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Serious question, how do you feel about gay guys having trans boyfriends? by MarkLasley in LGBDropTheT

[–]theysaidthat 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't give a shit. Just don't expect the same from me.

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

[–]theysaidthat 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Then I guess we have different meanings for the words penis and vagina. A vagina isn't a disembodied silicone tube to make a man's dick feel good. It's a woman's sex organ. If a gay man's dick shrivels at the thought of putting his dick in a vagina but not the fleshlight, they aren't equivalent and it's obvious that the man in question doesn't like vaginas. He likes silicone tubes that make his dick feel good.

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

[–]theysaidthat 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not quite like that. The equivalent would be a gay man that uses a fleshlight. Would you say he likes vaginas?

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

[–]theysaidthat 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

[–]theysaidthat 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder if yours was the comment agreeing with mine in r/Arethestraights okay. I see the reply is removed now. Mine is somehow still there.

What are some positive experiences you've had with people of the opposite sex? by [deleted] in AskSaidIt

[–]theysaidthat 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My best friend is a man. He's had my back for 14 years. Also my favorite coworker is a guy. He is great at planning events and getting people to know each other, I think my life is richer for having known him.

When did you know you were a lesbian? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]theysaidthat 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I knew when I was 10. A new girl joined our 5th grade class and I became smitten with her basically the first moment I saw her. I had suspected I felt differently about girls before that, but this experience confirmed that I "liked girls like boys did". Of course I had no idea that women dating women was an option back then lol.

I remember telling my older sister about my crush, she said "no, you just really want to be her friend because she's pretty and popular, it's normal". I tried to tell her again when I was 14, after having had experience with guys and hating it. She told me I just hadn't found a guy I liked yet. I was "out" to my close friends and a few siblings as bi from that point forward. I vehemently denied not being straight to anyone else though, the older people in my family would not have tolerated it nor anyone at my Christian school. My sister begged me to find a guy I liked even just a little and be with him because it would make my life so much easier. This "bi" phase lasted until I was 21 and accepted I would never like men (and I really did try), and finally came out as a lesbian, damn what everyone thought. The funny thing is, the family members that would have been angry had already passed away at that point, and social acceptance had increased so much over that last decade that nobody in my family thought much of it after all.

What book changed your life? by southpaw in Lesbians

[–]theysaidthat 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your Money or Your Life by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin. I now have a path to financial independence and retirement vs. living paycheck to paycheck.

Any TV show/series recommendations with lesbian characters? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]theysaidthat 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lost Girl, a supernatural drama. First episode is kind of cheesy but it gets good. The main char is bi and one of the other main chars is a lesbian.

Did anyone else believe you were asexual for a considerable amount of time? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]theysaidthat 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear this happened to you. I'm glad you were able to find a space where you can speak comfortably about yourself with people whose experience may parallel your own.

Did anyone else believe you were asexual for a considerable amount of time? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]theysaidthat 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, I knew I liked women as far back as I can remember. I started developing crushes on the other girls when I was about 10. I kept waiting to develop crushes on the boys, never did. But I never felt asexual.

An offering of some of my favorite links used to argue facts with TRAs by CaliforniGinger in GenderCritical

[–]theysaidthat 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for all these resources.

So this may have been the last post ever made to gender critical. I posted this and the subreddit was deleted a few minutes later. But my question is, is there anywhere where it is illegal to be trans? Because I know there are plenty of places where it is illegal to be gay by 100_percent_truth in GenderCritical

[–]theysaidthat 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for the resources.

Welcome to the new Gender Critical! by radfemanon in GenderCritical

[–]theysaidthat 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Transwomen are human. Transwomen deserve respect and compassion. Transwomen deserve protection from male violence and predation. But transwomen aren't actually women. How is that a hateful belief to hold?

Reddit's removal of the sub has really got me down. It had grown so much recently! But now I feel like the entire world hates us. At least there's y'all.