It’s happening: straight men not liking dick is transphobic by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 101 insightful - 27 fun101 insightful - 26 fun102 insightful - 27 fun -  (0 children)

Yes yes yes! The sooner they start attacking straight dudes, the sooner this nonsense ends.

Selfless bi woman advises lesbians to be nice to MTFs who surprise them with pulling out a dick before sex, because ''frustration is guaranteed'' when you have sex with men, lol by a_blue_bird in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 83 insightful - 26 fun83 insightful - 25 fun84 insightful - 26 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah don't take sex advice from someone who keeps having horrible sex and not learning any lessons.

Fujoshi girl wonders why gay sex party isn't as inclusive as her college "queer" group. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 76 insightful - 12 fun76 insightful - 11 fun77 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

I blame her friend for this too. Her gut kept telling her she didn't belong there, but the friend kept encouraging her. Either he's just as (if not more so) delusional as she is, or he's an asshole who was setting her up for failure (and making everyone else at the party uncomfortable in the process.)

But like, I hate to be crude but............................ You're a girl with a vagina. If you just want some random dudes to gangbang you, I'm sure you can make it happen. The fact that you NEEED them to be gay/bi/queer identified shows me that you have a fetish or at least an unhealthy fixation.

Has anyone else also seen the 17-year-old lesbian girl who was viciously attacked and harassed on TikTok and Instagram for saying that she doesn’t want to have sex with “male genitals”? by hover286 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 69 insightful - 1 fun69 insightful - 0 fun70 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am so stunned by how unbelievably stupid and pig-headed so many people are. These teens have spent their whole lives being taught about anti-bullying, and anti-internet-bullying, and lgbt rights and all this politically correct, feel-good, 'let's all love each other' bullshit, and I'm calling it bullshit because look at the result. They are like zombies. They didn't learn a fucking thing. They're not going to relax until this girl disappears from the internet or kills herself. They're out for blood. And for what? None of these losers even know this girl IRL. It doesn't affect them at all if she doesn't want to touch a trans person's dick. These people have no lives.

They care ssssoooo much about "twans lives uwu" because remember, the big excuse about why we are supposed to coddle trans kids/adults is because of the high suicide rate, but they are telling this girl to kill herself. They do not care about human life. They do not even care about trans lives. This is all just an excuse to gather together and bully someone and get those delicious, exciting brain chemicals firing off and making them feel good. They are basically mentally jerking off to abusing this poor girl through the internet and feeling morally superior about themselves. If it was trendy to tell trans people to kill themselves, these people would be doing that instead.

And the sickest part is, they will keep looking in the mirror and calling themselves good people. At appropriate times they will whine about how they were bullied in school, and how against bullying they are, and they will probably not even remember that in the summer of 2020, they told a teenager lesbian to kill herself because she dared to say that she did not want penis in her sex life.

"You can't ask someone if they are trans" according to the not-lesbians on r/actuallesbians. by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 62 insightful - 39 fun62 insightful - 38 fun63 insightful - 39 fun -  (0 children)

I would totally watch a prank show where two Trans women are set up to meet on an app while both pretending to be actual women, using facetune or whatever to make themselves look as femmy as possible, then they go on a blind date, and then have to act like they're totally okay with each other's girl-dicks while having an awkward dinner together because they don't want to look twansphobic uwu on camera. Meanwhile we just watch them both die on the inside slooowly.

On r/actuallesbians, penises make lesbian sex easier. How convenient! by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 61 insightful - 16 fun61 insightful - 15 fun62 insightful - 16 fun -  (0 children)

You know what's easier for a lot of women? Achieving orgasm with a finger or a tongue. But big surprise, penis-haver doesn't care about woman's orgasm.

Lesbian on r/actualtransbians posts about how she’s having a hard time because her family isn’t accepting. Transbian asks her to think about transitioning by tript in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 58 insightful - 1 fun58 insightful - 0 fun59 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Damn, she's a hero for the way she went in on the two of them! If everyone had slapped back like this all the way from the beginning, we wouldn't be in this mess right now!

But I'm sure if she hadn't deleted, it was only a matter of time before someone rushed in to screech TERF, BEGONE!

So... I made a tweet that Ricky Gervais liked that stated: "I'll give £500 to anyone who can tell what JK Rowling said that was transphobic." I am never picking up Twitter again. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 56 insightful - 3 fun56 insightful - 2 fun57 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Don't even read the replies. (I know, easy to say, hard to do.) You are right and they are wrong and that's all that matters. These people have no lives, they just sit in front of social media and refresh their screens all day long, looking for a post like yours so they can have a feeding frenzy. That's the only way their brains make the happy/reward hormones that keep them going. When they are replying to you, they're not even in their right minds, they are like zombies trying to reach that next high.

Let us fags have our spaces by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 55 insightful - 29 fun55 insightful - 28 fun56 insightful - 29 fun -  (0 children)

Does anyone ever feel like maybe they died, but they weren't bad enough to qualify to go to the fire-and-brimstone type hell, and they somehow ended up in this low-level hell where weird shit keeps happening and nothing makes sense?

Am I transphobic if I don’t want to have sex with trans women? The answer is "complex" and somewhat rapey. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 55 insightful - 4 fun55 insightful - 3 fun56 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

the patriarchy tells cis lesbians to fear trans women and vice versa.

LOL, no. The patriarchy completely abandoned lesbians and women. The patriarchy has already put trans identified men and boys in women's locker rooms, toilets, sports, prisons, and shelters. The patriarchy tells women/lesbians to shut the fuck up and worship the dick.

If you need to write a whole essay to try to change someone's mind about why they should be sexually attracted to someone they aren't sexually attracted to, you are a rape-enabler. You are participating in social coercion.

The people they demand we feel a sense of “community” with by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 55 insightful - 5 fun55 insightful - 4 fun56 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

So this transman is planning on breeding some Terfs with he/him's clitty?

Seeing a woman wishing rape upon other fellow women is just so sickening. Like, girl, you've been in this world as a girl/woman for so many years. In fact you hate it so much you want to switch over to being a man. How can you wish rape and slavery upon anyone? And don't give me the 'durr-hurr it's a joke' the fact that you think it's funny at all is the problem.

50 years after Stonewall we are now fighting bisexual people as well as heterosexuals for our right to same-sex attraction by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 54 insightful - 1 fun54 insightful - 0 fun55 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is no "now" about it. Confused bisexuals who think they are straight or L/G have been doing this shit since the beginning of time and it's ironic because most of them refuse to be called bisexual. They insist they are straight or L/G and that they chose to be. They think EVERYONE is capable of being attracted to both male and female just like they are and that most people choose to be straight because that's what society teaches them is normal from a very young age, and some weirdos for whatever reason choose to be exclusively homo, who the fuck knows why, but everyone is capable of switching it up whenever they feel like it.

It's the most annoying thing ever, and most of these clowns will fight you to the death if you try to explain it to them that no, most humans are monosexual and they can't just decide to like the other sex. The ability to prefer one over the other, the ability to just focus on one and ignore your attraction to the other, the ability to completely deny to yourself that you are attracted to the other, or convince yourself 'everyone feel like this'... that's still bisexual. It's bisexual delusion.

If you try to call these people bisexual, they'll cry "don't you dare label me!!!!"

Where's the gay men's awareness campaign???? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 54 insightful - 19 fun54 insightful - 18 fun55 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

These poor men must bleed onto their man panties because they can't get maxi pads because it is in the womens' aisle, and the boxes have venus symbols on them, and purchasing these items would cause dysphoria because no one wants to be a stinky doo-doo face girl with cooties!

Meanwhile nobody gives a shit about the women in American prisons who don't have maxi pads and tampons, they have to bleed into a a sock or use toilet paper.

