"I wonder how many gay people are actually transgender" but this isn't conversion therapy at all by readingotter in GenderCritical

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"one of the symptoms of being a girl is wanting to be a girl", said literally no girl ever. One of the symptoms of being a girl is often wanting to NOT be a girl and be afraid and anxious about becoming a woman because womanhood seemed to be about being restricted and controlled. These people are delusional and dangerous.

"Gender feels" are now more innate than someone's sexual orientation?! These people really think our same-sex attraction is based on a bunch of dumb gender stereotypes.. ? How can people not see that this is just conversion therapy but make it woke!!

TRAs were angry when r/gendercritical existed. Now they're mad s/gendercritical exists. It's almost like banning subs doesn't delete people from existence by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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This. I'm doing the bare minimum to not lose my job re: trans and pronouns but I'm putting distance between me and trans folks irl and online, too many of them are energy vampires

Queer collective WOOF are here to dismantle your boring cis sex life by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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LGB people fought so we could have BORING GAY SEX WITHOUT GETTING BEAT UP/ARRESTED/DISOWNED not so we could run around screaming at other people to watch trans porn and deconstruct their sex lives! I 👏🏾 WANT 👏🏾 TO 👏🏾 HAVE 👏🏾 BORING 👏🏾 LESBIAN 👏🏾 SEX 👏🏾 WITH 👏🏾 TWO 👏🏾 PUSSIES👏🏾 AND 👏🏾ZERO👏🏾👏🏾GIRLDICK👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾~uWu~

Posted by a mod of /r/LGBT. This is how we're represented on one of the largest social media platforms on the internet 🙄 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They use anime pictures because if they used their real pictures everyone would see the absurdity because they would look like men in dresses not ~kweer gals~ and the whole house of cards would come tumbling down. I really think so much of the TRA movement depends on the internet and social media interactions and relationships, so people can present what they want and bombard people with pseudointellectual tumblr word salad and is just very performative.

Murder is okay if your trans by thecandyman in LGBDropTheT

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"centuries of trans oppression".... give me a break 🙄 cis wasn't even a thing until like 15 years ago

Meanwhile on r/actualtransbians a few lesbians apparently still hang out. "Can we stop objectifying women who are just doing their jobs?" by Lady_Montgomery in LGBDropTheT

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Saw this from a straight guy when asked why he was on the sub:

"That's not rude at all. Couple of reasons:

My sister is gay, so I try to keep up with the current lesbian meta.
The content on here is usually really enjoyable.
The community is genuinely quite nice."

Hmm a lesbian subreddit that's more welcoming to straight guys than actual lesbians... I wonder why 🤔 guess we'll never know!!

Not being attracted to transmen doesn’t make you transphobic. : askgaybros by windrunner in LGBDropTheT

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I hate the "it's the decent thing to do" argument. We don't validate any other mental illness, we don't tell anorexics-- yeah you do look a little fat in those jeans?! Why is it okay to validate THE BIGGEST MENTAL DELUSION, and ask everyone else to actively participate in lying and denying our most basic reality, this is so dangerous.

How did we get here you ask... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don't understand this desire to wear your mental illness on your sleeve. I suffer from depression and anxiety myself and have to take medication for my anxiety but I don't go around shouting it to everyone. Destigmatizing mental health meant sharing your struggles more openly with family and friends and other loved ones not posting it on your social media bios and making it the centerpiece of your personality, that's just as unhealthy as hiding it!

This honestly makes me sad for this young woman, she's clearly a lesbian but she's too ashamed to even admit her attraction to women instead calling them "non-men"..

Lil Nas X is supergay by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Called it. I love how unapologetically gay he is!

Excuse me, lesbians, can you overlook my transness and date me, pwease? 🥺 It's just a label, after all! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Ok then why don't you "look beyond the label" and date a straight or bi woman who could actually be attracted to you, why does it HAVE TO BE A LESBIAN?! Oh, because it's a fetish and not a genuine sexual orientation, so tired of these disgusting predators and their incessant whining, grow tf up. 🙄

This guy again! And he's crying even more this time, for some reason...? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Why does all "the work I gotta do" revolve around becoming "okay with dick"?! When did sexual access to another person become a human right on par with ending police brutality against Black people and letting gay people have sex/date without fear of death? These loons have made a complete joke of "doing the work" of real activism and made it about validating their fetishes and feelings 🙄

r/actuallesbians - Transbians: "I love playing with my titties", actual women: "I want to cut my breasts off" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This is so sad :( where are all the proud lesbians who love their female bodies and other womens!?

So annoyed all these pervy MEN colonized a space for lesbians and now all the young lesbians think this sh*t is normal...

Guys, didn't you know the term "same-sex attraction" was made my Christians to reduce our relationships to being all about fucking?? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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One of the comments was saying if women w body hair are women then so are trans women... That's how you know these men have only ever seen women in porn, they really think adult women are all hairless?!

