I think AskGayBros hit peak trans in this thread by fuck_reddit in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 94 insightful - 1 fun94 insightful - 0 fun95 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a lesbian, this is so refreshing to see. Gay men are NOT having it. The lesbian community is a sad reality nowadays. We can't have our own spaces... I'm very happy to see gay men standing up and not having it. We need this.

Girl wonders why gay men don't see her as a man 🙄 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 88 insightful - 19 fun88 insightful - 18 fun89 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

Again, why are AGP males "transbians" and this fujoshi girls only and I repeat, ONLY, obsessed with the only subset of the population with whom they have 0 chance with. The level of entitlement and narcissism is high lmao. Also:

I really just want an online community with other gays that accept me and my body as it is and treats me as any other gay men

I'm 30 trans transmasc NONBINARY btw.

So you want to be treated as "any other gay man", yet you're a non binary, meaning neither male or female, at the same time? Make it make sense 😂

In 2020, it's LITERALLY controversial apparently to say lesbians don't like dick and gays don't like vagina. So that means that me, as a lesbian, could literally, right now, decide to identify as a man and scream to straight women they're being transphobic for not seeing me as a 'real men' and that they should not only see me as a real men, as be attracted to me. Like that's literally what these crazy blue haired AGP males and fujoshi girls are doing. 😒

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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"So now I've basically discovered I am a lesbian, because I have simply grown as a person while with her, and done a lot of self reflection. On top of that I want to ID as a lesbian and finally she is starting to come out more publicly, experiment with her presentation a lot etc, so it's a possibility for me that I can be out and proud! Finally!"

What.the.hell. They treat our sexuality like a joke like "oh I'm a lesbian after all omg! after multiple relationships with men with whom I enjoyed as I'm pretty much heterosexual, as my bf decided to id as a woman, I suddenly poof become a lesbian" 🤦

EDIT: Omg, this part is even worse:

I feel like part of being a lesbian isn't literally just finding a woman attractive, but somewhat being involved in the culture, the media, a certain humour, the fashion etc.

BEING A LESBIAN ISN'T A F*CKING TREND NOR A 'CULTURE' NOT CLOTHES, YOU EITHER ARE A LESBIAN OR YOU ARE NOT

The people they demand we feel a sense of “community” with by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 71 insightful - 5 fun71 insightful - 4 fun72 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Also, I'm going to repeat (because it was already said here) how TERFs are ALWAYS women. As you know, askgaybros have been now attacked by TRAs, YET I don't think I've seen ANY TRA calling any of the gay men who disagrees with the Trans Ideology a TERF. Yet gay men are allowed to say EXACTLY the same shit me and other lesbians say, yet women (and lesbians) are the only TERFs. And they aren't. HOW DOES THAT LOGIC WORK? For the record, this is none of the gay men's fault and I very much appreciate the effort and strength gay men have been showing as a group against TRAs. I'm just venting because it's UNDENIABLE that women and in particular lesbians are always the most targeted and it's infuriating because it's CLEAR men can say the EXACT SAME WORDS but with less or much less consequences. I also don't see TRAs saying "suck my girld*ck" to men. (Has anyone ever seen that? If it did happen, then I apologize).

On r/actuallesbians, penises make lesbian sex easier. How convenient! by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 71 insightful - 13 fun71 insightful - 12 fun72 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. And then they have the nerves to say "TERFs be downvoting and sh*t and not say a word. How cowards!! uwu". All TERFs were banned BY THEM, and are actually unable to comment 😂

After taking over the lesbian subs on reddit the TRAs are going after the gay guy subs now. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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"Do you really have that much more in common with lesbians than trans people?" - LMAO! Trying to make comparisons and incite division between lesbians and gays. F*ck off. OBVIOUSLY, gay men will have more in common with lesbians than with trans people, we're homosexuals!!!!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

I used to hate /r/askgaybros, but lately they give me hope that the whole LGB people haven't gone crazy by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I'M LOVING THE COMMENTS. Just saying. I appreciate A LOT that gay men are being this upfront and not giving two f*cks. I'm also pretty upfront and direct, so it's good seeing many people standing up.

