDoS attack on you or used to figure out your approximate area of residence (mine is a city of 15 million, good luck). It doesn't protect from other forms of doxing, malware, identity theft, or DDoS attacks against the website you visit. VPNs can also steal and/or compromise your data themselves, as was the case just the other day.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-02T00:58:12+00:00

"must feel safe"

"celebrate each student's identity"

Fookin tossers. If you don't like your legal name, change it.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-30T08:48:11+00:00

I once bumped into a woman on reddit who was attracted to effeminate men, trans-women (only because they're effeminate men), and NB / androgynous men. (...) Or maybe, they're intimidated by men and find relationships with women safer and more familiar, and this is the safest way for them to be attracted to men.

Mostly this. Scared of "chads", sexism, revenge porn, the "bros before hos" attitude, so into men who (she thinks) won't betray her (haha fat chance, men who perceive themselves to be failures as men are the worst perverts). This is everywhere on teenage twitter. I mean, South Korea's export is 20% semiconductors and 80% softbois.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-14T19:37:24+00:00

Excerpt:

A pervert from Derby accessed the internet via the user name “I’m a paedophile 123” to look at girls as young as eight being violently abused. Derby Crown Court heard how police found more than 1,000 sick child abuse images when they seized and examined electronic devices belonging to Anthony Scales. The defendant’s defence team claimed the initial motivation to embark in this disgusting behaviour was gender dysphoria – Scales now identifies as a woman.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-14T16:35:27+00:00

This thing got nine months for more than 80'000 images of child rape.

"Miss Watson has made a very powerful plea for me to suspend the sentence"

probably "I was just exploring my gender"

zephyranthes · 2020-11-12T07:22:44+00:00

to create best practices for containing online harassment, which disproportionately affects women and young people

Wait wait wait. Who's harassing the young people, boomers?

zephyranthes · 2020-11-02T00:52:03+00:00

Unpopular opinion but I'm all for fetishists and fantasists identifying out of LGB. Someone who doesn't care whether xir partner is male or female as long as xe gets to pretend to be a sentient monster truck and (s)he plays along is not bisexual. Fetishists and fantasists may fall under a clinical category such as "men who have sex with men", but as far as orientation is concerned they don't belong.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-28T15:33:44+00:00

I hate how ostensibly centrist "mainstream news" pander to the murderer by using her fake identity to refer to her. They might have had a leg to stand on if "Alex" was her legal name, but it isn't. I'd also understand if she had an outrageous fake name that'd attract clicks (e.g. Simba Lion, except it was his legal name). But no, they're just pandering. to. the. murderer.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T07:26:12+00:00

"Non-binary" people are against women's rights. They demand gender discrimination, status quo and female oppression, and a special exception for themselves. Women can find more common ground with Men Going Their Own Way than genderspecials.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T17:39:19+00:00

Essentially, they’ll look at a cute guy

"cute guy" is such an obvious tell.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-07T10:57:10+00:00

In their own genderspecial communities who hold it as dogma that men are entitled to sex? Yeah, I can believe that people (women) identify as asexual to get out of girldick duty ("awww, of course I'd love to have sex with you, but I'm just not feeling that special connection"), and then get assaulted anyway. Worldwide? Hahahahahaha what.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-29T13:08:25+00:00

This is a good thing: it means women are more likely to be able to choose when they start their families, and the size of their families.

Where I am, it means women are less likely to be able to choose either, and really I don't know any country where the above holds true. I wanted to have my first child at 22, and at least 3 children. I'm now over 30, still childless. And we know it isn't just me because there was a cautious increase in births during the brief fat years. People (men and women) want an "intellectual heir" of sorts, not to have the woman carry a baby to term and pay a stranger to neglect it while both of them work full-time.

It if of course not up to the women to correct the birth slump. But the current situation is emphatically not good. It is not good that people "choose" not to have children because they (correctly) think having children isn't rewarding, it's a civilizational crisis.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-21T19:07:55+00:00

Did anyone ask them why they don't like t-slurs?

zephyranthes · 2020-11-09T08:29:07+00:00

What? She didn't retcon anything.