PinkNews CEO, Ben Cohen, gets Stonewall Vet and Gay Pride founder suspended from Twitter. Says he's "proud" of doing so. by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 54 insightful - 3 fun54 insightful - 2 fun55 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If you are an adult and you think gloating on Twitter about getting another person's account suspended makes you look good, I think you really need to grow up. I'm having a hard time verbalizing my feelings without using woke-words and phrases like 'yikes!' 'not a good look!' and 'gross!' Is this person a real gay man, or an Aiden? If he's a gay man, then I'm amazed at how he could do other gay men dirty like this. If she's an Aiden, then I'm not surprised at all. They feel no brotherhood with other men because they will never be men.

Queer collective WOOF are here to dismantle your boring cis sex life by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 54 insightful - 2 fun54 insightful - 1 fun55 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

These people love screaming about colonialism, but one of the most awful parts of colonialism was when the colonialists tried to force the native population to stop liking/doing/believing what they already liked/did/believed, and instead start liking/doing/believing what the colonialists thinks they should. BY FORCE, with DEATH as a punishment. At least these creeps don't have that kind of power over us yet.

Why are those faggoty gay men so triggered by the lust they feel for women? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 53 insightful - 2 fun53 insightful - 1 fun54 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ohhhmyyygodddd leave this guy alone! It's a tiny little gay camping thing in Michigan in the middle of a fucking pandemic, in the middle of winter when nobody's even going naked camping in the first place! Who the fuck cares? These people really have no lives. They are so excited by the idea of destroying this guy.

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 53 insightful - 1 fun53 insightful - 0 fun54 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people are not getting the point. They keep thinking if they can figure out a way to label a behavior as "Transphobia" they automatically win the argument and are owed sex now. They don't understand that IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT'S TRANSPHOBIA no one is obligated to fuck you. Even if they're racist rapist monsters who kill kittens, they still don't have to fuck you. Calling it transphobia doesn't change anything.

I’m a lesbian BECAUSE I love dick by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 52 insightful - 8 fun52 insightful - 7 fun53 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

And if you try to show this to anybody like "See how they act?" that person will immediately be like "NOOOO That's only one person! It's probably a troll! How could you possible fall for that? No actual trans person acts like this! And if they do, they're just joking! And if they're not joking, well, they're just upset and venting, and you with your vagina-having privilege don't get to police how they vent! How dare you!"

Like, they will literally bend themselves into a pretzel to ignore, dismiss, or excuse these types of posts, and they'll make you out to be the asshole for pointing it out.

Cis gay men, why do you suck so badly at communicating? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 51 insightful - 12 fun51 insightful - 11 fun52 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

They're not attracted to YOU. Is that clear enough?

Transwoman confesses to raping a biological woman then gets invited to speak at Women's March by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 51 insightful - 1 fun51 insightful - 0 fun52 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Put on your helmet and your seat belt, I am about to rage:

We all remember what the fuck happened when JK Rowling tried to talk about her own sexual abuse at the hands of men. It was deemed twansphobia uwu for a woman to feel traumatized and wary of men after having gone through an experience like that. But to be sexually abused and turn into a rapist is totally fine, in fact it requires us to instantly give sympathy, acceptance, and understanding, (or else we're twansphobic uwu.)

This piece of human feces pretending to be a woman raped not only a woman, but A FELLOW TRANS PERSON. The person who got raped was a trans man. This person was raped for the verbally expressed purpose of getting impregnated in order to create non-binary babies. This wasn't just a one-time sex situation, this was meant to be 9 months of forced pregnancy and 18 years of motherhood inflicted on somebody who identifies as a man, a type of man that doesn't wish to get pregnant or have those experiences ever.

Mr Biko first edited and then removed his rape confession from Medium.com when it was met with outrage and backlash from his supporters.

You know what's disgusting? The level of relief I felt upon reading this sentence. The fact that I was so happy and surprised to see it that I had to rush over and cut-paste it here. Because I don't believe we live in a world anymore where people in western nations feel safe enough to express outrage towards trans identified men regarding ANYTHING. Just look at what happened with Meredith Russo? (Just google 'Meredith Russo rape'. This piece of trash raped and abused his wife and is still allowed to write novels for young adults because he is twans uwu.)

I tried to search for what happened to the trans identified woman Biko raped and didn't find much, but this is als oa very good article about this same topic:

https://www.fpiw.org/blog/2016/08/11/there-was-a-certain-rape-a-look-inside-the-transgender-movement/

Found this tumblr post on "transgenders" across cultures by fijupanda in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 51 insightful - 6 fun51 insightful - 5 fun52 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Love the long comment below it that debunks every single claim!!!! So sick of ignorant trolls passing along their ignorant bullshit as facts.

Gay men really need to stop being attracted to other men because NOTHING is hotter than heterosexuality by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 49 insightful - 19 fun49 insightful - 18 fun50 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

LOL this is an FTM pretending to be an actual gay man who has an FTM "boyfriend" whom he fucks in the fronthole with his non-existent gay penis.

on transwoman dating eachother and calling themselves "lesbians" by verystablegenius in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 49 insightful - 2 fun49 insightful - 1 fun50 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not a psychiatrist, so I'm basing this on having lived with a Narcissistic Personality Disordered mother for the first half of my life.

First I will start off by giving you an example of her lunacy. When I was about 5 or 6 she got me a piano-like toy. It was something similar to this, but made in the 80's:

https://shopee.ph/Hello-Kitty-Toy-Piano-Organ-i.14475196.1113187959

The keys had numbers on them, and it came with a little guidebook, so I was able to kind of teach myself how to do Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.

Then she started telling people that I could play the piano. Like... An actual fucking piano. The more she told this lie, the more elaborate it got. She kept telling all these people how I was getting lessons and I was like a little Mozart, that I could play all these different tunes, and how I'm a genius who can read music (I can't even read WORDS at that age, let alone music. I just know letters and numbers.) Meanwhile, I'm standing there having an anxiety attack because I'm terrified someone is going to randomly pull a piano out of their assholes and ask me to play something. I can't even really play, I just have the numbers on the keys memorized, so I wouldn't even be able to do Twinkle Twinkle on an actual piano.

But now we live in an alternate reality where I'm a 6 year old piano genius, and I'm not allowed to dispute this, or she will lose her fucking shit and go off on me. I mean, of course she knows I don't really play the piano, but that doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is that other people believe I can play the piano, and this makes her look good.

And in the same way, these straight men know they aren't women, and they know they aren't dating women, but that doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is the fantasy. So long as EVERYONE agrees on the fantasy, we're all good.

This is why validation is so important. I'm pretty sure many of the people my mother bragged to had a feeling I didn't play shit, especially from looking at me and how embarrassed and mortified I must have been acting as she bragged. But they knew they were dealing with an unhinged woman and that just smiling and nodding and making impressed sounds was the easiest path to take in this kind of situation.

This is how narcissists have been navigating through society for millennia. They just lie and lie and lie, and no one calls them on it because their lies are mostly for the purpose of making themselves look a certain way, so it doesn't really affect anyone else (except it does thought) and it's easier to just smile and nod than to say 'hold up, I don't think your kid can play piano.' Because how would that conversation even go? It would just be rude and awkward and it would cause the relationship to implode.

When we tell Trans Women that they and their girlfriends aren't women, that's exactly what we're doing, and you can see how they react. They are literally trying to get laws put into place so that we can't tell them this. It would be like my mother creating a law where no one is able to dispute my piano playing genius.

She wants to live in a fantasy world where she is a fantastic mother who birthed a genius, and no one will get in her way. He wants to live in a fantasy world where he is a woman dating a woman, and no one will get in his way. It's the same thing, really. But in order for it to work, everyone has to agree to stay silent and validate.

No Country for Gay Men - the transpaign against AskGayBros by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 49 insightful - 9 fun49 insightful - 8 fun50 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Remember, like a year ago, us women were complaining that gay men never have to deal with this shit? Sometimes I wonder if all our whining about this cursed you guys, LOL? Sort of like the evil-eye. If so, sorry...

