Trans male who posts on AL complains that women have access to pharmaceuticals but he doesn’t.

soundsituation · 2020-12-15T22:19:42+00:00

can't expect empathy from narcissists

soundsituation · 2021-07-29T00:26:55+00:00

Very sad to see that his internalized racism has caused him to fall for the white supremacist construct of sexual dimorphism

soundsituation · 2021-08-03T06:15:41+00:00

People are attracted to people, not body parts

Body parts are parts of people. I don't know if it's more qt sophistry or just severe mental illness but so many TRAs seem to see human beings as chop shops rather than indivisible wholes. It's not and never has been just a "genital preference"; most people are attracted to ALL of the primary and secondary sex characteristics of a particular sex, none of which can be convincingly mimicked.

This guy is hilarious though. People like him are the reason Titania McGrath is so believable.

soundsituation · 2021-08-26T07:13:55+00:00

When you try to change the meaning of words, don't be surprised when people find new words.

soundsituation · 2021-03-11T21:23:16+00:00

You can't demand other people be attracted to you. That is a violation of their rights.

You also can’t demand that other people see you, or pretend to see you, the way you would like to be seen. The whole ideology is narcissistic to the core.

soundsituation · 2021-04-02T04:01:23+00:00

I get pretty tired of checking out anything lesbian related and immediately being bombarded with endless discussion of "pussy" and so on. It's like they're trying to make a cult of vaginas.

I get pretty tired of checking out anything politics related and immediately being bombarded with endless discussion of "news" and so on. It's like they're trying to make a cult of current events.

soundsituation · 2021-12-13T23:26:19+00:00

It's true. Go to the L Chat or s/Lesbians or the lesbian circle on Ovarit and you won't find any talk of dick repulsion, because you won't find any talk of dick at all. It's only when men force themselves into lesbian spaces that you see this kind of thing.

soundsituation · 2022-02-05T07:44:49+00:00

-Realize that in a culture of fear and censorship you don't actually know how isolated you are. I don't say this to dismiss the isolation you feel; I feel it sometimes too. But what is more likely? That everyone you know believes men can be women, or that people fear the repercussions of speaking out? Related to that, I don't know if you're following the Lia Thomas situation but it seems to be the straw that broke the camel's back regarding men in women's sports. And that's only because someone had the courage to protest, inspiring many others to do the same. Courage begets courage.

-Familiarize yourself with other forums that are critical of trans dogma. I love saidit, but if we lost it, even if only to infiltration, we'd need a new oasis of sanity. I really believe in cultivating decentralization for exactly this reason. Additionally, learn to recognize the common shill tactics that bad actors use to divide communities and drive users away from forums. (This is what I believe happened to s/Lesbians btw)

-Check out James Lindsay's New Discourses podcast (as well as the book he co-authored with the amazing Helen Pluckrose, Cynical Theories). He covers the history and philosophy that got us to where we are today, and for me, just having an understanding of that is comforting.

-Make friends with older people. Reach out to/reconnect with your favorite aunts/uncles/teachers if possible. If you need mental health counseling, seek out older therapists. They will help tether you to reality.

-Watch LGB movies/shows that ignore the trans. There's actually tons of it. Letterboxd is a good resource.

-At the risk of veering off topic, I'll close by saying that we are in a crisis that encompasses much more than the gender insanity. That's some shit luck for us but it also gives us the opportunity to act heroically in whatever ways we can. Every crisis produces heroes. Take pride in that.

soundsituation · 2021-07-13T22:20:31+00:00

I feel the same way re: bi women in lesbian spaces. As long as they're not TRAs and as long as the discussion stays focused on same sex attraction, I prefer to not exclude them.

soundsituation · 2022-02-10T05:01:52+00:00

Welcome to the land of sanity and tolerance:)

I really want them to go pull the same bullshit on straight people so that they get shut down fast.