The books are writter from Harry Potter's point of view and were often criticized for that as, having decided on it, Rowling couldn't cover events Harry had no business witnessing, had to come up with contrived excuses for him witnessing what she wanted to depict, and couldn't play off the hero's limited perspective against the reader's broader knowledge and thus lost on tension and dramatic irony - important in children's literature. (Thus Harry ended up being somewhat more of an brickheaded asshole than he could have been.)

Dumbledore's orientation was nowhere in the books because schoolchildren don't think about their teachers' sexual orientation. Hell, schoochildren are often shocked when they see a teacher outside of school. And really, a British boarding school without gay teachers? Honestly IRL sorcery would be more believable.

On the other hand, these creeps are shoehorning their gross fetishism into an existing game. Parents may have vetted the game (rated E) which was supposedly about a girl overcoming self-doubt or something, and bought it for their children. Then an update comes out in which surprise, it's eckshually about a (presumably sexually abused) boy who wants to cut off his dick.

edit: just saw the programmer, Matt Thorson, renamed himself "Maddy". So it's not any character, it's the embodiment of his sadness over not having been groomed as a child. I feel sick already, thank you.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-07T10:54:58+00:00

I don't understand what his problem is.

She's female. Her problem is she wants to be acknowledged as a great woman writer without being acknowledged as a (ewww!) woman, because she's a hypocritical, woman-hating, traitorous attention hog.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T11:32:47+00:00

There are stats for children's suicides. The outliers are lesbian girls, for whom the risk is nearly double the baseline. Trans-identified boys are the same as normal boys. (The difference from adult suicide stats, where men are more at risk, is because adult men are more likely to use a gun.)

zephyranthes · 2020-08-27T08:24:23+00:00

Her mother wants to honour her wishes posthumously, using Ellie's sperm, an egg donor and a surrogate.

Fucking slaver wants to rent two poor women's organs to "make up" for failing to be a good mother to her son.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-16T14:16:47+00:00

The reality is that many LGBTQ workers don't even make it through the interview process.

A 2015 study from the National Center for Transgender Equality found that transgender and gender-nonconforming people have an unemployment rate of....

Obviously, it's a horrorclown problem, not an LGB problem. Drop the clowns.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-14T10:55:45+00:00

Inadvertent (hur hur) advertizing for the book by antifa.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-10T15:58:10+00:00

What do you think animals are asking other animals to do when they advertize a riot? Bake cakes and fold origami?

Also, pedophiles and rapists (some with checkmarks) post specific and nonspecific death and rape threats against women on twitter/facebook/tumblr each day. A vast majority of them are allowed to stay up.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T21:53:14+00:00

Old, fake, and brains are plastic.

Also, transes will never submit to a test for transness.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-17T09:38:36+00:00

lesbian couples and single women regardless of their sexuality all have a human right to (again usually government or private insurance subsidized) donor sperm, long-term sperm banking and preservation, and to all the same assisted-conception treatments and embryo preservation that infertile couples with one female partner can access - even in cases where the lesbian couples or single women are not infertile themselves.

And they do. The problem with gay male couples and single men isn't the financial cost, it's the human cost of slavery, organ trade and human trafficking. Gay couples and single men should be able to adopt. Lesbian couples and single women should be additionally able to get pregnant and give birth. It's terrible that the human trafficking lobby tries to hold lesbian couples' and single women's fertility hostage, and it's terrible that some of them comply.

No one has the right to claim another living person's organs for their survival or happiness. Not a roided chomo. Not an instagram pimp/groomer. Not an unborn child. Not a same-sex couple. Not an infertile opposite-sex couple. Not a single man or woman. Not a national hero. Not even a victim of chomo-promoted child sterilization.

As for transes, they shouldn't even live near schools and children's facilities, nor have any unsupervised contact with children.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-19T15:58:25+00:00

He’s vindictive and abhorrent towards gays

How?

supports blocking of gay adoption

He allows existing religious adoption agencies to turn away gay couples. Which may be bad of them, but you know what? The state's record on child safeguarding, particularly deciding who makes a good parent, isn't great either. See: James Younger. Unless the state can come up with and enforce better mandatory criteria, religious (and other) agencies should be allowed to use their own.

wants to have Amy Coney Barrett as a seat in Supreme Court so she can roll back gay marriage

Gay marriage is safe. Abortion is in danger, but women's health in general and, even more broadly, women's rights are more in danger from Biden. Not every woman will have an unwanted pregnancy. Every woman needs to pee outside of home. The loss of equitable opportunities, job security and personal safety that comes with adopting genderist doctrine will damage access to abortion more than any ban ACB can reasonably try to push through from the bench.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-19T08:51:11+00:00

I want to have a kid before I am 34. There are lots of options — adoption, surrogacy. I have friends who have done both.”

