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Lesbians-only Discord server by SombreroBurlesque in Lesbians

[–]literallyjustvibing 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yes please :)

Have you ever found someone you know in real life in one of these forums? by piylot in Lesbians

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yeah!! honestly whenever i see a butch nowadays it's pretty safe to assume she's a they/them and it sucks :/

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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honestly nonbinary teens don't bother me so much - it's like what you said. it's a phase and that's what teens do. but the THIRTY FIVE YEAR OLDS walking around going by they/them 😭

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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doesn't matter which ones you "have a problem with" lol. you came onto a lesbian sub and made a random post about how bi women sleep around, which has nothing to do with lesbians. it's annoying. done being annoying?

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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honestly, when a girl gets into the pronoun game, that's a dealbreaker for me. hell, i got into it (he/him trans boy :/) and became the worst gf ever. self obsessed, making everyone respect my strict guidelines around language, etc. she was right to dump me. it does something to you

I fucking hate non binary as a designation for masculine lesbians. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]literallyjustvibing 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

yeah and you also sit around making unnecessary hate posts about bi women so

Not every bi girl sleeps around but the girls who sleep around usually say they’re bi. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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what i love about this post is how it has nothing at all to do with lesbians. great job op!!

(sarcasm obviously)

What are you good at and what are you not good at? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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good at cooking but terrible at cleaning up afterwards

Best places to meet women? by FrostyNugs in Lesbians

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lesbians? meeting women? who aren't straight? sounds fake to me but ok 😂

Do you believe in love? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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love does. but "true love" depends on your standards. it's subjective. like, if you think that "true love" means finding a partner/relationship where you literally NEVER fight, are always getting along, etc, then no, it doesn't. but if you think that true love means finding someone that you love that you don't mind arguing with because in the end it's worth it, then yeah, it does. it's totally subjective, which is pretty cool if you think about it.

are you all comfortable with me being here? by idkathispoint in Lesbians

[–]literallyjustvibing 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

this is the stupidest shit i- did you think you did something here sis 💀

i'm just,, really angry :/ by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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im 'noidontlikegirlinred'!!!! :)

"bisexuals are oppressed because lesbians dont wanna date them" cry me a river by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

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what is with bi/trans people and not respecting sexual boundaries.... geez lol

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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don't we all 😂

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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yeah trust me, i know. i tried to fix myself for a long time, which led me to label myself as a "probably asexual trans boy" (yikes). but you're totally right, it's the liking that determines if you're a lesbian.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

[–]literallyjustvibing[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

lesbians saying that males (transbians) aren't lesbians is different to what i'm talking about. i've seen libfem lesbians saying that radfem lesbians aren't actually lesbians. like "i'm revoking your lesbian card". which makes it clear they see lesbianism as primarily a political position rather than a sexual orientation.

but yes i agree - lesbian is female homosexual. the only way you can be a lesbian and sleep with a transbian is if you've been pressured into it by people who think that sexual boundaries are """""transphobic""""".

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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of course you can. another reason why the "yOuRe NoT a ReAL LeSbiAn" claim is silly. the only thing you need to be a lesbian is to be a female homosexual.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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i have, though. lesbians invalidating other lesbians just because they disagree. as if lesbianism is a political stance and not a sexual orientation.

i'm just,, really angry :/ by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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i mean i'd love a gf, but it's probably not going to happen until college the way things are rn. and unfortunately i live in nyc, which is basically the PEAK liberal city, lol. i love it here but it's so fake woke it's ridiculous. but yeah after the pandemic i'm going to join irl groups to see if i can meet "normal" people who want to talk about something other than how many letters are in the acronym.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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okay good to know. lesbians are so abused and clowned on everywhere online i didn't want to come into one of the rare safe spaces and make everyone uncomfortable. so i will use it but be careful

i'm just,, really angry :/ by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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yeah definitely. i've already distanced myself and i feel a lot happier and more confident. crazy what finally not being around homophobes in disguise will do to your self esteem

i'm just,, really angry :/ by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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yeah!! i feel very unwelcome at my schools qUeEr events, i went to one and i was the only homosexual present (and there weren't even any real/genuine transsexuals, either, just girls with short blue hair calling themselves xe/xir). i asked the speaker to please stop calling me queer and she forced a hug on me and told me to get over any issues i had with being called queer. it's damaging and cruel and homophobic, not just annoying.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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oh whoops. i'm bad at telling sarcasm sometimes, sorry :). what's the general consensus on the word terf? do most lesbians really dislike being called it? and i still have the question, whats the best neutral term for a lesbian who thinks lesbian = bio woman exclusively attracted to bio woman?

and yes i agree with you on the dating thing. i was just trying to make allowances because the pressure to not be a tRaNsPhObE is very real. but yes, a trans woman and a bio woman dating is a het relationship. any other way doesn't really make any sense.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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see, you've just done what i was talking about in my post. not to sound too angry, but by saying "i suggest lesbian" you're implying that homosexual females who do think transwomen can be lesbians aren't lesbians!! the fact is, there are many different kinds of lesbians, each with different beliefs and values. so, no, "lesbian" does not cut it to describe a lesbian who doesn't think transwomen can be lesbians (even though i agree with that position).

also i'm so glad i found this place, i can't believe all the feminist subs were banned. reddit really does hate women.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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i don't think believing in biological reality makes you a radfem. (it's a really reasonable position). however, i was trying not to use "TERF", because i saw the sub guidelines did not allow it. i needed a neutral word for a lesbian that did not consider trans women lesbians. (what would you suggest?)

and no, i would not. from a biological/logical standpoint, they are dating biological men, making them bisexual. however, they could also be lesbians who feel pressured to date lesbian-identified males in order to be "inclusive". but generally, no they are not lesbians (homosexual females).

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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yeah it does!! a trans-supporting lesbian would find it easy to call a radfem lesbian not a lesbian if she views lesbianism as more of a political stance. i've never thought about it that way but i think you're right.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians. by literallyjustvibing in Lesbians

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yeah it is pretty common. especially on tumblr where i used to hang out a lot. bio homosexual women would be saying to other bio homosexual women that they weren't lesbians just because they disagreed lol. but you would think that a non-radfem lesbian was probably not a lesbian? no judgement, i'm still learning.

i really wish that "you're not a real lesbian" was used less of the time in arguments between lesbians.

by literallyjustvibing to /s/Lesbians from self.Lesbians

What turns you on? (NSFW) (not porn) by [deleted] in Lesbians

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i have a pretty high sex drive but there are some things that REALLY turn me on lol. when a girl stretches out in pleasure when i'm down there, that's so hot. thighs also really do it for me. hips as well! i love the softness and curves of a girl. collarbones also!! ghhhhh youve made me remember how much i love girls

Discord for the lost lesbians of the queer generation by HelloMomo in Lesbians

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yes please! i'm pretty new but this sounds perfect. if you want me to wait until my acc is older then that's fine, i'll come back later :)

i'm just,, really angry :/

by literallyjustvibing to /s/Lesbians from self.Lesbians