This is why r/superstraight was cancelled; not (just) because it caused offense but because it very quickly fomented and revealed an opposition that was big enough to be a real threat.

soundsituation · 2021-11-15T02:05:37+00:00

Perhaps an unpopular opinion, but I really wish gay rights activists hadn't yoked themselves to the immutability argument. Whether we are born this way or not is an interesting scientific question but it ultimately doesn't serve us politically. The best, simplest argument for equal treatment regardless of sexual orientation is an appeal to (classical) liberalism: if it doesn't hurt anyone or infringe on others' rights, allow it, and if so, don't.

soundsituation · 2020-09-16T20:24:04+00:00

A couple other talking points I like to bring up in these conversations:

-Statistics demonstrate that unisex toilets and changing rooms have much higher levels of sexual assault

-Ask them if they lock their cars and their houses, then ask them why they do this, since nothing is stopping thieves from finding another way to break in

soundsituation · 2022-04-06T18:39:07+00:00

I am anti-war.

soundsituation · 2021-06-27T01:23:05+00:00

Do what better? Least helpful sign ever

soundsituation · 2021-09-28T03:06:40+00:00

Agreed. I think it's worth noting that gender ideology activism is in conflict with the UN's Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 18:

Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; this right includes freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom, either alone or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief in teaching, practice, worship and observance.

I can already hear them screeching, "but that doesn't mean freedom from consequences!", which is wild because that's exactly what it means.

soundsituation · 2021-09-24T21:10:17+00:00

What’s the maximum possible IQ of a person who wears a shirt that reads “gender is over” while holding a banner that reads “lesbians against T*RFs”?

soundsituation · 2021-07-02T20:18:44+00:00

Female incels really do exist

soundsituation · 2021-02-27T01:12:25+00:00

Really? I do. It's an erogenous zone after all. I think this is the first time I've ever told anyone though so your point still stands!

soundsituation · 2020-09-01T17:02:49+00:00

I'm somewhat surprised that the women of that age and generation are putting up with such an intrusion. I'm a longtime competitive runner and these stories infuriate me - and I hate to say it but I don't think the sports' governing bodies are going to intervene on our behalf. I think it's going to take some organized passive resistance to end this - something like every woman withdrawing from the competition and/or, as another poster mentioned, regrouping to holding their own. It's terrible that the onus has been placed on us in the first place, but women need to stop being so nice.

soundsituation · 2022-01-07T23:54:08+00:00

I've only dated one person since the trans inquisition began, and I found out early on that she was also gc. I know it varies by demographics such as location and age, but for what it's worth, almost every person I end up talking to about trans stuff agrees that it's all bullshit.

soundsituation · 2022-01-04T06:46:21+00:00

I found the pdf if anyone's interested.

I don't know where you got that 54% figure. Taking the cross-cultural average, only about 8% of women currently in relationships "poached" their partners. The percentage is pretty low for men too, around 11%.

soundsituation · 2021-11-26T06:42:07+00:00

For now at least. Probably won't be too long before they start demanding people end their relationships to date trans people.

I've wondered about this. Monogamy is distinctly un-queer, and the most exclusionary practice out there outside of celibacy.

soundsituation · 2021-07-28T06:35:11+00:00

I got the impression that OP wanted to either promote or incite a brigade/cancellation of the new app.

soundsituation · 2021-07-06T06:15:17+00:00

Forgive me, Twitter, for I have sinned.

soundsituation · 2022-03-28T19:51:53+00:00

Lysah 26 points
People also used to say shit about how we shouldn't entertain homosexuals and feed into their delusions and that if you just tell your kids being gay isn't normal they will grow up "right." Same exactly shit they say about trans people now.

Except that's actually true with "trans kids": 9 in 10 grow out of their gender dysphoria. Edit: and ironically it doesn't involve convincing them that they aren't normal, but rather the opposite, that they are fine just the way they are.

soundsituation · 2021-09-17T21:38:30+00:00

But there's curly kale, dino kale, baby kale, etc. Some tougher cuts of steak actually mimic the chewing experience of eating hearty greens, and obviously the same dressing used in a cis kale salad can be used to marinate steak. So while it's fine to have salad preferences it's worth examining the often misguided assumptions behind them.

soundsituation · 2021-09-01T06:53:51+00:00

So she cherry-picked four photos of men with furrowed brows and took that as evidence of forced masculinity, which is homophobic for some reason. Airtight!

Also, why does "Bryn" put "Bryn's" own name in scare quotes?

soundsituation · 2021-07-26T05:47:58+00:00

You mean the people who say women can have dicks and men can have vaginas have failed to preserve the original meaning of their favorite anti gender heretic slur?!