Oh look, a wannabe slaver and friend of slavers. No wonder it hates women.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-12T21:21:48+00:00

At 15:

Got kissed on the cheek by a female acquaintance, felt pleasant and weird ("I don't hate it, but what the hell. But I don't hate it. Her hair is fluffy and it touched my ear.")

Got kissed on the lips by a boy I loved for 3 years as a teen and wanted to marry, nearly threw up, fell out of love the following day.

Outright hated boy bands. The only male celebrity I liked was a classy (think present-day Keanu Reeves, except even classier) singer and I wanted to resemble him.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T17:36:53+00:00

In all my years, I’ve never once heard a straight woman say this.

But you just did! Because the author is a straight woman.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T12:50:00+00:00

less 'emotional'

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Absolutely not. Anyone who discriminates against women for what he thinks are practical reasons will never ever ever in a million years hire a trans. The muh misgenderings, the accusations of transphobia, the bathroom drama, the sexual harassment, the terrible health, and when you finally try to fire him you bet he'll cry wrongful termination and cost you twice his aggregate wages in lawyer-hours. A "practical" man who needs to fill a vacancy with a "safe" woman will just hire someone's female relative.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-02T13:37:00+00:00

is the word transgender necessary for everyday, practical usage? From my new understanding, it's just another way to describe gender expression.

It isn't, and neither is "gender expression".

Words should describe distinct concepts which actually exist as distinct concepts. There's no such thing as universal "gender expression" and therefore no such thing as transgender.

In 2020, the gender rebels are: * homemaking husbands whose wives earn money in the formal economy * anti-hijab protestors * people in homosexual relationships.

These groups and their standing in the world are very, very different. However, all of them would be offended both by the suggestion they aren't really their actual sex, or that their defiance of gender norms should form the basis of their personality, or that these fundamental, life-changing decisions happen to be or should be accompanied by adopting a number of superficial mannerisms commonly associated with the opposite sex. Like, if you've gone so far as to risk your life to defy conventional femininity, a double mastectomy is a minor thing and pronouns don't even register on this scale. But this isn't happening, of course. Because gender isn't a spectrum, it's garbage.

Now people who modify their bodies after the oppoiste sex exist, and they deserve the same rights as other body modification enthusiasts. A "transwoman" no more belongs with women than a transcrocodile belongs in the swamp with the other crocodiles.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-17T13:48:14+00:00

WHERE??? You feel like a predator if you behave like one, clearly you have something to hide

Unless the OP is a lying pedophile, he's prey -- he's 14.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-31T09:50:45+00:00

Nah, 2017 was when I quit my old leftie forum after they drank the "suck the girldick, transphobe" kool-aid. It was already in full swing.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-03T15:49:31+00:00

But honestly are there even that many trans people in reality as they're being portrayed online?

This can be understood two ways:

"are most people who say they're trans actually trans": Yes. There's been an e-celebrity or two who pretended being trans, meaning, they are female but pretended to be trans-identifying males and were admired for how well they "pretended" to be women. There are also e-celebrities who falsely deny being trans, most notably Brianna Wu (birth name John Walker Flynt), who is male but pretends to be born female. But these are rare exceptions.

A vast majority of people who identify as trans online are "actually trans": they are factually one sex and pretend to be the other. This is all that's required to be "trans", no need to dress differently, change the sex on documents, take drugs, or mutilate genitals.

A lot of those who identify as trans only practice their fetish online or in privacy: in public they behave normal. A lot of those who do live out their fetish nevertheless keep their genitals and don't want to mutilate them. Some don't change the sex on their id but still demand access to sex quotas and admittance to single-sex spaces of the wrong sex. Some, especially girls and women who call themselves "cute boys", change absolutely nothing about themselves.

