how do pre-egg crack trans guys experience attraction towards other men? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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didn't go past "tsundere"

Olie London detransition hahaha by juo in LGBDropTheT

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If he could get out of this state of mind with how deep in it he was, there's probably hope for the future

Also I do not have the patience to watch it but as I was searching for this video I've found a clown posting shit like "Ollie London is a TERF" : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3gX_EtQgZQ

Which is hilarious

How do you go t4t? - nice to know SOME of us are allowed to state our dating parameters by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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lesbian relationship seeking but make it over-complicated....

is this really the only way of trying to find a masculine woman as a masculine woman ? exhausting

Previously a magazine by and for gay men… by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I am so confused... And how on earth they gave the green light for the model and the cover is beyond me... No way gay men are actually thrilled about this

PinkNews platforms s*x by deception by Rage-Xion in LGBDropTheT

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It would be too easy if everything worked out after the same-sex marriage thingy apparently... We have to go through all kinds of struggles for people to actually get what homosexuality is and isn't. Over and over, probably. I don't know why it takes so much weird stuffs happening and misery for it to be just accepted and acknowledged.

‘EVERYTHING AFTER LGB... IS STRAIGHT PEOPLE' by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Thank you for sharing, I love how she talks and describes the situation, the host did a great job too

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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No you're not the only one. This ideology is been sold to the kids to "fix" the damage previously created by rigids man/woman representations. Like instead of reinforcing the idea that your body isn't your enemy and that you can present yourself in many ways as a boy or a girl, we've been over-sold the same representation as being the right thing (what kids now call "cis" which is just being gender comforming and that make a lot of them unhappy (which is completely normal)). I sort of blame artists, but also not really because... Well, "money never lie" (if people will buy a product with women with big boobs, they'll make more products with women with big boobs. Moral doesn't count in the business world). And not to say that people usually don't have much respect for creative people, but they really don't so why would they side with the "common sense side" when this very side wants them to find a "real job" to begin with.

So the industry gives what people want ("want" = what works) so they won't collapse and artists needs their jobs so they follow the rules. That still don't fully excuse them, it's still shaking the wrong hands for their own personal benefits. Nothing unusual tho, and artists aren't the only one doing that.

Then... There's the ones I call the worst... They're the ones that are truly over doing it with their TQ+ propaganda art on top of making those work places insufferable because of their identity obsession. I have no respect for those people that are actively hurting people by feeding them lies... And even if they're in pain too, I just see it as "Misery loves company".

There's a lot of compromises in the modern society to make to fix this whole issue... And art/visuals/medias play a big part in this. It's just less apparent or people do not take it seriously enough yet.

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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You should post it, it's (sometimes) fun to have engagement

I hope so, really, because that's the only thing that would makes it worthwhile ! That and persuading people that having a female/male body doesn't mean you have to present in any specific way.

Thank you for your comment and encouragement !

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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Great... Yeah they pretty much took over the entertainment world as a whole. It's a shame.

Edit : Forgot to ask you how your friend is dealing with that ? Did he just accepts it and move on with his day ?

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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It isn't just the pronouns, it's the "they/them" non-sense, it's sharing trans posts, drawing the flag, creating non-binary characters and so on. There's a difference between being passive about something and actively encouraging it. A lot of artists are reinforcing the idea that this is the right way to do things, that this is the right side of history and are telling their followers that this is right by normalizing this shit. Same for streamers and so on, people that talks to young people, hiding behind the "fun" facade.

But sure there's also a lot of people only playing along but this isn't innocent, it's harmful to lie in the long run. This just isn't okay. People's life get ruined and speaking up isn't an act of bravery but common sense, we're not in robin hood... And it doesn't make sense that we all know this is wrong and say nothing. It's ridiculous. We are being manipulated, collectively, and we're cowards. That's what we are. That's so sad but true. Because we have responsabilities and obligations, we are cowards.

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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I've been doing that but that's rough. Also you can't shut down people too much in fandoms because the whole part that makes it fun is the sharing and interactions. That's why I wanted things to change. But I don't really have lot of options that doesn't include burning down a part of something on my part.

Thank you for commenting regardless, and thank you for the encouragement !

