TIA revokes trans-card of a person who retweeted JK Rowling; proceeds to erase bisexual identity as well

jiljol · 2020-07-14T21:09:04+00:00

"The family"

"Trans card revoked"

"Retweets are LITERALLY killing us"

"All your lesbian potential is gone forever"

"Bisexuals are sluts"

"Why don't you fuck me?

"You're going to regret this"

"And then the whole bus clapped. And that child? Marsha P. Obama"

Lol is it really necessary to make fakes when the actual stuff that's coming directly from TRAs is a million times more repulsive?

Edit: My point is that this is obviously a fake lmao.

jiljol · 2020-07-17T02:01:07+00:00

Don't forget how she literally locks herself in a bathroom to bawl her eyes out, like something out of a teenage drama. That's so fucking masc, bro.

jiljol · 2020-07-20T21:02:40+00:00

It was horrifying watching Ellen Page (a patron of the bar) siding with that narcissistic AGP and joining the mob attacking the bar on social media until the owner reversed the policy. She could have remained silent since this was barely even news in the first place, but she chose to harass a lesbian-owned business for catering to lesbians.

All those woke celebs/influencers will find out the hard way that no amount of kowtowing is ever enough for transactivists. These people want nothing short of complete and total obedience.

jiljol · 2021-12-04T16:50:17+00:00

Expectation: I am so irresistible and so masculine all the pathetic cisgays are falling over themselves to sleep with me like the silly queens that they are.

Reality: My nipples are borderline necrotic. My vagina is atrophied. My uterus will eventually kill me from cancer if I don't get a hysterectomy. My entire life revolves around my transgender identification and anything that shatters this illusion will send me into a spiral of psychological turmoil.

jiljol · 2020-07-30T03:01:36+00:00

This is starting to become a homophobic trope in and of itself. Both Faking It and Shameless had the exact same plotline of a gay man falling in love and having sex with a trans-identified female. In Shameless, the trans female went as far as to verbally harass the guy by calling him a f*ggot in the middle of a gay bar because he wasn't interested in her and SHE was the one who was portrayed in a positive light. Both shows have the gay male characters "overcoming" their "prejudices" (read: being gay) and embracing pussy.

Gay conversion is just so cool, you guys.

jiljol · 2020-07-13T03:35:18+00:00

It's performative wokeness, plain and simple.

"TRANS MEN ARE MEN!", "YOU MUST LOOK BEYOND GENITALS!", "BE MORE INCLUSIVE!"

ok then, let's see you go down on transman pussy

[crickets]

jiljol · 2021-10-23T22:54:42+00:00

I didn't understand I was trans for so long because I didn't identify with images of traditional cis masculinity (was repulsed by it even). But it's because I was actually such a little homo lol

Such as being the first kid in elementary school to wear make up, having a huge stuffed teddy collection, being fascinated with Golden Hollywood and black and white films, had a slight lisp, loved homoerotic movies and stories, etc. etc

aka "I was a typical boy-crazy feminine girl, which proves I'm such a silly homofag lol because that's what being a gay man is all about XDDD"

All these delusional and homophobic heterosexual girls are in for a rude awakening when they hit their 30s and can no longer sustain their ~sexy and cute trans mlm~ cosplays and realize they took testosterone and got hysterectomies and double mastectomies over an internet meme.

jiljol · 2020-11-29T15:16:37+00:00

It's really funny how autohomoerotic women will often use their "attraction" (actually a fetish) towards gay men specifically as "proof" that they are real gay men. They are too absorbed in their paraphilia to realize that gay men are attracted to men in general; we only make a distinction in terms of sexual orientation when it comes to sex or romance. AGPs with a lesbian fetish will also do this, with their "teehee I am such a lesbian I've always loved lesbians/yuri" routine.

jiljol · 2020-07-30T02:50:23+00:00

I knew the show was homophobic, but I didn't know it was this bad. Good thing this trash pile was cancelled.

jiljol · 2022-01-01T06:03:28+00:00

"The intricacies of my gender presentation" = I am a feminine heterosexual woman who craves attention.

jiljol · 2020-08-08T17:44:18+00:00

What they say: Dress go spinny owo

What they actually mean: Dress go spinny and peepee go poppy owo

jiljol · 2020-07-14T21:51:26+00:00

They harass us and pressure us to "re-examine" our "exclusionary and bigoted attraction" (aka homosexuality), but god forbid you tell them they should try re-examining their gender identity. Oh boy, that's a fucking act of violence right there.

jiljol · 2020-07-13T03:44:33+00:00

You can't reject a trans person for having the wrong genitals because you don't know if they've had bottom surgery

"As a whole, less than 5% of transgender men have had procedures to create a phallus (8,32). One survey distinguished between the surgical options, reporting that 3% of transgender men have had phalloplasty"

source: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6626314/

Oh no, someone made a generalization that is correct 97% of the time! The horror! The bigotry!

jiljol · 2021-12-18T17:05:41+00:00

Deranged real estate agent: How about this property? It has two rooms and one bathroom.

Homebuyer: Sorry, but two bathrooms is a prerequisite.

Deranged real estate agent: wow ummm sweaty like heckin yikes??? why are you reducing homes to bathrooms?????? this is so gross and problematic :/// homes are homes and they are all valid. DO BETTER.

jiljol · 2020-09-07T19:20:06+00:00

I don't think so. Many MtF transbian incels will partner and have sex with each other as a last-ditch attempt at indulging their autogynephilic lesbian fantasies. Real lesbians will never give them the time of day, so they settle for another LARPing man.

