I can't anymore. These people are seriously CONDONING RAPE!!!!

pacmanla · 2021-02-07T03:52:52+00:00

As a male, I think it's insane & completely unfair to blame women, for insecure men not accepting their own sexuality. These men who are knowingly having "relations" with transwomen (males) are either gay or bisexual males. Nothing wrong with that, but they're not heterosexual (which they like to tell themselves). It's not women's fault, that these men who are ashamed of their true sexualities, are harming or worse, murdering transwomen. Blame the men, & let them know that they need to come to terms with themselves. Also, transwomen unfortunately have a high propensity to work in the sex trade. This calls for them to meet men, who have fetishes around the idea of male genitalia attached to a "woman". "Sis" porn (I think it's called that) reflect this. These are simply men attracted to male genitalia, but like the men to appear as "women" to deny their homosexuality/bisexuality & lie to themselves that they're "straight".

pacmanla · 2020-10-28T16:46:43+00:00

It's good you "woke" up in the time that you did. Yes, pun was intended, sorry. The thing with TRAs calling people "TERFS", has essentially lost meaning at this point.

Gay male - doesn't want vagina & wants a biological male = "TERF"

Heterosexual male - doesn't want penis & wants a biological female = "TERF"

Heterosexual female - doesn't want vagina & wants a biological male = "TERF"

Bisexual male - doesn't want vagina attached to a biological male, doesn't want penis attached to a biological female. When he's with a woman, he wants a biological woman. When he's with a man, he wants a biological male. = "TERF"

Bisexual female - doesn't want vagina attached to a biological male, doesn't want penis attached to a biological female. When she's with a woman, she wants a biological woman. When she's with a man, she wants a biological male.

Last but CERTAINLY not least

Lesbians (seems to be the most targeted of the TRAs & we know why that is) - doesn't want penis & wants to be with a biological female. = "TERF"

Notice how the word biological kept showing up in my rundown of just basic sexual orientations. Heck, the TRAs don't even like that term, which is just another term for reality. TERF basically is a commendation badge now, because you're not ashamed of your sexual orientation & won't be "converted" otherwise. 2020 is insane, when you have heterosexuals having to damn near come out & say that they're not ashamed of their heterosexuality. Can you really believe that? Wow, crazy times.

I'm glad you found this sub & others can help you cope with being in the 'Twilight Zone', & the knowing that you're not alone.

pacmanla · 2020-10-31T13:50:07+00:00

So, gay men can't say they like penis? Lol, these people really need professional help, & that's not even a joke. Again, as a heterosexual male, I recently found out months ago how TRAs were coming after lesbians & gay men.

I mean, this is just conversion therapy. They've been trans individuals that attempted to come after straight people, but not to the extent like the shaming & bullying of the LGB. I really believe that once they try to successfully "convert" the LGB, they're biggest "challenge", as they see it, will be heterosexuals. Once that happens, it will start a war. I'm not even being hyperbolic when I state this.

The higher ups know this, which is why their censoring mainstream platforms & going after young kids. Most heterosexuals are still in the dark or believe that since it's within the LGB community, they're okay. Once it really gets out, what they're attempting to do, I really believe more people will peak.

pacmanla · 2020-10-23T15:19:31+00:00

As a heterosexual male who supports the LGB, but not the TQ, I really believe the general public don't differentiate the two unfortunately. TRAs are forcing men & women who are their biological sex to refer to themselves as "cis". Denying that biological sex is real. Forcing people to denounce their SEXUAL orientation for inclusion of people who are "identifying" as a sex, they're biologically not. When you refuse, you have genital "bias" & you're genital "discriminating".

Let that sink in. People are being called "transphobic", "terfs", "bigots" for being their SEXUAL orientation. The TRAs has seriously damaged the LGB, because people just assume that the LGB are in lock step support of all these pronoun changes, etc. I know this isn't the case & hopefully others will too.

pacmanla · 2021-11-03T22:43:34+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I stand with Gold Star Lesbians.

pacmanla · 2021-09-17T17:50:55+00:00

This is rape, I don't care what anyone say otherwise. This is also why "hookup" culture is pretty much dead, imo. You need to make sure that the person is the sex they actually are & not some "presentation" of said sex.