This person is a f*cking professional victim. Jeez.

EDIT: Meanwhile, I found a gay guy on there that it's the opposite of me (user: FH1031): He said, in the middle of a discussion there: "I personally do not relate to females and effeminate men." I'm literally the opposite, I have real trouble relating to males and masculine woman and my friends are basically females and effeminate men 😅 This is just a curious thing I found, nothing else lmao.

I'm lost by badatnicknames in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 63 insightful - 4 fun63 insightful - 3 fun64 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. So, we're supposed to 'pretend' this is an actual woman? Nah, I'm good sticking by the 'adult human females' definition.

Lesbian on /r/offmychest tries to find conversion therapy because she thinks her lack of attraction to girldicks is "toxic" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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There's something very wrong when STRAIGHT people, in particular, STRAIGHT MEN, are much more supportive to lesbians than lgbtqwerty community. Thats why I stay the hell away from this fucked up community and hang with the straights now. LGBDropTheT is the only place I like.

No Country for Gay Men - the transpaign against AskGayBros by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 61 insightful - 1 fun61 insightful - 0 fun62 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What changed? Basically the ban of GC, truelesbians and LGBDroptheT. They suddenly found themselves with no one to blame on transphobia. As they demand constant attention and validation and are professional victims, they NEED a new target. And now that all women places have been banned or trans infiltrated/dominated, it's time to go after gay men. Theyre just crazy self absorbed people with lots of mental health issues, self hatred and lots of free time on the internet.

"Her" favourite part of being a trans lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 59 insightful - 2 fun59 insightful - 1 fun60 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my God. An actual lesbian like me, so female homosexual, would never say or feel something like this. Ever. Were usually paranoid that other women perceive as predatory and just try our best not to be creepy and respect their spaces. Jeez.

Non binary asks if they are welcome. Disregards only answer that says no and calls them transphobic. Why bother asking? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Damn, I've seen there a comment:

Wby can't I find a subreddit for only lesbians? There are subreddits for only nonbinary people?

And she was treated so poorly. I honestly think us lesbians are treated so badly in the LGB(T) community. Honestly, I think lesbians and gay men are treated so badly. Lesbians can't have anything for themselves. Gay men are seen as this evil privileged creatures that don't deserve anything.

The creepy GenderCynical dudes are on saidit now... by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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They literally sound like 5 year old children who are bad losers. "No! It's NOT over! I'll run after you! Hihihihihi" 🤣

It's not ok to make trans "lesbians" sad by pointing out that men often say "You haven't tried a good dick yet" by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

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Why they are so obsessed with lesbian jesus. They literally have a bigger dating pool than me, as a lesbian. There are plenty of women who like dick lol!

Sick of being called a transphobe for not being attracted to trans men, as well as having my sexuality invalidated simply for being a cis gay man. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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As a lesbian, I truly feel your struggle. I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. I also hate how they constantly see 'cis gay men' as these 'evil creatures full of toxic masculinity'. F*ck. Off. If you're a lesbian, you're a TERF. If you're a gay man, you're somehow this 'privileged evil person over trans people' and both are seen as horrible transphobic people lmao. "I'm scared that soon, my label will have no meaning and will be stripped of all substance it once had." - in case you haven't noticed yet, this has ALREADY happened with the lesbian label. I hope it doesn't happen to the gay label as well, but given the fact that they seem to be going after gay men now, I would argue they will try to twist the definition too until it has lost its meaning :( . Here you can find comfort. The lesbian community is totally shattered. But I feel like gay men are putting up a good fight (at least from what I've seen) and they have more 'social power' than lesbians so maybe things will get better?

Gosh, could you imagine? Grifters invading your sub? by justagaydude123 in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 51 insightful - 1 fun51 insightful - 0 fun52 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Better not. I do understand where you're coming from, but although they do seem to hold some similar views, they still hold very... Weird stanpoints on "being cisgender vs being trans". For example, I remember once that I read there that they said that a full OP trans person is literally, exactly the same as a cisgender person. So.... Nah. Better just to stick to same sex attraction, because being trans is just so different.

Actually, good point Rose... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This shit is so ugly.

