If you want to throw a tantrum post over my Dad not being a pedo, fine, but don’t tell lies in the title. by Happy_face_caller in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 10 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Men of color are usually even bigger pedos who love committing crimes against whites just because they're white. Which is even worse for white victims, it's even more traumatizing to be raped by a rabid subhuman that is the same color as a turd.

"Not all men are bad! I know my dad is a good man!" What the "good dad" in question actually says in private: by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

You're not a lesbian, either, cum connoisseur.

"Not all men are bad! I know my dad is a good man!" What the "good dad" in question actually says in private: by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

You're a racist liberal feminist who is obsessed with her daddy's anti-white dong. Pretty slutty and degenerate.

"Not all men are bad! I know my dad is a good man!" What the "good dad" in question actually says in private: by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

He only beat your perp to cover up his own guilt of being an even bigger pedo.

"Not all men are bad! I know my dad is a good man!" What the "good dad" in question actually says in private: by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 7 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I love this thread where nobody mentions race until you just did, fucking anti-white racist, AND pedo sympathizer.

"Not all men are bad! I know my dad is a good man!" What the "good dad" in question actually says in private: by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 9 insightful - 8 fun9 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Or in private with only one another woman around. I lost count on my hands how many times a "good" XY has turned out to be an extreme perv when it is just one-on-one. All respect for a woman as a person goes right out the window then.

Are men essentially dumb AIs? by Fel in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Hell, as a lesbian who has never wanted kids, I don't even need XYs around if I don't want. And I do not want after decades of having to deal with their dumb, hateful, patronizing shit. You're onto something, the reason I'm not interested in having AI/robots as a regular thing in life is because they are so devoid of depth, which is pretty much the same thing with XYs, although XYs are also extremely rude, miserable creatures to be around most of the time, who seem to take joy in waiting to eventually insult me personally.

Rey Mulan Cap Marvel baddd, literally can’t relate to powerful female unless they shit themselves in movies several times. Reddit xpost: moviescirclejerk by Happy_face_caller in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, so female characters (and probably females too) are only relatable if they need help? People disgust me.

Reddit admits that their latest subreddit purge was a failure; only 18% decrease in "toxic comments" by ISaidWhatISaid in censorship

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think a bunch of us are another new political group that just has no name yet because we haven't really found each other yet.

Reddit admits that their latest subreddit purge was a failure; only 18% decrease in "toxic comments" by ISaidWhatISaid in censorship

[–]yayblueberries 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I got banned for saying that as a lesbian I am not into penis. I got banned for what is pretty much the definition of being lesbian. I basically got banned for being a lesbian on Reddit.

Reddit admits that their latest subreddit purge was a failure; only 18% decrease in "toxic comments" by ISaidWhatISaid in censorship

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Humans really are very stupid in general. They actually believe that trying to force people to shut up will force them to change their views to the "right" ones. It reminds me of idiots I've had on my Facebook friends list who got mad at something political I said, blocked me, then changed their mind and re-added me. They did so attempting to teach me a "lesson" that I can't hold certain political views/opinions, yet I made sure when they came back to IMMEDIATELY re-iterate whatever it was they tried forcing me to change.

Facebook Purges Patriot Prayer After Member Killed by Antifa by christnmusicreleases in censorship

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I face-stalked the owner/interviewer after the interview and the answer to your question is a resounding yes. I have a sneaking suspicion that my actual legit belief in working hard probably leaks a conservative value that leftist interviewers pick up on.

DOUGLAS MURRAY: I thought the culture wars would stop when Covid struck. Now, things have become so toxic... that we're living through the Age of Mass Derangement by jet199 in politics

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No, what's ugly is you using "gay" and "racist" as pejoratives.

Something isn't right here by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]yayblueberries 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I like how only now people like you suddenly care about the effects of a disease not killing you when that's the case with literally everything in existence but you all seemed to run around with joy in public as much as possible every time you got a communicable disease. NOW it matters?!

Facebook Purges Patriot Prayer After Member Killed by Antifa by christnmusicreleases in censorship

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Facebook has gone way too incredibly far. A friend got a warning for saying "people are disgusting" after I posted about a really bad job interview. Nothing political whatsoever and now she's at threat of being banned by Facebook. Violent social militias only, my ass.

White House Orders End Of 'Un-American' Racial Sensitivity Training At Federal Agencies by Nemacolin in news

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The "training" is also a completely waste of time, money, and resources. I can sit through diversity training and "learn" nothing because at the end of the day, no stupid videos and talkers are going to change the fact that I have repeatedly been harassed disproportionately by blacks compared to my fellow whites despite encountering far fewer of them. I've had strongly liberal friends post garbage on Facebook for months and get mad at me, will their browbeating and yelling and posts change my experiences and views? Not a chance in hell. So why bother? I would have to undergo literal brainwashing, basically torture.