I wonder what happened in the span of a year that gave all these FTM's all this courage to suddenly demand dick from strange men in such a fashion. Like... You all remember when this was not a thing, right? We were even arm-chair psychiatristing about how women are socialized differently so it would be impossible for FTM to act like this, and.... Wow... how wrong we were...

What changed though? It feels like it all happened so suddenly.

Why are lesbians more compliant with TRA than gay men? by rouge_tropical in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 49 insightful - 1 fun49 insightful - 0 fun50 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJ4sbNVkJnM

Check out this video. It was posted in another tread yesterday. The context is, there was a Womens Library opened up in Canada and TRA decided to invade it and confront the women there. All it took was one scary trans identified male screeching and a group of - whatever the fuck they are - lurking near him menacingly to scare the women into a freeze/fawn response. They tried to negotiate peacefully instead of going "NOPE! GTFO! NOW!" (One girl tried it, screaming from the background while hiding in the shadows, but everyone ignored her.) Had it been a Mens Library filled with men, the men's responses would have been A LOT more aggressive and confrontational. It's partly to do with social conditioning, but also to do with logic and self-preservation. It the Trans identified man loses his shit, he and his minions could seriously physically harm those women (and who knows if they had weapons?) and they had to protect themselves by interacting cautiously and non-confrontationally.

Of course online a trans identified man can't kick your teeth in physically, but I think that social conditioning is still at play. And with Actuallesbians specifically, that sub is already filled with trans identified men, and men roleplaying as women, and insecure women who earn woke-points by simpering at trans people. If you see a post or comment that says "Of course trans people are valid here and girl dick is delicious!" - signed, and actual lesbian woman born with a vagina uwu... There's a good chance it's actually a trans identified male roleplaying as a woman.

If I was a lesbian, like an actual lesbian that 100% likes women only, I would die a little on the inside every time I had to praise girl-dick online. I don't understand how lesbians do it. Like, even me, a bisexual who likes dicks, thinks girl-dick is repulsive. How do "lesbians" manage to find it appealing when I can't??

How long do we have until waving the old rainbow flag becomes transphobic? by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 49 insightful - 10 fun49 insightful - 9 fun50 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like people are going to start accusing the old flag of becoming a "dog whistle" soon. They will accuse the people who use the old flag of being disingenuous like "Oh, I had no clue the old flag was an antiquated symbol of LGB supremacy that erased TQ+ lives and literally murdered trans women of color who died for our rights, I'm just old/ignoraant and don't internet, tee-hee!"

Isn't the TQ+ movement just a cultural trend that will die out by itself? by Yougie in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 48 insightful - 4 fun48 insightful - 3 fun49 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It will but it will take a while. Gen Z's children will definitely be like "WTF were you guys doing???" 20 years from now, and they will probably be one of the most conservative generations in recent history.

In the 1920's there was flappers and illegal alcohol, and being LGB was something the really cool people did, and they were all just wild rebels who partied and had sex all the time. And then the crash happened, and the 30's people calmed the fuck down again. 30's-early 60's was a calm and conservative time (I mean... for white people anyway.)

In the 60's hippies and drugs and 'free love' was how we remember them, the 70's were called "the me generation" because children who grew up in that era grew up to be selfish fucks who just do cocaine and fuck (yes, I'm generalizing, hope this doesn't hurt anyone's fee-fees. Of course entire generations can't be summed up completely with just one sentence, I'm just trying to paint a picture with extremely broad strokes.) And the kids who had to endure the parents of the 60's and 70's ended up becoming conservative and uptight in the 80's.

This shit goes in waves, but this is the first time the internet is involved, and the internet has created one massive fuck of an echo-chamber so that's why I say this one is going to last longer and be more brutal.

I can give you a first hand account of another internet fad that took off in the mid/late 90's just as the internet was becoming accessible to normies for the first time, and that's Pro-Ana/Pro-Mia (eating disorders.) Anorexia was already a hot topic for teen girls before the internet because the media kept wanking about it by making sexy little movies about skinny teenage white girls. Every time a new movie would air, a whole new flood of teenage girls would want to try out the ana diet. And when the internet arrived, it became our perfect echo chamber where we could share tips and compete with each other and see who could get the thinnest without dying. Those that died (or faked their deaths) became like our saints. And if you search online, you will still find pro-ed sites out there, there are even some subs left here on Reddit. But the 2000 decade was really the pro-ana decade. Everyone had an eating disorder, and if they didn't have an ED, they had depression, or bipolar, or aspergers. Everyone was all about self-diagnosing.

People are still self-diagnosing and attention seeking and I don't think that will ever change but I do feel like, at least for the teenage girls, becoming "gay boy" FTM has replaced eating disorders as the big trend. For the "lesbian" men, we know this is a completely different beast fueled by porn addiction and chronic cum-brainitis. So... With the teenage girls, I see most of them cycling out of it and detransing in the next 5-7 years, but with the grown men, I don't have enough information/experience to make any sort of guess. My gut it telling me when porn destroys someone's brain to such a degree that they are putting on dresses and threatening strangers with violence, this is serious mental trauma that may never go away.

Sorry I'm babbling and incoherent. I couldn't sleep last night. Feel free to add to or correct anything.

#SuperStraight trending on Twitter! Hilarious tweets & memes from straight men "coming out" as straight. They're calling their sexuality Super Straight and want an S added to the LGBTQ. SOME OF THE FUNNIEST TWEETS I'VE SEEN IN YEARS. Also calls for #SuperGay & #SuperLesbian - LOL by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 47 insightful - 7 fun47 insightful - 6 fun48 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

OMG I can't believe how many SuperStraight, SuperLesbian, SuperGay and SuperBi/SuperBisexual(of course there would have to be two!) people crawled out of the woodworks! This is amazing! I hope it catches on.

And the #LGBS tag! I love it!

Any comebacks to "if a gay man likes penises, why not be with a woman that wears strap-on dildos"? by Not_a_celebrity in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 47 insightful - 6 fun47 insightful - 5 fun48 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

You are not obligated to explain yourself to people who are using disingenuous arguments to elicit a 'gotcha!' You don't fuck a woman with a strap-on for the same reason that you don't fuck a toddler with a strap on, a 100 year old grandpa with a strap on, an ugly person with a strap on, someone you're not attracted to with a strap on, all the billions of people in the world with a strap on. You only fuck people that you are attracted to. End of story. Stop playing these games with people who will keep moving the goalposts and paint you into a corner. You don't have to engage with them. They are rapists.

#SuperStraight trending on Twitter! Hilarious tweets & memes from straight men "coming out" as straight. They're calling their sexuality Super Straight and want an S added to the LGBTQ. SOME OF THE FUNNIEST TWEETS I'VE SEEN IN YEARS. Also calls for #SuperGay & #SuperLesbian - LOL by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 46 insightful - 1 fun46 insightful - 0 fun47 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's amazing, isn't it? Not being seen as fuckable sex object makes them feel endangered. Meanwhile so many women out there would feel the safest NOT being seen as sex objects.

I'm lost by badatnicknames in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 46 insightful - 12 fun46 insightful - 11 fun47 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

He looks like a visual man-in-a-dress joke from a sit-com/comedy movie.

"Book about lesbian sex - Girl Sex 101" - on cover 40% of "lesbians" are men, book have whole chapters about PiV and PiA sex by ZveroboyAlina in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 45 insightful - 2 fun45 insightful - 1 fun46 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just staring at the screen. I have no idea what to type. It's like a feeling of anger and despair, and like when authority figures fuck with you but there is nowhere to go and nothing to say that can make things right because everyone is on the side of the authority figure, and there is no justice. Might makes right. We are getting completely fucked over and all the people who pretended to be allies and on our side and even voted for gay marriage are now applauding for the lesbian penis sex book.