"does whats of trans people in online communities accurately reflect the share of trans people in the general population": No. Trans-identifying males are overrepresented online, in positions of power, and in LGBT organizations. Whereas for females transitioning is, they hope, a step toward gaining male privilege, for a lot of privileged males "femininity" and access to women's spaces is the last thing they don't yet have, and others have given up on normal life and live out their fetish full-time.

And the women who identify as Male, are they as problematic?

Ideologically yes, they subscribe to the same hateful beliefs. There are, however, several differences: * Females are not a danger to men the way males are a danger to women. Females in gay spaces are often ridiculed; at best they slink away disillusioned: turns out real gay men are not the cute lanky long-haired romantic boys of their fantasies. * Females are less aggressive. They rarely threaten people with rape or murder and rarely commit the crimes. * The group most harmed by females is teen girls, who are pressured to either conform to degraging stereotypes or prove their worth as a human by taking testosterone and cutting off their breasts. However, the pressure enacted by females on an unwilling person has no legal power behind it anywhere. Horrifyingly, some states do enforce their agenda, but only after they've successfully groomed a child. Meanwhile, males can barge into women's restrooms even over women's objections. * The males are driving the trans agenda. If all trans females desist, it won't change much. If all trans males desist, the trans lobby will die off.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-02T05:24:04+00:00

Are you wondering why this isn't even internally consistent?

It doesn't have to be. The point is to degrade and humiliate us. The more confusing the rules are, the "better" - be afraid to speak, don't think for yourself, and suck the girldick.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-17T13:25:56+00:00

somewhat

zephyranthes · 2020-09-15T12:03:06+00:00

What's surprising? Both situations prioritize the bad partner over the decent partner.

The homosexual partner comes out because he/she wants to divorce or cheat: he/she is the one breaking up the relationship, and the spouse is expected to be nice during the breakup. The trans partner comes out because he/she wants the spouse to submit to his/her fetish, and the spouse is expected to submit.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-31T10:15:23+00:00

Kyle Rittenhouse wasn't there to start shit. The looters were there to start shit. He was there to do his day job, then to clean looter graffiti, then to guard a business from looters.

After going to check on another business, he was then barred by cops from returning to safety and got attacked by a mob.

He killed one attacker, immediately called the cops to report the killing and went to them to surrender.

On the way to the cops, he got attacked by the mob again and thrown to the ground. He missed one attacker and killed another. A third one faked a surrender ("hands up don't shoot"), then drew a gun, at which point Kyle shot and wounded him in the arm with the gun. Kyle then stood up and walked on toward the cops.

The cops waved him on, so he went (presumably by car, it'd be a long walk) to his hometown just across the border and surrendered there.

The wounded man then allegedly regretted not murdering Kyle.

All three men are white and have lengthy rap sheets with sexual assaults, child rape, stalking, repeat domestic violence, strangulation, etc. Kyle only has a speeding violation.

Looters online are fantasizing about raping Kyle in jail and asking about his cell number.

Personally, I'm currently trying for a child and I was worried about how I'm going to raise a son if I end up having one. Now I know.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-21T13:28:56+00:00

Harry Partridge's Stephen the Lesbian was released in 2011. It was absurd even then, and the subtitle, "An educational documentary about lesbians", looks now ominously prescient.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-11T18:13:07+00:00

I saw "TLBG" back in 2014.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-07T10:49:19+00:00

Adults are offered to freeze their sperm/eggs before going for chemical castration.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-14T17:15:49+00:00

There was a famous case in Russia (changing sex is legal here and those who do so can mix and match their rights and privileges, while homosexuality is criminalized). Look up "Юлия Савиновских". Trans-identifying woman, straight husband, two children of their own, one from her previous marriage, and two special needs adoptees. Someone found her blog, where she spewed hate toward women (not even "TERFs" - all women, for our female biology; excluding threats, this was some of the most vile shit I've ever read) and reported her to Child Protection, who, after much waffling and weaselling, decided to take away the adopted children.

Every single mainstream publication closed ranks around her. "It was creative writing! It's fiction! She's just interested in transgenderism! Sociology is not a crime! How do you even dare to accuse a true and honest woman, a MOTHER, of being a horror$$$$$? She had her tits cut off for health reasons! How do you dare call her a man? Can't women cut off their tits? Must they suffer because of your misogynist paranoia? Do you hate breast cancer survivors?" She herself testified in court to that effect. Feminist lawmakers worked in her defense and harassed the Child Protection office. Eventually, she emigrated to France and then Spain with her husband and birth children (note: for Russia, this is peak privilege) and came clean: "I'm a man because I'm beautiful, women are biological refuse, etc etc" The MSM rags changed their tune and started whining about transphobia, while feminist lawmakers admitted they knew it all along and had been openly lying to the public.