Reddit isn't happy about President Trump's "anti-censorship" executive order by scrubking in politics

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I would be okay with no sites at this point. Social media has become extremely destructive in general to society.

Cuomo's New York Says It Won't Respond to Request On COVID-19 Nursing Home Deaths Until After November Election by scrubking in politics

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Guilty behavior from somebody with obviously something to hide, like numerous deaths.

I'm really begging you all to keep reporting the Pink Pill Watch Twitter. It's just daily insanity with what he posts. by Number5IsAlive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I ain't got time for that faggy site.

Sooooooo, like, we're just gonna ignore the fact that women attempt suicide more than men? by Maryam in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This is assuming that women only commit suicide because men suck. This is false. The entire world really sucks and it doesn't matter what sex people are. To be fair, we live in a world of pickmes and handmaidens, straight women who think their shit doesn't stink because they get laid by men, women who bully other women, women who are narcissists, women who have kids to treat them as mini-mes and as soon as they individiate go on to severely abuse them (like my mother did), wealthy Dumbocrat women who stomp around this planet like they have all authority and use shame and VIOLENCE to try to control what everybody else does/doesn't do, and now we have trashy women joining antifa riots ruining the lives of business owners. I'm sick of women being total shit in their own ways.

A lot of this garbage heaped on top of the usual crap caused by men is what has led me to considering suicide many times.

I'm also tired of the assumption that all suicide is caused by mental health issues. Sometimes life is just shitty as fuck and not worth living. And the one time I almost did do it, I was having severe pain every day for 3 months and doctors could not find any cause and could not figure out whether it would ever end. Of course women like you who have all the answers would call that a mental health issue rather than an external failure of shitty humans yet again in my life.

Is the lack of online presence of Conservatives a censorship issue, a technological one, or something else? by PencilPusher55 in AskSaidIt

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, at this point on Facebook it is definitely a censorship issue. It's mostly a censorship issue on Reddit as well, although somehow they didn't kill /r/conservative.

What's so hard to accept to feel united with your body ? by [deleted] in AskSaidIt

[–]yayblueberries 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you have fart dysphoria. Loving the smell of your own farts is so satisfying.

Americans: If you have been affected by the Reddit banning wave, the FCC would like to hear from you by SanityIsGC in GenderCritical

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Would be interesting to figure out how this pertains to Facebook which is now auto-banning content it doesn't like, basically anything that's not the brainwashed views of liberals.

Don't ever think for a second that leftist men don't hate women as much as right-wing men by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have found leftist men to be MORE sexist. They are all projecting when they talk about how "other" men are sexist and evil and they're the "nice" ones.

Man shoots dead his wife 'because they weren't having enough sex', dumps her body in their garage then opens fire on his neighbors because he 'hates all children' - wounding girl, 12, as she shielded her 18-month-old niece from gunfire by green_olive in PinkPillFeminism

[–]yayblueberries 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a lesbian but I can still tell that he's disgusting and unfuckable. Maybe he should have worked at not being a gross mess.

I'd just leave and go work in a place which isn't full of racists. by jet199 in funny

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Plus they get to keep their jobs because sometimes HR is dumb enough to think virtue-signaling means those people are great, whereas me who is tired of this crap is likely to call coworkers dumbasses and get fired.

I'd just leave and go work in a place which isn't full of racists. by jet199 in funny

[–]yayblueberries 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe I should start applying to jobs I have no chance getting hired for in order to avoid the crazy diversity crap that's probably in every HR now. I'd rather stay on unemployment than to get hired and then immediately fired with no chance for more unemployment for calling my coworkers a bunch of self-hating pussies.

Redditor has a bad time at a gay orgy. The level of entitlement is astounding. This is what happens when you have little to no real world experience and fall for what the internet tells you. by Chipit in MeanwhileOnReddit

[–]yayblueberries 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You act like that's something new and unique and that no lesbian has ever heard that before. Fucking false. Lesbians have been forced to accept dick since the beginning of time, there is nothing more hated in society still than a lesbian because men are rapists.

I can't sit straight by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Is this sub a joke? A sign of lesbianism? No wonder we aren't taken as seriously as desired. This along with other recent posts make me quite disgusted that I get roped in with the rest of you sometimes.

Most Adults in U.S. Say States Have Lifted COVID-19 Restrictions Too Quickly by CompleteDoubterII in Coronavirus

[–]yayblueberries 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought I weeded out all of the morons and yet today I have a friend saying they cannot wait until New Year's Day as if somehow the economy will suddenly be recovered, Covid-19 won't be a thing at all, the rioting will be done, and everybody will get their jobs back on 1/1/21 just because of an arbitrary numerical change.