I used to say a lot of the "support" we get from outsiders feels insincere and people used to get annoyed at me because support is support, and I hate to know that I was right. They never really supported us. They only supported an image of themselves as "being on the right side of history." We were just tools.

what are your thoughts on the t? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 45 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 0 fun46 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The few human beings who have been having obsessive and compulsive thoughts about being trapped in the wrong body since they were small children and having intense dysphoria and thinking they can't live their lives unless they get a sex change NEED INTENSE PSYCHIATRIC HELP. Anyone who would rather be dead than live inside a perfectly healthy male or female human body needs psychiatric help. It's just a body, they need to get over it. There are people in this world stuck in terribly sick, diseased, deformed bodies and they figure out a way to keep living, because they are not obsessed with their bodies.

The psychiatric community has completely failed the T. Instead of helping to fix what's going on inside these patient's heads, through therapy or medication (This doctor was able to help FTM teens desist and accept themselves as butch lesbians through the use of bicalutamide. https://www.reddit.com/r/detrans/comments/hp0ee4/so_im_actually_a_doctor_who_specializes_in/) they are just throwing in the towel and allowing these patients to go on a lifetime journey of medical treatments and soul-crushing disappointment. Nobody wants to talk about the suicide rate AFTER these patients have the bottom surgery.

Future generations are going to look back on this era and think we are all barbaric idiots, the same way we look back today at lobotomies.

What do I think about the rest of the T? The pretenders, the autogynephiles, the yaoi addicts, the fetishists? I think these people are assholes. They have completely appropriated a legit mental illness and are actively pushing the real T's out, they actually have the nerve to call the real transsexual people transphobes for daring to question them and call them out.

And of course, the T has no place within the LGB. They need to deal with their own shit. That's why I'm glad trans people like Blaire White and Rose of Dawn are trying to fight back. I would really like the T to officially publicly splinter off into Transsexuals (the ones with the dysphoria) and Transgenders (the assholes) and for Transgenders to be seen as what they really are. They are fetishists with Munchausen syndrome, self-diagnosing themselves and each other with a condition they don't even have, and going so far as to try to get dysphoria removed from the requirements so that they can fit in to the disorder more easily. Not even Munchausen by Proxy moms are trying to redefine disorders to make their kids fit the descriptions more easily, I mean holy shit.

How do you feel about non-binary people being attached to the lgbt community? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 45 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 0 fun46 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There is no such thing as "non-binary." I do not believe in gendered souls or gendered brains or anything like that. We are all just humans living in bodies. Our personalities are influenced by hormones, how we are raised, the society around us, and some studies show that some personality traits might be hereditary. "Non-binary" is just confused people trying to make sense out of why they aren't "Girly-girls" or "Manly-men" and arriving at the completely stupidest conclusion.

This is exacerbated by Trans people INSISTING that there is a way to "feel" female or male. And these people FEEL female/male so badly that they need to chop their body parts off and destroy their own lives. So of course, this makes confused people feel like "Holy shit, if this person feels THAT seriously about being male/female and I don't, the problem must be with me."

But DYSPHORIA is the mental illness. Lack of dysphoria is just called being normal.

"I don't feel male or female, that means I'm special." Is an internet disease that did not exist even 10-15 years ago. November 2013. Not even 7 years.

https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=all&geo=US&q=nonbinary

Not until we start killing women will trans folk truly be free to be their authentic selves by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 44 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 0 fun45 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, women are brutally murdered every day and no one cares. If all the terfs were killed tomorrow, maybe JK Rowling's death would make the news for a few days. And then life would go on as usual. I don't have faith that any government of any nation would do anything to protect future women from getting murdered, or, as this demented shit-for-brains thinks, change any laws to make trans happy.

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 44 insightful - 13 fun44 insightful - 12 fun45 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Me too, honestly. I'm totally fine with hearing "shut up, you're a lesbian, there is no such thing as bisexual!" for an entire decade, if I don't have to hear about anyone's girl dick.

Why Do You Want To "Drop The T"? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 44 insightful - 4 fun44 insightful - 3 fun45 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

A very extremely simple reason:

LGB : sexual orientation

TQ : gender stuff

We have nothing in common.

People who are TQ but are also LGB are still part of the LGB, but they need to remember where they are and stay relevant to the topic of LGB and not make it all about TQ. Being a part of a community means literally being A PART of it, not forcing your way into becoming the whole damned thing. That means not screaming and crying every time someone doesn't include you in every damned thing. When Lesbians and Bisexuals talk about vaginas, you don't see Gay men rushing in going "But what about my penis???" Certain Trans people literally do this. And it's time for them and their penises to GTFO.

I still can't understand how Rowling is getting absolutely slammed over reasonable, empathetic and what should be non-controversial statements. I feel like I'm going crazy here. by zerosis in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 44 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I ended up on one of her Twitter posts, linked through here, and was horrified to see an actress from Orange Is The New Black had written her an "OMG JUST STAHHHP!" type of comment. I don't participate in Twitter, but I clicked on the thingy and was glad to see many fans were telling her off (many fans were backing her up too) and there was another blue checkmark person in the comments (like a celebrity hair stylist, I think) and he was defending the actress too. (I'm sorry I'm explaining this in the style of a toddler.)

Anyway, what I'm seeing is that people are saying basically "How can you look at JK Rowling's posts and see transphobia?" and the Anti-JK Rowling people are saying "Yes, on face value it looks benign, but it's actually riddled with TERF dogwhistles and secret innuendos that somehow code into being anti-trans. Of course a normie like you wouldn't understand it, so you just need to trust us experts. Why would we lie to you?"

So a lot of people are trusting blindly.

Let me try to find that link...

EDIT - Okay, it's this one. The actress is Beth Dover. If you read though her whole thread, you kind of start getting the vibe I'm talking about. People are determined to read things into JK Rowling's posts that aren't actually there.

https://twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1282343711620431875?s=20

"It's all about context, sweetie..."

Trans woman in real life is trying to date me after finding out I'm a lesbian by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 43 insightful - 10 fun43 insightful - 9 fun44 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Or better yet, be super-woke about it and report a 6-foot tall GIRL stalking you. If you're the wokest person in the room they'll have a harder time accusing you of being not-woke.

THIS got 15.6K Likes on Twitter - "transphobia from cis lesbians REALLY needs to be talked about" by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 42 insightful - 15 fun42 insightful - 14 fun43 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

a 15 year old marxist transbian.

Any comebacks to "if a gay man likes penises, why not be with a woman that wears strap-on dildos"? by Not_a_celebrity in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 42 insightful - 38 fun42 insightful - 37 fun43 insightful - 38 fun -  (0 children)

"If a gay man likes penises, why not get fucked by a gorilla?"

What peak-transed you? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 42 insightful - 20 fun42 insightful - 19 fun43 insightful - 20 fun -  (0 children)

Society: Transsexual women are mentally ill gay men who couldn't find any other way to find relief for their dysphoria.

Me: Okay.

Society: Oh, the word transsexual is offensive now, you have to say transgender instead.

Me: Okay, that's dumb, but whatever.

Tumblr: Truscum suck, Tucutes rule!

Me: Kids, get off my lawn!

Society: Oh, by the way, some transgender identified men like to keep their penises for... reasons...

Me: I really don't care about this.

Society: But evil TERFS are trying to murder trans women and eat trans babies.

Me: That's totally fine.

Society: Oh, by the way, trans identified men can be lesbians.

Me: Wat?

Society: Yes.

Me: No.

Society: Also we're transing thousands of confused children, some younger than the age of 2. Say goodbye to tomboys, butches, femme boys, and any child who has ever wanted to play with a toy designated for the other sex.

Me: No.

Society: Uwu.

Me: No.

Someone sent this link to me. Disturbing misogynoir among trans women and their allies by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 42 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 0 fun43 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people are the worst. They use "trans women of color" as a wrecking ball to force their way in, and then shit all over actual black women. Imitation black women okay, literal black women not okay? No. Fuck them. They will never be as beautiful or as womanly or as desirable as an actual black woman and it kills them.