Why are some gays so brainwashed into dating/sex with trans people? by Eurowoman24 in LGBDropTheT

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Believe me, lesbians are fed up of dealing with this shit. I wished I wasn't associated with this TQ+ lunatics and that they would leave me the f*ck alone for not wanting dick

Punch gay men if they reject you by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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There's so much wrong on this that I don't know where to start... The part that gay men are feminine and therefore should like women. So basically according to them, feminine = female, masculine = male. Here we go again with this progressive homophobia bs and gender regressive ideology that perpetuates sexist and stupid stereotypes. They have 0 understanding on how sexual orientation works, especially homosexuals and are stupid homophobes. No doubt they're straight people trying be edge and keweeeeeeer

I think AskGayBros hit peak trans in this thread by fuck_reddit in LGBDropTheT

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I saw it. It was very pleasant to watch my gay brothers defend us as well and refer to the abuse we were submitted to.

Out of their own mouths: "99% of trans women I met on line were batshit crazy" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is gold! Ahah. Thanks for sharing!

EDIT: I went to Reddit to see the comments and many trans women there were very hostile as well to this poor sane trans woman. Jeez, this person can't even find comfort in his own community. And it's really great to see that this person isn't the only trans person becoming hesitant towards MtF as well HAHAHAHA. Even trans people fear this crazy 'trans women'!!

One of the comments from a transgender woman (user: GhastlyRadiator) WORTH READING:

Yeah I have this same experience. I have met like 4-5 trans women online who are awesome people, but the rest I’ve gotten to know have all been weird (some to the point of being incredibly forward about having feelings towards me despite not knowing me, which just feels incredibly fetishizing and gross🤮). I’ve gotten to the point where I joke about personally being incredibly transphobic because of how much I can’t stand other MtFs. I think the real T is that a lot more fetishists claim to be MtFs than people are willing to admit, but idk that’s just my theory based on what I’ve experienced."

Trans woman claims that she was discriminated against in a Women's only bar. In Tokyo, Japan. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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LEAVE US ALONE, God damn it.

Suddenly it’s like their lesbianism never existed :( by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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She honestly looks so miserable and depressed...

They’re ALMOST there by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This TRAs are homophobes pieces of shit. Sorry but this makes me too angry to ignore, how is it possible that this morons are advocating homophobia AND being praised on a freaking "" lesbian""" sub???!!!!???

Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 43 insightful - 3 fun43 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Exacly! They do not realise OR do not WANT to realise that the reason that place is soooo trans inclusive is because there are there plenty of bi women (who actually like d*ck and validate them uwu).

"If lesbians can learn to accept trans women, why are gay men being so shitty to trans men?" by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 42 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 0 fun43 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly... Most real lesbians have been banned or shut down or harassed etc etc

Trans woman in real life is trying to date me after finding out I'm a lesbian by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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Jesus, I'm so sorry. The amount of stories I've read similar to yours is shocking. It's pretty clear that trans women are looking SPECIFICALLY for lesbians. Not straight women, not bi women, not "queer women" not even pan women. They're clearly AGP and fetishize lesbians and as soon as they find one they become obsessed to satisfy their fetish. It's sickening. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. But I'm glad at least your friends support and agree with you.

How do lesbians have sex? According to Healthline it includes men by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly what I thought. They could have just made an article about "how to have sex with women" and even include trans women if they wanted to be woke. My problem is them CONSTANTLY appropriating lesbianism. They know exactly what they're doing. Homophobes creeps.

My GF came out as non binary by [deleted] in Lesbians

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This makes me so mad and sad at the same time. We're going backwards. WHAT'S WRONG WITH BEING A MASCULINE WOMAN OR A FEMININE MAN?! Jeez.

I’m a lesbian BECAUSE I love dick by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I'm a vegetarian BECAUSE I love meat! duh, checkmate TERFS! /s

Uh... Is any sub on reddit free from this shit? by powpowpowpow in LGBDropTheT

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They're totally lunatics and obsessed. Jesus fucking christ. They simply won't leave us, women, alone, jeez.

This is how TQ is redefining language in books for youth. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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This is exactly why I always say I'm homosexual now. At least homosexual is clear - attraction to the same sex.