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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I had similar messages on my other account. But frankly, that didn't make me happy, I wanted public support, to show them that yeah... A lot of people actually agree with me. We're not mean or trying to hurt others, you're just delusional or mentaly ill or both, which is fine. Just don't take it out on us for telling the truth. But yeah, there's no magical answer. It's all about hiding, or being destroyed.

Your insight was interesting tho. I don't know if a lot of artists feel that way with all the pronouns in bio and shit that I see. The most popular ones in the fandoms are always on board with that crap (they are also professionals in the industry for the majority of them (working for games, animation, movies etc), they just create fun art accounts to share their interests), and I partially blame them too because art have always been vehiculing a lot of ideas or political movements. They're not innocent and are playing a huge role in this battle, just like the medias. And putting up with this shit daily is exhausting. It's like being at the core of the problem all the time.

Thank you for your message, and for creating things that cheer peoples up. Please keep creating, that's really important. It means a lot in this world, even if a lot of people are unable to recognize that. Take care.

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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We've been waiting for years for it to pass tho so I hope you're very very patient. I'll be in my 50's ? 60's ? Before these idiots actually figure out something simple, basic, primary that is backed up by a lot of good people that make sense. I mean Jesus Christ look at us... Hiding in the shadow, scared to speak our truth, when we have truly done nothing wrong. This is just sad. I don't even feel better to know people are in a similar situation. I just want it to get better for all of us.

Dealing with TQ+ nonsense as an artist by juo in LGBDropTheT

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I do both... And I know they try to ruin people's career all the time because of this shit but at some point I am asking myself... Is it really worth it. Is my career worth me shutting the fuck up over what I truly believe in. Is having a shitty job where I can say what I think worst than telling the truth when I can about something that matters to me. It's not like I'm trying to impose weird shit on people. It's just basic biology, basic acceptance (wear what you want, go and be GNC) and that being same-sex attracted isn't a joke. My choice are really reduced to "shutting the fuck up" or working in a supermarket/fast food compagny ? Or what, making my whole life about politics ? Not to be a selfish asshole but I don't particulary feel like being anybody's hero. I just can't lie that much and pretend I am okay with it. I am not, it's affecting me. And I worked hard on my skills. I also worked on my behavior to be more friendly to people a whole lot. And all my efforts seem like going into a pit of nothingness because I can't really find allies except if I out myself as gender critical or whatever.

Speaking of gender critical... It's so funny to me that radical feminists talk so bad about trans women when, well, from my personal experience, women made my life a living hell because the spaces dedicated to us is full of this stupid ideology with or whitout the men around. They worship men bullshit no matter what while crying about patriarchy (How many "lesbian" artists I saw drawing dicks on their female characters, while gay men are well focused on male anatomy, whitout bothering about trans men ? So many time. Good for gay men tho I wouldn't want it to be different, but I am very disappointed by women who do absolutely gorgeous art only to ruin it for dumb politics). It bothers me more than a dude saying he's a chick somehow. Anyway, I'll figure something out (or probably will just do nothing).

Sorry I tend to think while writing so I wrote too much. Thank you for your insight regardless of my rambling.

Scary Monsters... and Super Creeps (just got even scarier and creepier) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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He looks like he's on the verge of crying. Probably recording that after reading opinions that upsets him deeply so he's tring to convince people (himself) that he is fine and confident (that smile fools no one). Which he's clearly not. At any level.

The kids are not okay by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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I assure you that evil do exist, and you can't always explain it in a rational manner which is very annoying and terrifying, but that's just life. On the other hand, it also mean that good exist.

I believe in my heart that it's a form of self hatred that they're expressing, while trying really hard to persuade people and themselves that they are loving and compassionate. That's just a shitty disguise and also very manipulative.

The kids are not okay by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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... You'll think they'll see people making those dumb lists and become self-aware about how much those words means nothing to them... it's like picking an ice cream flavor. I don't get that they don't get it

Straight with a spark of delusion and desperation by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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Still trying to figure out why they have such an hard time being called straight

The kids are NOT ok by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Why tho

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I'm responding late myself so don't worry

So sorry that you relate to this shit, it's hard to trust people in general but putting that on top of everything is just the icing on the cake. But we'll manage, I'm almost sure we'll come across people that understand us (even tho I said I can trust no one because I was upset).

