Explanation of non-binary that's not sexist?

zephyranthes · 2020-08-03T16:21:24+00:00

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T18:14:55+00:00

Haha what a spineless misogynistic coward.

I feel affirmed and validated in my hatred of celebrities.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-27T08:11:38+00:00

They don't like labels, they looooooooooove labels. Gotta catch them all. "gray-asexual genderqueer panromantic otherkin faegender nonbinary lesbian demiboy". Some pretend to have multiple split personalities* when the main one is overflowing with sparklepoo.

no such thing as a real split personality

zephyranthes · 2020-12-28T15:17:56+00:00

I had a crush on a boy, wanted to marry him and be a loving, dutiful, and 100% obedient wife. He was my first real friend, you see, and older (16 to my 13), and knew lots of fascinating stuff. But I didn't want to do anything dirty - why? Eww!

Generally, boys were awesome. But not that one, or that one, or indeed anyone in my class (idiots, with a couple exceptions good enough to talk videogames with), or anyone younger (haha toddlers) or older (brutish alcoholics). Really, had I ever thought about it, I'd have noticed that while boys in general might be "awesome", sharing in the Glorious Male Spirit, only my friend was a deserving representative.

And girls drooled. Droooooooooled. Dumb bimbos, all of them. Except that one, she's smart. Or that one, she's not book-smart but awesomely mischievous. Or that one, she's more awesome than me. Or that one, she's so beautiful, why is she so beautiful? I want to hold her hand or something. Again, had I ever thought about it, I'd have noticed that while girls were undoubtedly dumb bimbos, nine out of ten were exceptions.

As for "political" lesbians, where I am, this label is exclusively claimed by radical female separatists, and I'm fine with it. A woman who actively seeks potentially romantic friendships with women and has zero interest in men going forward is a lesbian if she says she is.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-12T21:47:52+00:00

Celibacy? She's female and looks female. There will always be men who'll play along for as long as it takes to finish.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-12T07:22:44+00:00

to create best practices for containing online harassment, which disproportionately affects women and young people

Wait wait wait. Who's harassing the young people, boomers?

zephyranthes · 2020-08-20T12:48:40+00:00

I'm right next to G.I. Joe. But I love a Barbie with a machine gun, and she's not anywhere on there (sadface.png)!

zephyranthes · 2020-12-30T13:02:46+00:00

The yellow lady is not much better. If you fuck a man, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who lost his dick to cancer, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who lost his dick to an IED, you're not a lesbian. If you fuck a man who cut off his dick for shits and giggles, you're not a lesbian.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-09T08:29:07+00:00

What? She didn't retcon anything.

The books are writter from Harry Potter's point of view and were often criticized for that as, having decided on it, Rowling couldn't cover events Harry had no business witnessing, had to come up with contrived excuses for him witnessing what she wanted to depict, and couldn't play off the hero's limited perspective against the reader's broader knowledge and thus lost on tension and dramatic irony - important in children's literature. (Thus Harry ended up being somewhat more of an brickheaded asshole than he could have been.)

Dumbledore's orientation was nowhere in the books because schoolchildren don't think about their teachers' sexual orientation. Hell, schoochildren are often shocked when they see a teacher outside of school. And really, a British boarding school without gay teachers? Honestly IRL sorcery would be more believable.

On the other hand, these creeps are shoehorning their gross fetishism into an existing game. Parents may have vetted the game (rated E) which was supposedly about a girl overcoming self-doubt or something, and bought it for their children. Then an update comes out in which surprise, it's eckshually about a (presumably sexually abused) boy who wants to cut off his dick.

edit: just saw the programmer, Matt Thorson, renamed himself "Maddy". So it's not any character, it's the embodiment of his sadness over not having been groomed as a child. I feel sick already, thank you.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T17:36:53+00:00

In all my years, I’ve never once heard a straight woman say this.

But you just did! Because the author is a straight woman.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-06T07:31:49+00:00

She lets him do her in the ass. He plays along.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-16T16:04:17+00:00

If he said it wouldn't end well, he'd end up "cancelled" by the group for knowingly associating with twansphobes.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-09T10:36:25+00:00

As Rationalmind pointed above, climate change is a cult now. Sinners must buy indulgencies from authorized sellers, while the environmental impact of the virtuous has been pronounced ok ex cathedra. Meanwhile, many true believers are uninterested in reducing their own observable environmental harm, leaving it to cult authorities to pray it away.

The masks, likewise: The virus is clearly spiritual because only demonic mass assemblies (such as church services) spread it, lootings and riots and spiritually clean businesses don't. Sinners are punished with shutdowns, the virtuous get to stay open, get covid relief, and are released with no bail.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-20T13:27:24+00:00

What does "cis" stand for, the Commonwealth of Independent States?

zephyranthes · 2020-09-17T20:40:05+00:00

"How do I learn to love people who want to make refusal to get raped a hate crime?"

Lol i dunno. Weed 24x7? Hope for an early onset Alzheimer's?