My lesbian friend is now trans and is trying to convince me that I am too by SillyGoose in LGBDropTheT

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I get woke kids at my school asking me for my pronouns (they never ask my straight friends even if they are next to me), people using "they/them" for me without asking, etc.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. Stay strong, it's awesome that you know yourself so well at such a young age! I was just jumping back into the closet at your age, hope you can stay out and proud through these tough times. Same-sex attraction is natural and it's okay to be a lesbian! It's not ok for her to make you uncomfortable and try to force an identity onto you. Respect is a two-way street, I would tell her that it makes me uncomfortable and set a boundary on her "invalidating your gender identity".

This is modern day homophobia. If you're an out homosexual, you'll be punished for it or judged/othered by peers. This seems almost worse than the blatant homophobia I grew up with in the mid 2000s, cus atleast we could point it out, this is done in the name of our own "community" and if we call it out, we're "bad gays".

It’s happening: straight men not liking dick is transphobic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This!! It's so gross. If your activism revolves around shaming other people into sleeping with you.... your not oppressed, your a fragile man-child. I don't understand how so many women go along with this without seeing how creepy it is.

Extremely upset at the state of things. by verystablegenius in Lesbians

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You're not alone. I've been feeling so sad since TL got banned, it feels like we put in all this work making an online space for ourselves when every other space EVERYWHERE ELSE IS QUEER/TRANS ALL THE TIME. And they felt entitled to ban our one little space. Such a male thing to do. But honestly this has radicalized me, I've been trying to figure out how to start pointing out the homophobia and misogyny in the TRA agenda irl more cus I'm tired of losing lesbian spaces and I won't be shamed for my exclusive same-sex attraction by anyone.

"Is it okay for me to be a lesbian and not like penises" (Actuallesbians) by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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It makes me so mad and sad that a lesbian feels like she has to apologize and justify her exclusive same-sex attraction ON A LESBIAN SUBREDDIT! And she had to use a throwaway cus she's probably gonna get banned for even sharing her discomfort with dick.

And then some MAN has the AUDACITY to suggest she "get therapy" to like dick AND GETS UPVOTED?!?!!?! If this doesn't peak the remaining lesbians on that sub I don't know what will.

Incel Mode Activated by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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"If lesbians don't sleep with me, I'm gonna go on a woman-hating murder spree."

These are totally the thoughts of a healthy and sane human being. A healthy and sane lesbian at that!?

These men show their maleness all the fucking time. I'm a lesbian, I've gone years without sex or even a kiss from another woman and you don't see me screaming online about "going incel" and shooting up a sorority. These sex pests couldn't survive a year as an honest-to-god lesbian.

Coming out as a lesbian is so last century. No one is doing it anymore. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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So many people coming out as "q*eer", wtf does that even mean?! Are you coming out as same-sex attracted, bisexual, asexual, trans, or just extra special spicy straight?! I'm so tired of this slur being used as a blanket term for LGB and TQ+, it's useless.

Seems pretty trans to me... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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These people have such a shallow understanding of human interactions and sexuality. I don't care what facade you put on to "present as your chosen gender identity", that's just clothes and makeup as he shows with his "a girl who looks like this" reply. Yet again, TRAs fail to realize that sexual orientation is about bodies and the attraction I experience for another person when everything else is gone and it's just two naked bodies together, seeing each other in all our naked humanity, bumps and all. I can't make love to "women's clothes", I make love to another woman. Such an unhealthy view of sex and intimacy from the gender cult ...

No struggles here, ma'am... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They did, and that struggle was "accepting their homosexuality". Which they overcame, which is why they won't sleep with a "gay trans man" (entitled straight woman and sexual predator)

When you're so progressive and woke that you spiral back into calling gay men "women". by Beryl in LGBDropTheT

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Female sexuality is reduced down to "being attracted to masculine men and being penetrated"... and this is supposed to be progressive?! Basically just said that lesbians, hell even bi or straight women who like feminine men or dislike penetration, aren't women and that gay men aren't men. So open-minded their brains fell out 🙄

The Handmaid's Tale by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This. And I'll always be on the side of same-sex attraction over make believe gender feelings.

Yes, kink belongs at Pride. And I want my kids to see it. - The Washington Post by usehername in LGBDropTheT

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Sigh...kink is not the same as same-sex attraction unless the writer views same-sex attraction as "deviant". Same-sex attraction is natural and normal for gays, lesbians and bisexuals.

Guys, didn't you know the term "same-sex attraction" was made my Christians to reduce our relationships to being all about fucking?? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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And then they get to lie about our history to young impressionable baby lesbians and gloat about "terfs downvoting".... Yeah cus we've all been banned from the only "lesbian sub" left for being actual real lesbians.

I'm trying really hard not to resent trans people but it gets harder everytime I see a post from AL.