Working out actually helps more than I thought, in the long run I feel a little bit less angry by being more active and eating more properly, still not getting over how dumb this whole situation is but at least I'm getting in shape haha

Thank you btw, hope you're doing well too and that you're holding on at work, take care RC

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I wish that for the both of us !

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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She knew but didn't really approve so we didn't talk about it too much. She still tried to make me meet and talk to her trans friends, to make me understand that they're "nice people" too. Which absolutely didn't work. I just felt awful because they kept trashtalking "evil terfs" and say that they were homosexual when they were just really females dating males. Just heterosexual pretending to be "queer". It was infuriating and I kept all my anger for myself, so obviously I couldn't be by her side anymore. It was meaningless.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I stopped talking to my former pro trans ideology friend and I feel great about it :) We didn't had any conversation about the subject, I just, stopped responding or engaging conversation with her. I don't even feel sad and I thought I would be way more upset about it but, if anything, it's better for the both of us. I can't have a meaningful relationship with someone who believe in gender ideology or try to minimize the pain it causes.

I've met new people online, because that's part of my hobby. I know they're on board with the trans thing, as usual and that they'd ditch my ass so fast if they knew what I thought of all this shit. But at this point I'm used to it. I can trust no one. Maybe I need a new hobby that involve really no discussions with other people, I'm tired of getting hurt and feeling like a wolf in disguise.

Other than that, I started going to the gym regularly. When I'm upset, I just go there and exhaust myself.

I want to be a way less angry person, but it isn't working very well. I'll still try my best :)

[MOD ANNOUNCEMENT] Farewell my friends by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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If even the anonymous mod thinks it's a lost cause not worth being fought for, I guess it says a lot. But there was probably a lot of moderating you did on your own, so doing all of this with not much compagny must sucks after being banned from reddit. On top of that, this sub is more of a vent/complain place than anything else, really. It doesn't celebrate LGB, it just points out sad stuffs that sucks on an isolated place on a website no ones visits except weirdos most of the time (no offense to the website creators). I get why you're out, that's actually a good thing for your well being. Except if every single of us goes out and always stands for our convictions, nothing will change, and not many of us are willing to do that anyway so... Yeah. Bye I guess.

Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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currently hating this month, can't stand LGBTQ+ anymore at all

I'm done by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Leave it, she's obviously very hurt and angry. I don't blame her, the LGBT community let us all down and "being strong" is damn hard when you feel isolated. Trusting people when all they do is crush your feelings and ideas is very hard. I myself have my angry moments. I am very angry against women in general for letting other women down. Most of them don't care about GNC/homosexual women and they've opened their arms to the TQ+ while being a huge part of it. Fucking she/they. Fucking non binaries. Fucking trans this, trans that. Anything to reject womanhood and spit on the ones holding to it. They broke my heart. Not that men have done anything better, but I don't care about what they think a woman is. I do care about what women think of women tho. Women betraying other women hurts more. It's soul crushing. So I don't know if she feels that kind of hurt, but leave it. Maybe she'll feel better and hear your words later.

I'm done by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Not really no, I don't have "a bisexual community" I rely on. And a lot of women who call themselve bi are a fucking joke (no offense to the ladies of the sub, I'm just not impressed with the "i kissed a girl once when i was drunk and enjoyed it so now i'm bi" storyline. don't care about that kind of experiences and never will, fuck that). I do not discuss my female attraction to anybody because I have clearly no trust in LGBT places so... Whatever. You're upset (rightfully) I get it, and I'll never understand you. My point is, you do you and fuck anybody who wants to make you feel like shit because of your homosexuality. I'll leave you alone now.

Happy Cring... sorry Pride Month! by PatsyStone in LGBDropTheT

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Oh my God we're already there...

I'm done by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I don't understand the need of finding men repulsive to be a lesbian. That's such a strong word for humans you're clearly not into... It gives them way too much credit. Focus on women instead and don't bother yourself. Overall being a lesbian seems to be about finding women attractive, loving them and ignoring men, isn't it ? You're making it about men yourself by taking in consideration the bullshit of political lesbian and so on imo... Fuck that shit. Celebrate what and who you love. But your frustration is also understable with the actual climate so... I don't know. Hope you'll get to feel better about all that.

My nine year old trans son… by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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hahahaha

TIL Arya and Brienne from Game Of Thrones are trans by Rage-Xion in LGBDropTheT

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... trans based on what ?