They're not your friends. They haven't been your friends for some time. You're living like a deep cover infiltrator who would be hanged for treason if found out, which is an actual job people get paid good money for - but you aren't getting paid, you aren't doing it for the Motherland, you're just suffering for no reason, surrounded by enemies who'd tell you getting raped is an opportunity to "open a pathway to erotic joy".

zephyranthes · 2020-09-17T13:25:56+00:00

somewhat

zephyranthes · 2020-09-14T13:01:55+00:00

The man-hours for good design are not in the budget. You get what's easy to implement with the framework they're using.
They don't use the software, they aren't in the target audience for the software and will never be, possibly because the majority of people who use the software have room temperature IQ.
They're doing it on purpose: to keep you "engaged" for longer, to trick you into making bad decisions, to prevent you from using your data effectively, to prevent others (competitors, "bad" actors) from using your data effectively.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-08T08:09:23+00:00

If only exploited workers could identify as bougies.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T13:18:18+00:00

i saw someone tweet that they struggle with their identity

See, that's the problem right there. No sane person ever asks him- or herself, "what is my identity". A creepy man has once wisely noted that a lot of "deep" questions become absurdly simple when you actually define the words.

"Trans women are women" -> "fake women are women" -> duh, obviously not.

"identity" = clique

"I struggle with my identity" -> "I am troubled because I can't decide what social clique I want to become a member of".

zephyranthes · 2020-08-12T14:21:40+00:00

For the record, the source of the quote is a TIM (@literallysofie on Twitter).

zephyranthes · 2021-01-10T15:58:10+00:00

What do you think animals are asking other animals to do when they advertize a riot? Bake cakes and fold origami?

Also, pedophiles and rapists (some with checkmarks) post specific and nonspecific death and rape threats against women on twitter/facebook/tumblr each day. A vast majority of them are allowed to stay up.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-09T23:17:55+00:00

But what disturbs me more than anything is just how similar modern "left-wing" rhetoric is to the that used by the Bolshevik and Maoist Communists.

Right now I'm reading a book about 20th century Russia and she's reading a book about 20th century China, and the cultural atmosphere in both places prior to becoming a totalitarian nightmares is eerily similar to what's happening in the US today.

What? Hell no. Work-shy parasites would be sent to the camps. Genderpotatoes and victimhood fetishists would be executed on the spot.

US traitors identify with #Communism because they're traitors. They hate their home country, want to destroy it, and pledge allegiance to what they think is Team Evil, because they've been educated by cartoons, shitty books, and literal butthurt postwar Nazi imports.

I'm also listening to The Gulag Archipelago on Audiobook

Herodotus may be the father of lies, but Solzhenitsyn is the son of lies, literally.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-21T01:11:35+00:00

Dangerously based.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T22:02:29+00:00

Is is a good subsaidit and thread to say Umbrella Academy has always been misogynistic garbage?

"The Umbrella Academy is set in a universe where 43 women around the world give birth simultaneously on October 1, 1989, despite none of them showing any sign of pregnancy until labor began. Seven of the children are adopted by eccentric billionaire Sir Reginald Hargreeves..."

So, supposedly, one in six women is ok with selling her baby.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-11T15:29:08+00:00

Any unique hobby that's inexpensive in absolute terms, doesn't have to be dangerous or prestigious and she doesn't have to be objectively good at it. Do you climb skyscrapers and plant hanging gardens on balconies? Do you crochet itty bitty hats for parrots? Do you go out every morning to take a photo of the sunrise? Do you genetically test local stray cats and map their lineages? Do you measure airflow in your apartment block and sue the municipality if it's not up to standard? PLEASE MARRY ME

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T14:33:09+00:00

I'm a 4th generation Communist and I'd vote Trump if I could.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-30T08:48:11+00:00

I once bumped into a woman on reddit who was attracted to effeminate men, trans-women (only because they're effeminate men), and NB / androgynous men. (...) Or maybe, they're intimidated by men and find relationships with women safer and more familiar, and this is the safest way for them to be attracted to men.

Mostly this. Scared of "chads", sexism, revenge porn, the "bros before hos" attitude, so into men who (she thinks) won't betray her (haha fat chance, men who perceive themselves to be failures as men are the worst perverts). This is everywhere on teenage twitter. I mean, South Korea's export is 20% semiconductors and 80% softbois.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-09T17:39:19+00:00

Essentially, they’ll look at a cute guy

"cute guy" is such an obvious tell.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-08T07:38:28+00:00

So is this under the "queer umbrella" for their own use, or another new slur for normal people?

Actually, scratch that, I don't want to know.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T13:05:58+00:00

"because cis gay and bi men really need the support our club offers."

Evidently they don't.

I worked hard to get into the leadership position I'm in and I'm damn good at it, also I won it in a 12-0 vote.

a 12-0 vote.

(ಥ﹏ಥ)

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T12:51:11+00:00

It's a checkmark lol.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-27T08:24:23+00:00

Her mother wants to honour her wishes posthumously, using Ellie's sperm, an egg donor and a surrogate.