See:

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/protomagicalgirl-jaret-ross-alexis-ross-princessproto-littledrummergirl-littledrummerboy.32109/

https://kiwifarms.net/attachments/1565140650580-png.878983/

We need to start seeing paraphilias as distinct from sexual orientation. Is a man who gets off to giant bugs gay, straight or bisexual? What about a woman who can only orgasm if she is wearing a diaper?

jiljol · 2022-01-18T18:33:53+00:00

Funny how transgender people stating their boundaries ("don't call me this", "don't touch me there", etc) is considered sacrosanct, but when gay people state our "boundaries" (actually just our homosexuality) it becomes an invitation to try and tear them down.

jiljol · 2022-03-14T03:00:10+00:00

The biggest joke in all of this is the idea that gay men routinely pay to get laid (with delusional women at that). Unless you are a famous pornstarfluencer with a perfect ass, 10% body fat and a 10 inch dick, nobody is gonna be paying you for sex.

Goes to show how little these homophobic women understand male homosexual behavior.

jiljol · 2020-07-20T20:53:30+00:00

Yeah, it's that Andy Warhol knockoff AGP weeb going through a midlife crisis.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EcOH3z2U8AIWCVX?format=jpg&name=small

jiljol · 2021-11-08T01:07:19+00:00

Fujoshits: lol cisgays and their obsession with genitals. their view on maleness is so limited and frankly reeks of insecurity. they are so pathetic and sad!

Fujoshits 5 seconds later: oh god I saw a gay couple holding hands and it gave me a panic attack aaaaaa I want to be them aaaaaaaa I want a penis oh godddddd make it stop I am losing my mind aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

jiljol · 2020-11-28T16:37:49+00:00

"Pangender"? Talk about a throwback. It used to be a trendy snowflake label a few years ago until it was deemed "problematic" and "culturally appropriative".

https://twitter.com/TheSafestSpace/status/837443973018959872

jiljol · 2020-11-28T02:52:17+00:00

The only difference between tucutes and truscum is that the latter believe homosexuality can be overridden with enough plastic surgeries and synthetic hormones. Neither group ultimately believes in the existence of exclusive same-sex attraction; it's all just conditional. It's no surprise to see Buck/Susan advocating this, considering she went from self-hating lesbian victim of bullying to full-time sadomasochistic transsexual pornographer, going as far as to marry a professional dominatrix by the name of Ilsa Strix. Ilsa eventually left her for Larry Wachowski, at the time her next pet project. Trauma and untreated mental illness can wreak a person's life, and Susan is a textbook example of this.

Looking at the comments section of that tweet you can find "Duncan", armchair expert of the ~Gender Critical~ twittersphere, who gave us his "Grand Unified Hypothesis" (not quite as rigorous as it sounds) on male sexuality (https://medium.com/@duncanhenry78/sexuality-revisited-my-grand-unified-hypothesis-3ddc0c05798f). In Duncan's world, heterosexual men who are attracted to tomboys don't exist, and attraction to feminine men would commonly be described as "Straight". Lol.

jiljol · 2021-12-17T17:01:08+00:00

Gender refers to the “socially constructed roles, behaviours, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for men and women”. Therefore, gender is about how we are expected to present and behave, based on society’s beliefs about what is proper for our sex.

Stereotype: an overly simple and usually negative/limiting picture or opinion of a person, group or thing.

Corporate needs you to find the difference

jiljol · 2022-02-12T23:59:12+00:00

askgaybros has a stalker TRA sub called askgaybroscirclejerk or something like that. Their go-to "argument" whenever they see gay men wanting to distance ourselves from trans politics bullshit is to cry "gaycel!!" They are so unfuckable that they actually think getting laid as a gay male (bar serious physical conditions) is in any way difficult.

jiljol · 2021-10-24T00:19:08+00:00

Lol some of them are starting to show signs of regret. One of them posted about testosterone making her obese and how bad this makes her feel. They really do think "T" is some miracle drug that will solve all their problems.

jiljol · 2022-01-16T07:00:51+00:00

Truscum and tucute are no different from each other in the grand scheme of things. One side thinks that with enough dedication they can attain their "true selves" (in this case being a gay man), while the other thinks the same thing can be achieved with just a snap of the fingers. As others have said in the past, it's kind of like saying there's much difference between a more traditional sect and a more liberal one - both groups ultimately believe homosexuality is something they can identify their way into.

jiljol · 2020-11-24T23:05:18+00:00

This has been recurring thing in homophobic tv shows for a while now, the "Ignorant cisgay meets a brave and stunning transman who "educates" (read: brainwashes) him and eventually they become a couple" trope. It happened in Faking It (with the same transsexual actor from Shameless), The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, etc. It's a woke form of on-screen conversion therapy.

jiljol · 2020-09-03T00:46:55+00:00

They fail to understand that secondary sex characteristics in non-transgender human beings are indicators of our primary sex characteristics. Up until very recently, significant facial hair or lack thereof was a clear sign that that person had male sex organs or female sex organs respectively. Sure, it might be a bit of a mindfudge to see someone like Buck Angel, who is part of the 0.01% of transgender-identified people who pass with clothes on, naked, but it's ultimately irrelevant in the grand scheme of human sexual attraction.