Trans guys lay some incredible pipe. No, really. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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That description screams mentally unstable person

Am I in the wrong for feeling offended/appropriated by FTM acquaintances? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 39 insightful - 3 fun39 insightful - 2 fun40 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Only to have about 3 FTMs jump in telling me that they know what it's like or even that they have had it WORSE because they're "trans femboys" and how they wish society would see that their breasts and vags are "male."

Jesus, the narcissism. "It's all about me, me, me, all the freaking time". Not to mention absolute lunatics for wanting society to see female organs as "male". I have no words really.

And no, you're definitely not the wrong. In fact, what you're feeling right now is what many women lately have been feeling with MTF appropriation of our spaces and language policing. How come YOU, a male, get to be called woman and WE, actual women, have to call ourselves, menstruators, uterus havers?!?!?! And yes, as a lesbian, we sometimes feel exactly that you feel. I don't go to the horrible sub actuallesbians of course, but I've seen several times MTF's claiming to know "exactly what it's like to be discriminated against AS A LESBIAN, and that he knows exactly what the lesbian is talking about" and I'm like bitch, no you don't. You do not fucking do. Your attraction towards females was NEVER "problematic" by society and just because you have AGP and think "lesbians are so cute UWU", "I love titties UWU" and decide at god knows what age go into "girl mode tee hee" it doesn't make you understand AT ALL what lesbians go through. You're just a creepy perverted fetishistc male who should leave lesbians the f*ck alone. At least "normal" straight males understand logic jeez.

So yeah, this ended up to be also quite a rant, but simply to say that no, you're totally not wrong and that many of us, L G or B or even women in general have been feeling something similar.

Hey, wanna read an horror story ? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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"BUT THIS NEVER HAPPENS BIGOT!" /s

That's why I always say now that I'm a homosexual, attracted to the same sex :)

Apparently the google album of all the homophobic tweets has been circulating around the lgbt subs. I posted it myself in askgaybros a few times, especially when they say "no one says/believes x" by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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well, as a lesbian, I can't say this shock me no more as I've been submitted to the same abuse. Yes, it's absolutely disgusting and homophobic. I'm so sorry.

Why are lesbians more compliant with TRA than gay men? by rouge_tropical in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 38 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. Most of the actual real lesbians, like myself, were all permanently banned, I cannot comment on anything. So there you can only see the TRAs or lesbians terrified and who don't want to be perceived as TERFs lmao. If actuallesbians had good moderation, none of this had reached this proportions

Apparently there are not enough Visible Trans Lesbians... by fijupanda in LGBDropTheT

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I'M A PROUD VAGINA LOVER. Die mad, morons.

"I want to date lesbians" is a valid reason for transition by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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It takes a very mentally ill, totally disgusting, fucking loser of a man to be willing to focus all of his energy towards the only demographic of women who isn't interested in them, besides being one hell of a tiny minority of the population. But it's not a fetish /s

AL: Question: What is the correct label for a female only attracted to other females regardless of gender? Answer: Bisexuality. by winterwillow in LGBDropTheT

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By basing sexual orientation on gender, there is NO point in having different terms for sexual orientations because a "man" can look like anything and a "woman" can look like anything. Labels become meaningless lmao and the terms "woman" and "man" too.

"Though Gallagher is transgender, he feels comfortable using "f*ggot," but not the common slur for transgender people." Gee willikers, how surprising! by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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While identifying as a lesbian, he dated a few straight men who later came out as gay. Gallagher realized a pattern: He wasn't a lesbian, he wasn't a straight woman, but he was falling in love with gay men

I'm sorry...... What?

Aces and Aros by Beth-BR in LGBDropTheT

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No, asexual and aromantic should not belong. For me, it only makes sense a LGB community, because it's dedicated to SAME SEX attraction. Asexualitiy is lack of sexual attraction. Besides, what rights do asexuals want? What discrimination have they faced or do they face? None. The only exception for me would be homoromantic asexuals because those asexuals actual do suffer discrimination because they're can engage in homosexual relationships. Aromantic people? Apart from aromantic ASEXUALS (so asexuals who prefer to be single), I don't think those people exist. I think people who don't lack sexual attraction and identify as aromantic have mental issues/commitment issues/attachment style issues/trauma/etc etc etc to address. For me, it's not normal that a person isn't able to develop an emotional connection with anyone. Only LGB.