Man on r/acutallesbians wants to know if he's a lesbian, apparently he is by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 41 insightful - 13 fun41 insightful - 12 fun42 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Every single human being in that thread is a dude.

Punch gay men if they reject you by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 41 insightful - 7 fun41 insightful - 6 fun42 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

"As a trans man who only tops..." (continues to talk about stuff that has nothing to do with topping.)

Girl, shut the fuck up.

I'm not a guy so IDK why these girls irritate me so much. Every time I see a post like this, it's like I want to slap their hand away from the cookie jar.

Yes, this is how normal lesbians dress, sure. We fought for years to be taken seriously as normal people and yet here we are... (Comments full of hugboxing and uwu-ness). Can we PLEASE drop the damn T!! by hatsofpotato in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 41 insightful - 5 fun41 insightful - 4 fun42 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

He has a very male body with two fake breasts bolted on, dresses in a way only a straight man could be turned on by, and * cries in trans * because actual lesbians have no idea WTF to do with him.

How many uwus does it take to make a valid gay transman? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 40 insightful - 15 fun40 insightful - 14 fun41 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

"I have a sexual fetish for people I hate and people who will never want me"

I watched it so you don't have to: Transhood (2020) by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo[S] 40 insightful - 2 fun40 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They called it "gender affirmation" surgery. It sounds so very 1984 NuSpeak to me. We used to call it "sex change operation" back in the day and even then, we all knew it was just an operation to remove perfectly healthy parts and swap them out with franken-parts.

I respectfully beg to differ by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It makes me so happy to see a 15 year old girl defending herself against this. But also so angry that she has to deal with it in the first place.

Why are people changing orientation to preference? by pacmanla in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Welcome!

Basically, they know exactly what they are doing. They are using the word "preference" on purpose so that people will really start to believe that homosexual inclinations are actually a preference, and if it is a preference, then, of course it can be changed. You, a straight man, prefer vagina, however, if only you unpacked your genital fetish and unlearned the heterosexuality forced upon you by society, you would gleefully gobble up some delicious cock. The truth is that you only prefer vagina because you are a horrible person. A good, openminded person would prefer both. This is basically what L and G people are being told. Their orientation is bullshit, everything is a preference.

The fact of the matter is, even many bisexuals do not "prefer" trans people regardless of penis/vagina. Human beings are biologically wired to be sexually attracted to other human beings, and when we see something uncanny, like a person who has been treated with cross-sex hormones or had top or bottom surgery or other kind of surgery to look more like the opposite sex, unless that procedure was extremely good and convincing and natural looking, it is likely that our bodies will produce a "red flag" feeling and we will not be able to be attracted to this person. Just imagine an attractive (born female) woman, but she has these rock hard bowling ball -like breasts bolted onto her chest and her skin is stretched out and her nipples are pointing in two different directions and it just looks painful and uncomfortable for her. Objectively speaking, these are big round boobs so they should be attractive, but in reality, don't you get a "WTF? Oh girl! What did you do to yourself???" feeling instead?

Another thing is, especially for lesbians and bisexual women, a large man costumed as a woman produces a feeling of fear and unease, it's like being a sheep, and there is a wolf in sheep's clothing in your flock, and it's looking right at you, and everyone else is calling you an asshole for not accepting that this wolf is a real sheep. Now he might be the nicest wolf in the world who would never dream of hurting a sheep, but the sheep doesn't owe that wolf the emotional labor of giving the benefit of the doubt.

MADtv skit about male lesbians is now a reality. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 40 insightful - 12 fun40 insightful - 11 fun41 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

OT but why do the 90's feel simultaneously like "only 10 years ago" but also like "30 years ago"? I feel like I'm in a time-warp. Everything 90's feels 10 years ago. Everything 80's feels 20 years ago. Is anyone else having this feeling?

Imagine being at this level of delusion by redditsuks in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 40 insightful - 23 fun40 insightful - 22 fun41 insightful - 23 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, we call these very special women "men."

"more and more I feel like I'm just being a fetishist" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

While actual LGB people like us want get the f away.

They will never understand this! My dream for the future was for LGB to be seen as normal and boring as being left-handed or curly haired or green eyed. Just a random difference no one cares about. This way we wouldn't even need a community at all because the whole world would be our community.

Scientists really need to study this mentality that makes some people want to become the most oppressed uniquest specialest snowflake victim. It's like they want negative and positive attention at the same time. I'm not verbalizing it right. Like they want a specific kind of attention for being a victim and they want the privileges and coddling that comes with this special victim status. But even we actual LGB have never gotten this treatment, it's all fantasy.

I thought the Giggle app was transwoman-inclusive? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 8 fun39 insightful - 7 fun40 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Oh wow. She did a complete black tire-marks on the asphalt screeching U-Turn from "let's welcome trans with open arms" to "Oh hell naww!" LOL. I remember being on reddit when the TRA army was attacking Giggle. They were too stupid to understand that they were already welcome there and it's their own fault that they are now unwanted because they showed themselves to be absolute psychos! This is like the Mount Everest of peaks!

Where's the gay men's awareness campaign???? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 4 fun39 insightful - 3 fun40 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously, I remember as teenage girls going through our "we hate being women" phase, we HAAAATED our periods above all else, followed by the indignation about pregnancy and giving birth, while boys get to sit around and scratch their balls. It's reversed for these FTM trans-derps. They love their periods for some reason, and being a pregnant male is like some sort of fetish.

Women in Technology & Science Ireland says the book ‚ "Invisible Women" is deeply problematic because it doesn't include transwomen and non-binary by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 10 fun39 insightful - 9 fun40 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

You know what's "deeply problematic"? It was in 3rd or 4th grade history class, and a boy raised his hand and asked "were there any women back then?" when we were studying Christopher Colombus, because the boats had feminine names (Nina, Pinta, Santa Maria) And then someone was like "Yeah the boats were all girls, and there was a queen..." and our female teacher just looked at us in such a way, and as an adult woman I finally understand that facial expression. So yeah, fuck your "deeply problematic."

Which sect of trans ideology do you think is more harmful to the LGB community: truscum or tucutes? by indeepshadows in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 5 fun39 insightful - 4 fun40 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I will never get over the fact that "truscum" and "tucute" were either invented by, or popularized by a natural born woman on Tumblr going by the handle of "idislikecispeople" and she identified as an MTF. Yes, human being born with vagina, identified as MTF. This is the Patient Zero of this whole fucking mess. The fact that both these factions have such little shame that they use these terms to describe themselves after all these years tells so much about them. I much more have respect for individuals who call themselves transsexuals or transmedicalists. It feels like the ones who call themselves Truscum (either ironically or seriously) either just gave up and accepted their shitty label, or they were too weak and lost the battle. And the people they lost the battle to were mentally ill teenagers who wanted to call themselves 'bunself/leafself/starchildself' pronouns. Either way, fuck them, how could they allow Tucutes to hijack the T and fuck everyone in the LGBT this hard?

If I have to pick a side between truscum and tucute, of course I will pick truscums true transsexuals with dysphoria every single time. I feel so sad for true transsexuals. Not only are they suffering from a mental health issue that makes them obsess with their body to such a degree, they feel like their true lives can't even begin until they chop their tits or dicks off, now they have to put up with a horde of pretenders who want to steal the label for themselves and kick the true T out, calling them 'transphobic.'

But transsexuals aren't perfect either, a lot of them try to push the ladybrain issue, or the female soul born in male body thing. Contapoints and Blaire White don't do this, they at least admit they are basically men with extreme body mods who feel relief from dysphoria by becoming (their societally-warped idea of) woman-like.