The picture of the O.P. or the person giving the answer is definitely a male & isn't fooling anyone. This is essentially trans "rights" in a nutshell.

pacmanla · 2020-10-31T22:05:19+00:00

Thank you, so much for this. This sexual "preference" nonsense has infiltrated the video game 'The Sims'. I may be late to that, as I go through spells where I just don't play the game. It's not only homophobic, but undermines the damn LGB community as well. They're basically saying, that gay men & lesbians prefer the same-sex, but could be "open" to something else. Making it seem as if same-sex attraction is a choice. Also, opposite sex attraction, is a choice, according to these deceitful conmen.

I said it in a previous thread, but they're bidding their time to try to push this not just on the LGB, but heterosexual society as well. They're coming up with a strategy, but right now, they know that heterosexuals - especially men really aren't hearing any of this nonsense. But, there are those who test the waters, just to check the temperature. I really believe once heterosexuals find out what TRAs are doing to gay men & lesbians & understand that they're next. This will bring support from heterosexuals to LGB (imho) & too many people will revolt against this delusional nonsense. Yes, it's a "movement" by individuals who really need professional help for their dysphoria.

pacmanla · 2020-10-20T13:16:43+00:00

Yes, this. They're basically doing this to every biological man & woman who's not into someone just "identifying" as a SEX, so they can gain sexual access to people who's not interested in them.

pacmanla · 2020-10-10T21:19:16+00:00

This is ridiculous. As a heterosexual male I had no idea, until recently, that transwomen were bullying lesbians into being interested in them. With heterosexual men, transwomen don't go that far, it's really just "shaming", but most men just laugh or on the extreme, get angry. You don't see transmen attempting to bully gay men to be in their spaces, & we know why. Again, just more "shaming" transmen attempt to do to gay men.

Not to be insensitive, but isn't it SEXUAL orientation. Meaning heteroSEXUAL, homoSEXUAL, biSEXUAL. Isn't this also referring to sex organs, as in male & female genitalia? Just asking, if I'm wrong about anything, I apologize.

Sorry that lesbians have to deal with this & the LGB portion as a whole. I tell other heteros about this & they honestly don't know that trans are doing this to their own "community". They are shocked & I let them know that there are those of the LGB not down with the trans movement & this genital "bias" crap. I tend to not steer them here, because I don't think it's my place to steer others, who may invade a LGB space that's decreasing due to this situation. I'm also weary about posting here at times, seeing that I'm heterosexual, but I do support you all.

pacmanla · 2021-12-31T06:18:51+00:00

Are these people serious? I mean....really? I don't even know what to say. I've never seen a "movement" where it's "civil rights" issue, is that of having others being sexually available to them.

pacmanla · 2021-10-15T23:21:49+00:00

Huh??? I think the "cis" dude would have the same reaction, & tell you he's not gay as well. 🤣🤣🤣 As a heterosexual "cis" male, you can't blame "cis" women for the reality of sex. I can also tell you that those "cis" women's "toxic" reactions, might have saved you from a more severe "toxic" reaction, from males not living in your delusional fantasy land.

pacmanla · 2021-09-01T19:51:28+00:00

A good portion, probably a majority of "cis" lesbians would date trans lesbians.

I smell gas

pacmanla · 2021-12-22T23:54:38+00:00

Imagine telling someone they "got to", when it comes to who they're going to be sexual with. Transwomen (males) "got to" recognize they're males & lesbians aren't within their sexual orientation. But, we know these men don't care, otherwise when it comes to who someone have sex with; "got to" wouldn't be in their vocabulary.

Please tell heterosexual men they "got to" understand that some heterosexual women come with dicks. I mean EVERYONE "got to" understand that right? 🤷

pacmanla · 2021-08-28T12:03:54+00:00

There's no such thing as "discrimination" when it comes to sexual/dating relations. That's not a civil rights issue. If trans individuals are being withheld employment, housing, & basic necessities to live a quality life, that's discrimination. Not someone not wanting to be sexual or romantic with you. Trans individuals are going to have to accept the fact that the VAST MAJORITY of society's sexuality/orientation is based on the material reality of sex & not gender identity. Get over it, because it's not changing & you will never get rid of biological sex along with sexual orientation.

pacmanla · 2021-01-08T05:30:49+00:00

I.....have no words for the foolishness I just read. It's very scary that laws are being put into place for these individuals.

pacmanla · 2020-11-17T15:56:35+00:00

I'm a heterosexual male, & I definitely support the LGB against homophobia coming from the T. Trust me, most heterosexuals don't know how bad it's gotten with TRAs attempting to shame lesbians & gay men into being romantic/intimate with them. You might have those who know, but stay out, because they feel like it's not affecting them personally.