It's also interesting and awfully convenient the way truscum frame sexual attraction. To them, it's simply a matter of how well one can pass as the opposite sex (again, as long as the clothes are kept on), completely ignoring the fact that androgynous people exist. Remember the tweet about an androgynous-looking gay guy kissing an androgynous-looking lesbian by accident (https://i.imgur.com/bQD2o0D.png)? Alphabet soup activists went ballistic, demanding that he "explore" his orientation and be more "open minded" and he just laughed at them and told them the facts: they were just two homosexual people caught in a hilarious and embarrassing situation. Stuff like this angers them because it shows that just because you superficially resemble a person of the opposite sex doesn't mean you are actually a member of that sex. Just because you spent your life savings on a suit, expensive shoes and a Rolex doesn't mean you are a millionaire.

jiljol · 2022-01-03T18:36:09+00:00

Gay people are worthless and unhelpful - essentially parasitic scum. Yet whenever we distance ourselves from the LGBTQIA+ to create our own spaces and organizations, they blow a gasket and start crying about how we all need to stay together.

Who exactly is the weakest link?

jiljol · 2020-12-03T21:02:02+00:00

"Homoflexible" lol what is this, the mid 00s? Give me a break, there is nothing "homo" about being attracted to the opposite sex. This is bisexuality/"Kinsey 5-4", plain and simple. It's homophobic BS to imply that homosexuality can be flexible.

jiljol · 2020-10-17T19:14:01+00:00

"Does not reproduce"

Except for, you know, the horde of middle-aged autogynephiles who leave a trail of traumatized ex-wives and children in their narcissistic path.

jiljol · 2021-11-25T16:59:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/user/chris_evans_lover/

Lol at this nutjob obsessively replying to everyone in that week-old thread. Definitely a sign of mental stability.

jiljol · 2022-01-29T03:50:21+00:00

The OP of that thread has previously suggested using a spray bottle on parents who commit the cardinal sin of "misgendering" their child.

Definitely an individual with good mental health.

jiljol · 2021-11-30T17:57:11+00:00

This is what an unapologetically gay space looks like.

jiljol · 2021-11-28T07:06:31+00:00

I'm loving the typical trans-identified female responses: "bro, your dick is so valid! bro, you can literally have dozens of customized dicks!!! bro, cis men are so jealous!!!!" It never occurs to them that anyone with internet access can also purchase whatever bizarre contraption they acquired from HotSexToysXXX69 on ebay. Hate to break it to you Ayden, but your 20-inch vibrating dragon dildo that glows in the dark is not that special.

And lol at the phalloplasty champions: "phallos function exactly like cis penises!! except they can't get hard naturally, they don't produce lubrication, they don't have a glans, they don't twitch and react to stimuli like cis dicks do and they can't ejaculate... but you have to remember that TONS [0.0000000000000001%] of cis dudes out there have penises just like that!!!"

Every time dicks get brought up in trans-identified female spaces it's like an endless stream of cope.

jiljol · 2020-07-14T22:09:26+00:00

"Preference"

Hmmmmm, I wonder where I've heard that word used in the context of sexual orientation... Oh that's right, the freaking ex-gay movement. That's exactly what these transgender activists are promoting.

jiljol · 2020-11-28T17:05:42+00:00

Bragging about getting dick, to a gay man of all people, is specially laughable. It's true that there are body "ideals" within the community (just like in any other group of people), but by and large it is not particularly difficult for the vast majority of the gay male population to get laid. It's like bragging to an Inuit about your mini fridge.

jiljol · 2020-11-29T04:17:39+00:00

Drop the T is extremely problematic and dangerous! It must be shut down!

or

Drop the T is just a silly fringe group with no influence whatsoever

Choose one and only one.

jiljol · 2020-08-28T18:00:02+00:00

but those people often gender critical themselves and accepting their homosexuality.

From personal experience, the vast majority of "transbian"+"transbian" couples are men who (at least subconsciously) realize that no lesbian is going to fuck them, so instead they partner with each other to indulge their autogynephilia. Example: incel losers like protomagicalgirl.

For "transgay"+"transgay", it's a bit more complex. There is a portion of them (maybe the majority?) who are indeed autohomoerotic and will essentially do what I described above (settle for each other), but there are also many who are actually lesbians. There was a detransitioner lesbian on Youtube who basically said that calling yourself a "gay trans man" is, paradoxically, the only way lesbians are allowed to date other females exclusively with no repercussions and still remain in the good graces of the LGBTQIAI2S++. It's acceptable to say "I'm a trans guy and I only like dating other trans guys" instead of "I'm a female and I only like dating other females".

jiljol · 2022-02-11T03:55:25+00:00

Reminder that the OG "gay transman" and serial rapist Sheila/"Lou" Sullivan bragged about tricking gay men into having sex with her. After contracting HIV, she sent a letter to Ray Blanchard boasting about how dying from AIDS would bring her closer to her "gay brothers".

jiljol · 2020-07-17T19:18:33+00:00

But that's part of the thing, though: what IS trans? Not even trans people can define it.

jiljol · 2020-07-14T22:05:18+00:00

I don't have a problem with monosexual people also attracted to trans people who transitioned to that gender

That's called "bisexuality", even if it's "bisexual with a preference".

jiljol · 2022-01-31T16:31:49+00:00

"what I like about men is [...] they have a penis"

Um yikes, this is so problematic and trans-genocidal :// Transfems literally die because of those words ://// Do better.

jiljol · 2021-09-06T21:00:59+00:00

Many of the founding figures of radical feminism made their position quite clear in their writings: male homosexuality is a form of extreme hatred of women. Gynephilic men may be out there brutally torturing, raping and murdering women, but it is in gay men that one can apparrently find the most profound form of misogyny.