This is to say that while trans-identifying men as a group harm women more, an individual trans-identifying woman can be as misogynist as any man.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-30T13:06:36+00:00

Answer "I". And that if it's required. If it's not, don't answer at all.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-08T08:09:23+00:00

If only exploited workers could identify as bougies.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-28T15:17:56+00:00

I had a crush on a boy, wanted to marry him and be a loving, dutiful, and 100% obedient wife. He was my first real friend, you see, and older (16 to my 13), and knew lots of fascinating stuff. But I didn't want to do anything dirty - why? Eww!

Generally, boys were awesome. But not that one, or that one, or indeed anyone in my class (idiots, with a couple exceptions good enough to talk videogames with), or anyone younger (haha toddlers) or older (brutish alcoholics). Really, had I ever thought about it, I'd have noticed that while boys in general might be "awesome", sharing in the Glorious Male Spirit, only my friend was a deserving representative.

And girls drooled. Droooooooooled. Dumb bimbos, all of them. Except that one, she's smart. Or that one, she's not book-smart but awesomely mischievous. Or that one, she's more awesome than me. Or that one, she's so beautiful, why is she so beautiful? I want to hold her hand or something. Again, had I ever thought about it, I'd have noticed that while girls were undoubtedly dumb bimbos, nine out of ten were exceptions.

As for "political" lesbians, where I am, this label is exclusively claimed by radical female separatists, and I'm fine with it. A woman who actively seeks potentially romantic friendships with women and has zero interest in men going forward is a lesbian if she says she is.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T19:23:21+00:00

I don't idolize them - but I don't begrudge them their fandoms, if any. Many people online have fan followings for absurd, intellectually offensive reasons. If I wanted to do something about it, I'd go after youtubers with child fans.

Similarly, I don't begrudge them their body modification lifestyle. That lifestyle has been colonized by horror fetishists - well guess what, my hobbies have, too. (Some I dropped, some I keep carving out a niche of sanity in.) Again, if I wanted to do something about body modification, I'd start with the most common surgeries and procedures women are having: boob jobs, nose jobs, ass jobs, facial liftings, Bella Hadid's chromosomal disorder look, anal bleaching. Once those are extinct, then I'll go after cat people, lizard people, fake men, and fake women.

The problem with transgenderism is not the surgeries adult body modification enthusiasts inflict on themselves - there are worse ways to waste money and worse ways to die - it's child abuse and the disenfranchisement of women and homosexuals, the harm to groups on the scale of populations, not specific individuals.

They oppose trans-ing children.

they believe that there are also “trans” children under 18 who may actually be better off being given puberty blockers and medicalised in order to find peace with themselves.

This doesn't compute. Obviously transing children should be a crime and perps should get the chair. If the "good transsexuals" believe some children will grow up with a desire to surgically modify their bodies as adults and we shouldn't ban that -- I happen to agree. Put in place the same safeguards as exist for non-trans human sterilization. True, it will still be an undesirable outcome, but there are better causes to fight for.

that is, they acknowledge that they have not actually changed sex.

They fulfil stereotypical ideas of what men and women should really be

This doesn't compute either. If they believe they haven't changed sex, then Buck Angel (for example) doesn't fulfil a stereotypical idea of what a woman should be, she (ahem) bucks it.

The transsexuals appear to be helping. Be speaking up, they make it known that rapists and chomos don't speak for all transes, and the politicians who have taken up the trans cause and are unlikely to budge on that first order of business should maybe take their heads out of their asses and look around once in a while. At the very least, this is a civilizational challenge and none of us know how to solve it, so it's be unethical to tell the transsexuals to shut up and stop trying to help.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T11:25:40+00:00

I'm way too old for her books

You can try the Galbraith books.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-20T12:48:40+00:00

I'm right next to G.I. Joe. But I love a Barbie with a machine gun, and she's not anywhere on there (sadface.png)!

zephyranthes · 2020-07-20T11:03:36+00:00

"Id" however you want. As a man, as a woman, as a child, as an animal, as a kitchen appliance, as military equipment, as a fictional character, as multiples of these. Don't bring this to work. Work is not daycare. If you're mentally ill, there's always the psych ward.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-14T15:07:53+00:00

"Now, here’s a different thought experiment:..." Brilliant.