But, if you believe TRAs aren't going to try to come after heterosexuals you're delusional. They will, but if they attempt it right now, too many people will peak & they know this, so they're bidding their time. But, it's coming. Sexual ORIENTATION should be respected, & no, it's not a "preference".

pacmanla · 2020-09-22T20:05:58+00:00

Thank you for the warm welcome. Human beings are biologically wired to be sexually attracted to other human beings, and when we see something uncanny, like a person who has been treated with cross-sex hormones or had top or bottom surgery or other kind of surgery to look more like the opposite sex, unless that procedure was extremely good and convincing and natural looking, it is likely that our bodies will produce a "red flag" feeling and we will not be able to be attracted to this person. - end quote. This statement by you is so true & profound. It's comical & sad that these individuals are upset at word biological & it's almost to the point where that word is deemed "transphobic" to them.

pacmanla · 2021-09-29T17:03:54+00:00

Stop excluding us from ur sexualities

Yeah, that goes against the purpose of sexuality/sexual orientation. Lesbians are homosexual (same-sex attracted) females attracted to other females. You know, based on SEX. So, of course they're going to "exclude" males, regardless of said male's "identity". Vice versa for other sexualities dealing with SEX, & not "identity".

pacmanla · 2021-08-26T14:03:55+00:00

Nail hit on the head with this. Which is why SuperStraight & SuperGay took off.

pacmanla · 2021-01-27T08:47:30+00:00

Vice versa with transwomen (males) as well. I also don't understand the encouragement of the delusion game. When these individuals get into the real world where people are dating & having sexual relationships based on sex/biology & not "identity", then what. All this pontificating, trying to shame, bully, or just whine, won't change nature. People are just not into modified bodies of individuals who are portraying a sex they're not. Also, one theory of mine is that the human brain on a subconscious level, don't like deception. No matter how much these individuals "pass", the brain knows it's a deception. I honestly believe, people really hate this & it's very weird to see someone born male or female go out of their way to resemble a sex they're not.

pacmanla · 2020-09-22T20:12:35+00:00

Thanks for the response. They're undermining the LGB community with this "genital preference" & "genital discrimination" nonsense talk. It's silly & attempting to pressure people who don't want to be called names, into uncomfortable situations. It also enforces the belief that being gay or lesbian is a choice, & they're really in the "wrong" body. Again they're hurting the LGB portion of the community.

pacmanla · 2021-12-11T13:44:40+00:00

It's a deceptive jedi mind trick they try to enact on others. The word "trans" means to transition to something else. But, you can't transition into another sex, & you're still a female. So, you're not going to be in a gay man's sexual orientation. These people, continuously play dumb, or just don't care.

pacmanla · 2021-08-30T23:32:54+00:00

I wonder why she did not mention heterosexual people.

A poster here gave a great analysis of why the trans crowd won't dare speak this nonsense to heterosexuals. I'm paraphrasing, but it essentially comes down to just basic bullying an already marginalized group belonging to a sexual orientation. They know that heterosexuals are the majority & don't care about being "right" about inclusion in their sex/dating lives.

Lesbians & gay men are "suppose" to be inclusive to marginalized groups (trans nonsense) & include them.

pacmanla · 2021-07-22T22:22:52+00:00

As gay men, I think we have it a bit easier than lesbians do right now as far as the TQ+ goes. Gay men might have some women fetishizing them and shaming them for not sleeping with said women that pretend to be men, but it doesn't seem quite as threatening to me as the stuff that trans women are pulling with lesbians.

I agree with this. As a heterosexual male who discovered the unfortunate bullying of these mentally disturbed males on lesbians, I was horrified. I've always sided with the LGB when it came to same sex marriage & acceptance of two men/women being together. The "T" are basically trying to (with big money behind them) demolish language as we know it & attempt to destroy biology as a means for NO ONE to have personal boundaries. Lesbians have been outright bullied & shame into accepting idiotic, delusional, & nonsense catchphrases as "girl cock" or "lady dick". I started VEHEMENTLY siding with lesbians & telling anyone who would listen, what the "T" was attempting. Gay men, straight men & women are definitely not exempt fom these crazies, but they have a special hatred for biological women (because they know the can never be one).

pacmanla · 2021-04-23T19:16:57+00:00

Yes, people need this space of sanity.

pacmanla · 2020-11-03T02:21:18+00:00

Some dating/hook up sites already do. Trans people just simply avoid listing they're trans. I definitely agree, & honestly, if there's pushback, it's going to come from the trans people themselves. Which is silly, imho, because why would you waste time on people who aren't interested in you.

pacmanla · 2020-10-27T02:19:45+00:00

People who like to con & deceive others, don't want clear set definitions on anything. Because once clear cut definitions are in place, you can't con people anymore. These individuals don't want to distinguish between biological men & women, because that way, those of us with boundaries within our sexual orientation can't rule TRAs out.