Do you come out to acquaintances/friends or just let them assume you're straight unless there's a good reason to correct them? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]yayblueberries 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't enjoy the whole "in the closet/coming out" thing in the first place. I don't think it is fair that I live in a society that claims to be trying to accept homosexuality and then expects it to be this big reveal. It really should not be a big deal to straight people that I am a lesbian. If it is, there's a problem. I only "reveal" it in the same way a straight person does, such as when talking about somebody attractive or when I have a partner.

Also, you are under no moral obligation to reveal anything about yourself to normalize anything.

This wasn't widely reported. Oakland, Cal Antifa/BLM chanting ''Death to America''. Possible ties to Hezbollah? ISIS? by Chipit in news

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Now I'm even more okay with those charged with a felony after being at these riots losing unemployment.

Anger. Control your anger. If you hold anger toward others, they have control over you.Your opponent can dominate and defeat you if you allow him to get you irritated. Miyamoto Musashi by [deleted] in quotes

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Cause and effect. I'm angry at people AFTER they try to have control over me (or in the case of the government, they already do have control and that's the problem). If I wasn't irritated about it, I wouldn't take action to take back my own power. That's what anger does, it moves one to remove the threat, if possible.

"It is simply no longer possible to believe much of the clinical research that is published ..." Marcia Angell by muellermeierschulz in quotes

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I went to college for the sciences and have worked in the sciences. We're trained to view research as overall trustworthy and a great foundation upon which to build new studies (but to also keep an eye out for bias and studies bought for by companies with an MO). To watch all of that blow up this year is horrifying. I might not even stay in the field after all, after losing my job in it. If everything is lies I might as well go make more money doing something else.

The cruel and dangerous b.s. of this -“only 6% of COVID deaths are from COVID” – conspiracy theory. by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They are also in a huge amount of denial right now. The numbers are now showing that people with co-morbidities are the ones dying. Most of the snotty people screaming about how dangerous Covid-19 is are big fatties. The fat ones must be shitting bricks right now because they are the ones at risk in a very huge way and for most people, they did it to themselves. I mean, there are some cases where a medical condition (which would ALREADY give them a co-morbidity) causes them to gain weight easily and rapidly, but everybody else just eats way too much crap. They would have to admit to themselves that they put THEMSELVES at risk, nobody else did it, and that it's now on them to lose weight.

Also, imagine screaming at everybody that Covid-19 is definitely going to kill everybody and demand everybody stay at home and ruin their lives for months on end, and then be told LOL JK it's not that dangerous especially to already healthy people. Imagine ruining numerous relationships you had just to find out you were wrong.

Anyone else feel like an utter and complete burden on every single friend and family they know by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]yayblueberries 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ask yourself if maybe they are actually the burden. I used to feel like that until I got outside myself and realize that the worst ones burden every single person in existence with their narcissism.

Anyone else get really sick of heterosexual culture sometimes? by Depressed in Lesbians

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And then they do find a man and they do nothing but complain about how alien he is and doesn't understand women, yadda yadda. My empathy just goes poof it's like, first off, my friends know I'm a lesbian so why do I want to hear them bitch about men? They SHOULD know better. And second, that's what they get. Not only am I a lesbian, I am also a radfem, I watch them choose such horrible specimens. Not that it seems like there are plenty of great men, there are probably FEWER than 1% of those. But it's like come on, we know that men are socialized to disrespect women and view women as objects, that's what you're likely to get. Big surprise there.

The mask mandates are just like seatbelt laws by bigmaynebruh in whatever

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Seat belts protect the user. Masks do not. Your argument is invalid and lrn2logic.

Plastic Recycling Rates Drop As 76% Ends Up in Landfills by infocom6502 in environment

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I've moved a lot in the past few years and I don't mean from apartment to apartment in the same little area. The petty changes from place to place in what can and cannot be recycled were so ridiculous that I almost gave up caring - fortunately the bin at my current house has a detailed list of what CAN go in there and what should NOT. The last municipality did not even have a convenient hand-out or PDF on their webpage detailing what they do and do not accept, and accordingly, the friends I was staying with threw everything in the garbage instead.

Black man randomly attacking white man with a brick in Baltimore. They’ve always randomly attacked whites like this, but now they’re more brazen as the media ignores and encourages these attacks. by [deleted] in USnews

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And yet we're "racist" if we avoid blacks right now because of their sudden urge to kill everybody who is white.

“One of the painful signs of years of dumbed-down education is how many people are unable to make a coherent argument. They can vent their emotions, question other people's motives, make bold assertions, repeat slogans—anything except reason.” - Thomas Sowell by muellermeierschulz in quotes

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But when people say "you hurt my feelings" they really just mean...