“The Christian tradition — based on male anxiety from the Hebrew tradition — takes the fear of the female to even greater extremes. During the Middle Ages celibacy (which is related to rear of the female) produced such strong anxieties that both self-castration and sodomy existed.”

- Leslie B. Tanner

“Men's liberationists always bring up ‘confronting their own feelings about men’ by which they mean homosexuality. Male homosexuality is an extension of the reactionary club (meaning both group and weapon). The growth of gay liberation carries contempt for women to the ultimate: total segregation. The desire of men to ‘explore their homosexuality’ really means encouraging the possibility of homosexuality as a reaction against feminist demands. This is the reason the movement for “gay rights” received much more support only after women's liberation became a mass movement.”

- Carol Hanisch

Interesting to note is that this cartoony characterization of gay men as these woman-hating monsters is shared by people from across the political spectrum: far-right groups will call us mentally-ill degenerates who should be "fixed" of our "aversion", woke leftists will call us transphobic bigots who should be "fixed" of our "aversion", second-wave feminists will call us misogynists who should be "fixed" of our "aversion", etc. The nicest of radfems will tell you that sure, homophobia exists, but it is merely an unintended consequence of women's oppression - a simple footnote. Who can forget that time radfem Meghan Murphy from Feminist Current descended from her ivory tower just days after Ireland legalized same-sex marriage to inform us mortals that no, she is not going to "celebrate" this event and that people should instead be fighting for women's rights (ignoring the effect this law has on lesbian women) and ultimately the total abolition of marriage. How about that time failed-actress-turned-activist libfem Rose McGowan claimed that not only are gay men misogynistic, we are in fact MORE misogynistic than men of other sexual orientations.

My advice is to judge a person's character based on who they are as individuals and not on their group affiliation.

jiljol · 2022-02-07T00:09:00+00:00

Lol she goes by "Mortimer Remington Mars" and says she dresses like Gomez Addams.

What too much yaoi does to a mfer.

jiljol · 2021-12-17T04:04:36+00:00

"People are not handed hormones and surgeries like candy and there are plenty of safeguards in place... also here are the magic words that you need to use to get exactly what you want from healthcare providers".

jiljol · 2021-10-27T00:40:40+00:00

Cis gay men are often hyper focused on cock so they don't see us as real men because their whole identity revolves around the genitals. Which is really baffling. I mean, I'm gay as well and I do love me some cock but I also love men, like, as a concept? I love their bodies and their smell, their body hair and voice... it doesn't matter what genitals they have.

First of all, lol at loving men "as a concept". Postmodernism has seriously obliterated their brains. And second, I love how they can never keep up with their political narrative. Is she saying that men have certain bodies, smells, voices and body hair distributions that distinguish them from women? Yikes, sounds hella transphobic and violent sweaty.

jiljol · 2020-11-28T16:49:20+00:00

she's bi if she's into both sexes.

But is/was she really? Or perhaps we could look at this from the perspective of a mentally ill woman with a history of trauma and self-destructive behavior. The only reason Susan/Buck managed to transition in the first place was after months/years of shopping for a doctor who wouldn't tell her that she was just a lesbian with a mental illness.

jiljol · 2020-10-13T05:24:31+00:00

It's such a fucking joke lol. This kind of nonsense is where the 6492847% trans suicide rate meme came from; a poorly-made online survey that could be completed an infinite amount of times.

jiljol · 2020-09-05T04:04:17+00:00

Just remember that you are not "reclaiming" the word homosexual; you are actually re-reclaiming it. Homosexual (and heterosexual for that matter) was coined by homosexual rights activist Karl-Maria Kertbeny in the 19th century. It is literally part of our history.

jiljol · 2020-09-04T22:51:15+00:00

This is why you have to use legit dictionaries like Cambridge and Oxford. Even Merriam Webster changed the definitions of "female" and "male" to include nonsense like "gender identity".

jiljol · 2020-07-30T03:18:02+00:00

They are afraid of Kenneth Zucker's Watchful Waiting model, which proved to be a monumental success. He estimates that around 90% of his underage patients eventually desisted as long as they weren't pushed in any particular direction and given space to develop. The Canadian trans lobby freaked out, going as far as to commit perjury (they said he abused his patients) in order to close the clinic. They succeeded. Zucker was recently awarded $500,000 in damages after it came to light that the allegations were all a sham, but these new "anti-trans conversion therapy" laws means that the only legal way to handle children who show dysphoria is to put them on a path of puberty blockers, cross sex-hormones and surgery. We live in a fucked up world where the idea of a child becoming comfortable in his or her body is legally considered "conversion therapy".

jiljol · 2020-07-13T04:18:05+00:00

I'd rather confront my biases

Imagine being so deep in self-loathing and internalized homophobia that you call your sexual orientation a "bias".