Trans "rights" has basically boiled down to the "right" to go out to lesbian, gay, heterosexual spaces, & not have to disclose your biological birth sex, because damnit - screw your boundaries - I deserve casual sex as well.

I saw this coming five years ago, when the website VOX posted a story about transwomen attempting to date on Valentine's day. After reading that article, I was sick. It was a bunch of biological men trying to intellectualize & shame people for their sexual orientation. I couldn't believe they were actually attempting to make this a civil rights issue. That's basically all it is at this point.

pacmanla · 2020-11-06T16:45:18+00:00

Honestly, I've seen more women on the "Transwomen are women" train. Men, particularly those who are heterosexual, know that claiming transwomen as "women" leads to eventually being intimate with them. That's not happening. Though, to be fair, you have some male celebrities such as Daniel Radcliffe, spouting the "Transwomen are women" nonsense, but I just chalk that up with him being in "Hollyweird" where that's expected. But, yes, as you stated people who spout that nonsense are not interested in sexual or romantic relationships with TRAs.

pacmanla · 2021-12-02T13:28:58+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I REALLY wish they would say this idiotic, rapey nonsense to heterosexual men. Basically, having a sexual orientation leads to violence against trans? "Get over your sexual boundaries & sleep with trans to show support". How any sane person supports this nonsense ideology is beyond me.

pacmanla · 2021-08-18T23:58:58+00:00

You think I'm just some gay guy in costume

So a biological born male who's attracted to other biological born males hates himself so he doesn't want to be seen as gay? I've seen a number of gay men deny their homosexuality & announce that they're not a gay man anymore, but a "straight woman". It's sad to see these men hate themselves for their same sex attraction, so they go into delusional mode & say things of this matter.

pacmanla · 2021-03-10T05:11:15+00:00

All they can do is whine, cry, get subs banned & in the real world, natal born males & females are going to continue to date, marry, & have sex, based on SEXUAL orientation. Nothing they or Reddit can do about that.

pacmanla · 2021-02-26T19:58:31+00:00

As a heterosexual male, these guys aren't heterosexual. Again, these men are in denial about their sexuality & see transwomen as a way to say that they're "straight".

pacmanla · 2021-10-12T19:02:59+00:00

This is not going to end well for the 'T'.

pacmanla · 2021-10-12T14:34:41+00:00

Being gay is Liking men, not dicks

Yeah.....I don't want to be here anymore.

pacmanla · 2021-03-19T09:58:28+00:00

They are BIOLOGCAL MALES!!! This is ridiculous & the term biologcal is now deemed "transphobic". I'm sure the word reality will be deemed "transphobic" next. This is sickening that we're catering to male delusions & not caring about actual females' human biological rights. They will always be biologcal males & that's not "transphobic" to state they are natal biological males who produce sperm. This is sad that stating facts is called transphobic, & let's me know that this is sinister plan in play.

pacmanla · 2021-03-11T21:00:36+00:00

How did we get to this point? My sexual orientation is based on natal biologcal sex. If that makes me transphobic, so be it. You can't change biological sexual attraction, that's been around since the dawn of time. How can anyone get behind a movement, that's nothing more than coercive rape tactics at this point, along with delusion & idiotic talking points. Lesbians' sexual orientation excludes men. Gay men's sexual orientation excludes women. Heterosexual women exclude women, etc. All sexualities exclude others that's not within it. This is stupid, rapey, nonsense chatter. Sexuality isn't based on someone identifying as a sex, they're biologically not. This infuriates me so much, that these people don't respect boundaries. But, spouting transphobic isn't going to change people's inate sexuality.