Archive link, because Medium is an enemy: https://archive.md/OawaY

zephyranthes · 2020-08-31T11:01:50+00:00

He's not chasing surgeries. I've seen his posts about a year ago. He's a HSTS, he wants to be a real woman and have a wholesome relationship with a loving boyfriend. Instead, he only got chasers while he still had a penis and no takers whatsoever after he had it mutilated. For that goal, the failure of his surgery, the existence of his moobs, or his overall appearance in real life haven't come up even once: people (chasers) like his photos but reject him as soon as they find out sausage is not on the menu.

Can he succeed? Yes. I think he's looking in the wrong place. Quite a lot of people have fantasist sexualities and quite a lot of people don't want children (and fantasists aren't likely to be good parents anyway). If he finds such a man and becomes his full time melancholy gun bunny anime girl, mission complete.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-23T12:06:14+00:00

...This subsaidit exists because of "male lesbians". Not only they're a thing again, they rule most of the English-speaking Internet. Back on reddit, they even went after the holy of holies, straight men's lesbian porn - and won. Lesbian porn on reddit must have dicks now.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-26T13:03:26+00:00

Utter bullshit. Not, not the wokeness, the lack of realism. Men know exactly what they want from porn, which bodies and acts they want to see.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-06T07:31:49+00:00

She lets him do her in the ass. He plays along.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-10T11:34:17+00:00

Nobody here is saying that Semenya should undergo whatever medical procedure sport committees have suggested either, and I frankly think that putting the option out was incredibly gross of them.

It's also still unfair to women and girls.

What is "fair" in sports, anyway?

Imagine there's a man who can win 100% of women's sports events, and you have perfect data on the humiliation, torture and medical malpractice that could be inflicted on him and the percentage of events he will win afterward. When will it be "fair"? When it's hormone blockers and 75%? horse piss and 50%? silicone ZZ cups and 25%? barely able to walk after installing a horror tube and 0% but still taking up a woman's spot?

What about other "unfairness"? Like, my lung volume isn't up to snuff, can I dope to compensate? My dad has leg problems, can he drive his car? Can I run against a 4-year-old but backward?

The simple math is that there's no "fair" handicap that a judge can impose on someone who doesn't qualify because the expected effect of said handicap is totally arbitrary. If we're talking fair redistribution in the context of social justice (imagining for a moment it applies to pro sports, which it doesn't), the amount of professional athletic victories the average woman has is close to zero (I don't mean like "three", I mean like 0.00001). If you don't qualify, you don't get to participate, end of discussion.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-31T09:38:06+00:00

They do target straights (predominantly straight women), look up transwidows. But a large part of the trans movement is just the recycled parts of the gay rights political machine, which has won most domestic rights for gays and lesbians and needs to justify its existense and present level of funding. Having been representing gays and lesbians, they were well-placed to betray gays and lesbians first order of business.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T12:18:59+00:00

It is, but not for people who use this particular term.

(I don't experience sexual attraction. I have the papers to prove it to the extent medical science can. Gonna quote my old post:

I never identified as asexual: the "community" was stupid back when I found them (circa 2005) and it's awful and misogynist / handmaidenny now.

misogynist: "Unlike those sluts, I only sleep with people I am really attracted to!"

handmaidenny: "Of course I'd be happy to suck your girlcock, but I'm asexual and I'm just not feeling that special connection... those non-asexuals on the other hand will be transphobic if they refuse"

I'm over 30 now, and I've never felt desire for anything "pleasurable" to do with genitals. (Maybe it has to do with growing up during the sexual revolution, when you'd be hard-pressed to find a school copybook without porn ads on it.)