I'm a TERF, you're a TERF, everyone who acknowledges reality is a TERF. I wonder why that term seems to have had more sticking power than "transphobe". It's kind of interesting from a linguistic perspective.

soundsituation · 2021-06-10T20:58:32+00:00

I can't speak to twitter but I'm convinced that reddit is a grooming site. Spend any amount of time in the trans subs and it becomes readily apparent that they're populated--seemingly exclusively--by teenagers, for whom the pedo admins have created an environment censorious of any heresy against queer theory. The isolation resulting from lockdowns and school closures forced people online more, which means more time in echo chambers for reddit's trans userbase and helps explain the steep rise in insanity. Finally, contemporary trans activism is tailor-made for Narcissists, and reddit is a place where they can go and get showered in affirmations and enact/demand retribution against anyone who threatens their fragile self-worth.

I'd accept that if someone was making this statement to deny someones gender identity it could be offensive, but when made clearly as a statement of biological fact the controversy is unwarranted.

As for this, while I have seen some trans people on reddit insist that they literally are the opposite sex, most are hellbent on selling the fiction of "man" and "woman" as social constructs, distinct from male and female, which is why people can usually get away with referring to transwomen as male but will catch a ban for calling them men.

soundsituation · 2022-03-24T02:35:09+00:00

This reminds me of that scene in Breaking Bad when Walter tells Saul, “we’re done when I say we’re done”. Except a lot of LGBs never signed up to further the trans agenda in the first place.

soundsituation · 2021-06-13T03:40:17+00:00

Health workers will be asked...to show their willingness “to speak up and challenge intolerance”.

LOL

They are about one step away from corporate struggle sessions.

soundsituation · 2021-05-16T07:22:51+00:00

She's basically calling it a lifestyle choice in the second tweet. For a radical queer she sounds pretty conservative.

soundsituation · 2021-05-13T03:01:02+00:00

Radical feminism is mostly synonymous with material feminism, and as such I think it's a stretch to call it an ideology. Off the top of my head their only purely ideological/immaterial position is blank slate-ism, a position I have some sympathy for as a reaction to historical prescriptivism, even though I'm personally skeptical of it.

I don't think you're wrong about queer theory pushing lesbians towards radical feminism, but I don't think it's fair to call it swapping one ideology for another.

looks appealing on the surface but doesn't represent our interests

In what way(s) does radical feminism fail to represent lesbians' interests? Or did you mean LGB/gender critical interests as a whole?

soundsituation · 2020-09-20T22:51:39+00:00

"See me as I see myself" is a totally unreasonable demand

This ideology is frightening

soundsituation · 2020-09-09T20:36:27+00:00

Something just occurred to me: the entire trans ideology is predicated on the assumption that one's true identity is innately understood by oneself, and requires no objective/material proof. At the same time, they not only demand external validation of this identity, but many of them, like the OP of this AL thread, have a complete crisis of identity without this external validation. So which is it? Is the truth only knowable to oneself, or does truth require material proof and external consensus? It's such a bizarre and completely contradictory philosophy.

soundsituation · 2022-04-05T04:33:32+00:00

“Problematic” means you have a boundary that they want to tear down.

soundsituation · 2021-11-01T20:10:27+00:00

People with boobs are just constantly being cockblocked ugh

soundsituation · 2021-10-03T23:15:09+00:00

We've got a stickied thread on why we joined DropTheT, but never a thread on why we're leaving DropTheT.

Is that why you didn't actually tell us why you're leaving? I've enjoyed your contributions here but I don't understand why you've made this intentionally cryptic post.

I've accomplished what I set out to do.

What was that?

You and tail are two peas in a pod.

Who or what is tail?

where the institution loses its original purpose

Why do you believe this sub has lost its purpose?

Autogynephiles, I owe you a debt of gratitude. I would not be as socially, politically, and scientifically as well-developed as I am now, without you.

How so?

soundsituation · 2021-10-01T21:33:47+00:00

and even their face which you're going to see FAR more of during a relationship

They always do this. Faces are also male or female, as are all other body parts. They look and feel very different.

soundsituation · 2022-04-07T18:05:20+00:00

Lesbians are notorious for only dating the prettiest men.

soundsituation · 2022-03-20T05:08:50+00:00

With this degree of self-hatred she's probably not ready to date anyone, regardless of their orientation.

soundsituation · 2021-11-09T01:21:52+00:00

His comments in another thread make it seem like he's a self-hating bisexual, either that or yet another one of those teenage virgins who loves to pontificate about human sexuality despite never having seen another person naked irl.