They mean, "Whatever you just did/said that I CLAIM hurt my feelings is something you should never do or say again, even if you have all right to do or say it even though it is not actually abusive or hurtful at all." It's an attempt at power and control almost every time now. It's not just immature people, it's people with a somewhat hidden agenda that they feel superior to you and need to continue to feel superior to you and control you. Immaturity is not that dangerous; the need to have power over another definitely is. They realize their feelings are great tools and use them as one to destroy other people.

2+2=5 is catching on among the "woke". Good Lord, when you're taking your direction from the villain in George Orwell's 1984, how on Earth can you claim you are on the side of the good? by Chipit in politics

[–]yayblueberries 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I've been saying they should be shipped to North Korea or some other communist country with how much they love talking about how we should all forfeit our rights and do things for the "greater good." That is so communistic that they really do not belong in an individualistic, capitalistic country such as the United States.

Threesomes or polyamory by Jessica1993 in Lesbians

[–]yayblueberries 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This anti-shame bullshit and never possibly hurting anybody's feelings ever is ridiculous, there are people who are greedy as fuck, even if everybody seems on board it is highly possible one person is only "consenting" to a poly relationship or a threesome out of fear of upsetting their partner and the one who wants it is greedy, sex of all three has NOTHING to do with that.

I'm also sick of the attitude of better not upset other lesbians in other way because the community is so small! I'm not catering to an entire goddamn group just so I can find one partner. This garbage is leading right to homosexuality being about having a club membership, not an inborn, probably genetically based sexual orientation. Fuck that.

Liveleak.com - Seized U-haul filled with supplies for protestors was sent by a Church(BLM supporter) by iraelmossadreddit in conspiracy

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drops bomb on another country Welp, this isn't a war, firearms weren't used.

Detrans woman speaks about mastectomy problems by jet199 in neovaginadisasters

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is a SURGERY. All surgeries create a WOUND and sometimes wounds do not heal well. This is basic, common sense, that shouldn't even need to be explained to anyone, but people act like surgery is not a big deal and that you're not doing anything horribly invasive and permanent to the body. Technically our bodies weren't meant to be cut apart and reassembled, we are lucky as fuck every time it does work.

Is something in the water causing gay/lesbian people? by iraelmossadreddit in conspiracy

[–]yayblueberries 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

He's a rapist butthurt at the idea that there could possibly be women who would not be interested in his gross peepee.

Kyle Rittenhouse Was Working as a Lifeguard in Kenosha the Day of the Shooting, Went to Clean Vandalism at School After Work by christnmusicreleases in politics

[–]yayblueberries 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It IS interesting that nobody involved in this incident is actually that great of a person. The three shot were all felons, and he interjected himself in that incident to suckerpunch a chick. Is the Kenosha area just full of degeneracy and people who have no respect?

Kyle Rittenhouse Was Working as a Lifeguard in Kenosha the Day of the Shooting, Went to Clean Vandalism at School After Work by christnmusicreleases in politics

[–]yayblueberries 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Even if he crossed state lines, this country needs to then have a conversation as to why that is seen as bad and wrong. That argument started with it being about the GUN crossing state lines and turned into it being about how HE shouldn't have crossed state lines, which is absolutely BIZARRE. State lines aren't really hard borders, I live near a state line, am I never supposed to ever be in the state I don't actually live in then? Why is this now a sudden issue?

everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them by Disillusioned in Lesbians

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We live in an increasingly narcissistic society where people feel entitled to whatever they want and nobody is ever allowed to say no to them. Good ol rape culture.

everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them by Disillusioned in Lesbians

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People, especially bisexual women I have known, do not understand how much of a turn-off it is to even have to hear about them having had a sexual relationship with a man in the past. I don't like penises, I don't want to hear about penises, I don't want to hear about having sex with a man in any way, once that happens I tend to be just done. There is so much penis WORSHIP in U.S. society/culture. It's disgusting. And bisexual women can have as much of a "pick-me" attitude and behaviors that cater to men just as much as straight women.

NPR Claims That Calling A Riot A "Riot" Is Racist by zyxzevn in NotTheOnion

[–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yet NPR is obsessed with class and hates the poor. There was one fairly nasty interview when the census was starting blaming homeless people for not getting needed services, despite that the census historically failed to count homeless people. NPR loves stirring up pointless controversy.

White Woman Lists All The Things She Had To Learn After Marrying A Black Man, Goes Viral by kesh in whatever

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Is she trying to blame whites for this? Because I used to be very indifferent to blacks but after nearly every interaction with them in the past few years being excessively negative and them being racist against me, and this year with BLM bullshit being forced down my throat and repeatedly reading blacks killing whites for no other reason than their skin color, you bet your fucking ass I am staying away and being afraid of them. I've never done shit to black people and my ancestors did NOT have slaves but god forbid I breathe near a black person.