I love women. I love women's hair, women's eyes, women's shoulders and hands, women's waists and hips, women's legs (in shoes only, kthx). I love "women's" clothes and styles on women, fluffy hats, fluffy hair, elegant coats and flowing skirts, and "men's" clothes reimagined for women's shapes (like fitted three-piece suits). I love "men's" clothes and styles on women (they're considered unisex in my country when worn by women - there's nothing a woman can wear around here to look deliberately "gender-nonconforming"), work uniforms, sports uniforms. I want to find a woman who I'd be happy to risk if not give up my life for, and spend my life her, and raise children with her.

But genitals are gross, and boobs, while not gross, are for babies.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-06T22:22:34+00:00

Argument 1:

When Indiana Jones came out, young people rushed to become archaeologists. When the first Harry Potter movie came out, demand for white owls as pets skyrocketed. The US military sponsors war movies to attract more recruits.

Fetishists aren't born, they're made (proof: the proliferation of weird fetishes brought on by the internet). Rape porn is promotion of rape.

many people don't act on that urge

The "people" who have "that urge" are dangerous and shouldn't be trusted with managing themselves.

Argument 2:

you can't ban rape porn

I can't, because I'm not a politician. But if I were, I could and I would. Society should not be centered around the interests of "people" who watch rape porn for """fun"""; on the contrary, self-organized societies are built around common norms and values. A behavior reviled by all enfranchised members of a society should be banned by it. As rape porn serves no purpose for non-rapists, it can and should be banned and nothing of value will be lost.

unfair

Circular reasoning.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-29T15:29:16+00:00

Interpreting "gender" more narrowly as sexist stereotypes, off the top of my head:

Gender in advertizing ("every woman wants to be a sex object, buy our deodorant", "for you and for her [your girlfriend, assuming male customer]" and its reverse, boys' and girls' toys).
Gendered job requirements (fetish shoes and painted faces for women, heat stroke inducing summer clothes for men).
Women changing surnames after marriage by default and being questioned when they don't.
Sexist wording in the news (e.g. calling the husband or a widowed woman's son "the head of the household", praising a woman's bravery as uncharacteristic for women: "few men would dare to do this, but Ann did").
Sexist thematic coverage in the news, pregnancy speculation ("bump watch").
Shaming of gender-nonconforming boys.
"Female" chatbots and AI servants.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-28T19:19:19+00:00

Jeans and a t-shirt at work and on the rare occasion I need to walk somewhere (plus a polar fleece jacket and a rubberized coat in winter), MTB cycling clothes outside. (I ride a road bike now, but I don't have road clothes). I haven't cut my hair in two years (poor + busy + covid) and broke all three plastic headbands in the meantime so it's shoulder-length with an athletic headband now.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-10T22:56:11+00:00

"Midwives" is transphobic. Surely you mean "midspouses".

zephyranthes · 2021-01-06T00:15:36+00:00

Two different adult women raped several girls each by pretending to be boys, and enough people have been scammed by Nigerian princes. It's not impossible that a would-be rapist strings along a shy or desperate person. Shy people's brains go into denial mode and shut down when they suspect they're being scammed: no no no, this can't possibly be happening! Telling a man he's not manly enough is the ultimate insult, likewise for women (especially if she is "gender-nonconforming" -- that's sexist!). A beard and male pattern baldness immediately signal "man" to most people.

It helps if you're hot and can take your pick from hot people, but someone who rolled snake eyes in the genetics department can look at a powdered keg or a garden gnome and think, hey, maybe here's my chance at love.

Photos obviously don't count, they're shopped and filtered. They're more like pose references for artists at this point.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T13:18:18+00:00

i saw someone tweet that they struggle with their identity

See, that's the problem right there. No sane person ever asks him- or herself, "what is my identity". A creepy man has once wisely noted that a lot of "deep" questions become absurdly simple when you actually define the words.

"Trans women are women" -> "fake women are women" -> duh, obviously not.

"identity" = clique

"I struggle with my identity" -> "I am troubled because I can't decide what social clique I want to become a member of".

zephyranthes · 2020-08-29T15:50:00+00:00

"ALL women are massively privileged because SOME of them can grovel before powerful men and share in theirs."

chef's kiss

zephyranthes · 2021-02-18T10:38:41+00:00

It removes sympathy, understanding and respect from those people who choose to undergo painful medical and cosmetic procedures to help their process of change, and who nonetheless accept their own valuable difference.