Basically silencing lesbians in a lesbian space to give the microphone to men by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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How many days of Remembrance do these narcissists need?! We know about trans people, y'all never stfu and let us forget about the clown world y'all created 😒

Eta: on the brightside, a week of nonstop trans nonsense may peak the whole group. May this be the first and last Remembrance celebration this group hosts🙏🏾

Oh, the hardships of telling the truth! 😢 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Genital requirement... Sexual orientation. Potato, potatoh. 🥔🍠

Is this our cue to leave yet? Seriously... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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No room for same-sex attracted people in Pride?! They've completely lost the plot. Pride is FOR & BY LGB people, after all how can these loons feel pride when they've never felt shame?!

This pisses me off so much! I know I've said this before but Pride helped me come to terms with my sexuality and I hate that straight people have colonized one of the few spaces left for gay youth to be "out and proud" before their ready to come all the way out :( I weep for LGB kids and teens growing up in this climate of woke homophobia, It's made coming out even more complicated.

Just as everyone suspected: Tavistock gender clinic ‘converting’ gay children by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Conversion therapy?! Of gay kids! At a gender clinic?! Color me shocked 🤯

I hope this is the beginning of the end for all this madness. I can't stomach reading another article about a "trans toddler", it makes me so fucking sad, a generation of gay kids forever changed and in the name of "lgbTQ+++ rights" (aka not actually rights at all, just ridiculous delusional demands)

And in this episode of 'I Hate It Here': by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Just say you think being gay is a disgusting lifestyle choice and go. So many words to justify the most blatant homophobia, all while claiming to be "one of us". 🥴🤢

We really can't have anything... by hufflepuff-poet in LGBDropTheT

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I just blocked him and kept it moving. Not worth a response and not giving him any ammunition to get the group banned. It's just infuriating that trans people try to invade anything for actual homosexuals. A whole ass man has nothing of value to add to a lesbian space, especially not an entitled man larping as a lesbian!

We are lesbians together by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Well, he and his "trans gf" are gay together.... I'll give him that. Just not in the way he wants to be 😭

Parent in /r/parenting is just so proud of 6yo for coming out as trans. Many of the comments are surprisingly sane. by Feather in GenderCritical

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One of the "hateful transphobic" comments:

Please just know that the majority of gender dysphoric boys grow up to be gay men and resolve their dysphoria, and it is is much more rare to become transsexual. Sometimes the feminine interests doesn’t always mean transgender, but homosexual. There is nothing wrong with being transgender or gay - just please keep an open mind that it may not explicitly mean that your child is definitely going to be and stay a girl - and being a gay male is just as valid. I hope that you are able to find a therapist that is not just going to push the gender issue alone and but is also aware of and will discuss and legitimize other gender nonconforming possibilities. I know you’re dealing with a lot of controversial comments here - there is still a lot of scientific debate on if encouraging gender transition before puberty is in the best interest of the child psychologically or physically.

Apparently pointing out that most gnc boys grow up to be gay men not trans is an awful transphobic attack 🙄 and another comment asking for sources on the affirmation model being better than watchful waiting was also removed.... for asking for sources to help parents make an informed decision before putting their kids on the road to life altering drugs and surgeries

Seriously - 'The TERF Industrial Complex' by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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This is the type of navel-gazing theorizing that makes people mock and resent academia. Word salad nonsense completely detached from any material reality pretending to be radical and intellectual when it's just pretentious bullshit.

CompHet is a trans-identified male wanting to suck a biological woman's "dick" and feeling guilty about being attracted to biological women. So queer. So lesbian. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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"tl/dr finally guilty of invading a lesbian space, i guess <3"

That really says it all. It's a fetish and I hate that a sub for late bloomer lesbians is being overrun with male's and their dick fantasies.

Rapists gonna justify rape and the T is embarrassing once again by Sunflowerdevyl in LGBDropTheT

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These people have never had sex... "interacting with your junk", do they realize what actual healthy sex is or involves?! A decent portion of sex is "interacting with someone's junk", so yeah genitals and sexual attraction matter in dating!

Not like the other fag hags: straight girl given pride of place in "queer" anthology by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This type of nonsense is why I hate "queer" and all this "queer identity this, queer culture that". What is a straight queer?! A straight person whose "weird and edgy"?!

I'm a lesbian, a woman who loves other women. There is nothing "queer" about that, it's natural for gay people to love the same-sex!!

At some point, we lost sight of the fact that all gays and lesbians were fighting for was the right to love who we want and live how we want, not to be "weird and edgy"...

So I heard this sub calls for the genocide of transmen by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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"Why is this being downvoted? Trans men can be tops. Via bottom surgery, dildos, strap ons, fisting etc. there is no strict rule that all transmen are inherently bottoms."

Stop stealing gay language, you are a straight woman with a vagina, you can never be a "top" and gay men shouldn't be expected to put up with fake dick when they want the real thing.