I'm done by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They never said your feelings weren't valid or that lesbian do dicks as a national sport. It's a talk about something that happened in the past... There's nothing that "slided", people have different experiences in life, don't stop calling yourself a lesbian over that... You're not a freak and you're perfectly fine the way you are, come on.

Just a vent by juo in LGBDropTheT

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You don't sound like a broken record, it's the TQ+ ideology that is just staying the same shit. And I'm happy to have someone who gets me, so thank you for being around and reading my vents, means a lot !

I'm not that much around them (except online...) but yeah I have a friend who's fully commited to that BS. That's how I get to see the TQ+ people and to huh, observe and listen to their stupid shit. Which is funny because if the point was to make me more "open-minded" well... That just confirms how stupid I think all of this is. They're just proving right the assholes that actually wants to hurt GNC and homosexual people by trying to pretend they're the opposite gender and shit. Like there's a right way to be a woman or a man. Such a dumb movement...

I don't think I'll cut ties. But I'll tell what is on my mind if a line is crossed. Not to the crew, but just to my friend. And if after that she thinks I'm too mean/cold or whatever, well that's just life. Before that, I don't care. I won't pretend those people are my close mates or anything. I'll just do my own shit and also hang out with normies who don't mind me being who I am.

For the anger part, I don't think it will ever go away to be fair, it's something we have to manage. People are just infuriating in general to be honest and they've always been for so many things I don't even know why I'm still surprised by how badly they can treat each others. That's just... life I guess. Some have it worse, some better but again, it is what it is so we're just bothering ourselves until we learn how to say "ok fuck it" I guess...

But hey overall thank you for reacting, and thank you for being around. I'm sorry all of this shit is also affecting you at work, this shouldn't have it's place anywhere else than tumblr... Please feel free to share how you feel and your thoughs in general, don't isolate yourself and take time away from all of this when you can. I don't know if you can change your work to go somewhere less TQ+-ish...? I know for some work it's pretty hard, and also finding a job is not that easy... But if it's for your mental healt and general well being you could check different places if that's possible. I don't know I'm maybe too naive but I wouldn't want you to lose your mind over those clowns. Anyway... Take care RC and stay safe, again, I'm usually around if you need to vent or empty your mind of what's bothering you.

Just a vent by juo in LGBDropTheT

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Ignored the part where I've said they'll snap didn't you.

I'm not particulary feminine myself and I know how people can be shitty to you when you're presenting GNC. So I get where they're coming from even tho I do not condemn any of it. The thing is, I can't force people to open their eyes. Can you ? Did it ever worked out for you ? To shake a young trans person and to tell them to understand they're just a GNC woman/man and that there's nothing wrong with that ? That the pressure of society is something that they need to be aware but to face for themselve and future generations, and that they have to be strong enough to accept who they are instead of falling into this TQ+ cult ? That they're maybe just fucking LGB and that there's also nothing wrong with that ? Go on and tell me how it worked out for you.

My experience on LGBTQ+ Tumblr/Reddit as a lesbian teenager by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah, but not only online, everywhere -or almost- that is creative too. All schools, expositions or art related stuffs are dominated by this ideology. The places where you're supposed to find open minded people have been poisoned.

How Ovarit feels about homosexual parenthood by stunaep in LGBDropTheT

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Lovely...

Pure delusion by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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...? BRUH I wish that was the case ! We wouldn't be here on this very website but on reddit if that was true :D

Those morons are really trying so fucking hard to guilt-trip us haha

What do you think will be the catalyst that puts an end to the Trans Cult? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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I don't know, until people are tired of lying ? Because they know it's bullshit they just want to be "nice" no matter what it cost. And they're also pretty scared of public opinion I guess ? I really don't know what would make the general mass to understands that it's just not a good ideology and that it hurts people. But I'm sad that instead of enjoying ourselves, accepting ourselves, celebrating gender non-conformity, hanging out with eachothers and showing that LGB people just want to live their life peacefully, we're stuck with this TQ+ nonsense. It's a waste of fucking energy and time for everybody, when we could do so much more good things. But hey let's prioritize the snowflakes feelings instead and give them hormones so they can cope with having too much free time and money.

How Ovarit feels about homosexual parenthood by stunaep in LGBDropTheT

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I don't really get why she's mad about a woman having a kid that she's going to raise with another woman... Doesn't she hates men ? It should be the "perfect ending" for a men hating woman imo...