pacmanla · 2021-02-04T12:49:56+00:00

As a heterosexual male, this is an interesting theory to me, & an insight as to why there's no "smoke" or heavy intent, to come after heterosexual males as other groups. The thing with TRAs attacking biological females as they are, do they honestly believe that heterosexual males with significant others are going to sit back & let biological males "replace" females, lol. VAST MAJORITY of heterosexual males are not buying these males as women & a tipping point will be reach where you have delusional males attempting to "replace" females in part "replacing" these heterosexual men significant others, lol. Do they honestly believe a large group of men who don't buy them as women anyway, will sit back & let that happen? They will sooner or later HAVE to face straight men, there's no avoiding that.

pacmanla · 2021-01-07T05:40:55+00:00

I agree, & the sad truth is that these individuals will become more confused & depressed once they realize that altering their bodies (genitals in extreme cases) won't change the fact that biological males & females still won't consider them as sexual or romantic options. Those who have dysphoria & don't care about that & just want to live their lives in a way that they can cope, I sincerely wish them the best & they deserve to live their lives. But, those who think that surgeries & hormones put them into others sexual orientations' dating options, quite frankly, it doesn't. Better to just learn to love who you are, than to change to become something that you can't.

pacmanla · 2021-12-05T07:40:11+00:00

As a heterosexual male, I definitely find it horrendous that you have straight men shaming & trying to guilt lesbians into sleeping with them. I feel the same with women during the same to gay men. As far as the attempt into shaming & guilting straight people into being into "identities" & not sex, yeah, that ain't happening & they know it. Doesn't matter how much trans billionaires pour into this nonsense, it's not happening. The heterosexual men & women harassing the LGB community, is weird & strange to me as well. I sorta get the straight dudes larping as lesbians (classic predator behavior of getting off on making women uncomfortable), but the women shaming gay men into wanting vagina, I sorta don't get. Women don't have any problems getting a man & there are plenty of men more than willing to "take the vagina". So why force it on the group of men who's not interested & can't be? Narcissism? I honestly don't know.

pacmanla · 2021-11-22T01:50:46+00:00

Exactly. I get sick & tired of hearing the "what about post-op" argument/talking point/nonsense. They're still males & it's STILL not a vagina.

pacmanla · 2021-10-14T01:52:57+00:00

Great & refreshing to see the comments in that thread. It gives me hope, & peace of mind that there are sane people based in reality out there.

pacmanla · 2021-09-02T19:50:57+00:00

The stories they tell themselves to cope with reality.

pacmanla · 2021-03-20T07:38:40+00:00

In the story it mentioned how black Democrats tend to be on the more conservative side, than their white liberal counterparts. Gave a fine, sound, reasonable, logical explanation as to why children shouldn't be able to consent to these life altering surgeries & that it's not about hate. Hopefully people all over see this, & come together regardless of political affiliations & do what's best for these young children, who are being used to propagate agendas, that have severe life lasting irreversible damaging effects on their bodies.

pacmanla · 2021-03-10T14:25:45+00:00

Yeah, it's ending for them. Before the super sub was banned, just by going through the comments, they knew they picked the wrong fight this time. You had trans playing dumb, some trying to explain terribly, & others out right apologizing for other trans individuals. Yeah, this will not end well for them & they know it. Unfortunately, the after effect will have negative effects on the LGB & other trans individuals who were not trying to get dates or sex, but honestly just trying to live their lives. But, this new group of TRAs will lose very badly because the peaking & pushback is so strong. Just hope the after effect isn't too bad.

pacmanla · 2021-01-07T05:31:52+00:00

He's a biologically born male sexually attracted to other biologically born males. Yeah, he's a gay man & his denying it doesn't change that.

pacmanla · 2020-10-30T06:39:45+00:00

This is what confuses me about TRAs. I've heard from multiple sources, that trans have an issue with people who are known to date them. Like I've heard transwomen lose attraction to someone if they were previously with another trans person.

I understand concern for people who you believe see you as a fetish. But, it seems it's damned if you do damned if you don't. If you find them attractive & pursue them, you're a "chaser". If you don't & don't want to be sexual or romantic with them, you're a "terf", "transphobe", "bigot". It seems that deep down, they know they're pretending to be a sex that they're not.

pacmanla · 2021-03-16T08:50:18+00:00

Black women & black people in general, are not buying into the trans nonsense.

pacmanla · 2020-10-31T21:08:49+00:00

TRAs have an advantage online. Also, the first mistake that lady made was being on that thread. IRL, TRAs would get laughed out of the room talking about genital "preference" & genital "discrimination". Also, irl, no one would care about being called "transphobe", "terf", when it comes to who they're sexually attracted to. Maybe some young people, but those that's 25 & over, you pretty much know your sexual orientation. Really 21 & over, but wanted to give wiggle room.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T00:23:20+00:00