Non binary asks if they are welcome. Disregards only answer that says no and calls them transphobic. Why bother asking? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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It's in the sidebar you validation starved narcissists 🙄 ~uwu~✨

Some very compelling reasons for you lesbians to rethink your genital preferences by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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"Our kids will be gentically ours", see and that's how I know you're not a lesbian, because homosexuals cannot reproduce together naturally. Lesbians do not want a heterosexual relationship, whether the man thinks he's a woman or the King of England, if he's ever had a dick, he's not a chick 🤷🏾‍♀️

Stop the creepy conversion therapy rhetoric! Even creepier cus the "lesbian" stand-in was a kid 🤢

Repackaging serious mental illness as a sexual orientation and/or gender identity by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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These kids are so lost, this woman is clearly trying to find herself/meaning. She's converting to a new religion, "converting to gay" and chopping her breasts off--back in my day we called these things "a cry for help" nowadays it's "stunning and brave"...

How very dare those dickphobic cis lesbians do this to us by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don’t know how many of you go on Instagram but the last few days I’ve seen lesbians all over promoting a new lesbian app it looks amazing and probably historic, but it is trans exclusionary. I knew it was coming. It was a matter of time before something like this happened. I don’t blame them. All the girldick post and bullying was only pushing them further away from us. You’d have to be blind not too see it coming, but seeing all the excitement and not being a part of something like this only makes it more real to me that I will never be a cis lesbian. I’m trans, a trans lesbian is the closest I’ll ever get, and it has to be enough. It’s not like I ever forget they only ever tolerate us, but times like this my jealousy takes over. I wish I was one of them.

The more of these posts I read, the more worried I am that the day one of these delusional men shoots up a lesbian-only event or another rejected trans-identified male lights up the home of a lesbian couple and their child is fast approaching. They really want to wear our skin! He knows that lesbians only tolerate transbians in lesbian spaces because the alternatives are violence or banning/silencing. And yet they have the gall to pretend they can be lesbians, women don't hate other women for having sexual boundaries.

I kissed a non-man and I liked it by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Thank goodness, I'm a lesbian attracted to women 🏳️‍🌈 and not a fake lesbian attracted to non-men then. Bullshit predator flag 🙄

Stonewall's future plans - legalize rape by deception, promote Self-ID, remove transsexualism from law and not a single word about LGB by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

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Catfishing is the mildest way to put it, that's straight up rape imo, especially if the trans person is straight trying to pursue a gay man or a lesbian or gay and trying to pursue a straight person--you are lying about the main trait that makes you an incompatible sexual partner for that person, so they will sleep with you... that's rape by deception, cus they aren't able to give fully-informed consent.

Been seeing this circulating through reddit and it bothered me, so I fixed it by FineIWillDoItMyself in Lesbians

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Saw this on AL unedited, so annoying and so creepy that they always use the anime girls.

A transbian asks r/actuallesbians if they would like to fuck a neo-vagina, gets triggered when someone says no by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

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Homophobic rapists. Genital preference is the new way to disparage homosexuality as "perverted, wrong, unnatural, nonexistent, a fetish". Lesbians don't want dick, intact and erect or sliced in half and stuffed in the pelvic cavity. 🤢🤢🤢

"Lesbianism is an aesthetic". Damn these people are stupid. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Sexual orientation isn't a "lifestyle choice or aesthetic". These people are homophobic and stupid af.

Back to the closet we go~ by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I think this is the heart of homophobia, the idea that gay men aren't real men and lesbians aren't real women because we "reject the most important gender role; performing heterosexuality". Alphabet soup wants to eliminate sex and enshrine gender in it's place, that demands homosexuality be erased and replaced with "same gender attraction/homogenderality".

Super lesbian it is then! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They can pry "lesbian" from my cold, dead hands. When all is said and done, real lesbians will still exist, we've withstood the test of time, the rest of the made up "lesbian" larpers will be gone the way of betamax in a few years. 🖕🏾

Saying the quiet part out loud by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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But the gender community needs LGB people because if you took same-sex attraction from the lgbTQ "community", everyone would see it's nothing but mentally ill people, fetishists and grifters, and that doesn't have the mainstream appeal of "the gays".

"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

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Yeah... I feel like I'm going insane...like am I the close-minded one for thinking lesbians don't like dick?! Had a discussion w a gay friend about this last night and he said "some lesbians can like dick" as a gay man...it felt so disheartening, why is it so wrong to admit biological reality.

Straight girl needs help overcoming her compulsory heterosexuality in order to make her heterosexual sex with a trans-identified male "queer." by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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Idk any lesbian whose body is "wired to satisfy male partners" lmao thats kinda the whole point... This is getting ridiculous 😂😂 at this point just let the straights reclaim queer and use it to describe their ~special~ kweer relationships and leave the actual LGB folks alone

The rapists are at it again by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm past the point of disgust. Every transbian belongs in a prison cell (in a MEN'S PRISON) because they are either active rapists or dreaming of the day they can rape a lesbian. These predators do NOT belong anywhere near lesbians and our spaces. This grooming sex pest bs isn't aimed at any of the lesbians who are confident in our sexuality, this is targeting young, confused lesbians who are unsure of themselves and haven't realized the games men play and that they aren't obligated to coddle a man and his feelings to be a "good person"!