Man on r/acutallesbians wants to know if he's a lesbian, apparently he is by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Look how enthusiastic are the answers. The transbians know he is one of them - another fetishistic male with AGP

Lesbian comes out of the closet but r/lgbTTT members think only about trans women. by Rosefield in LGBDropTheT

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All I see is men on the comments lol

Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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God, lesbians there are so clueless it hurts my eyes lmao! One said: " Especially the amount of straight cis dudes that have recently felt comfortable commenting about our internal community issues?", but she wasn't the only one referring the straight guys. Omg, so clueless 🤣

We were banned on Reddit on July 10th, shortly after 11:30am by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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People on TrueLesbians, in case you don't know the backup: https://saidit.net/s/Lesbians/

Depressing thread. Comments are so close, yet so far from getting it. by CatsOrGoHome in LGBDropTheT

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I hate those type of weak women.

Whaat the actual fuck. I am so tired of this by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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Like for real... We're getting backwards all over again...

*One* dating app for lesbians exists and you can guess the reaction. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I just don't understand why they're so obsessed with us? 😅 Why can't lesbians have something for ourselves for once?! I mean, trans people can have all the place they want exclusively for them. But God forbid lesbians for having ONE, only freaking ONE dating app for ourselves when there are several others trans inclusive.

Freedom for me but not for thee by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Omg, I decided to lurk at r/truscum and I don't know who is the worst. TRA or truscum. Like they're both so delusional. These is what I found somewhere in the comments from this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/ikq9dk/genital_preferences_are/

Sexuality is mainly based on secondary sexual characteristics, we are usually attracted to somebody long before we know which genitals they have.

Yeah, framing it like ride or die is kind of unrealistic. I’m sure 99% of people would be surprised/confused if the person they were seeing turned out not to have the genitals they were expecting but I imagine more would be willing to work through it rather than he totally game from the get go

Why are trans people so far away from reality?

Another creepy male (transwoman) on r/AL by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo[S] 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, obviously it's not just you. I've never once in my life heard a woman speak about wanting to check the underwear WITHOUT freaking consent of other women 🤮 But creepy straight males? Yeah. It's so obvious that it's a male lol.

Political Lesbianism is not forced lesbianism/fake lesbianism. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]oofreesouloo 35 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for the insightful context. Regardless, I still don't think it was/is right to appropriate the lesbian label when the woman is not a lesbian. If she doesn't want to be with men, fine. But that doesn't make her a lesbian.

EDIT: I continue to despise all political lesbians, despite of the context

"I don't trust cis people" by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

[–]oofreesouloo 35 insightful - 11 fun35 insightful - 10 fun36 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I've honestly lost the times they've said "we owe this community to trans women". And specifically trans lesbians HAHAHAHAHA. NO.

Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 35 insightful - 7 fun35 insightful - 6 fun36 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I don't mind at all about the existence of wlw spaces. But for me, it's really important to have also a 'cis' lesbians only space. It was so hard for me to fully accept myself and not feel shame and the least I want to hear about is dick FFS. I WANT TO TALK ABOUT WOMEN AND NO FREAKING DICKS. I don't give a shit if this is 'triggering' to some people, I too deserve to be happy and have my spaces. I already hear about freaking men and d*ck on a DAILY BASIS, I have currently literally NO ONE to share my attraction with women (WOMEN BEING BIOLOGICAL WOMEN, BOOBS, PUSSY, YES THAT'S WHAT BEING ATTRACTED TO WOMEN IS). I'm angry LMAO.

Daniel Radcliffe fans giving him credit for writing Harry Potter is erasing a woman's voice yet again. Facts don't matter to this crowd! by Greykittymomma in GenderCritical

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Let them be, let them keep peaking more people LOL They act like total lunatics

Just a couple of lesbians hanging out doing lesbian shit by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Do they really think they pass? They look like drag queens...

mean "cisbians" rejecting transbian and wanting to date women. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What the fuck. Everyone is allowed to reject ANYONE for ANY reason. They're like such losers incels. Being rejected romantically is NOT discrimination. That's part of life LMAO. There are people who are systematically rejected for being ugly and they won't cry DISCRIMINATION OF UGLY PEOPLE. Unfortunately, that's life. There's people with more luck than others.