At this point, even if all the tucutes desisted and moved on to the next trend tomorrow and only transsexuals were left, I still want to separate the LGB from the T. Our original point stands. Gender issues have fuck-all to do with sexual orientation issues. The T were allowed in as a courtesy because a huge chunk of them started out life as a gay man or lesbian. But looking back we now see that we should have never allowed this. We should have said 'You're straight now, hunty. Go fly on your own wings. I'll support you as a friend, but you can't sit with us.'

TRA Twitter poll "Are Transwomen women?" - majority of voters clicked No by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 39 insightful - 17 fun39 insightful - 16 fun40 insightful - 17 fun -  (0 children)

Lol all the anime profile pics mad!

Showing their racism at all angles by el-sol-duerme in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

People are racist to black women for just existing. People are racist to south asian women for just existing. What in the actual fuck do those two things have to to with "trans liberation"? Trans people aren't just existing, they are doing a whole fucking lot more, and we are all supposed to just put up with their mental illness and coddle them.

I watched it so you don't have to: Transhood (2020) by haveanicedaytoo in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo[S] 38 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think it was meant to be a neutral look. There was no narration that I can remember to sway opinion one way or the other.

BUT the interesting thing is that they didn't edit out the bad stuff to make the parents look good or to make the kids look like these all-knowing supernatural beings who OF COURSE know absolutely 100% for sure they are "the wrong gender" like so many of these shows do. Especially with Avery and Jay, the cameras caught that vulnerable 'I'm not sure if I'm going down the right path' expression on those kids faces, even if the kids are not capable of expressing that sentiment out loud. With Phoenix, it was just so obvious that he never believed he was a girl. Even with Leena, they made sure to show that he came out as a gay dude before coming out as trans, and ended up dating a straight guy who turned out to be an undercover gay dude. If these documentary-makers turn out to be undercover "terfs" I won't be surprised. But I do believe they went in trying to be neutral and honest.

Has anyone here EVER thought this? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 7 fun38 insightful - 6 fun39 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I'll tell you what. 20 years ago, my first days in college at a west coast LGBT+ friendly big city, and going to the room that housed the (I forget what they called it, the GSA? The LGBT club?) and it was all tattooed, punk-rock clothing, colored hair, facial piercings, and I just stood there in my plaid shirt and white singlet and baggy jeans and skate shoes (yes, I was a total cliche) like................... Oh.... Uh.... Okay.... This is not the place where someone like me fits in... I guess....

But I never felt "not queer enough" because I am NOT queer at all. I just looked at these people like "Wow... Okay, this is like a different type of gay?" In reality, these were the ancestors of the Queers, already scaring away the normal LGB and T even back then.

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Did these idiots not watch I Am Jazz? Poor kid has scars going straight across his upper thigh area, and these are just the scars we can see:

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2020/01/02/00/22893146-7843745-image-a-99_1577924914043.jpg

And I don't care what anyone says, he looks like someone photoshopped a 12 year old boy's face onto a womanly body. And his eyes look so dead inside.

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 7 fun38 insightful - 6 fun39 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I am cackling so hard at this. Things were getting bad in GSA clubs even 20 years ago when I was in college. It was all weird-haired, poor hygiene, ugly tattoo, pansexual queer weirdos in there. Us normies didn't need to join because it was a very LGB-friendly west coast city anyway and if you wanted to make LGB friends, all you had to do was be friendly with your classmates, you didn't need an actual club. Buf for years I've been hearing that it's getting worse and worse. It looks like the TQ+ finally managed to murder the GSA clubs both in high school and college. Good job guys! You managed to do what even the homophobes could not!

Punch gay men if they reject you by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly!! And they can even find straight/bi men who are into being pegged by women.

I really don't understand this feeling, it's such a rapist-mentality. How could anyone enjoy having sex with someone when they know that person doesn't want them and finds them repulsive?

They are so delusional, they think after they whine and cry and threaten and punch, suddenly the gay guy is magically going to fall in love with them and actually want the sex.

Shout out out from /r/lgbt to all the gay bros on their period by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 38 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 0 fun39 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This point has been made over and over again from the beginning of this mess, but I'll say it again. Pronouns are used most of the time when the person isn't even there. (Especially on the internet, nobody's talking about you, you're not that special. Nobody needs your damned pronouns.) When you're talking TO this person, you're going to be using you/your/yours (unless they start demanding the thou/thee/thine pronouns next...)

And being compelled to use stupid pronouns when the person isn't even there because you know some of the other people present will overhear you and report back that you committed a pronoun crime.... It's such controlling and toxic behavior.

And... "preferred pronouns..." since preference is a choice (just like genital preference) why can't these people just choose not to make life harder on everyone else and just use normal pronouns?

THIS got 15.6K Likes on Twitter - "transphobia from cis lesbians REALLY needs to be talked about" by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 2 fun37 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The internet was such a huge mistake. I'm looking at this kid's twitter, and every day he is spending hours on it retweeting weird shit and screeching about terfs and lesbians and cis people, and he's surrounded by other little weirdoes just like him who keep validating him.

There is NO reasonable excuse for you not to fuck me by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 19 fun37 insightful - 18 fun38 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

I need an MTV camera crew to follow this person around. We can call it MTV True Life: I'm A Delusional Ass-Clown.

And TRA's wonder why some people are against srs 🤮🤮🤮 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 4 fun37 insightful - 3 fun38 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of these people remind me of little kids waiting for Santa Claus to bring them ridiculous gifts. My friend literally thought one year that Santa was going to bring her a basket full of puppies. Not just one puppy, but an entire basket full. Anytime anyone tried to tell her that Santa doesn't do that, especially not for someone that lives in a tiny inner city shithole apartment, she lost her shit and started crying and screaming and fighting. Some kids think Santa will bring them piles of money or gold, or magical items, or whatever, and I really blame the parents for not setting up the parameters. Santa will bring you something that costs less than $___ and is sold at K-mart. But at a certain point, when you're dealing with a delusional child who is OMG FUCKING CONVINCED about the puppies, what can you do except sit back and watch them crash and burn?

It's amazing to see adults who haven't matured from this mentality. They wishes override all logic and reason and they don't want to hear the truth. This guy probably had a fantasy that removing his testicles would be a magical experience towards his female journey, and completely blocked out and discarded everything his doctor said that didn't correspond to his fantasy. A lot of trans people are like this, unfortunately. That's why it's so incredibly cruel to trans children. These kids seriously believe that they are going to look indistinguishable from the opposite sex in the future. By the time they realize it was a scam, it's much too late, and the changes are permanent.

Don't you just hate it when obnoxious assholes invade your space and ruin everything? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 21 fun37 insightful - 20 fun38 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

because the community has now been opened up by tucutes, the very unrealistic and paranoid things terfs and other transphobes said about us are actually coming true.

AHAHAHAHAAAA I love it! These people are finally starting to understand that once you take LGB's ability away to say "you can't sit with us" you also take away your own ability to say that. SO enjoy having lunch with the uWu-gendered attack-helicopter catgirl, or else you're a transphobe!

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 21 fun37 insightful - 20 fun38 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

I don't mean to get graphic, but because they put themselves out there with a picture of them together in bed, I'm just trying to imagine all the "lesbian" activities they did together in there. Like how "lesbian" they felt while sucking each other's girldicks. UwU!

Meanwhile in Poland: Margot, a self proclaimed ''nonbinary woman'' is ''saving queer kids from the consequences of disinformation about LGBT community'' while being arrested for damaging a truck with homophobic signs on it and physically assaulting the driver. Way to go, LGBTQIAWHATEVERTHEFUCK+! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 4 fun37 insightful - 3 fun38 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to be really nitpicky but what does this dude get from getting called "Margot/Małgorzata"??? Like, does it make his pee-pee hard? You look like a nerdy man with glasses, why do you need to be called this name??

AND he's fighting against the "Stop Pedophilia" bill. AND he's acting like a total piece of shit, destroying other people's property and physically attacking them, AND he has support from assholes who should know better.