How many young lesbians are we going to sacrifice at the altar of this misogynistic, homophobic ideology???

If gay men sucked clit, we could live in a utopia! by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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How in the good goddamned fuck is a man sleeping with a woman (against his will!) going to bring about world peace?

These people are delusional. I wish more people would start actually listening to trans people.

So... would you or not? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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These people are all children, literally or developmentally; there's no other reason why they would be ignorant enough of the reality of sex and adult relationships to think that the genitals of your partner are unimportant. No normal, sane and healthy adult thinks genitals are irrelevant to sexuality. Even bisexuals care about the genitals aligning with the sex of their partner and they're attracted to both sets of genitals!

Grindr said "No homo tho" by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Lesbians should hop on the colonizer train and start making Grindr accts to look for other lesbians lmao might actually be able to find each other on there 😭

The irony - complaining because "online queer folk have decided lesbians can have sex with men for fun" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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As a trans girl who is only really attracted to and interested in relationships with women, I feel like there’s enough baggage in trans fems using the term ‘lesbian’ without people making it even more absurd. Has this come across anyone else’s radar?

Lmao so he only cares because the new dogma makes his older preferred dogma look even more absurd. Lesbians are female homosexuals, the rest of y'all "lesbians" are bisexual larpers and male sexual predators 🙅🏾‍♀️

r/lgbt stages a glorious celebration of girldick by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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But if he's a lesbian, why does he have to ask other lesbians?! Can't you just ask yourself--would you be attracted to a penis in your sex life?! 🙄🤔🤢

Just some of you 🙃 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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"I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body" but now lesbians are actually supposed to take these creeps seriously or else we're the bigots 🤡🙄🥴

Catch-22: When you want to have gay sex, but it has to be PiV sex by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Right, wouldn't PiV be "super invalidating"....this is so sad. These kids are having sex they don't want with people they aren't attracted to, the amount of sexual trauma they're gonna have to unpack in the coming years is gonna be intense. Someone needs to tell these kids it's ok to be homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual as long as you're practicing consent and mutual pleasure.

The backlash is here - Sexual orientation axed from South Carolina hate crime bill by BEB in LGBDropTheT

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The number of Americans 18 to 34 who are comfortable interacting with LGBTQ people slipped from 53% in 2017 to 45% in 2018 – the only age group to show a decline, according to the annual Accelerating Acceptance report. And that is down from 63% in 2016.

Driving the dilution of acceptance are young women whose overall comfort levels plunged from 64% in 2017 to 52% in 2018, says the survey conducted by The Harris Poll on behalf of LGBTQ advocacy group GLAAD.

I wonder why young women would be uncomfortable with a movement that shames and erases their female existence and demands we include males in our spaces...

The thing that never happens happened again: "I cannot fathom any non transphobic reason to have this preference [for cis men]" (Upvoted thread, trans subreddit) by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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"When someone tells me "I date cis men but not trans men" I hear "I don't consider trans men masculine enough to be attractive and I don't think they're real men". I cannot fathom any non transphobic reason to have this preference, you're just going to exclude a group that is commonly perceived as invalid while including men who are never doubted as men? The only possible reason in regards to attraction would be that they don't consider us masculine enough to be attractive. How is that not transphobic?"

Orrrr maybe their saying they are only attracted to male genitalia and male bodies...which you do not and cannot ever have???

I know you guys probably aren’t keen on the Left anymore, but believe me, as a commie this trans idpol crap is depressing by JoeDzhugashvili in GenderCritical

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Fellow Leftist, I'm also frustrated at the inability of the left to look at the material reality of sex-based oppression and how that contradicts with trans ideology. I hate having to bite my tongue about this in lefty spaces, the refusal to even acknowledge that trans woman aren't actual women and maybe women do have valid concerns with this push to be inclusive of "all women" (re: TiMs) is maddening. Female oppression is erased and ignored by the left and weaponized against women and girls, at some point we went from "smash the patriarchy" and "the future is female" to "trans women are women" and "burn all TERFs at the stake" 🙄

The toxic self-centeredness of the T knows no bounds by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Can we stop with the "same-sex" shit please!! Just say queer (or gay if it's applicable) or literally anything else that isn't transphobic and centered on a stranger's genitals.

So fucking tired of their homophobic lies. They hate when the focus is on same-sex attraction, because it excludes them and their gender souls. They're crazy sex-denialists who believe gender souls trump biological sex and sexual orientation and they want to force the rest of us to play along.

LGB rights mask has fallen off entirely and they are openly pushing the idea that same-sex attraction is transphobic and gross.

Breaking news [two women] got married!!

Yes this is breaking news you idiots! A decade ago, homosexuals and bisexuals couldn't marry their same-sex partners BECAUSE IT WAS ILLEGAL! So yeah, whenever gays and lesbians get married, it's a pretty big win for us. Ofc a straight colonizer wouldn't understand that--he has always been able to marry the woman he loves.