Am I victim blaming by making these comments about women's clothing? by Immortallogic in PinkPillFeminism

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Those are the same women who get offended when they wear overly tight yoga pants and wind up with a lesbian like myself staring at their ass. It's easy for them to go MEN ARE RAPISTS MEN SHOULDN'T RAPE but should I not also lesbian? If your ass cheeks are gonna be put on display to the point where the only thing left to the imagination is the actual skin on them, don't fucking bitch.

Is this pinkpillfeminism dead? Do mods sitll maintain this place? How can we get new subscribers? by DoorKnob in PinkPillFeminism

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Why move if you all aren't going to bother keeping it going over here first?

was a catholic, converting to lesbianism. by BALLSBENNYBENNY in Lesbians

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Convert back to alcoholism

It seems everything has become politicized! I was listening to a jazz radio station, and they're talking about BLM. (Pro-BLM obviously.) Now I'm listening to classical music just to escape the politics. Ridiculous. I want entertainment, and relaxation from my music, not political bullshit. by suckitreddit in whatever

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Now you know what it has been like being a right-leaning lesbian who just wants to live her life in relative peace. I've had to hear "HURRR DURRR THE PERSONAL IS POLITICAL" for ages now.

No social media? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I don't consider it strange or suspicious, but I'm at an age where social media didn't come about until I was already in my 20s. I easily adopted it because I like playing around with technology, but have been weaning myself off social media (is it weird that I don't count internet forums social media?) like Facebook because it has devolved into people screaming at each other and posting things on their own feeds in a way to try to bully into everybody else agreeing with them and wanting an echo chamber. I still have a Facebook account, but weeded things down to 40 "friends" who are people who only post about nature/birds and maybe a few other uplifting things or deets about their lives.

For me a person can do whatever they want, they can have lots of social media or none at all, it doesn't matter to me as long as it isn't bringing drama into our lives.

Dating App Red Flags by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Maybe this is one most people don't think about, but a sense of over-confidence in the bio. When I'm reading it and it starts sounding like, "I have the best life, I have the greatest life, I do all these great things, I do this, I do that," I get wary, because nobody's life is 100% perfect and narcissists love talking like that.

Also, at this point in life I am wary of people claiming they have over 9000 hobbies and travel all the time, after years of meeting people, I have learned most people do not do even half of the fun things they claim they do. Hell, even the woman I'm currently living with swore she spends most of her free time looking for free furniture to fix up and resell - she sits on her ass every day watching YT videos for real. I haven't seen her do anything in 2 months. Those women who claim they go hiking all the time? They probably go once a month, if that. I am so sick of people lying in this way to look good.

Lesbians that don't call themselves lesbians by carrotcake in Lesbians

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I disagree on the point that just because somebody is famous, doesn't mean they have some sort of obligation to live their lives in such a way as to be a role model/voice for others. If they are so uncomfortable with their sexuality that they cannot call themselves a lesbian then that is where they are at. They are humans too, with flaws, with pain, with past experiences that have forced them into being uncomfortable. I just find all discussions around people owing other people or entire groups special things very tiresome and part of the entitlement culture the U.S. has. Many people who are famous did not CHOOSE to be famous, on top of it all.

What other species would you want to evolve to also be "advanced space travelling species"? by hufflepuff-poet in Lesbians

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Humanity is finding out birds may be far more intelligent than ever understood and have complex communications and in birds that are more social, complex interactions. But I do wish we could understand each other, I have so many things to ask birds! They could even tell us about stuff they see on their migrations. There is one species, the Veery, that knows how hurricane season is going to be months in advance - they are actually way better than humans at detecting this! They could let us know.

How does your hair look? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

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I'm a brunette that also has some natural blonde highlights and in winter it is more chestnut-y. All stylists have begged me to please never dye it because it's such a nice color! I have very fine but very thick hair and its mostly straight these days, used to be kind of wavy. It's about 5" past my shoulders now but usually I get it layered around my shoulders or just above.

Why are women always super offended if they're assumed to be lesbians? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Maybe I should for fun. I can be like, "What, do I look like I'm performing femininity for men? Do I look like a clown?" I actually do usually get assumed for being straight and I just think it's dumb, because often the people who do it are on a diversity kick. I do feel like lesbians are invisible to some degree but I think it is a cool superpower.

How do you make new friends as an adult? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I've had people ask or talk to me about a book I'm reading in there, or if I have my laptop sometimes I work on photos I've taken which are all nature-based and people notice and talk to me about those. I've also had conversations about the weather, local events, local music, or the new art hanging on the walls in the coffeeshop. I've also had where I've visited coffeeshops in very tiny towns and people there know you're not from the area because you're not a familiar face, that's how I got invited to the knitting group!

Experiences of Lesbian Erasure and Lesbian Invisibility by Skipdip in Lesbians

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It is becoming subtle, but the whole push back against preferences being bigoted and now racist is very dangerous to us lesbians. It is implying that sexual preferences are wrong and can and should be changed.