This is so stupid. My sexual orientation is based on sex. Calling people "transphobes" isn't going to get rid of sexual orientations, & trying to make this an issue is very silly. You can't police others bedrooms, & no one is owed sexual or romantic interest.

pacmanla · 2021-04-15T18:41:31+00:00

Great to see them standing their ground (despite an obvious troll comparing not wanting to sleep/date a trans individual to racism). Again, black men are ACTUAL men!!!

pacmanla · 2021-03-03T10:22:01+00:00

Under their terms, homosexuality will always be hateful or "phobic" because it's a pin in their "biological sex doesn't matter" balloon.

I keep asking this question, regarding this statement. If homosexuality puts a pin in their "biological sex doesn't matter" balloon, what do they think of heterosexuality? Does it not also "put a pin in their balloon"? I'm curious as to why not attack heterosexuals so vehemently as they seem to be attacking the LGB portion within their own so called "community". I genuinely ask this as a heterosexual male, who's curious for answers. Is it just "vanilla" heterosexuals looking for a special definition, because being straight is too "boring"? People with serious mental issues? I'm really curious.

pacmanla · 2020-11-22T22:13:14+00:00

Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate your insight & pointing out this particular topic gets a lot of fringe groups. I definitely understand it's not all of the women, & even the ones who make questionable comments, I understand where their anger & frustration is coming from. I will continue to support women against men invading their spaces, because it's just wrong & you do have men in positions of power who allow these men to do this. Hopefully this does become more mainstream & we can end this madness.

pacmanla · 2021-12-05T03:33:24+00:00

Again, this is not a civil rights issue. Gay men don't want to sleep with you, because you're FEMALE!!! I miss the times when gay, lesbian, & straight, meant what was to be implied. Gay men are same-sex attracted. If you are a female, then gay men need not apply. Again, this whining, & article writeups, will not change 99.5% of society's sexuality being sex based. It just won't & this continuously charade of trying to make it a civil rights issue is laughable.

pacmanla · 2021-11-01T20:21:36+00:00

You're in "fear" because gay men won't be sexually attracted to you, because you're female? I wonder if she's sexually attracted to transmen?

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T22:44:08+00:00

😂😂😂 They don't even believe this nonsense.

pacmanla · 2021-10-11T03:00:24+00:00

an obvious girl

Um.......obviously no.

pacmanla · 2021-03-04T13:15:24+00:00

Finally, there are bisexuals who deny they are bisexual. Claim to be straight or gay, and then turn around and say that “sexuality is fluid” or “sexuality is a choice”. These people are one reason why bisexual erasure is dangerous. This primary hurts bisexuals, but it hurts homosexuals and heterosexuals as well.

I wish I could give you a standing ovation for this statement here. This group highlighted here, are really the ones gaslighting trans individuals & keep parroting that "sex is fluid" nonsense. It hurts real lesbians, gays, bisexuals & yes, even heterosexuals are harmed by those who keep parroting this.

pacmanla · 2021-02-13T19:46:26+00:00

Straight men prefer the women they deal with, not to have obsessions of actually being a male. Transmen (women) are on a lot of hormones, which cause mustache growth, etc. Long story short, heterosexual men don't want to be with women who have severely altered their appearance & behavior to look & be male.

pacmanla · 2021-01-16T23:31:43+00:00

I'm waiting on that moment as well. There have been attempts, but men (not just heterosexual, but gay as well), have just said NO. I was curious as to why the full force on lesbians by these males, but recently I saw someone post that 60% of transwomen (biological males) are still opposite sex attracted.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T18:29:30+00:00

Basically, still harassment by males.

pacmanla · 2021-10-17T12:36:05+00:00

Then come up with your own terms to differentiate, so you can find the people who want to find you.

It's weird to me that the people that want & are interested in them, are called "chasers". But, ironically, that same term could be applied to them as well, for "chasing" those who by definition could never be attracted to them.

pacmanla · 2021-09-20T23:13:05+00:00

This gotta be a joke right? "You still see me as a girl". "Maybe I do". 🤦‍♂️

pacmanla · 2021-09-02T16:01:20+00:00

I've said this exact same thing. I find it strange & ridiculous that a heterosexual male would "identify" as a woman, just so he can claim being a lesbian & forcing himself on females of that sexual orientation. As a heterosexual male, that crap is just weird as hell to me.

pacmanla · 2021-02-09T19:27:16+00:00

They're both, unfortunately.

pacmanla · 2021-01-31T20:39:46+00:00

I wonder how much more straight communities will tolerate this before they finally peak. Seems somewhat weird imo that they haven't turned on the gender woo woo cults yet.

