Dating App Red Flags by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You mentioned the importance of a good bio...What kind of Tinder bios make you swipe right? And what are the best bios that you've seen?

If you could eat only one food item for the rest of your life, what would it be and why? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The best answer here.

New lesbian film trailer - "Ammonite" with Kate Winslet and Saoirse Ronan by Innisfree in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's disappointing. I found out that the character Ronan is playing, Charlotte Murchison, was in real life eleven years older than Anning, whereas Ronan is eighteen-and-a-half years younger than Winslet. It's not as sexy if one isn't borderline-inappropriately younger than the other apparently.

New lesbian film trailer - "Ammonite" with Kate Winslet and Saoirse Ronan by Innisfree in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm intrigued to see a movie about Mary Anning but is there any indication that this relationship/romance even occurred? fingers crossed

How does your hair look? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My hair probably looks something like this. It's tailbone length, dark brown, and has some pretty cool natural auburn lowlights. Most of the compliments I've received throughout my life I owe to the quality of my hair.

What are your demographics? Race, ethnicity, nationality, etc. by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a mix of Cuban, Spanish, and Italian. I'm in my early 20's and I live in New England.

What's your biggest personality turn on? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eccentric and weird, kind, trustworthy, and a good sense of humor. Someone who emotionally present most of the time.

Femme, butch or something else? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think I'm femme. I don't often wear dresses or skirts, but instead opt for an urban/feminine look. I usually wear a cropped band/movie t-shirt with some oversized jeans, paired with some sneakers or docs. My hair is very long and my face is feminine so I really like the contrast. I put a lot of effort into my appearance: Threaded eyebrows/facial hair, well-groomed fingernails, makeup, etc. I think most of my self-maintenance stems from being teased by my friends in elementary school for being a hairy latina...oops.

When people usually find out I'm a lesbian, they proceed to tell me a story about how their friend/cousin/sister is a lesbian too (!!!) and sometimes talk about how STRANGE it is to see a conventionally attractive woman be attracted another woman, and how it's even weirder to see them with a butch woman. The only struggle from being femme or more "undetectable" that I can think of is not being approached by other gay women.

Where’s everyone from? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

[–]ohbarnacles 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I live in upstate Vermont (lived in Plattsburgh, NY for a short while too) and I feel the same way. I wish it was easier to find likeminded people around here.