Look at this abomination. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Just put a pantone color bridge as a flag at this point

r/gaytransguys complains about gay spaces being "overrun" with gay men by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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... what.

Gay guy reacts to ‘Eating pussy for gay men’ by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I feel like it comes from the "believe in your dreams" root. If you twist it enough you can believe in all this crap I guess.

Transmen: we hate being told it is fine to be femme! by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

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why...

Gay guy reacts to ‘Eating pussy for gay men’ by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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She totaly acts and looks female under her fucking mustache. The head shape, the eyes, the arms, the hands, the fat distribution, the shy mannerism and the way she moves her body. Except if you lie you can totaly instant recognize her as a woman in 10 seconds, the teenage boy voice isn't even worth mentionning. Why the need to call yourself a man and bother gay men ? How can someone be so out of touch with reality or selfish. Why people are buying this crap I don't understand.

FTM: My trans girlfriend broke up with me because of my penis! by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

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lol's at her refusing to believe that high doses of hormones can cause your body to falls apart

European Lesbian Conference :p by MarkJefferson in LGBDropTheT

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Why can't they just call themselves what they are, which is straight feminine men

Happy Lesbian Visibility Week! Love, a lesbian woman on Saidit. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Happy lesbian visilibity week to you and the ladies of the sub !

The wisdom of AGB - Queer As Folk, a revolutionary show that gave an honest and outrageous portrayal of gay men's lives, has been rebooted into a woke LGBTQ mess by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

havent they done the same shit with the l word ?

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know, you just feel that it's really unfair to men.

I do believe you.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No not all, I said most of them. Nobody wants to die in a painful and terrorizing way, that's true. But still, I'm just making a broad comparaison between men and women temperament to explain why it is the way it is.

I really don't wan't more women killed by men, we got enough of that everyday at every hour, so I wouldn't fight for equality when it comes to drafting people to war. So yeah, I'm not comfortable with your point of view about this whole thing. I still wouldn't want anyone drafted in the best case scenario. I don't want any war or pain, but that's not how this world work.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or maybe because males are more agressive and prone to act violently when they have the opportunity to do so. Remember the muslim guys you don't want around ?

I sound unsympathetic because I don't want women to also die in foolish wars ? Okay.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't ignored you. I told you that yeah I agree, I rather have capable women fight rather than old men or kids instead. There's plenty of women already in the army for instance. But the most people capable to fight with more efficiency are going to be men anyway.

There isn't a lot of people who wants to fight in a war, but most of people who'd like to are also males.

You can, and you do sound weird to me.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's cruel and harsh because that's what war is about and not gender equality in the goddamn battlefield. You keep ignoring my arguments about the whole body differences. The muscle mass, the bigger heart. Because of the testosterone you are stronger, and that's what is needed when it comes to war. Or fights in general. And i'm not saying that war is good or that war isn't horrifying. It's awful. But that's the reality of it. Instead of vouching for equality in killing both men and women, maybe vouch against wars in general.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You ignored my argument about how it's about to win and not making it equal. Nobody cares about your "child-free" argument when even in sport women are being destroyed by men(transwomen) who were shitty against their peers and are now breaking records over records in our sports. I'll grant you that yeah, in time of crisis I rather send adult and capable women instead of old men/kids, in term of practicality. For the rest, I wouldn't do that. Women of regular age that can fight alongside men of regular age and be as efficient are exceptions. Again, our bodies are differents and men keep reminding women of that actually so yeah.

Also, women struggles are way more heavy than being sent in the kitchen to make sandwiches. You are biased.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not talking about your arguments when I said you were arrogant, but about how you judge me as an idiot because I'm not agreeing with you 100%.

And I don't think any of what happened to your country is okay, sorry that people abused you guys hospitality.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women aren't sent to war because they're usually mothers/take care of the kids and houses for one thing, and when they're not, well male and female bodies are way different and you know that. You can send women if you want, and your ennemies will send men, and we'll see what happen at the end of the day. War isn't about making things more equal, it's about who will win and all means are good for that. Nobody said men aren't suffering in war or that they aren't human beings, there's enough documentation about men and their pain in all kind of situation ever. Not to throw shade or anything but you sound resentful in your approach.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

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You can keep your arrogance to yourself.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean I don't know I'm not a politician. It's just that people run away from war and shit like that too and it seems pretty harsh in general out there. There's no perfect solution either so, I don't know.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Maybe you're right I don't know. I don't want men to beat up women/think they're inferior or hurt LGB people either.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah I agree with you.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Even witout those fanatics as you say, those said advanced countries have their trans bullshit going on for us so at the end of the day, running left or right ends up at the same place.