Fucking slaver wants to rent two poor women's organs to "make up" for failing to be a good mother to her son.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-21T13:28:56+00:00

Harry Partridge's Stephen the Lesbian was released in 2011. It was absurd even then, and the subtitle, "An educational documentary about lesbians", looks now ominously prescient.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-22T09:45:48+00:00

Porn is only "good" for cooming, which is a self-perpetuating degenerate cult. Porn is unnatural: it's needed for masturbation when a coomer's body can't naturally keep up with an addicted coombrain. If you have a "perfectly normal", natural urge to masturbate, why do you need porn? Indeed, people with limited mental capabilities who have never been exposed to porn just grab their privates and go at it, to the dismay of caretakers.

And "celebrate" ejaculation? It's a body function. Why not "celebrate" other body emissions - piss, shit, phlegm? Disgust is natural. Our ancestors put it to good use avoiding disease. Religion may or may not be outdated, but the desire to avoid disease is as relevant as it's ever been. Ignoring this natural urge to chase a high we're not feeling that you arbitrarily insist is moral to feel -- that is absurd, irrational, and cultish.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-17T15:46:34+00:00

The only real liberal microblog is the pleroma you run yourself.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-10T22:56:11+00:00

"Midwives" is transphobic. Surely you mean "midspouses".

zephyranthes · 2021-01-28T16:44:15+00:00

Irrational fear of trans women

Rational fear of male perverts secure in their invulnerability.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-07T23:18:19+00:00

His. He. His. Him. He. He. HIm. He. He. He. Him. He. He. He. His. Him. He. He. He. His.

Actually, nevermind.

It.

Get a restraining order against this thing.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-06T00:15:36+00:00

Two different adult women raped several girls each by pretending to be boys, and enough people have been scammed by Nigerian princes. It's not impossible that a would-be rapist strings along a shy or desperate person. Shy people's brains go into denial mode and shut down when they suspect they're being scammed: no no no, this can't possibly be happening! Telling a man he's not manly enough is the ultimate insult, likewise for women (especially if she is "gender-nonconforming" -- that's sexist!). A beard and male pattern baldness immediately signal "man" to most people.

It helps if you're hot and can take your pick from hot people, but someone who rolled snake eyes in the genetics department can look at a powdered keg or a garden gnome and think, hey, maybe here's my chance at love.

Photos obviously don't count, they're shopped and filtered. They're more like pose references for artists at this point.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-30T13:06:36+00:00

Answer "I". And that if it's required. If it's not, don't answer at all.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-13T08:21:54+00:00

zephyranthes · 2020-10-28T17:31:49+00:00

I genuinely wonder where people got this idea that lesbians actually like dicks but just not what it's attached to.

It's an old lesbian joke about sex toys and a counter to men offering themselves: but you use toys! "Yes, I use toys with my girlfriend, but I don't want to fuck a man."

zephyranthes · 2020-10-27T07:10:29+00:00

Too late.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-17T01:05:01+00:00

"we're all lesbians, cis or trans"

Bootlickers. If she were heterosexual and bred, she'd be pimping out her children to pedos. Instread, she's pimping out other lesbians.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-16T14:16:47+00:00

The reality is that many LGBTQ workers don't even make it through the interview process.

A 2015 study from the National Center for Transgender Equality found that transgender and gender-nonconforming people have an unemployment rate of....

Obviously, it's a horrorclown problem, not an LGB problem. Drop the clowns.

zephyranthes · 2020-10-02T04:57:55+00:00

All paid speakers should be banned from campus.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-24T15:19:57+00:00

This is exemplified in a case involving a man, from Virginia who, while arrested after viewing lolicon at a public library computer, asserted that he had quit collecting real child pornography and switched to lolicon

Lol, taking a chomo at his word. Also, this is extortion. In a democratic society, you don't extort people by threatening to commit crimes against children. Chomos get the ~~bullet~~ needle.

A growing conclusion from the research evidence is that pornography does not lead to violence against women.

We already know this is garbage. Look up "we can't consent to this", look up all the idiotic initiatives to teach children "enjoyable" sex and counteract the influence of violent porn.

What are some good counter-arguments to the "if rape porn in animation, drawings and literature gets banned, the rate of rape might increase" argument?

The trans cult online both the male and female sides, is largely anime-driven. They do take their fetish outside and force it on people.

People who can not separate fiction from reality have some issues. Rape porn in animations, drawings and literature should not be taken away from the people that can separate fiction from reality

No, we limit people's access to potentially dangerous things all the time on the basis that a tiny minority can't handle them and would cause great social harm. Wannabe rapists don't get special pleading.

You can not ban rape porn in animation, drawings, and literature on the basis that

I literally don't care. We live in a culture where everyone who watches rape porn is a wannabe rapist. I'm not interested in catering to wannabe rapists.

It's not real people. It's just pixels. Real people are not harmed in making this

Yes they are, unless we're talking machine-generated youtube spam of yesteryear. Real people are making it, and real people are watching it, and from social media moderator lawsuits we know it fucks people up. We ban drugs, we can ban rape porn.