I feel so sorry for Polish LGB and T who are getting fucked from both sides, both from homophobes, and from these "queer" assholes that are making everything worse.

From straight to lesbian- the road less traveled by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

How do you go from prancing around in school going "Ummm.... It's Aiden okay?? Dead naming me literally kills me. And my pronouns are he/him and I insist on using the boy's toilet/locker room or else you're twansphobic uwu!" to "WHoops! Never mind! False alarm!"

I really wonder how many of these girls are too ashamed to desist?

The "pass it on" statement by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 6 fun37 insightful - 5 fun38 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Repeating something ten billion times wont make it true, pass it on.

Who ya gonna call when you need to learn how to lesbian? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 37 insightful - 7 fun37 insightful - 6 fun38 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

You ever get so much rage about something that has nothing to do with you? This cum-sick porn-dog thinks he's a "better lesbian" and can "teach" actual lesbians what exactly? Shit he watched miserable straight women do to each other for money on PornHub? I swear being a lesbian must have been so much easier before the internet became such a sewer.

Gay Camp in Michigan under fire for issuing genital requirements by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

This "You can't have anything, not even a tiny little gay camping club in Michigan unless in involves me and my vagina" thing is so toxic. Why is this gay camping club allowed then? It should be forced to accept straight men and women as well. Everything everywhere should be forced to include everyone always.

I'm sure Aiden wouldn't mind doing naked gay camping with a bachelorette party of shrieking drunk straight women.

Some of you may believe I’m being overdramatic here, but it really sucks having to wake up to everyday and be reminded that my sexuality that I’ve fought to no end to get my family and friends to accept is being actively appropriated by straight women who fetishise gay men. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I agree. I had to take a long break from this sub because it was getting too depressing, and just try to avoid this trans shit the best I can. I still lurk on Reddit, but the trans and woke agendas are severely leaking into subs that have nothing to do with trans. I think this is the post that broke me:

https://www.reddit.com/r/writingcirclejerk/comments/l2ex4z/i_think_we_could_all_use_this_advice/

/r/Writinngcirclejerk is a sub that makes fun of the bad posts on /r/writing. Their usual comment count for an average post is less than 20. And the worst part is, I don't believe the sub was raided to a large degree. Most of the names that commented are ones I recognize. (The comments are supposed to be written in-character as a bad writer, and if you want to write as yourself, you use the (uj) unjerk tags, but in this post shit hit the fan quickly so the comments are all over the place.)

Here is the removeddit version. but a majority of the removed comments are unreadable. https://www.removeddit.com/r/writingcirclejerk/comments/l2ex4z/i_think_we_could_all_use_this_advice/

When I see this many normies defending trans (and posting contrapoint videos?? for fuck's sake! He is straight up AGP!!!) I feel like we are fucked. The trans are going to take over, America is going to crumble from the inside, a huge backlash is going to take place like a tsunami, and all women and LGB are going to end up losing our rights as a completely new society is formed from the ashes. Remember, women have had "equal rights" for less than a century. It will be so easy to yank it away from our hands again. They are already doing it by inserting dick into all our private spaces.

Anyway, I didn't mean to make it worse. I'm just showing you you aren't alone in your feelings.

PinkNews CEO, Ben Cohen, gets Stonewall Vet and Gay Pride founder suspended from Twitter. Says he's "proud" of doing so. by motss-pb in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't like to mix my feminist views with my LGB views, but honestly, I'm totally against women being baby-factories. There are millions of kids who need adopting. And we can't even make a quip about renting out a uterus, because apparently this surrogate is supposed to be doing this for free? I don't know why but that bothers me even more. If the woman is going to put her life at risk (all pregnancies have this potential) and suffer through the body-horror of birth-giving, at least she should have compensation. (I can see from the tweet that this is a UK law issue, I'm just ranting because I have fee-fees about this.) I'm a woman who's chosen to never give birth or have kids, and I think deep down I believe that giving birth is a horror no woman should ever have to go through, even though objectively I understand that many women want to do it. So obviously this is coloring my opinions.

Hey, wanna read an horror story ? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If this is true, then fuck every single one of those teachers and administrators who knew better but did nothing. Fuck every single one of those students who saw all of this happening but chose to be safe and trendy by taking the side of the creep rather than the girl who said NO.

It's because of these complacent fucks that our world sucks so bad. Everyone just sits around going "Well, it isn't happening to me, and as long as I don't rock the boat, I'm safe." Thanks to them, nobody is safe now. And these are the same assholes that will come for you when you try to stand up for what's right. They don't want you rocking the boat and defending this girl either.

And where are her parents? They should have called the police and filed charges of sexual harassment. Where are his parents? I really hope this is a fake story because seriously, fuck every single human in this girl's life, except herself.

Every. Single. Time. by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 2 fun37 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm just staring at a screen full of delusional people who created their own problems. Any woman who makes a child with one of these assholes is a double-asshole. Imagine giving your child a father like this.

Opinion: It’s time to derail the Pride train by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 36 insightful - 8 fun36 insightful - 7 fun37 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Surely it would be far easier to create one giant flag for narcissists and be done with it.

He is definitely one of us.

What can I say to all those gay transphobes who can see I'm actually a straight woman? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 21 fun35 insightful - 20 fun36 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

Hahaha every single answer is good (except for the bottom one!)

I mean, honey, what can you say? Is there any magical combination of words you can use, when said in the correct order, that can suddenly make a man attracted to you? Maybe "I have baby tigers and meth over at my place." ???

Tumblr OP: "Teenagers with no experience with sex or the 'LGBT' community should not be leading discussions on what sexual orientation is and what labels are." The replies: "OP is panphobic! Defending cis gays is T--F rhetoric" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 10 fun35 insightful - 9 fun36 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

This reminds me of internet drama from 20+ years ago, when girls/women were writing X-rated fanfic of their favorite male characters but had no idea how gay men have sex or how buttholes work, and of course they'd get very upset when anyone tried to point out that that's not how any of this works. I guess one (underage!) fanfic writer felt particularly attacked, so she shoved a sharpie highlighter (the fat ones) up her own butt to try and see how buttsex feels like, and she made a whole blog post about how good it felt on her prostrate.

... yes. Her "prostrate."

I really can't help but feel like those teens/women and those fanfics were the small waves that helped create this tsunami years down the line. Being sexually attracted to anime people cannot be the compass you use to try to figure out your (or other people's!) sexuality.

Trans guys lay some incredible pipe. No, really. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 13 fun35 insightful - 12 fun36 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Anyone who whines on the internet about all the sex they're not getting needs to have their internet privileges revoked for 6 months.

And honey, you have to realize that there are a lot of people out there who don't want to trust their holes to a "Sadomasochist" especially not one who looks like she smells of stale cheetos.

The new "me too", not like the old "me too" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

There used to be tons of chicks who looked exactly like this back in the 90's. It was just called androgynous back then.

What Causes Homosexuality? -- Horseshoe Theory In Action by usehername in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 19 fun35 insightful - 18 fun36 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

Childhood trauma is so incredibly common. It's amazing that the whole world isn't LGB with a few stray straights lurking in the shadows and mating in secret.

Daily dose of woque homophobia by Queen_Of_The_Roombas in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 10 fun35 insightful - 9 fun36 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

People who aren't even trans

Sitting on the internet all day long

With an anime icon

Screaming about other people not wanting to fuck trans

With so much rage

While pretending to be lesbian

.........

I know old people have been complaining about young people since the beginning of time but I'm pretty justified in pointing at this and going WTF, right???

'The Straightest Straight who Ever Straighted' by CJLez in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 8 fun35 insightful - 7 fun36 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

There is something that really irks me about "a lesbian" who has never been attracted to a woman, but has been attracted to a man enough to marry him and follow him to crazy-town.

Just a quick note to all of you. by zerosis in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Welcome!

I'm curious as to what made you peak?