soundsituation · 2021-08-25T05:24:41+00:00

Just one, an old friend from high school. A lesbian who was repeatedly molested by her male cousin when she was a kid. She actually transitioned way before the social contagion had really spread, pre-2010 iirc. I have no idea how she's doing now because she cut me and our mutual friends out of her life and all her social media is private, but as far as I know she's still living as a trans man.

soundsituation · 2021-08-17T21:03:03+00:00

Brilliant idea. If you're on reddit I think you should consider posting there as well (r/SocialJusticeInAction maybe).

soundsituation · 2021-08-06T07:12:47+00:00

You just need to visit any gay space to see that gay culture is built around dick devotion. You won't 'decontruct' this, not in any way in hell.

They are trying. They know they don't have any truly empathic or logical arguments so they have to revert to ad hominem attacks of bigotry, white supremacy, etc. It actually is a deconstruction (an attempt at such), not of reality, but of the public perception of certain words. I don't think they'll succeed here, because most people are monosexual, and because most people in general oppose coercive rapist rhetoric.

soundsituation · 2021-06-15T06:00:28+00:00

I don't think they want to ban it. I think they want to neuter it, by ousting the inactive mod and installing gender cult mods, à la actualtransbians. That's what thesilentchief always said his goal was, anyway, and it makes more sense in terms of optics. More members for us either way.

soundsituation · 2021-02-24T07:08:20+00:00

Last month a closer friend, who had recently come out as lesbian and had never dated a man before went on a tinder date with a guy out of nowhere, ended up going home with him and said it was the best sex she had ever had.

This sounds super fake, and not even just because of the lesbian part. What woman has the best sex of her life with a fucking tinder date? Zero emotional connection, no nuanced knowledge of one another's bodies or likes/dislikes, plus the fact that men in these scenarios tend to not give a fuck about their partner's pleasure. This sounds like bullshit.

soundsituation · 2022-01-18T20:18:45+00:00

Compelling people to use pronouns that don't reflect one's sex isn't setting a boundary, though. Boundaries by definition can only be defensive. The only way way something like this could be truly defensive, self-protective establishment of boundaries would be like if the trans-identified person decided that they wouldn't be friends with someone who didn't use their preferred pronouns. That's completely their prerogative. Compelled speech isn't.

Also, "don't touch me there" isn't analogous to "don't call me that". "Don't touch me there" doesn't necessitate that the person touches you elsewhere; they can just not touch you at all. But "don't call me that" does necessitate that people call you something else.

soundsituation · 2022-01-14T06:30:08+00:00

So fucking cool

soundsituation · 2021-09-23T00:25:57+00:00

LOL I see that you were called a "Rowling-level T*RF" in one of those threads.

soundsituation · 2021-06-30T22:58:06+00:00

It's either that, or they admit that gender identity is an undefinable and unfalsifiable concept, which I'd be pretty okay with if they weren't still adamant about using that meaningless concept to redefine the categories of man and woman.

soundsituation · 2021-04-23T20:28:20+00:00

Fuck I missed this place! So glad to be back among the sane.

soundsituation · 2020-09-28T06:02:45+00:00

The flu is honestly so hateful. First, it killed millions of people. Now this?!

soundsituation · 2022-02-09T07:21:42+00:00

If you're reading this from the beyond, you were a great admin and I'm sorry to see you go. And I hope you come back. There were a few months last year when saidit's future was more uncertain than not and we all have you to thank for righting the ship.

soundsituation · 2022-01-14T19:46:27+00:00

Perhaps a very butch woman!

soundsituation · 2022-01-01T21:43:13+00:00

This isn't directed at you, OP, because it looks like you're just passing along an image that's been in circulation for a little while now, but I really wish people would archive instead of screenshot these things so that we can verify for ourselves whether these are real tweets. That HIV comment is unreal.

soundsituation · 2021-10-14T01:29:37+00:00

Yep, Trantifa is both more violent and more sexually entitled than the fundamentalists ever were.

soundsituation · 2021-08-13T06:39:09+00:00

If we're talking about someone who has really thought through all of this and is still pro-QT, no. I wouldn't respect her, so that's a non-starter. It's not just the magical thinking because I have dated religious women with no problem; it's the failure/unwillingness to see the incredible damage of things like self-ID, child transing and the chilling totalitarianism of the whole movement.