This kind of ex-gay nonsense would make the NARTH Institute blush.

jiljol · 2022-03-13T04:19:16+00:00

They twisted the intent behind "There’s no such thing as other people’s children". Together Rising used to run campaigns using that phrase to raise money in support of orphaned children in war-torn countries. A heartwarming gesture now turned into ammunition for anti-gay groups who seek to paint us as predators.

jiljol · 2021-12-22T02:57:21+00:00

They might not employ the nomenclature, but they are most definitely aware of what an opposite-sex attraction entails. This is the reason why gay conversion therapy now operates under the name of "Sexual Attraction Fluidity Exploration in Therapy" (SAFE T), which is, for all intents and purposes, a "Gay-to-Bisexual" conversion that utilizes queer theory talking points. The goal is no longer to get rid of a person's homosexuality, but to "achieve" what is essentially a bisexual orientation. Anything is better than exclusive same-sex attraction as far as these groups are concerned.

jiljol · 2020-08-03T06:55:21+00:00

Lol @ at the trans female in the comments bragging about all the "gay" men she has slept with. Poor girl still doesn't understand that het/bi fuckboys will play along with her gender fee fees and autohomoerotic fantasies as long as they're getting pussy.

jiljol · 2020-07-21T16:57:35+00:00

It really doesn't matter if they are part of the majority or the minority. What matters is that:

They are the ones voicing the homophobic vitriol

They are the ones voicing the misogynistic vitriol

They are the ones in control of trans (formerly gay) orgs and spaces, allowing them to advance their homophobic and misogynistic narrative

They are the ones who do all these things with zero repercussions (in fact they receive praise) from their community

So until the "silent majority of sane transsexual people" steps up and cleans house, then sorry, but people are going to associate the disgusting actions of your movement with you personally.

jiljol · 2020-07-14T22:50:35+00:00

It seems you've misunderstood.

There is no such thing as a heterosexual man or woman who would date or have sex with a transwoman or transman (respectively). Likewise, there is no such thing as a gay man or woman who would date or have sex with a transman or transwoman (respectively) That's my point; this is called bisexuality.

There's no need to preserve definitions

That's not how languages work.

hdf jfskldaj fgdjhf hhshg gghahsgag <- I just wrote something very important here. I don't care if you don't understand what it says because we don't need to "preserve definitions".

jiljol · 2021-10-24T01:38:32+00:00

They tried to silence r/GenderCritical, r/LGBdroptheT and all the other groups who disagree with their dogma. They failed to realize that there is one thing that people in liberal democracies detest: being told what to think and what to say. Transactivists overplayed their hand and now they are paying the price.

jiljol · 2020-08-07T00:21:53+00:00

It's funny seeing people (OP included) in the comments justifying the inclusion of polyamory. They are saying that, since polyamorous people are "marginalized" by mainstream society, they belong in the oppression alphabet soup. Cool, then let's add an "F" for the foot fetishists. How about an "AB" for Adult Babies while you're at it?

jiljol · 2020-07-24T03:21:38+00:00

He literally told a traumatized woman that she needed "some dick tbh". His whole shtick is "Bimbo alt-right gf (male) to incels".

jiljol · 2020-07-13T04:45:50+00:00

There is no "TRA majority"; they are a fringe percentage of the population. What happened was that they have been manufactured and astroturfed to be the Issue Of Our Times. Opposition to any of their demands then becomes a civil rights abuse.

https://medium.com/@sue.donym1984/inauthentic-selves-the-modern-lgbtq-movement-is-run-by-philanthropic-astroturf-and-based-on-junk-d08eb6aa1a4b

https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-document-that-reveals-the-remarkable-tactics-of-trans-lobbyists

jiljol · 2020-11-13T19:49:52+00:00

It's terribly easy to say you're all woke and "open-minded" separated safely from any vagina behind your computer screen. But I'd wager they'd change their tune if they'd be confronted with the stark biological reality of it.

Reminds me of uber woke pro-twanz warrior Owen Jones going full BSOD upon being questioned about his experience performing cunnilingus on trans"men".

jiljol · 2021-12-05T04:47:11+00:00

Lou Sullivan

Let's all remember that rapist by her real name: Sheila Jean Sullivan.

jiljol · 2021-11-30T23:34:34+00:00

Transactivists think this is a clever "gotcha" to put the evil cisgays who don't toe the party line in their place; "homophobes think that you are doing abnormal things with your bodies too! you are hypocrites!" The thing is that we don't object to transactivism because you, as adults, hormonally and surgically modify your bodies. We object to transactivism because of the rampant abuse, gaslighting and grooming perpetuated by your movement.

jiljol · 2020-09-03T19:38:21+00:00

The person was obsessed with being seen as the only authority figure on LGBT+++++ issues on campus

The admin would openly and often talk about how they couldn't wait for 4 or 5 years to pass because then all the students would be graduated out of the campus and there would no longer be anyone left to remember what it was like before that person took over. At that point they could control over the GSA and the staff would stop resenting being treated like shit etc.

When the Cluster B hits.

jiljol · 2020-07-25T16:26:05+00:00

While tucutes claim that people are attracted to identities and that "you need to look past genitals", the truscum brand of gay conversion is more subtle. They will often say things like "yes, we understand you are attracted to dick/pussy, but what if the person is fully 'transitioned'?" or "'fully-transitioned' people should only come out if they feel like it". It is true that truscum set the bar higher, so to speak, but their rhetoric is still fucked up when it comes to gay people and consent.

jiljol · 2020-07-13T04:38:11+00:00

Don't get your hopes up. Gay men have obviously not experienced female socialization, but we have definitely experienced "LGBTQIA2SWHATEVERTHEFUCK++ socialization". We have to be kind, empathetic, non-confrontational, inclusive to a fault, etc, etc. It takes a lot to peak gay men who are elbow-deep in this rhetoric.

jiljol · 2022-01-17T23:24:52+00:00

Not even a wig lol, just ~identify as transfem~.

jiljol · 2020-11-28T18:50:01+00:00

If Buck is into dick she isn't/wasn't a lesbian

Again: is/was she really? This thread has made it pretty clear that performance in pornography is not always indicative of a person's sexual orientation. The people involved in the porn industry (specially as performers) overwhelmingly come from a background of abuse, addictive behavior and financial insecurity. Trying to rationalize their actions in front of the camera using a normal understanding of sexual behavior seems rather futile.