James Blunt Developed Scurvy After Adopting an All-Meat Diet To Assert His Masculinity by Questionable in NotTheOnion

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That's not a mistake, masculinity is defined entirely by arrogance.

How do you make new friends as an adult? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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All the things I did where I made friends is not possible thanks to the quarantines. I made friends by spending numerous hours in coffeeshops; going to local free music shows at a pub; going on "field trip" nature walks that I found led by others; I almost got into a knitting/crochet group as a result of a woman randomly talking to me in one of those coffeeshops (that happened right before everything got shut down). I'm strongly introverted and these were the things that worked for me; mileage may vary for somebody more outgoing.

Do bisexuals have it harder? by Skipdip in Lesbians

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I was interrupted the first time, and then raised my hand and was ignored. I also tried talking about this to the woman running this thing after, and was treated like I was being annoying. I would have fought harder to have a voice, but I that town's Pride was also a joke, nothing but a bunch of crappy businesses trying to sell their garbage and no celebration at all. Just marketing to take money from gay and trans folk. I don't live there anymore because the entire town this was in has all sorts of ridiculous social problems anyway (increasingly huge gentrification and active fighting against any attempts to put in affordable housing despite that low wage people are the actual people who keep the town going, being one).

Do bisexuals have it harder? by Skipdip in Lesbians

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I was one of very few lesbians at a large LGBTQAAA_&*#$&#@ Support Group and I got treated like I didn't belong there. I'm sure the transfolk felt I had it easier than them because I didn't have to deal with all of their issues, which they are right about, and the gay men there, who were a bit older, felt like they were the ones who started the entire LGBTQ+ everything. So many references to the 80s and what they had to deal with, despite that gays have had to deal with bullshit well before that. I'm glad I left, never really felt more excluded from anything in my life. They wouldn't even let me have a voice in that group.

How would you describe your clothing style? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Jeans and t-shirts, fleeces, sweaters and turtlenecks when it is colder.

TRIGGERED by EndlessSunflowers in funny

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BLM doesn't like "All Lives Matter" because it includes whites and BLM is an anti-white terrorist organization.

"Extra unemployment benefits disincentivize people from going back to work" by EndlessSunflowers in LateStageCapitalism

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How about nuking all of the good jobs that people already had disincentivizes people to go back to work? And I keep getting interviews with the most degenerate workplaces/managers because most of the businesses hiring now couldn't keep people even during the worst economic downtown in decades due to hostile work environments or horrendous managing, and I'm likely going to get stuck at one because sooner or later they will say yes to me and I can't say no thanks to how unemployment works. I'm sure other people also know this is the case and are hoping their states are still just ignoring the work requirements to stay on UI. They aren't looking to avoid a horrible workplace, horrible coworkers, and a horrible boss. Because that's what has been left to us all.

Women are just objectively more aesthetically pleasing than men by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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We also can't rule out the mere fact that it is acceptable for men to not take care of themselves in the U.S. They can be as slovenly as possible and it is generally accepted while as a woman if you don't wear makeup and starve yourself it's like you are doing a disservice to humanity. Of course the vast majority of them are then not going to look very good, they don't even bother, because they are told they don't and shouldn't have to. You ever see the rare male who does? It's obvious they are handsome in that case, even if you aren't sexually attracted to men.

He’dwig and the Angry Inch by southpaw in Lesbians

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I'm nearly 38, hated it 100% and would burn every copy that existed if I could.

How Quickly Would You Move In Together? by CJLez in Lesbians

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I'm so happy to see this comment, I posted about how I won't date until I have a job because I feel like it's unfair to the other woman and got my ass chewed that I'm making it all about bank accounts.

Why would a lesbian have male friends? by Lesbian-LurKING in Lesbians

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Needs more info on the specifics of these guys and whether you just don't like them because they are degenerates because they are XYs or whether they actually do rapey shit all the time. Your tl;dr post isn't very helpful because it's all about you you you and your pink-pilled views on men. I am pink-pilled on men too but you sound like you're pretty judgmental of your friend. If these guys really are this shit, and she keeps actually putting herself in harm's way because her boundary level is broken, that's going to take years to fix and she might need a therapist. Or you can find her good books on boundaries and radical feminism, because trying to push the average woman who was been socialized the way we are into suddenly not having any male friends is, honestly, pretty rude.

And maybe she just gets something out of the attention. Maybe it's not harmful at all even if it looks like it on the surface. She is going through a massive transformation in her life where she is coming to terms with being a lesbian. She really doesn't need a fellow lesbian friend side-eyeing her through the whole thing, these things can be painful, scary, and lonely at times. Those male friendships can be a source of comfort for her at times now, where in the future maybe she ends up pink-pilled and disinterested in centering men in her life anymore.