The drawn/animated rape porn is just a fantasy, what's wrong with having a fantasy?

Fuck off, rapist. (The person making the argument, not the OP.) Imagine you're dating someone and he (or she, let's not be sexist) tells you s/he fantasizes about brutally raping and murdering you, let's say the way Gertrude Baniszewski tortured and murdered Sylvia Likens. Still "what's wrong with it", eh?

Rape porn is just a fantasy. Jail is just a room.

In addition to this consideration, laws against pornography raise questions of freedom of speech. violates the freedom of speech and freedom of expression of the people that want to create

Oooooooh fuck off forever, rapist-Alcibiades. You know what violates the freedom of speech and creative expression? The COPYRIGHT LAW. You know how many small commercial projects would flourish if only they could get the (non-exclusive) rights to a major property? Creative expression is already regulated up the wazoo to shape the media landscape as we allegedly want it. Rapists don't get special pleading.

rape porn in animations, drawings and literature have an impact on the real world.

Everything "has an impact". Me walking into a cafeteria with industrial-strength perfume and ruining everyone's appetite because I had a cold "has an impact". A terrorist flooding the aircon with sarin and killing everyone in the building "has an impact".

There's also people who create this type of work to begin with (myself included) as a form of self therapy or an outlet for expression and exploration.

Can real-life rape have an exemption for "self therapy"? Obviously not. Does any real therapeutic technique include "imagine yourself raping someone"? None that I know of. And cut the fancy speak. Put it in plain English, rapist: "I want to express the joy of raping a person", "I want to explore raping a person". This calls for a neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeedle.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-23T13:42:42+00:00

And those real asexuals have a fair amount in common with gay people—lacking cross-sex attraction and being unable to be part of a straight relationship is a big deal, and to brush that off as "nothing" is very flippant.

It's not a "big deal", it's literally nothing.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-18T07:51:54+00:00

i've been sent 3 IP loggers by terfs in attempt to dox me

He's a paranoid skitzo. If we had the social power to ruin the lives of wannabe sexual predators and predator advocates, we could start with the tens of thousands that are out in the open, fully doxed.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-15T12:03:06+00:00

What's surprising? Both situations prioritize the bad partner over the decent partner.

The homosexual partner comes out because he/she wants to divorce or cheat: he/she is the one breaking up the relationship, and the spouse is expected to be nice during the breakup. The trans partner comes out because he/she wants the spouse to submit to his/her fetish, and the spouse is expected to submit.

zephyranthes · 2020-09-11T07:54:07+00:00

Your username on there was perfect. (Yes, I know what it's a reference to.)

zephyranthes · 2020-09-04T12:50:00+00:00

less 'emotional'

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Absolutely not. Anyone who discriminates against women for what he thinks are practical reasons will never ever ever in a million years hire a trans. The muh misgenderings, the accusations of transphobia, the bathroom drama, the sexual harassment, the terrible health, and when you finally try to fire him you bet he'll cry wrongful termination and cost you twice his aggregate wages in lawyer-hours. A "practical" man who needs to fill a vacancy with a "safe" woman will just hire someone's female relative.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-31T11:01:50+00:00

He's not chasing surgeries. I've seen his posts about a year ago. He's a HSTS, he wants to be a real woman and have a wholesome relationship with a loving boyfriend. Instead, he only got chasers while he still had a penis and no takers whatsoever after he had it mutilated. For that goal, the failure of his surgery, the existence of his moobs, or his overall appearance in real life haven't come up even once: people (chasers) like his photos but reject him as soon as they find out sausage is not on the menu.

Can he succeed? Yes. I think he's looking in the wrong place. Quite a lot of people have fantasist sexualities and quite a lot of people don't want children (and fantasists aren't likely to be good parents anyway). If he finds such a man and becomes his full time melancholy gun bunny anime girl, mission complete.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-29T17:23:30+00:00

Wait, he has appropriated the celebrity's name (on purpose I'm sure)?

He's trying to become ungooglable.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-29T15:50:00+00:00

"ALL women are massively privileged because SOME of them can grovel before powerful men and share in theirs."

chef's kiss

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T13:17:15+00:00

Both him and the dad are "furries" (people with a sexual interest in cartoon animals, comorbid with other fetishes; some of them identify as animals and abuse real animals). He shits himself for sexual gratificaiton and fantasizes about turning into a child and getting raped (this is the fantasy Daddy inflicted on his victim).

How is he still so influential in the LGBT community?

Because in the lgbT community, these things are advantages.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-28T12:01:24+00:00

-Hiking under her list of hobbies (unless most of her photos show her outdoors).

Aw, that's so unfair. I don't even own a selfie stick.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-25T23:58:26+00:00

A woman who can't cook is still a woman, but less so than one who can

If one is biologically female, but dresses like a man, behaves like a man, has a masculine name, can't cook, and has a masculine job, are they a woman or a man, for the purposes of social interaction? Would it be correct to assume that person would like feminine or masculine activities? Would it be correct to use masculine or feminine pronouns — for what reason do we use pronouns — and for what reason should we use pronouns?