All we know is that Buck/Susan grew up as a lesbian, was bullied for being a gender non-conforming lesbian, told by multiple doctors that she was a lesbian, despised the idea of being a lesbian to the point of undergoing extreme body modifications, fell into a lifestyle of self-destructive behavior, married a woman, divorced that woman, married another woman and finally divorced her as well. Silly me for making the assumption that Buck/Susan might be... a lesbian.

I'll step out of this discussion now. Feels a tad odd to speculate about the sexual orientation of a woman who is almost six decades old lol.

jiljol · 2020-11-26T04:27:42+00:00

You almost feel pity for the OP who had her identity stolen, but then you read the disgusting, homophobic garbage that she (https://www.reddit.com/user/SerenBachgen/) spews and all the sympathy goes out the window:

So, there was a post there, just under a day ago, that was talking about how gay men are allowed to have preferences, and if they’re not attracted to trans men that’s not their fault. This, I largely agree with (unless said trans man appears physically male, has had all the surgeries etc. In that case I think there is an element of transphobia).

Classic truscum homophobic rhetoric: it's OK if gay people are not attracted to trans people, UNLESS- (long list of stupid hypothetical crap that won't make them male).

I have a boyfriend, we have gay sex, we are the token gay couple in our friendship group

PIV: the gayest gay sex to ever gay.

And of course they are the "token gay couple" at school. Why, life is practically like an adorable LGBTQETC+ Netflix show!

I’m a gay guy, and I belong in gay spaces.

The sheer narcissistic entitlement lol.

And some comedy too:

I’m gay, I wear skirts irl, I’m very in touch with my feminine side; so please don’t think this is an attack coming from a place of fragile masculinity, because it’s not.

Wow, a girl who wears skirts. This is so new and so shocking! The patriarchy is collapsing as we speak!

jiljol · 2021-12-04T06:39:12+00:00

The conflation and appropriation of terms used by different sects of same-sex attracted people (stone for lesbians, tops for gay men) fucking sends me.

That was the part that stood out to me. It's perfectly normal for young gay men to slowly and clumsily learn the ropes by being introduced to lingo and "etiquette", but here we can see a characteristic mixture of complete ignorance and grandiose confidence that is so illustrative of the fact that these women are mere interlopers - charlatans whose masks will slip from time to time revealing the phony behind. Like someone who fakes an accent to pretend like they are from another place, only to inevitably commit a blunder that leaves them exposed.

jiljol · 2021-10-19T23:39:33+00:00

They chose two self-hating lesbians for the cover. Gay with extra steps lol.

jiljol · 2020-10-11T13:42:31+00:00

The hot pink stripe was dropped because the dye was not readily available, yes. The turquoise stripe was dropped because, when hung vertically from the green lamp posts on Market Street SF, the (then) middle green stripe became obscured, so they settled for 6 stripes. *Another story says that the organizers of the parade wanted to split the flag into two to decorate both sides of the street, which would have been impossible with an odd number of stripes and so they had to remove one of the colors.

But yeah lol, it had nothing to do with "respectability politics", which is just another silly term made up by attention whores to complain about people who just want to live their lives without making a spectacle of themselves.

jiljol · 2020-09-07T19:21:46+00:00

Reposting from this thread:

Just two effeminate gay men in a loving relationship

I don't think so. Many MtF transbian incels will partner and have sex with each other as a last-ditch attempt at indulging their autogynephilic lesbian fantasies. Real lesbians will never give them the time of day, so they settle for another LARPing man.

See:

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/protomagicalgirl-jaret-ross-alexis-ross-princessproto-littledrummergirl-littledrummerboy.32109/

https://kiwifarms.net/attachments/1565140650580-png.878983/

We need to start seeing paraphilias as distinct from sexual orientation. Is a man who gets off to giant bugs gay, straight or bisexual? What about a woman who can only orgasm if she is wearing a diaper?

jiljol · 2021-11-09T01:07:30+00:00

Lol they call gay men "genital fetishists", "creepy", "pathetic" and "obsessed with genitals", yet half of that subreddit is tips on how to "pack" and crying about not having a penis. Projection...

jiljol · 2021-10-19T23:35:19+00:00

BLM grifters are really something else.

"Yes, I have enough money to run an organization. Yes, I am going to say a bunch of insane, fucked up shit. NOW PAY ME REPARATIONS".

jiljol · 2020-09-07T20:43:36+00:00

I mean I used to think the same way. "Oh it's two 'transbians' together, guess they're just gay with extra steps". And then I started seeing all these transbian "polycules" (people in a polyamorous relationship) cropping up on twitter and I was like, wait, these dudes spend all day long roleplaying their catgirl fetishes - are they actually gay? Just a couple months ago, one of these polycules was busted for pedophilia.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/furry-fandom-and-drama-general.1102/page-816#post-6738368

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/furry-fandom-and-drama-general.1102/page-817#post-6738557

jiljol · 2020-09-03T20:32:39+00:00

I love how one of the replies was "Well then why is my Grindr inbox always full"

Who's gonna break it to her?

https://i.imgur.com/CHV9ZcQ.png

jiljol · 2020-12-05T21:47:44+00:00

TRAs: Pronouns have nothing to do with gender! People should use whatever makes them feel comfortable! Enough with the policing!