"interesting" thread about the femme/butch label debate I've found, what do y'all think? by hyunnahh in Lesbians

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I find it all tiresome and wonder why people can't just let lesbians live their lives without all of this.

if you could time travel, what time period would you travel to and why? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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I would travel back to when birds were just beginning to be visibly recognizable as the birds we have today, but not quite there yet. I want to see what they looked like just before.

Back to flirting? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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Oh well, when I've lost my job to save losers who are just going to go out on 7-10 day vacations to other states anyway, retail employees are posting online saying people like me who lost my job are assholes for getting unemployment and making more than they do like somehow that's my fault, and burger flippers claiming they are better than me because they are considered essential, I'm fucking done. I put my life on hold during the 2008 recession, I put it on hold when I had Lyme Disease, I put it on hold to be abused, I put it on hold for for loser straight people who hate gays, I put it on hold because I didn't want to date tranny-loving lesbians and waited for you all to come around and realize they were horrible people.

I'm done putting my life on hold when the vast majority of you have far looser values and morals than I do.

Back to flirting? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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You are in no position to date anyway, you have a huge burden in your life right now, and every person I ever met caring for their almost-dead parents has been a huge asshole because they can't handle the responsibility to begin with, and expects everybody who falls into their vortex of misery to chip in. So I would not date you anyway because you have no right to be anyway. You even begin in this thread talking about that makes me think you're not as responsible as you think you are, miss sour grapes.

Back to flirting? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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I was never a big flirt and I brutally hate the pandemic and would date lesbians now. As far as I'm concerned, everybody putting their life on hold in big ways right now is already dead on the inside. Not interested in them.

What work of art you find inspiring, funny or interesting? by Innisfree in Lesbians

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I love Catalina Estrada's artwork, even her website is a piece of art! http://www.catalinaestrada.com/ I have easily gotten bored with most of the art I see around me and then somebody gave me a planner designed by her. I do really like contemporary art but a lot of it is very basic or with rather drab colors. The vibrant colors and beautiful nature-based designs of her work cheer me up.

How do you feel about Comp Het? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I think a lot of it is straight woman cope with finding out your whole life has been a lie by the time you get into your 30s+ and that men are total shit who have zero interest in ever respecting women. I mean, imagine your entire world blowing up like that after 3-5 decades of handing over so much to 1 or 2 men. These women still want sex and a partner because they have always had both but are confused as to what to do now.

Some of what I've found in comp het crosses over into lesbians who were forced to deny to themselves that they definitely are lesbians by a hateful society but the rest of it is just cognitive distortions for heterosexual women.

Your stance on "trans" people? by BiHorror in therearetwogenders

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Claiming you're a feminist while still supporting men and the patriarchy and probably a handmaiden or a pickme is considered liberal feminism, even if you hate trannies.

Antifa BLM mob beating man unconscious after making him crash truck by BillionDollarEgg3 in politics

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There is video on the victim's facebook page where he and his girlfriend or wife are driving around the Portland riot zone, and they blame the cops for making it worse by shooting rubber bullets. And they are talking about how they got footage of the cops "kneeing" on a black protestor. People will spin this story any way that fits their own narrative, but this guy was pretty dumb and naive about people and how people act in zones already set up for rioting and violence.

You go looking for trouble and eventually you will find it. He made dumb choice after dumb choice and it shows up even in the video, but all most people see is a psychotic man of another race kicking a white man when he's down and make their decisions that this guy was 100% an unwilling victim instead of somebody who repeatedly put himself out there and then did a bunch of dumb shit, despite witnessing first-hand on multiple nights the complete shitshow.

Children's Health Defense Will Sue the University of California Over Mandatory Flu Vaccine Policy by Questionable in Coronavirus

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Good. Not everybody is medically allowed/able to even receive the relatively useless flu shot. I can't because a flu shot rather commonly causes small cases of psoriasis to become systemic and severe. This has actually disallowed me from ever working in a healthcare setting in my state. Good thing I wasn't interested in doing so, but people in my situation really should look into seeing if they can sue, because trying to force every last person to get a vaccine when they absolutely can and do harm people like me is insane. The retards forcing these things are actually ignoring scientific research in doing this while claiming they are doing it because of what the science says.

Has Sweden Beaten C0VlD? 1 Death for the Entire Month of August, No Lockdown, No Masks by kokolokoNightcrawler in Coronavirus

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Almost everyone socially distances.

This right here is probably why the U.S. cannot follow Sweden. I live in an rural area of the U.S. but as soon as I go into a convenience store or a small shop even the locals cannot seem to stay away from each other and me. Americans have a very poor understanding of basic personal space as it is, and now they think because they wear masks they don't HAVE to stay away from each other. Plus you have anti-maskers who think standing up the ass of somebody else is being rebellious, despite that it's simply disrespectful, virus or not.