I personally believe that for the purposes of social interaction that this individual is indeed a man.

You're saying a woman should be either barred from activities you decide are "masculine" or disqualified from womanhood. This is absurd misogyny.

If you believe that we should be a sex culture, and that the purpose of pronouns should be a way to find potential mating partners

The purpose of words is to accurately describe physical reality. I don't mate with dogs, cats, folding chairs, airplanes, and branches of mathematics, and yet it benefits me to know words to refer to these things. (It's as if objects and people you can't stick your dick into don't exist for you.) When I say, "a man", and later, for short, "he", I describe the person as being, to the best of my knowledge, of the male sex. I say "a man in a suit" if he's wearing a suit, or "a man in a dress" if he's wearing a dress, or "a bald man" if he's bald.

You previously mentioned a "social role". There are only two roles specific to men and women - biological fatherhood and motherhood - and transgender people cannot fulfill the role of their preferred sex by definition.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-17T13:04:12+00:00

I'm willing to concede that an "extremely sheltered" heterosexual person wouldn't know much about the other sex's genitals. The posthumously famous outsider artist Henry Darger drew girls with dicks because he had one himself, never saw a woman's naughty bits, and never had a reason to suspect they're different.

(But there's more to being a woman that a vag that men and other women are attracted to and trans-identified men will never have. And in a civilized society, people who grew up "extremely sheltered" will likely have other issues that'd render them incapable of giving consent before a social worker intervention.)

Gay people, though? We have our own bodies for reference.

zephyranthes · 2020-08-12T15:53:58+00:00

Levine is too easy; as an official, he looks somewhat respectable. They'd need to put up a photo of the average "feeling cute, might delete later" trans-identified man with whom the average woman will need to contend.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-23T12:06:14+00:00

...This subsaidit exists because of "male lesbians". Not only they're a thing again, they rule most of the English-speaking Internet. Back on reddit, they even went after the holy of holies, straight men's lesbian porn - and won. Lesbian porn on reddit must have dicks now.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-21T00:27:50+00:00

A DDoS attack targets the site's resources, not your own computers or accounts. As long as magnora7 salts his hashes (and he probably does), we're safe.

On Saidit, a VPN can protect you from potentially disclosing your IP address when opening a link in a private message, which might be followed by a DDoS attack on you or used to figure out your approximate area of residence (mine is a city of 15 million, good luck). It doesn't protect from other forms of doxing, malware, identity theft, or DDoS attacks against the website you visit. VPNs can also steal and/or compromise your data themselves, as was the case just the other day.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-14T16:35:27+00:00

This thing got nine months for more than 80'000 images of child rape.

"Miss Watson has made a very powerful plea for me to suspend the sentence"

probably "I was just exploring my gender"

zephyranthes · 2020-07-13T17:01:27+00:00

It doesn't get better. Uni will be terrible and then you'll be all alone at your job, going to a restroom on a different floor to avoid a genderspecial sex pest. The choke point isn't anything political, it's your opportunities to make friends, which will only degrade with time.

Find a creative hobby and practise it. (No shame in asking your parents to fund it -- you're a child.) Find online and IRL friends this way. It doesn't matter what you pick as long as it's creative (activism doesn't count, pop culture fandoms don't count). If it's popular, you'll have a larger pool of potential friends. If it's rare, you'll be one of the few experts and a community magnet. Make yourself into a person people will want to be friends with.

zephyranthes · 2020-07-03T13:02:37+00:00

If you're asked what are your pronouns, say "I / me / mine". If they persist, clarify these are your third-person pronouns, so USE THEM, TRANSPHOBIC BIGOT.

If asked about body parts, say something outrageously absurd. Call your vagina a collarbone, your uterus a thumb, your ovaries nostrils. When asked to lie on your back, call them out for not asking how you refer to your back. Ask how (s)he refers to his/her head, then ask if it's functioning ok. Then change ob/gyns. If fetishists can shop around for malpracticing shrinks, you should be able to find a woman-friendly ob/gyn.

People who aren't on good terms with reality exist, and there are protocols for caring for them. If a severely autistic person goes to a doctor, his/her carer can tell the doctor in advance what to do, what not to do, how to address the patient, how to address the patient's stuffed toy, etc. An adult fetishist can similarly demand the ob/gyn cater to her fetish (and an ob/gyn should, because the life and health of the child are at stake). But questions like these shouldn't be asked of a woman by default. Some people eat feces, yet a nutritionist doesn't ask if you do.

Expecting mothers are heroines. They're risking their life, and sacrificing their health, making a new human. They shouldn't be dealing with this bullshit. They shouldn't expect insults first order of business when going to a doctor.

zephyranthes · 2020-06-30T05:27:16+00:00

Be aware that Discord is run by troons and animal rapists (but I repeat myself). By all means use their resources if you want to chat, but don't rely on it.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-18T10:38:41+00:00

It removes sympathy, understanding and respect from those people who choose to undergo painful medical and cosmetic procedures to help their process of change, and who nonetheless accept their own valuable difference.