But "transbians" are like another level of losers -- they have LOTS of women who are actually into dick, straight or bisexual, yet they're so creepy and perverted and losers they are only obsessed with the ones who will NEVER be interested in them - actual homosexual women lmao. Oh, and unlike ugly people, they CHOSE to be women and transition. They CHOSE to be a minority when they were LITERALLY the subset of the population with more privileges and/or power in the society - straight men.

Straight girl needs help overcoming her compulsory heterosexuality in order to make her heterosexual sex with a trans-identified male "queer." by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is gold - two heterosexuals trying so hard to have 'queer' sex (whatever the f*ck that means) but fail because they're so "wired" to do heterosexual sex 😂😂😂😂😂😂

"I feel like my body is so wired to satisfy male partners that I automatically start acting like a male would expect me to, regardless of context. Same thing on her end"

Are these people for real?

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

[–]oofreesouloo 34 insightful - 4 fun34 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Omg, for me the split attraction model only makes sense to assexuals. This biromantic thing makes no sense to me. A deep connection platonically without any sexual component with it already has a name - friendship. Literally everyone in the world, unless you're a psychopath or have clearly some mental issues, is theoretically capable of connecting emotionally with anyone, regardless of the sex.

Remember when Dan Savage tried to pimp out Lesbians. He needs to keep the word Lesbian out of his mouth, yet here is his latest (Advice for a lesbian-identifying woman attracted to her male coworker) by Happy_face_caller in Lesbians

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Being a lesbian isn't an 'identity'. Jeez. You're either a lesbian or you aren't. I seriously don't understand WHY would a clearly bisexual woman (and she's perfectly aware of her attraction to men) 'identify as a lesbian'? Why? What's wrong about being bisexual? What is it so special about being a lesbian? If they were a lesbian indeed, they wouldn't need to be constantly justifying it: "I identify as a lesbian, BUT I sometimes feel attraction to men/I identify as a lesbian BUT for some reasons I've decided not to pursue anything physical with men ever again". It's clear as the water you're NOT a lesbian, so STOP pretending.

MENTAL GYMNASTICS OLYMPICS:

  • "If there’s a lesbian-identified-but-not-averse-to-all-dick dyke in your life… if you work or to go school with a homoromantic-but-bisexual woman who identifies as a lesbian…"

  • "You remain homoromantic—you’re only interested in other women romantically—but you are sexually attracted to both men and women. In other words, COVET, your heart is lesbian but your pussy is bi." (What the bloody f*ck)

There's even already a word for all of this - febfem. But NO, lesbian is the most ~special, unique and queer progressive tee hee~ uwu /s

The TIM Community in a Nutshell by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]oofreesouloo 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's true. I can't even go to actuallesbians anymore even just for me to laugh a little. I just cringe so hard now, it's CLEAR as the water when it's a male posting (I don't even need to check the user to know) and when it's not and it's disgusting.

Opened Grindr a few days ago and... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so sorry for you fellow gay brothers. I totally feel your pain. Lesbian dating apps are a joke. It seems like TRAs are really coming after you now, god. First it was lesbians, second gays. Then it will be targeting true bisexuals, I bet. It will end so badly for them.

That's called homophobia... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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the lack of awareness is so so sad.. homosexuality and transgenderism are literally fighting for opposite causes..

LGB ALLIANCE POLAND IS BANNED FROM TWITTER!!! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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what. the. hell ........................... Honestly, this TRA sh*t is seriously scary, how much power they have and we literally only just want to be left alone... But meanwhile they claim they're the "most oppressed"?!?!?

SF's The Stud no longer a "gay bar", now a "queer bar" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I honestly don't understand why masc4masc and femme4femme are so criticized in our own community... Jesus. Just let us be. In the gay community it seems like gay men tell masc4masc they have internalized homophobia; in the lesbian community we're accused of being "shallow" and being fixated with the "femininity performance", which contributes to the women oppression or whatever the fuck.