Apparently sexuality has to be our entire personality according to this Twitter activist. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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This is the exact opposite of what gay liberation is advocating for. I want to be seen as a full human being, not because of my sexual orientation, but regardless of it. I am an interesting and complex woman who just happens to be attracted to other women.

Yes, gay culture, is a thing--just like Black culture and women's culture and immigrant cultures, oppressed groups form their own unique cultures away from and within the dominant culture. This is for survival and solidarity with each other, NOT because we are "great because we're queer". I don't know why they struggle to understand this difference so much...

When will people get it? Lesbians are not attracted to men! by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

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Lmao but they included trans men in their rant because "trans men are men". How does the cognitive dissonance not get to these women?! I'm sure a handful of them have been attracted to "trans men" and not been attracted to "trans women", yet they can't seem to acknowledge why that is 😭🙄

Awww look at the gay boys and the straight boys supporting each other. So cute. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Tbh I kinda do hate trans people now, or atleast the concept of "trans" and the dumb shit trans people do, this movement has taken quite alot from me. I feel bad cus I find it harder and harder to not roll my eyes everytime I see a trans adult or wanna cry when I see a "trans kid". The trans movement did this to themselves, I used to be a live and let live person but this movement refuses to let LGB people and women live without "centering trans folxs" in everything, TRAs are their own worst enemy.

Aggravated by the statement “everyone is a little queer” by [deleted] in Lesbians

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This annoys me too. I feel like it's also harmful to women questioning their sexuality because it plays into that "women's sexuality is fluid, all women want a man, lesbians being objectified" and makes it harder for women to take same-sex attraction seriously, atleast it did for me.

Also, queer is just such an awful word and I hate that its become a "catch-all" for gay/lgbt, I make a point to say I'm a lesbian now, not queer.

Tired of the older lesbians and lesbians in LT relationships caping for male predators in our spaces! by hufflepuff-poet in LGBDropTheT

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A lesbian posted about her experiences with a transbian predator and ofc the comments are full of women caping for "not all transwomen" and "transbians are still valid and 10000% lesbians (but ummm I'm in a committed relationship and would never do dick! Go harass those other lesbians!!)"

I AM SO FUCKING TIRED OF THESE LESBIANS WHO ARE WILLING TO THROW YOUNGER, MORE INEXPERIENCED LESBIANS TO THE FUCKING WOLVES!

If you wouldn't suck a dick, why tf would you expect another lesbian to?? I'm at the point where I just wanna reply, telling them to examine their genital preferences and stop being transphobic too. If you're not willing to open your legs and relationship to validate those poor oppressed transbians, then you have no room to push this nonsense on other lesbians.

What happened to the strong, take no shit lesbians who fought for gay rights?? Why is our community so fucking weak and willing to throw other women to the wolves :((( I'm starting to think we'll never have a lesbian community again, it seems like no one is willing to stand up and fight for our right to exist apart from men...

In the next exciting episode, our hero has a meltdown when none of the heartless cisgays from the sauna call her to ask her on a date by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Why does she have to harass gay men, if she wants to suck dick and have casual anal sex, there is a line of straight men who would gladly take her up on that. Why does she have to invade one of the few spaces gay men have to find and hook up with each other away from heterosexuals?! Leave them alone!!!!!

Here we go: the P belongs in the alphabet soup by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is why LGB people need to wake tf up, smell the pervy grifter and start extracting ourselves and our social reputation from the "LGBTQ2SWTFXYZ++ community" before the rest of the normies peak and we are all pushed back into the closet and it becomes even less acceptable to be gay than it already is!! 😤😡😒🤡🤢

LGB = love, date and sleep with any consenting adult you want. Same-sex relationships should be acceptable in society. Self-love and acceptance takes work and no one else can do it for you; the truth hurts, but it will set you free when you finally let go and accept who you are.

TQ+++= degeneracy and delusions of all stripes are heckin' valid and should be acceptable in mainstream society. Self-destruction is a human right. Same-sex attraction doesn't exist because there is no opposite or same sex, sex is a spectrum or social construct.

We really do owe everything to them by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Can we strat a gofundme to buy these people history books, clearly they've never been exposed to one before 😭🧐

"I don't want to be labelled as a freak, or worse... GAY." by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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That's all it's ever been, homosexuals who hate their homosexuality and are unable to accept it and instead they choose to pretend they're the opposite sex, so they can be "straight". Movement built on nothing but lies and self-hatred.

What even is TQ+ YA fiction? The plot here is “manipulate a ghost because you have internalized homophobia.” by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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Checked out some of the goodreads reviews, this bit stuck out to me:

Dani's identity as a transman, dealing with that, and figuring out how to tell Sarah. But to me it really seemed that a major part of Dani being trans in the story is so we could see Sarah cast as the villain to be both a "man hating lesbian" and expose terf talking points. And the book pretty clearly tells you both of those points are wrong and gross, there isn't ambiguity there. And those are important things to say! But a lot of Sarah's storyline is about how some close bonds change into toxic relationships. Dani's being trans arc felt to me like more of a way to discuss other narratives through Sarah than to explicitly tell a trans based story.