Unfortunately, A LOT of heterosexuals don't really know about TRAs agenda as a whole. Trans & their allies piggybacked on the LGB, because they knew that if they tried to sell this ideology on its own, it wouldn't have gotten too far. Sadly, the backlash against trans is coming & it's going to be MASSIVE. Unfortunately, the LGB will take a significant hit, because of the T. I've heard podcasts from callers (male & female) saying they had no issue with LGB wanting to be with each other, but now that transwomen are coming at heterosexual males & invading women spaces, a lot of callers were saying just get rid of this "gay" stuff, because we "gave them an inch".

Sadly, they have lumped this trans nonsense with the rest of LGB. It's very sad & unfortunate that the T have destroyed the LGB's (based on same sex attraction) progress.

pacmanla · 2021-01-26T21:07:24+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to your friend, & this is why I confront men who claim they're "straight", but also say they're "trans attracted". These "straight" men are attracted to the fact that these are men (because they're gay/bi) who appear as "women". And nine times out of ten, still have their male genitalia attached. But, since they appear as "women", these guys (in their minds) are "straight".

pacmanla · 2021-09-18T12:20:37+00:00

I'd say the shame of discovery by others drives a significant portion of these killings. The murder, and the subsequent "I was tricked!" explanation are both methods of saving face.

I agree with the poster above, tbh. As a heterosexual male, a lot of men who physically harm transwomen (males) are not "straight" men. These are sexually confused, in denial/closet, or "chasers" who are during a very high numbers of these assaults or killings if/when they do happen at all. Majority of heterosexual men know a neovagnia from a real one & other idiosyncrasies that distinguish biological females from a cosmetically enhanced male. It's hard to explain, but those inate things are there. Unfortunately a lot of these individuals work in the sex trade & these sexually confused men, or "chasers" have an internalized self hatred for their attraction to transwomen (males), so they take out their anger/frustration out on these individuals unfortunately.

These men know that these are trans individuals, & that deep down they're not heterosexual. Once the reality sets in on them sleeping with other males, they "snap". This is very unfortunate, because No one should die, because you can't be honest with yourself & just be your sexuality. This is hard for these men to do which is why you have HSTS saying "I'm not a guy man, but a straight woman". Or the men sleeping with them saying "They're women too & I'm not attracted to the male aesthetic". You have a breakdown from both sides, once reality sets in. Sorry for long post.

pacmanla · 2021-03-16T08:57:13+00:00

They were upset too at Mississippi. More states are in the process of keeping girls/women sports for, you know, actual girls & women.

pacmanla · 2021-10-21T19:15:16+00:00

This is accurate on so many levels & as a heterosexual male, this applies to HSTS as well. The idea that because someone "passes" & a person being attracted to that "presentation" (illusion/lie), should still be okay with hooking up or dating a trans individual is silly. Yeah, they may "present" well, but when it comes time for physical intimacy, they're not compatible sexually. This automatically causes loss of attraction. Sure, Laith Ashley "passes" well & may get some attraction from gay males, but she's still female who will not have the "tools" for gay men to be sexually attracted to her.

pacmanla · 2021-03-11T11:05:44+00:00

Yeah, a heterosexual teenager was accused of "transphobia", because he was not into transgirls/transwomen. Yeah, no problem with that or with lesbians being banned from their own dating apps, for not wanting "girlcock". Yeah, no real problem at all.

pacmanla · 2021-02-03T14:38:14+00:00

Excuse me if I'm wrong, but there are those who believe this trans narrative is being pushed to usher in transhumanism. Then there are those, who believe that giving kids the "choice" to choose what gender they are & choosing what to do with their bodies, is ushering in pedophilia. That comment, also, about future attractions being "genderless", sounds like a "free for all" & no one's boundaries are to be respected.