Why should respect be given by default? What's there to respect? There's nothing understandable about wanting to castrate yourself for a sexual fetish.

I'm sick of this ceremonial kissing of the girlcock. Here's a thought experiment, replace "transgender" with "transabled" or "transracial" or "foot fetishists" or "boob job recipients".

It may seem petty to reject the idea of gender-neutral public lavatories, but it isn’t if you are an older woman or a young girl having her first period.

Don't other women and girls deserve privacy? What's the threshold for regaining the right to privacy - when you're too old for men to fap to?

zephyranthes · 2021-02-10T13:03:01+00:00

The word "dyke" has historically been applied to "promiscuous" heterosexual women. Dyke, dike, ditch, female sexual organ.

Also, even among LGBTWTF+ Tumblr, Eli Erlick (a pedophile rapist preying on brown girls) is uniquely vile.

zephyranthes · 2021-02-02T12:02:44+00:00

zephyranthes · 2021-01-25T08:47:10+00:00

Well there's already one obvious lie in the article, what's one more?

zephyranthes · 2021-01-21T10:30:25+00:00

once you, inevitably, break some obscure law

You don't need to have actually broken any law. There's the catch-all change of "extremism", of course, but people have also been sentenced to fines and prison terms for breaking laws which hadn't existed at the time but judges thought should. The sentencing process and the court session don't need to be legal. Evidence doesn't need to be legally admissible. Fucking aura reading is admissible. Who are you going to complain to, the ECHR?
You also don't need to be banned/sued through official government channels. "US-style" private deplatforming has been widely used here since 1991.

Null (of Kiwifarms) is considering hosting in Eastern Asia. He's lived in Slavic countries and is probably familiar with hosting options there. If Russian hosting is not good for a gossip site, it's not good for politics.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-14T10:55:45+00:00

Inadvertent (hur hur) advertizing for the book by antifa.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-12T16:36:52+00:00

I honestly don't give a shit. Many people dislike how they look and they aren't entitled to free cosmetic surgery. Hell, there are countries in which changing one's name at will is not allowed.

"social transition" - gtfo forever.

"sex reassignment surgery" - don't call it sex reassignment but go ahead, castrate yourself on your own dime and have your insurance premiums shoot up.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-11T13:02:57+00:00

Why?

zephyranthes · 2021-01-10T09:56:17+00:00

[Apple and Google] effectively have a duopoly on what applications you can download on your phone

They don't. They have a near-duopoly on monetization, but it doesn't matter much because the real monetization bottleneck is narrower still.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-10T00:05:13+00:00

I don't have the sauce, but here's some circumstantial evidence.

Here he is flat out admitting he doesn't "look feminine".

Was in the Navy.

Begs for small loans (and repays them), so he couldn't have had surgery to look like a giant blow-up doll.

(The original posts are very old, the upper one is flaired "horse piss on pause" but he restarted in 2019.)

zephyranthes · 2021-01-09T23:38:00+00:00

This.

The journo:

Amusingly, the CEO is also claiming that "If you can say it on the street of New York, you can say it on Parler. Except that later in that same article, he admits: "You can’t spam people’s comment sections with unrelated content." Except, you kinda can do that on the "street of New York."

No you can't. IRL spamming is Harassment and Stalking. IRL porn is Exposure of a person, Public lewdness, and Loitering with the purpose of prostitution. Both would be met with an IRL ban in NY.

zephyranthes · 2021-01-07T23:16:14+00:00

Him. Him. Him. Him. He. He. Him. He. Also block rapists, block rape enablers, get help, and get restraining orders if they persist.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-31T12:07:36+00:00

How much of it is explained by disparate sample sizes? I don't want to end up with egg on my face because the sampling was garbage.

Has the not-Bee always had this celebrity gossip style? They need to have their drinking water tested, the side effect may go farther than just frogs.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-28T21:20:05+00:00

Am I in the wrong for feeling like my male experience is being "appropriated" here?

No, what they're doing is offensive and slimy, especially given the obvious sexual component to them fetishizing boyhood.

But I don't see how this isn't exactly the same as what MTFs do to women.

It's exactly the same as what MTFs do to women.

I'm kind of expecting to be told that I'm not allowed to feel hurt because women have it worse in society and what MTFs do to them is therefore "worse."

I won't blame a woman who pretends to be a real man to get away from sex-based oppression - not to claim manhood, not to talk over men, not to invade male spaces (especially gay male spaces!), but to do something both men and women should be able to do in a fair world.

However, it's not what these women are doing -- they don't hide the fact they're female (FTM, so female) but claim special insight into the male experience for no purpose other than degrading real men. This will never be not offensive.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-28T14:56:24+00:00

Someone said lesbians on T begin to find men attractive because the T makes their homo female brain think like a homo male... I don't understand that tweet at all, does anyone know what they mean?