Why should respect be given by default? What's there to respect? There's nothing understandable about wanting to castrate yourself for a sexual fetish.

I'm sick of this ceremonial kissing of the girlcock. Here's a thought experiment, replace "transgender" with "transabled" or "transracial" or "foot fetishists" or "boob job recipients".

It may seem petty to reject the idea of gender-neutral public lavatories, but it isn’t if you are an older woman or a young girl having her first period.

Don't other women and girls deserve privacy? What's the threshold for regaining the right to privacy - when you're too old for men to fap to?

zephyranthes · 2020-11-11T15:17:05+00:00

I'm studying Japanese. Sex is 性別, nature-separate, no spectrum here. 性 additionally carries the connotation of "unchangeable". Lots of ways to refer to a person (some depend on sex). Pronouns are rude.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T14:42:59+00:00

Every time someone links to chomo cesspits and I see slurs there, I get angry about this subsaidit's rules against slurs. How did it come to this?

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T11:29:28+00:00

See Russian sexual media law that prohibits sexual content, including LGBT, being shown to kids, and gets misreported as a "gay propaganda ban." It's not, and it never was, and although Russia's censorship problem is insane and beyond unnecessary, I fully support not teaching explicit sexual content, including homosexuality, to students under 16.

What? This is a lie*. The "sexual media" law only targets "anti-family-values" content, which is radfem-adjacent body-positivity and some LGBT. No straight pervert ever got hit by it, no privileged libgay pervert either. Wonderzine continues operating. "Nonbinary" celebrity misogynists keep grooming children on Youtube and Tiktok.

(* I previously wrote "wrong", then I say your comment on gay purges. Yep, you're full of it, another colonialist "expat" singing the praises of the corrupt regime that is the source of your wealth.)

zephyranthes · 2020-10-19T21:45:14+00:00

No one is "trans".

zephyranthes · 2020-10-08T07:38:28+00:00

So is this under the "queer umbrella" for their own use, or another new slur for normal people?

Actually, scratch that, I don't want to know.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-08T07:32:21+00:00

UK’s only gender identity development service for children

God, what slimy shit. "Gender identity development service". People need a gender identity like they need cancer. "We give you brain rot! Apply now!"

zephyranthes · 2020-08-12T16:24:43+00:00

"And it won't be fun for you inside, Pippa...not pre-op." Here, the protagonist, the hero you're meant to be rooting for, is making a pretty clear threat—an allusion to prison rape.

Incarceration isn't normally fun, you know. The only way it could be fun for Pippa is if he goes to a female prison and gets to enjoy the humiliation of female prison guards and the terror of incarcerated women. Cormoran is saying here, no, you won't get that, prison will be prison.

Rowling's depiction of BIID in Career of Evil comes off as a coded criticism of being transgender.

Does xe know BIID is real and there are people intentionally crippling themselves (for sexual gratification as well) out there? It's the journo's "internalized transphobia" (residual common sense) talking; xe has to accept transes but draws an arbitrary line at BIID.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-24T13:40:06+00:00

to sic her lawyers on someone for libel after grandstanding about a commitment to free speech

"This person is evil because I said do. Agree and invent some reasons why if you don't want to be held back a year." is the opposite of free speech.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-22T09:45:48+00:00

Porn is only "good" for cooming, which is a self-perpetuating degenerate cult. Porn is unnatural: it's needed for masturbation when a coomer's body can't naturally keep up with an addicted coombrain. If you have a "perfectly normal", natural urge to masturbate, why do you need porn? Indeed, people with limited mental capabilities who have never been exposed to porn just grab their privates and go at it, to the dismay of caretakers.

And "celebrate" ejaculation? It's a body function. Why not "celebrate" other body emissions - piss, shit, phlegm? Disgust is natural. Our ancestors put it to good use avoiding disease. Religion may or may not be outdated, but the desire to avoid disease is as relevant as it's ever been. Ignoring this natural urge to chase a high we're not feeling that you arbitrarily insist is moral to feel -- that is absurd, irrational, and cultish.

zephyranthes · 2020-06-30T07:46:49+00:00

It is an anti-woman purge. Investors and advertizers also hate tits (see: Tumblr porn ban), but rape and porn subs are up. Piracy is up. Men's subs are safer because troon rapists are afraid of men.

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