Also TRAs: You are ONLY allowed to use he/him pronouns if you call yourself a man. You are ONLY allowed to use she/her pronouns if you call yourself a woman. I am the gender police. Hear me roar.

jiljol · 2020-09-03T00:17:58+00:00

Truscum word their homophobia differently and in a seemingly "nicer" way, which is why it is often overlooked. While a tucute might say something like "I identify as a man/woman, therefore I am a man/woman and thus part of your dating pool!", truscum will focus on superficiality like hormones and surgeries, e.g. "Gay men date and have sex with transmen all the time, same with lesbians and transwomen! Take a look at these heavily-photoshopped pictures of post-op transgender people and tell me they are not desirable!" Neither side ultimately acknowledges the reality of exclusive same-sex attraction.

jiljol · 2020-08-28T06:50:28+00:00

trans people from other subs come and brigade them.

This is made embarrassingly apparent when you see pro-TRA posts with leddit gold yet only getting a handful of upvotes. They really are THAT desperate.

jiljol · 2020-07-20T20:47:58+00:00

Don't mind me, just upvoting all the good comments.

jiljol · 2020-07-14T22:00:10+00:00

Because it's literally the only sub left right now where a gay guy can say "I'm gay, which means I like dicks" and not be immediately banned.

jiljol · 2020-07-13T05:35:50+00:00

Funny how it works, huh? The same people who just a couple years ago were holding signs with phrases like "No Means No" and "Consent Is Mandatory" have now done a complete 180. They went from "You are free to choose your sexual and romantic partner" to "You are free to choose your sexual and romantic partner, but..."

jiljol · 2022-01-16T07:09:05+00:00

It's so cute how he calls his TEDx talk his "TED talk". No, Pete, no.

jiljol · 2020-08-07T07:27:43+00:00

Polyamory is ultimately a lifestyle and sexual choice. Are there challenges associated with it? Sure, just like with many other lifestyle and sexual choices (furries, adult babies, etc). Should the law be amended to confer micro-rights to every single lifestyle choice on Earth? That's gonna be a legal minefield, particularly when you are dealing with multi-partner arrangements. In the hypothetical event that polyamorous people receive marriage rights, what happens if one partner falls ill and medical decisions need to be made? How can you determine custody arrangements in a polyamorous relationship with say, 10+ co-parents? In the event that one or multiple partners file for divorce, how should assets be split? Typically the law distinguishes between assets accrued before and after two parties are married, but what happens when at least one of the partners seeking a divorce was brought into the fold at a later time?

Not calling you a liar, but I'd like to see these cases of polyamorous people being fired, evicted and losing their children. The closest I can find in terms of employment is a case in Brisbane, Australia, where a female counselor was fired by her employers, the Catholic Church. Upon closer inspection, it turns out the woman was posting on polyamorous websites, advertising herself as a "poly-friendly" counselor working for the Catholic Church. Obviously she was immediately fired for violating their code of conduct, and a judge eventually ruled against her. I have nothing against polyamory and I feel that nobody, even if theoretically speaking, should be discriminated against based on what they choose to do with their lives (as long as it's within the boundaries of the law). On the other hand, surely you must see all the legal hurdles faced by polyamory that extend beyond simple arbitrary discrimination?

jiljol · 2022-03-30T00:09:04+00:00

Why call it a straight or heterosexual relationship?

Because... it is? Gay/homosexual and straight/heterosexual don't just function as words that describe sexual orientation, which is why we have terms like "gay/homosexual sex" and "straight/heterosexual sex". A man and a woman, regardless of the sexual orientations involved, are in a straight/heterosexual/opposite-sex relationship.

jiljol · 2021-10-24T00:48:24+00:00

So repulsive, but this thing perfectly encapsulates just how nasty AND stupid AGP fantasies are.

"nyaaa I'm such a sissy owo what's that, panties? I'm coooooooming omg my wife is gonna put my pathetic clitty in a cage I am such a dumb sissy slut uwu"

Cringe as fuck.

jiljol · 2020-08-06T23:53:32+00:00

The core difference that separates transgender activism from every other civil rights struggle (racial justice, women's rights, gay rights, etc) is the fact that it is centered around compelled behavior. Every civil rights movement has positioned itself as a fight for basic accommodations and equal status under the law. Transgender activism goes way beyond this, clamoring for a complete and total upheaval of the way human beings perceive reality. This is perfectly illustrated by their demands to codify "misgendering" into the law.

Do women freak out and call the police/lawmakers/social media if they are "missexed"/"misgendered"? No, even though there are millions of women who pass as men.

Do black people freak out and call the police/lawmakers/social media if they are "misracialized"? No, even though there are millions of mixed people who pass as white.

Do gay people freak out and call the police/lawmakers/social media if they are "missexualorientationed"? No, even though there are millions of gay people who pass as straight.