And to clear things up, I'm not for massive immigration. Nor do I like Islam. I just think things are just more complicated than just saying "stop coming to our countries", but that's just my opinion.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do agree that their mindset is a problem but I don't think the solution is simple as "close the gates". People don't run away from their countries to solely bully homosexuals.

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do agree with what people are saying about the subject, but with that logic, you guys also say fuck homosexual people stuck in those countries who wants to fuck off too. Or just people who can't stand the mindset of heavily religious places and wants to get the hell out to live freely. There's probably a middle ground to find.

A think a friend of mine is trying to convince me that trans people are "fine" by juo in LGBDropTheT

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I've talked to her about all that. She told me she thinks that's messed up, but I'm pretty sure that her trans friends will make her thinks that it's all terf rhethoric anyway. She really wants to be a good person, genuinely and she also genuinely thinks she's doing the right thing so that just makes me sad lol. A lot of those TQ+ dumbasses really think they're in the right too, and that makes all of this so painful. I'm really tired.

Besides all that I enjoy being with her, she's my friend and I love her.

A think a friend of mine is trying to convince me that trans people are "fine" by juo in LGBDropTheT

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Besides all this BS she is a really good friend, and I love her. I just can't change, and neither can she so it's sort of doomed. There's no way I will be able to talk calmly about trans things anymore, or express my point of view whitout snapping if someone says something shitty. So I can't even have a discussion with someone who completely disagree from the go, all I will do is snarl. Maybe she'll tolerate me a little bit more, but I have a feeling that it won't last anyway because she's getting more and more involved with her trans crew, so I will be soon a monster to exclude.

A think a friend of mine is trying to convince me that trans people are "fine" by juo in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not going to tell her anything, I do not have the energy to fight over the trans thing anymore. It's everywhere I go and it's ruining my life. I belong to absolutely nowhere, I have my place nowhere except maybe on this lost sub on this lost website with half of you guys being fed up with bisexuals anyway. Probably rightfully tho. I'll just let this relationship dies too, what the fuck ever.

A think a friend of mine is trying to convince me that trans people are "fine" by juo in LGBDropTheT

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She won't hear it. She doesn't really believe I think the way I think. Or she just doesn't want to. I remembered that, I once told her that JK Rowling was right and that it would make me a terf by LGBTQ+ supporters definition, she shaked her head in disbelief and told me that it wasn't true. That I wasn't like that. She doesn't want me to be that.

A think a friend of mine is trying to convince me that trans people are "fine" by juo in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am not very social, I don't meet new people often or go out. I'm bad at social interactions or keeping relationships.

What kind of skills ?

Same-sex attraction is degeneracy, says a 'he/his, queer cis gay boy' by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you hide and don't talk about it you're good. It's just the same shit it always was, now we just have assholes wearing our skin proudly while we have have no space of our own anymore to find each others peacefully.

Nice prank from humanity tho, I really though it was changing and that the mentalities were getting better. It truly wasn't and people never fail to disappoint. I feel sorry for the people that fought for gay rights only to be rewarded like that few years after.

"Lesbian" who's "dealing with CompHet" is jealous of coming out experiences. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What the fuck do he thinks a coming out is ? An instant celebration with cheering and applauses ?? It's not something we threw a party for in a lot of family, quite the contrary, it can lead to an absolute disaster depending the context, the country and the family and friends. Can't they show a little bit of fucking respect ?

You get to be a lesbian and you get to be a lesbian and YOU get to be a lesbian... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"My partner is a NB lesbian. She kinda goes back and forth on what they want to be called so today it's a she... Yesterday it was a He. That being said.. female at birthday.