People, just be happy and fuck whoever you want and no need to give explanations to anyone. THAT is true liberation. We're clearly not there yet. Everyone has different tastes and preferences.

What can I say to all those gay transphobes who can see I'm actually a straight woman? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I honestly don't understand why the fuck everyone, literally EVERYONE faces rejection for the most stupid/random/superficial reasons such as the height, the hair, the smell, an attitude, etc etc. Yet everyone is capable of dealing with it and moving on, because dating is unpredictable and discriminatory. WHY do we ALWAYS have to open an exception for trans people though?????

Some gays and lesbians can apparently have children by accident with their partners, don't you forget it! by lovelyspearmint in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly. Like. No. One. Cares.

Anyone kind of afraid that they'll never have a positive outlook on the trans community? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

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Omg, this could be written by me. I kind of miss the old days where I was ignorant and thought trans people were naive and just wanted to live their lives. I have the same "problem" as you now. Honestly, I don't think there's a solution. I'm also very wary not only of trans people but of ANY lgb(tq+) person. I look for "red flags" and try to see if they're "woke" or attention seeker or have some kind of mental health issues. This is also true for trans people. For my own safety as a lesbian, I make sure I don't have any contact with any trans woman. I only met one in a lgb(tq+) meeting and he was a total bloke and became easily obsessed with me. Ew. So now I make sure I don't tell my sexuality to a trans person and it will also depend on the lgb person. If I see it's someone reasonable, then we can totally be friends. But if I see a clear "I'M SO GAY" 24/7 behavior from that person, I'm better off not being friends with that person. I just want to meet regular non attention seeking homo or bisexual people. But as we tend to be more discreet (because guess what, we have more personality than being gay), it's harder to find ourselves. It wouldn't be so hard if now the TQ+ wouldn't have taken over everything 😩 Anyway, sorry, I really don't have any advice. Just to let you know that I know exactly how you feel. Hugs!

*One* dating app for lesbians exists and you can guess the reaction. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 33 insightful - 4 fun33 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

And make an entire post about it and saying we're TERFs. But NoooOooOoo, we just want to leAaave in PeeAce, don't want to make any troUblE. Why do they care SO much about what we think of them?!?!?!? Like there ARE people in the world who would date trans people, but they somehow manage to be obsessed with the ones that don't want them?!?!?!

"If lesbians can learn to accept trans women, why are gay men being so shitty to trans men?" by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

Why Do You Want To "Drop The T"? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm sick of being told that being a lesbian means I'm a 'feminine presenting person exclusively sexually attracted to feminine presenting people'.

This this this. I'm actually a femme lesbian only attracted to other femmes, so I happen to be attracted to femininity BUT I'm not attracted to feminine guys, well, because they are MEN! Simple as that. I'm a lesbian because I'm exclusively attracted to women. Full stop. All the rest, such as liking more femininity or masculinity, are simple preferences WITHIN your sexual orientation.

LGB orgs in several countries are dropping the T; LBG Alliance mentions forming a US group by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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Thank God

At least 24% of the thread posters on r/actuallesbians are male and 56% of the moderators are also male by strictly in LGBDropTheT

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The females there a bi or pan women and handmaidens. Almost none actual lesbian there lmao

Are you more annoyed by trans identifiers of the sex opposite from yours? by notdelusional in LGBDropTheT

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I love you 💖 thanks for the support

"he/him lesbians" are driving me mad. by anonymoussapphic in GenderCritical

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Yeah, you're definitely not alone. I just made a post yesterday thanking this community basically for being one of the only lesbian SANE communities that won't put up with TQ+ rhetoric. Where we can actually BREATHE. I think practically everyone here can relate to you honestly. Just don't be ashamed of being a lesbian. Be proud. BUT! Protect yourself first of all. Unfortunately, lesbians are the most targeted nowadays and under attack from members from outside AND within our community. Just protect yourself because TRAs aren't here for equality, they want privilege. They want everything catered to them. And several TRAs are actual porn sick men with lesbian porn fetishes with AGP disguised as trans women. So, just be careful. Every woman who buys into this gender ideology bs is a major turn off for me. I don't care if you're the hottest woman on Earth, Felicia. No, you're not special and unique and "not like the other girls" sort of type that requires an unique non binary/queer/he/his/wtv label. You're just a woman like any other that obviously won't fit in all the gender stereotypes a woman has lmao. I wish I could hug you right now! 💖 I'm really sorry that you had to put up with that abuse. Here you're safe! :)

EDIT: Omg, I replied to you thinking this was on Lesbians, sorry! But I guess the intent of my message remains :) Do you know where to find the lesbian community here right?