What made me peak all over again just the other day was skimming through We Believe the Children: A Moral Panic in the 80's (highly recommended to everyone here.) I don't have kids of my own and sometimes it's hard for me to remember how utterly clueless and malleable kids that age (below 6-7) are. The children in that book were literally caught up in a whirlpool of lies and gaslighting and emotional/mental abuse at the hands of the very adults who were trying to help them (police, detectives, psychiatrists, parents, social workers) a huge majority of them admitted to sexual abuse that never happened. So whenever someone says "my kid has known he/she was a boy/girl since he/she was a toddler" I do not believe it for a second. One of the defense attorneys was able to get children to "admit" Chuck Norris, the City Attorney of LA, and other random government employees "molested" them just to prove how easy it was. All he had to do was point at a photo and ask "did this man molest you?" and there was a 50-50 chance the kid would say yes or no, that's how emotionally worn down these kids were. They were just saying anything to get the questions to stop so that they could go home and go back to normal.

Believing children of that age regarding "gender" and putting them on the path of puberty blockers and social transitioning and that whole package is so unbelievably cruel and immoral, especially considering what happened with Jazz Jennings (his genitals don't even function, he's never had an orgasm in his life and never will. And that's the least of his problems.)

Anyway, enough about me. How about you? What made you peak?

Two FTMs fall in love, detransition, live happily as lesbians by dandeliondynasty in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The doctors told them everything was reversible but they are saying the voice change and other things are not reversible. They need to sue. This is so fucked up. The more these lying doctors get sued and lose their licenses and reputations, the more doctors will wake the fuck up and stop fast-tracking teenagers through transition.

Would you like fries with that? by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 24 fun35 insightful - 23 fun36 insightful - 24 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, McDonalds customers really need to stop killing black trans women.

But hey "sex is a choice" y'all. I thought sex was a social construct. How can there be such a thing as sex slavery? by fijupanda in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hate that they can say something like this and then go "durr-hurr it's a joke!" It doesn't matter that it's a joke, you are still making fun of people who were raped and traumatized over and over again.

Will be firm in all my original fictional characters will be biological men and women. No trans characters what so ever. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 35 insightful - 15 fun35 insightful - 14 fun36 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

If you write a trans character, you are guilty of literal violence stealing stories that could have been written by trans women of color who died for our rights and financially gaining through cultural appropriation.

If you don't write a trans character, you are guilty of literal violence erasing trans people and murdering trans youth by not giving them adequate representation in popular media.

#SuperStraight trending on Twitter! Hilarious tweets & memes from straight men "coming out" as straight. They're calling their sexuality Super Straight and want an S added to the LGBTQ. SOME OF THE FUNNIEST TWEETS I'VE SEEN IN YEARS. Also calls for #SuperGay & #SuperLesbian - LOL by BEB in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 34 insightful - 15 fun34 insightful - 14 fun35 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

So I went on there and this was literally the very first post I saw LOL

https://twitter.com/poisonsapnap/status/1367850555167629313

/ transphobia

ok i wanna talk about this ‘ SuperStraight ‘ movement on tiktok, because alot of people dont know about it, and how its endangering trans ppl

retweets appreciated.

and then it goes on and on...

Question: what do y'all think of gay male sex work? by ukrdude10 in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't want to give too much identifying information about myself, but I will say that for a long time I worked in California in a job that assisted drug addicts, homeless people, sex workers, impoverished people, etc, helping them to get their life back together. Like I said, I don't want to get into too much detail. In this job, I met a lot of sex workers, both male and female, and I will tell you about some of the male sex workers. Yes, some of them were indeed gay, but more often they were straight. (About 35% gay 65% straight) many of them were either homeless or couch surfing, most of them were below 25, and a big chunk of them were "18-19" and I put that in quotes because I believe an equal amount were underage claiming to be 18-19. And others were older but claiming to be 18-19 because that's what the customers like. At least 80% of them were on drugs, as bad as heroin and meth, not so much cocaine, they all used pot. A lot of them, the minute they made money they ran to their dealers to score.

Many of these homeless youth had been approached by predatory men who offered them money to film videos. One kid got gang-raped on camera and didn't get any money afterwards. Another kid was luckier, he got to shoot some fetish videos where he was naked except for some combat boots and he had to jerk off onto the boots. He got paid $500 cash. Another kid got paid $250 for some guy to piss in his face and mouth. These were all straight guys. All addicted to heroin. They were told the videos would not be shown in America, but in Japan/Europe. One of them was super-proud of this and kept joking that he was a famous pornstar in Japan. He was in so much internal pain that he had to choose to laugh about it instead of crying. I have dozens of stories like this.

There was an area in the place where I worked called "the fruit loop" which is where these kids found customers. The straight boys usually just did blowjobs, to get just enough money to buy themselves pizza and drugs, the gay boys were the ones more likely to go all the way. The gay boys always seemed more angrier than the straight boys to me and less likely to be on heroin/meth. A lot of them had the "I ran away from home because my family is homophobic" story. Like really, they all had the same story, all their stories would blend together like they were the same person.

One gay boy found himself a "sugar mama" this (very unattractive, according to him) middle aged woman took him home, gave him a shower, clean clothes, food, with the expectation that he would get in her bed and sexually pleasure him afterwards, and they had this disgusting arrangement. This gay boy had to eat this nasty woman out every night if he wanted a safe clean home to live in.

I have hundreds of stories like this. When you're hungry and desperate and addicted and nowhere to go, sex work isn't work, it's survival. And it's not sexy, romantic, or empowering. It's slavery.

If it was a perfect world where people had money and a safe place to live and no addictions and sex work was just an option and they could pick and choose their customers, then fine. But this is not what I saw. I did meet many women sex workers who tried to act like this is how it was for them "high class call girls" but sooner or later once they trusted me more they started venting about how creepy and disgusting their clients were. One girl broke down in my office crying about how this rich businessman bit her breast (it was bruised with teeth marks) and then just kept holding her down and spitting in her face over and over again. This is not okay. I can't even tell you how many of these women got raped during their "work." It's not safe.

Bi-furious rant by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 34 insightful - 8 fun34 insightful - 7 fun35 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Me and my cousins used to play a mean trick on each other when we were little. There would be an opaque cup with a lid (sort of like a sippy-cup, but large enough for 8-10 year old kids to use comfortably.) And we'd put orange juice in it, and tell the other cousin that it's chocolate milk.

When your brain expects chocolate milk, I guess it chemically prepares your mouth to receive the delicious creamy chocolatey goodness of chocolate milk. So when you get a mouthful of sour, acidic, chunky, pulpy, Tropicana Orange Juice instead, it's absolutely revolting and traumatizing! The orange juice itself was fine (though I hate the pulpy ones!) but the expectation of chocolate milk made all the difference.

This is a similar situation. You married and committed your life to ONE person with ONE set of genitals and matching body. You married Jack, not Jacqueline. Now at the last second they want to switch it up and you're the asshole for not going along with it? LOL okay.

On the Transing of Non-Conforming Girls & Women by GayNotQueer in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 34 insightful - 3 fun34 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I spent my whole life saying "girls/women can do XYZ too!" and I was lucky enough to be living in a place an era where it was trendy for people to agree with me and do the whole "You go girl!" and "Yasss Kween!!!" thing. But I'm scared that within the next 10 years, when people say things like that, they are going to be shouted down by genderists like "girls/women can't do XYZ, Karen! Stop trying to erase trans and nonbinary people! You are ruining lives. Teens are killing themselves because of you!"

According to the TRAs “lesbian culture comes directly from trans lesbians” by bastetkat in LGBDropTheT

[–]haveanicedaytoo 34 insightful - 14 fun34 insightful - 13 fun35 insightful - 14 fun -  (0 children)

Ohhh it's great to be bi and have no culture. Trans can't steal something that doesn't exist.

Though I won't mind if they take the lemon bars and cuffed jeans/finger guns shit that /r/bisexual keeps churning out.