pacmanla · 2021-01-28T16:10:22+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that. You honestly know what makes me angry about this whole "movement" as a heterosexual male? That these people are OBVIOUSLY cowards. They're terrified of trying to really push this nonsense on heterosexuals (particularly males). They know we could give a flying you know what, about being labeled or called anything, when it comes to boundaries of our sexuality. I honestly believe they know that every male of every race, ethnicity, & age group, would end them if they attempted to force this rape nonsense on them. I'm so sorry that the LGB (especially lesbians) are going through this nonsense, because it's wrong & egregious on so many levels. These men are sick & should be ashamed of themselves & worst of all they're cowards to not distribute this nonsense over to the male side. Yeah, we know why that is.

pacmanla · 2020-10-14T12:12:46+00:00

I honestly don't know if the TRAs realize they just sound like incels at this point, or if they even care. Sexual attraction (which can lead to dating), 99% of the time is based on sex. It' more than just genitals. I'm attracted to women (biological) & a man getting the "best" surgery, hormone blockers, bottom surgery, doesn't matter to me. His biological sex still comes out in ways that no amount of surgery is going to change. I just feel it on an instinctual level, if that makes sense.

pacmanla · 2021-11-30T07:59:08+00:00

I really don't understand how anyone believe you can go from being a gay man to a "straight woman". It's idiotic, nonsensical, & delusional. These men are just exhibiting their hatred for themselves & when reality & others remind these men, that they're still males (by denying them sexual/romantic interest) they go into depression, or fatally harm themselves. Sane & living in reality gay men understand they're simply same-sex attracted. They understand that "transitioning" into a woman (which they'll never be) doesn't change the fact that they're still males attracted to other males, regardless of "identity" or surgeries. They're still males sexually attracted to males.

pacmanla · 2021-11-06T03:49:22+00:00

I think in the social climate today, people just want to be seen as "different". I'm with you on this as well & it's like living in the twilight zone, with so many heterosexuals not wanting to be seen as such.

pacmanla · 2021-10-26T22:50:04+00:00

Hell, there are TRAs who call anti-woke non-white people "traitors". Fuck em.

Yeah, black people & other non-white people, should support & put white males' desire to be seen as "real" women, on the same level as their problems. You know, the history of slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, racist housing covenants, etc; to white males not being able to bang or date lesbians. How dare those "traitors"!!!

pacmanla · 2021-05-24T07:12:55+00:00

I just found out site was back up & running.

pacmanla · 2021-03-05T12:22:00+00:00

Yeah, I read that Mississippi passed a law stating it was illegal to give gender "treatments" to individuals under 21. Even that caused uproar with the TRAs, saying that 21 was "too late". Yeah, there's no pleasing these people.

pacmanla · 2021-02-20T14:18:07+00:00

Wow, so a user got banned for stating that all she asks for is respect both ways & a biological female??? We know that the term biological female being specified got the user banned. It's like individuals having personal sexual boundaries is deemed as "hate" speech now.

pacmanla · 2021-02-13T19:52:47+00:00

Unfortunately, a lot of people overlook this. There was an article written about the "rise of the femcels". Apparently there are women similar to their male counterparts, who can't find love or sex, & lead unfulfilling lives. This in turn, causes them to lash out like incels, so the name "femcel" was given. A lot of this "gender warring" is initiated & fueled by these two groups, apparently.

pacmanla · 2021-01-27T18:47:45+00:00

Just had a little back & forth under a YouTube video two days ago, that goes with this topic. This "woman" (tbf I don't know for sure if she was trans or not) made an argument, citing YouTuber Samantha Luxe. She said that transgirls & transwomen should be allowed in female sports, because after 12 months of hormone therapy, their bodies are essentially the same as "cis" women. I kid you not. This same "woman" in the midst of this discussion claimed that she knows that transwomen & "cis" women will always be different, but surgeries have gotten so good that transwomen's secondary sex characteristics are basically the same as "cis" women.

Also, that being born a biological male, "doesn't make them less of a woman". I swear you can't make this stuff up.

pacmanla · 2021-01-08T16:55:45+00:00

Really, I can't anymore. This is disgusting & disrespectful to equate the two.

pacmanla · 2020-11-23T04:36:20+00:00

Honestly, as a heterosexual male, the problem imo, are these men who have issues with their sexualities & lying about being heterosexual. These men are attracted & have a fetish for men who "appear" as women, but lie to themselves that they're "straight".

As far as transwomen pressuring heterosexual males into dating or being intimate with them, imo, no. You have some who try to shame men, but men tend to laugh at them, or just ignore them. It's nowhere near as bad as transwomen bullying lesbians at this point.

pacmanla