So, I'm supposed to root for a lesbian who was murdered by a man (presumably in some corrective rape type of scenario) being portrayed as a villian for being wary of men IN DEATH because it "invalidates" Dani's gender feelings?! That's already too much but then the trans person whines that the story about a ghost lesbian's trauma didn't center enough around the trans character's delusions?!

"What about meeeeeeeeeee!?" is all I hear when TRAs say anything.

Male who is attracted to Men is a Confirmed Lesbian by GayBoner in LGBDropTheT

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However, I do have a minor case of attraction to masc aligned people , but it's more of a shallow aesthetic appreciation and finding them handsome and I don't see myself being in an actual relationship with them ( the idea kind of disgusts me) . Is this a thing and does it somehow invalidate my identity?

Red fucking flag!!!! 🚩🚩🚩 The internalized homophobia is strong in this one.

I don't understand how these kids have got their wires this crossed, like he recognizes his "homosexuality" but denies and minimizes his same-sex attraction?! Uses all the same played out lines, "only want sex/physical attraction to same-sex, wouldn't date/commit to a same-sex partner", "the idea of gay sex disgusts me.". I hope he finds his way out of that deep and strange closet he's in.

Tbh this is one of the saddest parts of trans ideology to me. The t4t gay men like OP and gay trans men who only date other "gay trans men" (butch4butch but make it complicated af) baffle me. Like they're willing to accept that they are gay but still manage to deny their actual same-sex attraction?! I don't get it, if I'm gonna deal with homophobia, I'm gonna be out and proud about it so I can enjoy the benefits of being with another woman, I'm not playing pretend as a gay man 😭

Look at my hands and tell me I’m not a lesbian by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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What about his hands made him a lesbian?! They were huge and poorly polished, everything about that video screamed "I am a man. I can never be a lesbian!"

Just your typical lesbian sex struggles... 🤢 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I hope this is a bi woman, so sad this woman's first time was with a predatory man instead of another actual woman. So gross 🤢

"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

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Yes! He said "well I've never dated a trans man but I would be open to it...", sooo wild hearing gay people call for their own conversion therapy.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

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I feel like these women are probably bisexual. but when you're a woman attracted to women and men, women are more attractive partners because so few men have actual decent personalities, so they have dated more women and finally found a guy with a half decent personality and instead of questioning if her identity matches her actual orientation and maybe accepting her bisexuality, she doubles down on her lesbianism and exclaims he's an "exception". This hurts lesbians and bisexual women and only benefits men, I hate it.

TW: lesbian assault survivor tricked into bed by biological man, upsetting comments blaming OP by Chocolatepudding in LGBDropTheT

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All sympathy I have for trans people has been washed the fuck away by their casual cruelty and disregard for the boundaries of lesbians and gay men. Even the HSTS are a cancer, they're predators too, they just try to rape heteros instead of homosexuals. I cannot wait for the rest of the world to wake tf up and extract ourselves from the clutches of these deranged lunatics and their mass gaslighting.

AskGayBros has a very rigid and exclusively sex based idea of being Gay - what an outrage by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Being gay is to love men full stop. I can not feel any attraction to a woman.

Yes, exactly! This feeling isn't going to change just because the woman grows a beard and larps as a man!!! And it doesn't need to, there is nothing wrong with being gay.

I do not feel at all comfortable with doing traditionally romantic things with a woman. Holding a woman's hand, buying her flowers on Valentines day, and going on a date with her are entirely foreign concepts to me (despite having done them) which I can not enjoy. The thought of domesticity with a woman is full of dread. But with a man? With a man the sun shines; my hand holding the hand of another man feels like that's what my hand was made for. Going on a date with a man, having intimate conversation and shared laughter fills me with both a giddy nervousness and a genuine love for my situation. I can envision myself waking up in the morning next to a husband, getting ready for work, then unwinding with him in the evening.

Yes, this is homosexuality.

And the man being trans has nothing to do with any of that.There are trans men infinitely more "masculine" than plenty of cis gay men, and if I'm attracted to those cis men, why would I not be attracted to a trans man who I would have no idea was trans unless he told me? The simple matter is that humans can pretty much get base sexual arousal from something they're not personally attracted to, as some weirdo was yelling about here a few weeks ago.

How do they go from "the thought of being with a woman fills me with dread" to "but I'd do it if she pretends to be a man"?!? 🤨🤯 Trans is held together by the fact that many of these youth who support the movement have never had sex/serious relationships and think that dating is all holding hands, fun adventures and keeping the clothes on at all times. How else could a gay man really believe being with a medically altered woman is the same as being with another man.

Penis: the most lesbian thing ever by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I don't know if I'm disgusted or tired or angry, this rape-y propoganda is so harmful to lesbians. I just want this madness to end and regular run of the mill homophobia to make a comeback, atleast I can fight that with facts and logic. There is no fighting the delusions of woke homophobia.