Transgender activism is a struggle against perceptions. They want people to completely ignore what they are seeing with their very own eyes in favor of a collective delusion.

jiljol · 2020-07-24T04:01:01+00:00

Yeah, lol, that's basically the gist of Moser's mediocre thesis. He took like, 20 women, asked them some weird decontextualized questions* that didn't even exist in Ray Blanchard's original questionnaire and then found that >90% of women experience autogynephilic tendencies (wh0a!). Autogynephiles creamed their oversized panties when that paper came out and they constantly refer to it when they try to deny their paraphilia.

*One of the questions he used was: "I have been erotically aroused by dressing in lingerie or sexy attire for a romantic evening or when hoping to meet a sex partner".

Like yeah dude, no shit somebody is gonna get turned on by the prospect of sex? Guess 99.9% of the fucking world is autogynephilic and autoandrophilic lmao.

jiljol · 2020-07-24T03:29:21+00:00

Did he use Charles Moser's paper (where he supposedly "proves" that women experience autogynephilia too) to "debunk" it? Autogynephiles like Thomas/Julia Serano love to parrot that trash as gospel that autogynephiles don't exist.

Self-described autogynephile Anne E. Lawrence did a brilliant takedown of Moser's work in Something resembling autogynephilia in women: comment on Moser (2009). That work is paywalled, but here is a post by Miranda Yardley, another autogynephile, that mentions Lawrence's criticism:

https://medium.com/@mirandayardley/from-mosers-paper-which-shows-autogynephilia-in-93-of-women-9d9d16f147d2

jiljol · 2020-07-17T19:06:50+00:00

I was the OP of that thread. Here you go, friend:

http://web.archive.org/web/20200701043728/https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBDropTheT/comments/hd89bl/gay_party_viciously_attacked_by_transgender/

jiljol · 2020-07-13T16:19:05+00:00

From personal experience, they won't explicitly claim they have had sex with females. They usually start by saying something like "I-I've never dated one, but I swear I'm open to the idea!" (then proceed to go their entire lives sleeping with males). It's when you get graphic and tell them to "enjoy pussy I guess lol" that they go full nuclear because they can't deal with the cognitive dissonance, like the guy from the askgaybros thread.

jiljol · 2020-07-23T19:57:04+00:00

Makes sense. This trans epidemic among young women mostly presents itself in severely maladjusted girls. They realize it's difficult for them to fit in with their peers. Instead of carving out a niche for themselves, they join this whole other subculture where they can be one of the "popular" girls, I mean guys lol.

jiljol · 2022-01-30T03:44:08+00:00

This is the same Unicode Consortium where a single guy threw a fit and shot down the proposal to add more faces to the poop emoji because he thought it was too crass.

The fact that a handful of people have so much power over the tools that people use to communicate is so disturbing.

jiljol · 2020-12-05T21:25:31+00:00

It's not considered homophobic (nor biphobia), it's simply just someone who normally dates the same sex but finds opposite sex attraction happening at rare times.

Which is, wait for it: bisexuality. Preferring one sex over the other doesn't make you "homo-"anything. It just makes you bisexual.

They're the 1-5s on the Kinsey Scale

Kinsey 2-5 (I'll assume you made a typo) is literally where bisexuality falls. What are you even trying to say?

They have their own label

Oh, come the fuck on. Why are you pretending like this terminology is in widespread use? The only instances where you might find "homoflexible" and "heteroflexible" are fringe academic pieces or SJW articles from the 00s. This is not standard language by any measure.

jiljol · 2020-09-03T20:27:26+00:00

And it's always the exact same people: the underwear model (who is really just a self-hating lesbian), Buck Angel (who is ironically very anti-modern TRA), etc lol.

I went into detail about this "gotcha" that they often use in another thread:

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/6bam/freedom_for_me_but_not_for_thee/ohcx?context=3

They love to parrot "BUT WHAT ABOUT THESE PEOPLE WHO CAN PASS!?". Well, we can actually use their hilarious logic against them. Let's do an exercise: Who in these photos is a "cis man", "trans man", "cis woman", etc?

https://i.imgur.com/amfTplU.png https://i.imgur.com/hWWTzha.jpg https://i.imgur.com/9mdrNiy.jpeg https://i.imgur.com/l3kP8fM.jpg

It doesn't matter because sexual orientation goes beyond the superficial. We are attracted to biological sex. A woman with naturally "strong" features in baggy clothes is not a male. A woman who spends thousands of dollars surgically and hormonally modifying her body is not a male. The very idea of "passing" as the opposite sex is irrelevant.

jiljol · 2020-08-06T22:04:47+00:00

Glad to see the histrionic TRAs in the comments being called out.

jiljol · 2020-07-21T20:00:29+00:00

That homophobic troll is a "gay trans man" (aka a heterosexual woman) in a relationship with a bisexual man. She brags about her boyfriend "topping" her anally (aka heterosexual intercourse) and hitting her "g-spot", despite the fact there's no proof of the existence of the g-spot and that more than likely it's simply an extension of the clitoris. She thinks this means it's just like having a prostate.

jiljol · 2021-08-21T05:53:44+00:00

calling a relationship between a man and a woman "straight" is bi erasure

It is simply factual. It's important to understand that "straight" and "gay" can be used to define individuals and the dynamics that can arise between people: "gay man/sex/relationship", "lesbian woman/sex/relationship", "straight person/sex/relationship", etc. You could even talk of "bisexual sex" or "bisexual relationships" when 3 or more people of different sexes are romantically and sexually involved with each other. "Straight", like you have clearly illustrated in your second paragraph, is just a shorthand for "opposite-sex".

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