Any strategies for finding the sane pockets of LGB when navigating dating here in the post-homosexual era?

Nobody likes my dating strategy because it entails long stretches of singledom, but I like to get to know people organically (during which time you can assess their views on all kinds of things) before considering them romantically.

soundsituation · 2021-07-29T08:00:09+00:00

They're not doing it to fight gender norms, but whatever. If they want to throw Fox News a cultural Marxism softball by wearing these ghastly utilitarian standard-issue Eastern Bloc skirts, more power to them.

soundsituation · 2021-02-09T22:48:20+00:00

I agree with this, as a matter of both principle and practicality. No one owes anyone else any justification for sexual disinterest. Furthermore, I've found that assertive simplicity is also way more effective in getting men to leave you the f alone. When I was going out to bars, what worked for me was just saying, "no thank you", politely and with a smile. I think the kindness helped preclude any potential aggressiveness on their part, but it also fits my personality, so it was a good strategy for me.

I've noticed that a lot of very young women (my younger self included) feel like they have to debate these guys, when really your body and your desires should never be up for debate in the first place.

soundsituation · 2022-05-15T21:52:10+00:00

What's with queer people and entitlement? Why do they always go hand on a hand?

To put it in very simple terms, the current thinking of the far left is that all inequalities are socially constructed. If you are aggrieved and oppressed (but only according to the official rubric of intersectional oppression), it's never a you problem, and always a society problem. There's also the fact that most social media sites reinforce this entitlement, enabling the worst people to make insane demands.

soundsituation · 2022-04-06T20:08:48+00:00

The wording of this question appears to presume that the current association between LGB and T is benefitting people with genuine gender dysphoria, and I very much disagree with that. But as to the question of how best to help them I think you have to investigate the underlying cause and proceed from there. I suspect that serious cases of gender dysphoria are a form of body dysmorphic disorder, but I don't know that for sure and I'm not sure if anyone does since the current model of "affirmative care" discourages actual research into the phenomenon.

soundsituation · 2021-09-23T00:42:22+00:00

I still don't understand how non-binary is lesbian

They're now defining lesbian as "non-man attracted to other non-men".

soundsituation · 2021-09-10T21:09:32+00:00

This is hard to believe when you have low self-esteem, but the fact that she hooked up with a guy 40 years her senior only says things about her, not you. It's not like this old guy is universally preferable to you; it was one choice made by one person and says absolutely nothing about your desirability or worth.

She apparently has never had sex with a girl other than in a 3some that involved a man.

Did you know this before you asked her out?

I think therapy will help you with boundaries and with developing a less distorted self-image. As for surviving the pain: I think we never feel more emotionally connected to ourselves than when we're going through shit. Journal, read poetry, watch tragic love stories, listen to Boys for Pele...it might sound like twisting the knife a little bit but it's what works for me. Heartbreak feels horrible but it also makes you feel really alive.

soundsituation · 2021-06-11T03:04:29+00:00

Fair point, to which I have two responses:

-If someone brings up sex apropos of nothing or even within a philosophical discussion, your point stands. But if we're talking about self-ID laws then I don't think it does, since women's-only spaces/sports weren't segregated on the basis on gender identity/femininity in the first place. They can't say that's invalidating without abandoning their claim that sex ≠ gender.

-More importantly, why should others be obligated to affirm their worldview? I don't owe queer theory my faith any more than I do Christianity or Islam. I can see why they're upset by this, but no one owes them assent. I don't believe what they believe and I don't have to. It's really quite totalitarian to demand otherwise.

(I don't mean to be combative, by the way. I really appreciate your comment because I agree that we need to address their best arguments.)

soundsituation · 2021-05-25T04:54:48+00:00

There are people who don’t bleed?

soundsituation · 2020-09-05T06:16:46+00:00

Well if no one else is gonna say it: long fingers

soundsituation · 2020-08-30T23:52:51+00:00

such shocking discovery, lesbians not liking penis !

I love it when they say we're invalidating trans people and their opposite sex partners by pointing this out. First of all, not really: we're not invalidating them as people or implying they don't deserve basic respect, just saying they aren't homosexual; there's nothing wrong with being bi. And secondly, who gives a shit? Imagine how exhausting it must be to make your mental health contingent upon external validation.

soundsituation · 2022-02-03T22:42:58+00:00

You need to examine why you don't like phalluses until you realize that you actually do.

soundsituation · 2021-08-03T06:45:54+00:00

In a word: "validation". Namely, of the AGP's fantasy that he's a woman.