We are lesbians together by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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And he actually believes trans delusions are reality. This makes me sad for this kid and all the other youth sucked up into this....they genuinely believe that a man can become a woman and that heterosexual sex can be "gay" just because one of the people has a gender identity. How are these kids gonna navigate the actual world?! Someone take that VR headset from this kid pls and toss him outside with some grass and normie friends!

A million eye rolls 😒😒😒 by GayBoner in LGBDropTheT

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Literally using intersex people as a shield to protect the TQ+ from being cut out of the LGB community.

Apparently it's outdated to be a homosexual by EzukiRaen in LGBDropTheT

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Notice how they didn't say being straight would also fade out? Tastes like woque homophobia to me🍵

[meta] anyone else is disturbed by the kind of people on saidit? should we move somewhere else? by temp_d in Lesbians

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You're not alone, I had to unsubscribe to everything but the reddit banwave subs cus the rest of this site is a dumpster fire. It makes me so mad that lesbians get banned to the internet dumps with neonazis and anti-maskers, it's ridiculous and I've actually ranted about it to a few of my friends irl and they've been pretty sympathetic and surprised that anyone would think lesbians want dick or be offended when we don't!

Lesbians on r/AL actually try to discuss the issue of Lesbophobia. Mod locks the thread of course. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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That entire thread just pissed me off!! The fact that these delusional men think they have the right to colonize lesbian spaces, and then seeing all the lesbians ALMOST getting it but still tooting the TWAW nonsense and shitting on TERFs... . Everyday I get more and more disillusioned that it seems like everyone else is drinking this gender kool-aid

What's the difference between the transbians and straight men on the sub?! And why do straight men love the memes on a lesbian sub? Maybe they relate to the memes because the actuallesbians is actuallystraightmen 🤔

Do you think this is the end for TL? by a_blue_bird in Lesbians

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Omg yes, the userbase on this site outside of the LGB and GC subs is a dumpster fire of neo nazi trolls and professional a**holes! It blows my mind that the idea that lesbians only want other women is on the same level of social ostracization as Neo Nazis 😩

Claiming that label any way you can by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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didn't expect the her boyfriend -- a cishet man-- would be the one to reaffirm her bisexuality

Wow, shocking, your romantic and sexual partner is the one who helps support you through a struggle with your perception of your sexuality by participating in an intimacy building ritual with you and it helps you feel better-- EVEN THOUGH HE'S AN AWFUL CISHET MAN?! 😒

This movement is as regressive as it is ridiculous.

When sending pics of your dildo to guys on Grindr doesn't get the response you want by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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And what would she do if the guy sent her a picture of a dildo? Would she still want HIM if she knew he was actually a trans guy too? 🤔🧐😒

Funny how she calls him a c*nt, the internalized misogyny is strong in this one.

Regretful 'enby' thought trying to be both sexes at once would make him irresistible to bisexuals. Cries tears of regret when they only see a man in makeup. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 24 insightful - 6 fun24 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I have experienced some confusion and misgendering from gay dudes but I find the ones who message are more open minded to me.

The bi men who message, I find they really are just looking for an NSA fetish. They misgender me, they want to suck me even when my profile explains this is a major dysphoria trigger.

How dare those gay and bi men talk about their sexual attraction to other men and what they'd like to do sexually with a person they're meeting ON A HOOKUP APP!!!

I have a bi woman friend who encouraged me to come out because she sees people, not gender. So I guess I was expecting to meet a nice bi guy who would be more open minded and validate my gender identity. I knew the pool would shrink for dating, but I thought I'd get some quality matches. In my experience, the bi guys are even worse than cis gay dudes and it really sucks.

I don't even find bi men more attractive, it's just I was hoping for a partner who would see me for me and not as a man, like gay dudes do.

🚩🚩🚩🚩internalized homophobia 🚩🚩🚩🚩

Ah yes, because all gay men will sleep with any man and have no concern for their partner's personality, life or inner world. Nope, clearly just a bunch of sex-obsessed freaks.

It's almost making me regret coming out because I'm increasingly aware the tiny dating pool I had when I was seen as cis gay has shrunk tenfold more. It feels quite hopeless.

Yes, going into the bizarro world closet and pretending you're not gay would make dating and building community with other homo and bisexuals more difficult.

Just admit you're homophobic by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 24 insightful - 8 fun24 insightful - 7 fun25 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Never. Boundaries are for trans people. Us, awful cis scum, are only allowed to have cult-approved boundaries and even then, if a trans person disagrees, we better stfu and "educate ourselves".

Why is Twitter so twansphobic?! I was only being homophobic and misogynistic, after all! 💀 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]hufflepuff-poet 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hate how they assume gay men only have anal sex, straight people have such a limited view of sex it's all PiV or P in some 🕳️. Sex is more than just a dick in a vagina, if you're gay that's probably the one type of sex you don't want by default.