Hmm.. if someone is NB but male at birth does that make them a lesbian?..."

sounds like what a well adjusted person would do

"[–]enbyous_analog 97 points 15 hours ago I'm amab NB and transfeminine and identify as a lesbian. That said I try to avoid classifying NBs by amab/afab; that's like asking if someone is boy or girl nonbinary. 🏳️‍⚧️🌈"

😐 this is just depressing

Young Justice has been woke kool-aided by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The worst part is that DC actually made quite a few character LGB, which is cool (well it's supposed to be cool but now I am almost numb to any sort of representation from any big companies because it ultimately gets ruined by the they/them crew, and doesn't feel genuine). But the more time passes, the more it looks like they're using LGB as a bridge for trans nonsense on top of probably doing it for appearing woke and progressive. And if I'm pushing that thought further, that's how the whole TQ+ thing feels like. Using LGB people as a launching pad to fullfil their weird agenda. They never gave a shit about same-sex attraction.

Young Justice has been woke kool-aided by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

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... I liked it better when it was marvel trolling with the snowflake and safespace heroes.

RIP for your mood when you just tried to chill and enjoy yourself while watching a show.

But that's not the first NB character DC introduced, and they've put the ugly trans flag fucking the LGB one on the side on their comics too when it comes to pride month so you shouldn't expect less from them. At some point they're going to make batman a proud half black half asian NB xir/xer (or whatever) transwoman wearing a fucking wig on top of his cowl and everyone will applaud Batranswoman™ being Stunning and Brave while people with common sense will slowly die inside.

And the transbian gurls go "Doo do doo do doo do do doo..." by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"It goes like this:

You love women because you like tits and pussy.

I love tits, pussy and dick because I love women.

We are not the same."

... yeah ok i think that's the post that will make me avoid the internet for quite a bit again

Leave. Bisexuals. Alone. Sincerely, a lesbian ally by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

🤝 At some point you just run out of things to say when it's just repeatedly the same shit.

I'm meh as usual. Hope you're doing good too, or at least better. And thanks for reaching out ! Again, I'm here if you want to chat.

I'm sick of these surface level comparisons, we are not the same by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Creating yourself a problem you could easily avoid by making your research, dealing with reality and using the help of an actual therapist isn't what LGB people did or are doing. And the backlash you'll hopefully face soon will be absolutely reasonable.

Thank you, u/theeternalbussyboy on Reddit, for this gloriously based meme by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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I refuse to believe you're not trolling or sober while writing your posts

Another day, another Reddit transbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Np let me do a quick tutorial for you : just put all the furnitures/objects you can find in your room into your asshole, starting by your keyboard, and be sure to not use any lube, it's overrated.

Leave. Bisexuals. Alone. Sincerely, a lesbian ally by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To be honest I don't even feel outraged anymore. It became so normal to have them take everything and make it meaningless at this point that I struggle to find things to say about the TQ+ subject anymore. Like yeah... They ruin everything they touch... That's what they do.

Yikes. I pity whoever was arguing against this nut, the gender cultist's side is a gish-gallop of jankery. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If there is no such thing as female or male, there's no such thing as trans, you imbecile. End of the conversation.

Sit down and let the men talk about lesbians! by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

on a brighter note, when people are calling themselves queer i know i have to reduce the time i spend with them drastically and stop taking them seriously about anything ever

so it can help people navigate in life idk man

Single. You're single. by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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bruuuuuh i can't even go through the first words this is already too much work

It's never enough, all that matters is having lesbians sleep with them. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

people refuse to date other people for a lot of different reasons, and it isn't about biases, and even if that was the case... guess what ? mind your own business, move on and date someone that is attracted to you ? they really think "lgb" is a dating club and once you've entered it you have full access to the people of the sexuality of your choice.

“Anyone want to make cute kids together before I eventually get my 🐱?🙈🏳️‍⚧️” r/lesbianactually. I can usually dismiss things on Reddit, but this made me feel a type of way. by Ferngully in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"what even is that"

the world we live in apparently. remember when dudes were saying shit like "haha you like girls ? so do i, i must be a lesbian too !" and everyone was like "haha stfu you're cringe". now it's real as long as they identify as lesbian. it's all about what label they're comfortable with... amazing right

psychological consequences by juo in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah... I try to come here less often too, or to even stop being so "critical". Now when anything unpleasant concerning TQ+ happens, I just feel deeply sad, but don't engage with it. I let it slide, and move on. I think that what hurt the most, is how people managed to eat all that shit up so fast. Now they firmly believe that you're closed minded if you're not accepting enough of pure nonsense. They treat you like a mean asshole for standing your ground. And you can't rest and truly avoid TQ+ stuff anymore either, so you have to just accept it exist and learn to live with it. People you though would stand for you won't, because they're progressive and we're "gatekeeping" or whatever. That's so strange.