It's not impossible. Remember that there are no true labels, only facts. A woman who previously said she was a lesbian goes on testosterone and starts dating men. Why? Because she's a fetishist who chose body modification over her relationship with a woman or a better chance of attracting women. Testosterone increases sex drive. She wants to have her fetish validated and goes to the subdemographic who would famously screw anything that moves (desperate low-status straight men). Because few people want a dumpy potato with a royal flush of personality disorders in their household, these relationships are as impermanent as those of cruising gay men.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-21T19:07:55+00:00

Did anyone ask them why they don't like t-slurs?

zephyranthes · 2020-12-21T12:28:08+00:00

What is the difference between transgenders and transracials?

Nkechi Amare Diallo (formerly Rachel Dolezal)
Satchuel Cole (formerly Jennifer Benton)
Jessica Krug
Christina Vitolo-Haddad

(the latter two are in academia)

Why is it ok to refer to Ms Diallo by her "deadname"? Vitolo-Haddad and Cole are women who don't "identify" as women - why aren't they allowed identify out of whiteness, too?

He'll probably try to dismiss race as "a social construct" - point out how racist it is, how it "invalidates identities" of people of color, and that it really isn't a rebuttal - if racial boundaries are policed more strongly and it's "just" a social construct... eh? eh?

zephyranthes · 2020-12-20T23:17:05+00:00

Balding man: shaves head.

Coomer: KING

Balding woman: shaves head.

Coomer: nooooooooo i can't cooooooooom

zephyranthes · 2020-12-02T13:37:00+00:00

is the word transgender necessary for everyday, practical usage? From my new understanding, it's just another way to describe gender expression.

It isn't, and neither is "gender expression".

Words should describe distinct concepts which actually exist as distinct concepts. There's no such thing as universal "gender expression" and therefore no such thing as transgender.

In 2020, the gender rebels are: * homemaking husbands whose wives earn money in the formal economy * anti-hijab protestors * people in homosexual relationships.

These groups and their standing in the world are very, very different. However, all of them would be offended both by the suggestion they aren't really their actual sex, or that their defiance of gender norms should form the basis of their personality, or that these fundamental, life-changing decisions happen to be or should be accompanied by adopting a number of superficial mannerisms commonly associated with the opposite sex. Like, if you've gone so far as to risk your life to defy conventional femininity, a double mastectomy is a minor thing and pronouns don't even register on this scale. But this isn't happening, of course. Because gender isn't a spectrum, it's garbage.

Now people who modify their bodies after the oppoiste sex exist, and they deserve the same rights as other body modification enthusiasts. A "transwoman" no more belongs with women than a transcrocodile belongs in the swamp with the other crocodiles.

zephyranthes · 2020-12-01T21:53:14+00:00

Old, fake, and brains are plastic.

Also, transes will never submit to a test for transness.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-26T13:03:26+00:00

Utter bullshit. Not, not the wokeness, the lack of realism. Men know exactly what they want from porn, which bodies and acts they want to see.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-25T21:15:52+00:00

I hate them. "Femme", now being also counterpart of "masc", is sexist and feeds the trans narrative. "Butch" is almost meaningless now as it's increasingly used to refer to women who dress conforming and sensible or like PeeWee Herman. No! A woman is "butch" if and only if she dresses and grooms like the average man and by that stands out from other women. Sensible women are not butch because they don't stand out. Women who dress tacky like PeeWee Herman aren't butch because a man wouldn't be caught dead wearing that. (a) and (b): no and no.
No.
I'm a Radical feminist, but I'm not particularly welcome among them in my country. They're much younger, very socially liberal, badly educated and it shows, into pop culture, hypocritical about slurs, and adhere to the doctrine of the original sin of internalized sexism. Look, if you didn't grow up with porn ads on copybooks in middle school, you have no place to armchair-psychoanalyze my hygiene routine, so shut your cinnamon pieholes. There's also a civil e-war going between liberal lesbians and radical feminist "political lesbians" (female separatists).
Child adoption, pregnancy, childbirth.
(a) Not as part of the acronym, although gay bros put their male privilege to good use defending same-sex attraction. (b) Drop everything after the B. (c) Probably a good idea if/when astroturfed representatives of "the G" adopt reproductive slavery as a campaign plank.
TRAs are sex offenders and belong in prison. "Transbians" should be recognized as homophobic hate speech and have commensurate consequences.
There are very few places where lesbians are welcome online. In real life, I mostly get crap for being female (e.g. male "colleagues" don't greet me, because most men's communities adhere to the rules of prison hierarchy and greeting a woman makes them "prison bottoms").
Queer is a slur. Dyke and lesbo are self-deprecatory and should stay so. Homosexual is fine. Lesbian is perfect but shouldn't be appropriated by people who aren't in fact lesbians. Gay is for men. "Same-sex attracted" sounds awkward. "TERF" of course is a slur. (I sometimes use "the terves", "us terves" and the adjective "terven" ironically, talking about the gender-critical community with non-members, but never about an individual person or to describe the belief in the permanence of sex, which is just common sense).
The labrys is the better flag by far because it distances lesbians from the alphabet soup variety stripes.
Sex toys, veganism, not wanting children, body hair, anti-science (why on earth? aren't we "supposed" to be mannish?), unhealthy lifestyle (overweight, BO, smoking, alcohol), sparklypoo in the media. Short hair as a lesbian stereotype is sexist toward women in general.