I actually think the AGP is secondary to the untreated NPD. Everyone has fantasies, plenty of which fall outside the norm. But making your sense of self contingent upon others' reinforcement of your self-image is textbook narcissism.

soundsituation · 2021-05-13T11:49:08+00:00

It sounds like you're trying to do identity politics in a new way, casting gc hetero women as the oppressors and lesbians as the oppressed. Lesbians make up a small percentage of women, so I wouldn't expect a feminist movement to center their interests. Nor do I see how radical feminism is at all at odds with lesbianism (and no, your ridiculous and antiquated assertions of political lesbianism don't count).

soundsituation · 2020-09-17T20:48:34+00:00

This logic can be taken to ever more ridiculous conclusions. Why limit your attraction to humans? I imagine you love more than bipedalism and opposable thumbs, so why reduce your dating pool to these trivial features?

That's not how any of this works and they know that.

I agree. They know it's a barrier to entry and not the sum total of attraction, but they'd rather play dumb and hope it gaslights a few victims in the process.

soundsituation · 2020-09-06T19:29:03+00:00

r/periods might be interested

soundsituation · 2022-07-12T03:57:25+00:00

The sign is too close to the signifier with homosexual; the reality-based definition is baked into the word itself and we can't have that because it correctly implies that homos aren't interested in banging trans people of the opposite sex.

soundsituation · 2022-02-01T02:32:12+00:00

They can still play sports, just not with women.

soundsituation · 2021-11-18T06:32:12+00:00

Did you ever see the old Abercrombie & Fitch catalogues, the ones where the models were all naked and not actually modeling the clothes?

soundsituation · 2021-11-06T06:03:18+00:00

In part this is the fallout from intersectionality. When people are demonized for belonging to immutable categories, it's understandable that they would want to distance themselves from those categories. It's not the most courageous response but I do understand it. And in part it is narcissism, especially with the more vocal virtue signalers.

soundsituation · 2021-09-12T20:27:04+00:00

It seems to be that young people have been trained to believe that they are responsible for everyone else's feelings

Codependency en masse

soundsituation · 2021-07-28T22:40:05+00:00

I spent a good 20 seconds scrutinizing the photo before reading the tweet and thought, damn, I have to admit that this trans woman passes really well.

soundsituation · 2021-04-10T07:01:40+00:00

Hate to be cynical but yeah it was a foregone conclusion. Was there something specific that precipitated the ban?

soundsituation · 2021-03-30T06:29:22+00:00

Really interesting question. I don't know anything about Satanism outside of what you've just posted here, but I can tell you that postmodernism (of which Queer Theory is a modern offshoot) was originally about endless deconstruction and disruption. And I do mean endless: it critiqued everything, which is impractical for activism since activism has to have goals. Based on what you've described it sounds like Satanism has more in common with OG postmodernism, where shaking things up is a goal unto itself and there are no political or even societal aspirations.

Queer Theory is far more moralistic and ambitious. It pursues a specific agenda.

soundsituation · 2021-03-08T05:38:12+00:00

Makes sense

soundsituation · 2021-03-01T08:25:45+00:00

Money is a natural phenomenon and wasn't always controlled by governments, and while it is symbolic, its success or failure isn't exactly determined by majority belief. It's more like, majority trust in a medium of exchange results from that medium possessing a non-arbitrary set of qualities (qualities which have been consistent across time and all manner of civilizations).

End tangent/

soundsituation · 2021-02-12T22:30:21+00:00

BYE!

soundsituation · 2022-04-13T20:41:59+00:00

The far right wants centralized authoritarian leadership. They're also pro-welfare and against any protections for gay people. RedEyedWarrior sounds like a conservative-leaning libertarian to me, but definitely not far right.

soundsituation · 2022-02-19T07:24:43+00:00

I thought it was sweet. The characters have palpable tension and chemistry; I loved their love. LGBs are finally getting feel-good B movies and this is one of them.

soundsituation · 2022-02-07T06:37:21+00:00

I agree, there is no such thing as a "cis penis".

soundsituation · 2022-02-01T06:25:55+00:00

It says if you're only attracted to unavailable or fictional men then you're a lesbian.

Yeah that's an attachment issue thing (or just a youth thing for some), not a homosexual thing.

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