Anyway if you need to talk or anything, my DMs are open, feel free to reach ! I could also truly use the company. Even if we just exchange sob-stories everytime :') it would feel less lonely.

This shit 🙄 by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

...yeah... that's called being friends with people... oh my god are they 8 y.o...

Lesbians can be Power Bottoms now by SolRosenberg in LGBDropTheT

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Really good answer. It's a collective effort to make this world as fucked up as possible frankly (lol). What is bothersome is not the kink itself imo (well it depends on the kink I guess...), is that people clame that it's all fiction and that it stays in the fantasy world but we've often seen more than once that it clearly wasn't the case. So... I don't even know how we're supposed to regulate all this shit or spread awareness. And "bannishing" everything porn related isn't even considerable, at least not from my point of view.

Fujoshi comes to AGB to wave around her arm sausage. by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

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That was the first time i truly saw how that surgery looked like... this is... this doesn't looks good. This looks uncanny at best, why... Just why are they doing this to themselves. The female arms, hips, legs, boobs, everything with that arm-tube hanging, then you see the actual mutilated arm, thiner because the skin have been ripped... i had to look away for 2 minutes, staring at the void to collect myself. Just what the actual fuck.

It's almost as though she's not a gay man at all by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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But then again gay culture is so phallocentric

No shit. You're out there claiming you're "mlm" yourself, so, looking for dicks, and then asking yourself why "mlm" are "so phallocentric" ? ...

That sweet, sweet nurture that turns lesbians straight by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They maybe were fine being with women as women because it's the closest thing to being "gay" for them. And since they see themselves as true men, the following """logic""" would be, I also am gay as a man. I think they're bisexuals with a "power dynamic complex" or something like that. Maybe they see themselves as inferior as men as women so they switch "gender" to be men and then, they can "finaly date them whitout being seen as a woman", and when they say woman, as we can often notice, they mean weak creature that loves makeup and dress feminine.

r/gaytransguys says Fruity in the streets, Woman in the sheets by CaptainMoose in LGBDropTheT

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"a dude that wants to dress like a girl in a girl body"

i think that just made me hate life itself to read this stupidity. is that what we're doing right now ? dealing with those people and having to accept them ? that's what is remplacing LGB spaces ? we lost our spaces against THAT ? for real ? jesus fucking christ i'm so fucking done with everything.

Ovarit invite? by theytookourjerbs in Lesbians

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Hello, is it also possible for me to get an ovarit invit ?

Not hiding it anymore by DickFreeBacon in LGBDropTheT

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It may be a joke but that's clearly what they are going for, since they're all about gender

I love how they get to have subreddits making fun of us, but we can't have one making fun of them. by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hahaha they're so funny. Yeah, I love that double standard too. They're just poor little fragile creatures that would go ape shit if you misgender them or inform them about actual biology, but don't you dare point out fingers at them when they're openly being homophobic. All the time. Everyday. No, no ! Also, be ready to cede all spaces to them, they truly are in pain so they need comfort, care and love while they gaslight everyone else. That's important.

They just refuse to get why they keep getting rejected by gays and lesbians to the point of being petty about it, this is pathetic.

I can’t take it anymore by WanderingLost in LGBDropTheT

[–]juo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Everywhere I go I see "she/they" gals when it comes to lesbians or bisexual women (if you're into movies/shows/comics/mangas etc communities or fandoms in general, or even a little bit "artsy" that's practicaly all you'll see), so I feel you. I was lucky enough to have found a couple of people that can listen to my rant online and irl (i tend to not speak about trans stuffs anymore tho), and I am a person they can come to rant when they need it too because they feel safe enough to do so... And I haven't found them by looking for them, strangely enough. We just vibed... So maybe, fuck all that shit and talk with people you vibe with regardless of their sexuality and you'll find out some of them aren't consumed by this trans ideology and even find it shitty/laughable. I know that's hard... But you can do this. And there's online communities too, like this one, where you can find people that relate to you.