10a. I have short hair because I'd look ugly otherwise, and I wear plaid overshirts with t-shirts because of the 90s cool factor. (I actually want to learn sewing and start making and wearing skirts and blouses.)

zephyranthes · 2020-11-17T09:38:36+00:00

lesbian couples and single women regardless of their sexuality all have a human right to (again usually government or private insurance subsidized) donor sperm, long-term sperm banking and preservation, and to all the same assisted-conception treatments and embryo preservation that infertile couples with one female partner can access - even in cases where the lesbian couples or single women are not infertile themselves.

And they do. The problem with gay male couples and single men isn't the financial cost, it's the human cost of slavery, organ trade and human trafficking. Gay couples and single men should be able to adopt. Lesbian couples and single women should be additionally able to get pregnant and give birth. It's terrible that the human trafficking lobby tries to hold lesbian couples' and single women's fertility hostage, and it's terrible that some of them comply.

No one has the right to claim another living person's organs for their survival or happiness. Not a roided chomo. Not an instagram pimp/groomer. Not an unborn child. Not a same-sex couple. Not an infertile opposite-sex couple. Not a single man or woman. Not a national hero. Not even a victim of chomo-promoted child sterilization.

As for transes, they shouldn't even live near schools and children's facilities, nor have any unsupervised contact with children.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-16T11:07:15+00:00

She also said that she hated having her period (what girl/woman enjoys it?).

I did, for the first half a year or so. Like, whoa, science! Then the novelty wore off and I didn't care.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-11T15:17:05+00:00

I'm studying Japanese. Sex is 性別, nature-separate, no spectrum here. 性 additionally carries the connotation of "unchangeable". Lots of ways to refer to a person (some depend on sex). Pronouns are rude.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-09T14:57:17+00:00

What kind of venue would you choose?

Courthouse / civil registry, because I hate the concept of marriage licenses.

What time of year would you prefer?

Winter so I can wear cosplay (a coat and a humongous fur hat) without looking like a dork.

Would it be huge event or an intimate affair?

Saturday, both families, 6 cars, we go in the same car both ways, one of us drives it. We do a tour of various personally meaningful places around town, tell stories, take photos and eat finger food out of the open hatch. All of us go back home, eat dinner and have tea with a variety of store-bought machine-made cakes. I eat a two-pound cake all by myself and do the dishes afterward. Me and my wife sleep on the floor in the hallway because some guests are too drunk to go home and the spare beds went to their children.

Sunday, the remaining guests leave in the morning and we spend the day resting at home and eating leftovers, with a walk around the block in the evening.

Monday, we go to work.

How would you spend your honeymoon?

Working.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-07T22:00:35+00:00

Bisexuals are people (trans-chasers included) attracted to both sexes. (A man who's attracted to both women and 'roided women with induced beard growth is heterosexual, a man who's attracted to women and men in dresses is bisexual.)

In contrast, pansexuals are solipsistic fetishists who are by their own definition "attracted to the person, not the genitals" -- they'd accept a partner of either sex as long as (s)he plays along with the fetish.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T14:42:59+00:00

Every time someone links to chomo cesspits and I see slurs there, I get angry about this subsaidit's rules against slurs. How did it come to this?

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T11:29:28+00:00

See Russian sexual media law that prohibits sexual content, including LGBT, being shown to kids, and gets misreported as a "gay propaganda ban." It's not, and it never was, and although Russia's censorship problem is insane and beyond unnecessary, I fully support not teaching explicit sexual content, including homosexuality, to students under 16.

What? This is a lie*. The "sexual media" law only targets "anti-family-values" content, which is radfem-adjacent body-positivity and some LGBT. No straight pervert ever got hit by it, no privileged libgay pervert either. Wonderzine continues operating. "Nonbinary" celebrity misogynists keep grooming children on Youtube and Tiktok.

(* I previously wrote "wrong", then I say your comment on gay purges. Yep, you're full of it, another colonialist "expat" singing the praises of the corrupt regime that is the source of your wealth.)

zephyranthes · 2020-11-05T07:26:12+00:00

"Non-binary" people are against women's rights. They demand gender discrimination, status quo and female oppression, and a special exception for themselves. Women can find more common ground with Men Going Their Own Way than genderspecials.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-02T00:58:12+00:00

"must feel safe"

"celebrate each student's identity"

Fookin tossers. If you don't like your legal name, change it.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-02T00:52:03+00:00

Unpopular opinion but I'm all for fetishists and fantasists identifying out of LGB. Someone who doesn't care whether xir partner is male or female as long as xe gets to pretend to be a sentient monster truck and (s)he plays along is not bisexual. Fetishists and fantasists may fall under a clinical category such as "men who have sex with men", but as far as orientation is concerned they don't belong.

zephyranthes · 2020-11-01T13:48:12+00:00

I support trans rights...

lol get out

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