Late Bloomers? by colormegood in Lesbians

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I totally center women at this point thanks to feminism too! It has led to peacefulness and some support during more trying times and I am grateful for it. Not that women have not also been my bullies, but there's a huge difference, I think women as a whole are far more negatively affected by society and they don't come from much of a place of privilege. I'm just pretty much done with the more mainstream straight garbage, once I thought hard about just how dumb it is to abuse somebody just for not falling in line with the heterosexual narrative, I got angry instead of feeling victimized. How dumb it is to treat people as gross and dirty and "other" just because they love the same sex!

Late Bloomers? by colormegood in Lesbians

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I had not dated a woman since high school, where I was brutally bullied for it, and grew up in a homophobic family, so wasted my 20s just barely dating men hoping to avoid getting anymore abuse from society. It wasn't until the past few years, my mid-30s, that I've decided everybody is sick and society is sick and horrible and they can all be as offended as they want just because I like women instead of subscribing to mainstream's ass-backwards wish for women to still be submissive to and live with men. I figured out I'm going to be treated like crap by other people regardless, because humans suck, so I might as well finally be me.

EDIT: I also figured out the vast majority of my problems are caused by MEN so becoming a feminist has also been a relief.

I had the worst day at work today, at least my boss was cool by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I wish all owners of all companies were like that one. People wonder why I have lived in my car on little money instead of working part-time retail until I have found something steady and not customer service-based. It's because I very well am at the point where I may destroy one of these dudes one day.

Youtube video on travel during the pandemic: Thermal testing for Covid-19 in luxury hotels? by ISaidWhatISaid in Coronavirus

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You forgot the one thing that makes everything relying on a fever completely fucking stupid: NUMEROUS illnesses and even some body issues that aren't an illness AT ALL can cause a fever/rise in body temperature. Getting a sunburn can give you a fever. Some women get a fever between ovulation and their period. I had a fever on and off with Lyme Disease, which was never CONTAGIOUS.

If people want to lose business by being this retarded, then fine. But the second somebody is accused of having Covid-19 when they've tested negative and they have some other health issue or a normal body doing normal body things, a shitshow should occur.

Have any of you ever given up hope on finding love? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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That's nice, but I don't want a housewife, either. To me it is unacceptable to sit home and mooch off of your partner. I have struggled with money throughout my life, and have had to work entirely to support myself, it would be disrespectful to me for somebody to expect to be able to not work and live in my household. To me that is extreme laziness. Why not just go back to living with parents or being on welfare?

I just cannot believe in this sub my desire to not date when I am unemployed was up for negative judgment at all. There's no debate to even be had there, that's my personal choice. Just like it's your choice to be used for your money by somebody who wants to sit home all day doing nothing.

Melbourne Gestapo Caught Choking Woman for the crime of not wearing a mask. by kokolokoNightcrawler in Coronavirus

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I didn't know white Australian men were cowardly faggots too!

What are your demographics? Race, ethnicity, nationality, etc. by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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'Murican who will be 38 in 23 days.

BREAKING: CHICKEN WINGS INFECTED WITH VIRUS!! by kokolokoNightcrawler in Coronavirus

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What now, are they attempting to start the famines?

Escaping Reddit's overly sensitive hive mind by PordanJeterson in Introductions

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I got my account suspend for a few days for making fun of people into astrology in the astrology sub.

Christian traditional housewife looking for tradwife communities. I came from Reddit to escape political correctness and feminism. by ApronedWife in Introductions

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GC feminist here, I wholly support women who want to be stay at home moms to be able to do so. Even more now with schools being insane over the pandemic, if I had kids I'd want to homeschool them at this point. The lifestyle is just not my thing and my thing is that it never should have been forced on all women.

Good news, everybody! Alabama approves castration for convicted pedophiles: by TiredJustTired in news

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These sickos still groom children which is harmful to those children as it leaves them wide open to becoming victims of abuse by other pedos, and in general.

What's the fucking point of nonbinary then?! by [deleted] in therearetwogenders

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I don't owe NBs me performing femininity just so they can feel non-conformist.

Is there any game that you can play forever and never get bored of? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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This is true. I'm not the biggest cribbage fan, but I played all day with a fellow field biologist because she was just hilarious.

What goal do you have in mind when you join or subscribe to a lesbian [lesbian: noun; biological female exclusively sexually attracted to other biological females] forum? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I took some time to think about this and I realize I may naturally be doing something in a way! In the past year I have strongly begun centering and focusing my life around women as much as I possibly can. Like making an actual effort, because it's so easy to naturally let men in since they are pushy and demand to be in the middle of everything. I've made sure to give women voices, take them seriously, listen to them, give them time, while really detaching from men and not giving much importance at all to their voices, their interests, what they want, etc. So not lesbians per se but I am opening up space for women around me to have power and to hear themselves and to speak up.