New Research Shows a Vast Majority of Cis People Won't Date Trans People - as a remainder of a study published a few years ago by hermiona52 in Lesbians

[–]oofreesouloo 33 insightful - 4 fun33 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I was also going to comment on that haha! OF course we would rather date a trans man over a trans woman LMAO! What is it about this so ~surprising~? I personally wouldn't date either one, but if I REALLY had to choose, I would choose a trans man, because it IS a female!!!!!! And we are not blind... omg, they're so stupid for real.......

When the people who think you can be a demigirl genderfluid lesbian man call you delusional by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Also, are they really comparing a sexual orientation to someone's sign? Logic isn't really their strength..

"more and more I feel like I'm just being a fetishist" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly. While actual LGB people like us want get the f away. How ironic. Proof the LGBWTF community is a bunch of special wanna be ~kweers~

A group calling for an LGBT Alliance has just 228 Signatures - most are made up sexualities. by Movellon in LGBDropTheT

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Most trans woman signatures are "transbians" haha, it really makes you wonder how the heck are there so many "lesbian trans women". Oh, maybe because they're straight males and they're much more than lesbians 🤔

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

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And I don't care what anyone says, he looks like someone photoshopped a 12 year old boy's face onto a womanly body. And his eyes look so dead inside.

OMG, before I even read that part you wrote, I was like thinking "wow his face still look like a boy's face. Even though he appears to have a "mature" woman body. Not even kidding. I thought the exact same thing as you lol.

Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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😂😂😂😂😂 I've just seen RIGHT NOW a lesbian asking if it was okay for her not to like penises 🤦‍♀️ I swear to God, we're living in a really bad nightmare. And this lesbian was a victim of rape. The answers? "Get therapy", "genital preferences are bs" https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/i1i2s9/lesbian_and_dont_like_pnises_does_this_make_me/

I pmed her, but now real lesbians are terrified of being perceived as TERFS 😅

Too much truth in this r/books thread about Harry Potter, mods purge and lock by upcomingDaddy in LGBDropTheT

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Loved it! It just goes to show how the vast majority of people are actually by our side. The thing is many people aren't even aware of what's actually going on still. Joanne Rowling, I love you

I've seen this meme being posted in "lesbian" and lgbt+ spaces recently... apparently they think you can have sex with a woman only if you have a penis, so lesbian sex isn't real sex to them? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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This is so pathetic. I don't have words.

Indeed? What can it have to do with being a lesbinan? :D by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

[–]oofreesouloo 30 insightful - 7 fun30 insightful - 6 fun31 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Lmao. We're living in dark times. That's why I refuse to call myself a lesbian. I'm homosexual full stop.

Thanks, I really, really hate it. by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Exactly what I thought. They're projecting

Sad watching so many lesbians and bi women rejecting womanhood by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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I'm so sorry you feel this way. 2020 has been such a great year, huh...

I worry so much for young girls right now.

This. I worry so much about young gays, lesbians and bis. In particular GNC women and men. :(

Am I, a man, a lesbian? Wherein everyone says yes. by millionssomething in GenderCritical

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itsafetish

"Lesbian and don't like p*nises, does this make me bad??" TRANSWER: You need therapy to help you like dick. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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You posted the same as me haha. AND they deleted a horrible comment (to erase evidence), I screenshoted it, and I'll learn to put it on imgur tomorrow and will share it here :D

EDIT: Here it is the DELETED terrible comment http://imgur.com/a/nZ94LC1 Imgur (if you have problems watching it, please tell me, I'm new to imgur)